Zambiri za Roundtable on Crossing Focusing and Nonviolent Communication (NVC) bungwe la International Focusing Institute kudzera mu Komiti Yake Yaumembala. Monga ndi chochitika cham'mbuyo chidziwitsochi sichikupezekanso patsamba la TIFI ndipo chasinthidwa moyenerera.

Mawu mu Spanish – Chijapani – Dinani apa kuti muwerenge mu Chingerezi

The International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) mu Julayi 2016 akupitiriza kubala zipatso.

Lero ndili ndi mwayi wopereka kumasulira kwa nkhani yanga “Yonseyi Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Lingalirani zozama zakuya” (adawonekera mkati 2014 mu The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy) ku japanese, ndi mutu wolimbikitsa “Kuphatikizika kwa Kulumikizana Kwambiri ndi Kusagwirizana Kwachiwawa-Kubwerera ku Zozama Zozama-“.

Con Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

Ku Cambridge ndinasangalala kukumana ndi Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), psychotherapist wophunzitsidwa mu Focusing yemwe adayamba kumasulira nkhaniyi nthawi yayitali, Kale Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Woyang'anira Wodziwika bwino, amene analowa nawo ntchito yomasulira m’gawo lake lomaliza. Zokambirana zathu zapamsonkhanowu zidapangitsa kuti ntchitoyi ipite patsogolo, ndipo tsopano pali kumasulira kosamala komwe kulipo pa webusayiti ya Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), ndi zomwe ndikuzitulutsa apa ndi chilolezo chake.

Kuchokera pano ndikufuna kuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha khama lawo komanso kudzipereka kwawo (pakhala pali maimelo ambiri mmbuyo ndi mtsogolo kuti afotokoze malingaliro ndi mawu) kotero kuti gawo ili la Focusing lidziwike pakati pa akatswiri ambiri ndi akatswiri a Focusing ku Japan..

mu kuyamika kwakukulu,

Xavier

Chijapani

Msonkhano wa 27 wa International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (UK)mano、Kubweretsa zotsatira zolemetsa。

tsopano、Ine、pepala"Kuphatikizika kwa Kulumikizana Kwambiri ndi Kusachita Zachiwawa-Kubwerera ku Zozama Zozama-"("Academic Journal for Focusing and Experience Process Therapy"The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential TherapyVol. 25, No. 1、2014Ndine wolemekezeka kuti (lofalitsidwa m'chaka) linamasuliridwa ku Japan.。

Bambo Kawahara

Ku Cambridge、Counselor En Kawahara yemwe akuphunzitsidwa Focusing、Ndinakumana mosangalala ndi Mayi Mako Hikasa, Wotsogolera Woyang'anira Wodziwika bwino wa Certified Focusing Coordinator.。Chifukwa、A Kawahara akugwira kale ntchito yomasulira、Ndipo pa gawo lomaliza la polojekitiyi、Mako HikasaWajowina。Pambuyo pa msonkhano wapadziko lonse、Timalumikizana kuti timalize kumasulira、Ndipo tsopano、Kumasulira kwenikweni kwa Chijapanizi kwamalizidwa。izi ndi、Tsamba la Japan Focusing AssociationMukhoza kuwerenga pa。Kuchokera ku mgwirizano、Ndalandira chilolezo choyika ulalo。

Ndimachita chidwi ndi chidwi chawo komanso chidwi chawo、Ndine woyamikira kwambiri。Kufotokozera malingaliro ndi ma nuances、Kusinthitsa maimelo pafupipafupi。Kwa akatswiri ambiri ovomerezeka a Focusing ndi akatswiri ku Japan、Chifukwa ndi mwayi wodziwa mbali iyi ya Focusing.。

Ndi chiyamiko

Javier

Mawu achingerezi

Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse Woganizira Kwambiri 2016 ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) akupitiriza kubweretsa zipatso zambiri.

Tsopano ndili ndi mwayi wopereka nkhani yanga “Crossing Focusing and Nonviolent Communication: Kuganizira Zozama Zake”, zomwe zidawoneka mu The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy mu 2014, kumasuliridwa m'Chijapani ndi mutu “Kuphatikizika kwa Kulumikizana Kwambiri ndi Kusagwirizana Kwachiwawa-Kubwerera ku Zozama Zozama-“.

Ndi Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

Ku Cambridge ndinasangalala kukumana ndi Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), katswiri wa zamaganizo wophunzitsidwa mu Focusing yemwe anali atayamba kale kumasulira nthawi ina yapitayo, ndi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), wodziwika bwino wa Focusing Coordinator yemwe adalowa nawo ntchitoyi pomaliza. Zokambirana zomwe tidakambirana pambuyo pa msonkhanowu zapangitsa kuti ntchitoyi ithe, ndipo tsopano tili ndi kumasulira kolondola kumeneku, zomwe zikupezeka pa webusayiti ya Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), kupangidwanso apa ndi chilolezo.

Ndikufuna kuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha chidwi chawo komanso khama lawo –pakhala pali maimelo ambiri kuti afotokoze malingaliro ndi ma nuances– kuti zitheke kuti gawo ili la Kukhazikika lidziwike pakati pa akatswiri ambiri Okhazikika komanso akatswiri ku Japan..

Mu chiyamiko,

Xavier

Chithunzi cha ANSEMBOURG, Tomasi. siyani kukhala wabwino; Khalani owona! kope lojambulidwa. Courier yotumizira, 2015.

Thomas d'Ansembourg Ndilo umboni wapadziko lonse lapansi ku Yofatsa Kulankhulana (ndi umboni waumwini kwa ine, popeza maphunziro anga mu NVC adayamba ndi iye ndikuzama ndikutsagana naye). Tsopano akugawana chidziŵitso chake chakuya cha chibadwa cha munthu ndi kawonedwe kake kachifundo ka mikangano m’chifanizo chazithunzithunzi. (kwenikweni mu mawonekedwe a comic) m'buku lake loyamba, siyani kukhala wabwino; Khalani owona!, wogulitsa kwambiri komanso gwero losatha la kulingalira.

m'kabukhu kakang'ono aka, ndi mafanizo ake Alexis Nouailhat, zosavuta komanso zolimbikitsa, Thomas d'Ansembourg akufotokoza nkhani yake (Mutu 1, “Munthu uyu ndi ndani?”), imasanthula mwanthabwala komanso momveka bwino mavuto ena omwe timakumana nawo monga anthu (Mutu 2, “Kodi mukufuna kutuluka mumisampha?”) ndipo akufunsira “Malingaliro ena a Nonviolent Communication” (Mutu 3) kuti tiyambe kusintha maganizo athu (ndipo potero amasintha ubale wathu ndi miyoyo yathu), ndi kutseka ndi wopambana “Mapeto”.

Ndi nthabwala komanso mopepuka, bukuli limatithandiza kutchera khutu pa moyo wathu, ndi kukhalapo kwakukulu komanso kuthekera kosintha. Ndizosangalatsa kuti Mkonzi wa Mensajero wasindikiza, ndipo ndizotheka onani zitsanzo za zomwe zili mkati ndi zithunzi zina patsamba lawo.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda monga momwe ndimachitira.

Xavier

Chaka chinanso, Ndi chisangalalo ndi ulemu kwa ine kutenganso nawo gawo mu V Msonkhano wa Ogwira Ntchito Zosagwirizana ndi Zachiwawa yolembedwa ndi Association for Nonviolent Communication, kutsogolera msonkhano wanga chaka chino “Kulankhulana Kopanda Zachiwawa ndi Kuyikira Kwambiri. Mulingo wathupi wa zosowa”.

Madeti athunthu: cha friday 11 ku Sunday 13 March 2016.

Malo: Hostel ya San Servando
Cuesta de San Servando s/n
Toledo

Kuti muwerenge zambiri, pemphani kumveketsa ndi kulembetsa, kupita ku tsamba lodziwika bwino la zochitika.

Kuti tiphunzire pang'ono za zoyambira zongopeka za zomwe tigwiritse ntchito, popeza Marshall Rosenberg mwiniwake anali mbali ya ndondomeko ya Kuganizira m’magawo ena omvetsera ndikulimbikitsa, mutha kuwona nkhani yanga “Yonseyi Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Lingalirani zozama zakuya”, lofalitsidwa mu chiwerengero cha 2014 wa The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy, magazini yovomerezeka yamaphunziro a The Focusing Institute (New York Focusing Institute).

Ndikhulupilira tingakumane kumeneko.

Xavier

[kulowa koyamba kwa 1 March 2016, kusinthidwa ku 13 March 2016, tsiku lomaliza la chochitika].

Ndimakonda kulangiza ntchito zomwe poyambilira zimangoyang'ana anthu wamba kuti aphunzitse maphunziro apamtima komanso ozama monga Kuganizira ndi Yofatsa Kulankhulana. Trilogy iyi imagwera m'gulu limenelo..

“Munthu: Kanemayo” ndi zolemba zamtundu wa trilogy zomwe zimatiwonetsa zidutswa za zoyankhulana ndi anthu opitilira zikwi ziwiri. (ngakhale m'mawu omaliza kusankha kwa anthu mazana awiri kumawonekera) kulankhula za zinthu zonse zimene zimatipanga ife kukhala “anthu”. Anthu amisinkhu yonse (ngakhale ana ochepa kwambiri amawonekera, atsikana ndi achinyamata molingana, ndi nkhani zovuta kwambiri onse a iwo), zamitundu yonse, kuchokera ku makontinenti onse. Ndi chokumana nacho chanzeru, molunjika kwambiri: palibe mafunso kuchokera kwa ofunsa, palibe dubbing (njira zonse zimawonekera ndi mawu am'munsi, kotero kuti liwu loyambirira limveke), popanda deta yochokera kwa munthu aliyense (kokha nthawi zina amatchula dziko lawo, koma nthawi zambiri mutha kungolingalira za kontinenti yake, pokhapokha ngati mawu ang'onoang'ono atsegulidwa), opanda malire (zoyankhulana zonse zimachitika ndi maziko amdima omwewo, ngakhale nthawi zina phokoso lochokera ku chilengedwe limayambitsidwa). Ndi anthu akumvetsera ndi kuyang'ana pa kamera pamene ena akulankhula, ndipo palibenso china. ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi, mawonedwe amlengalenga a malo odabwitsa, malo achilengedwe ndi mawonekedwe a anthu, ndi nyimbo zapadziko lonse lapansi (zomwe zimakhala zokopa makamaka zikagwiritsidwa ntchito popanda kugwirizana ndi chithunzicho: malo aku Africa okhala ndi nyimbo zaku Asia, Mwachitsanzo, zomwe zimatsimikiziranso za chilengedwe chonse cha munthu).

Wojambula ndi wopanga mafilimu Yann Artus-Bertrand, wodziwika chifukwa cha ntchito yake yayitali yoteteza zachilengedwe komanso chikhalidwe cha anthu, wayamba pa trilogy yochititsa chidwiyi, zomwe cholinga chake ndi kukhala chothandizira chimodzi chowonjezera pa chithunzi cha munthu m'miyeso yake yosiyana. ndi nyali zake, komanso ndi mithunzi yofunika. Mawonekedwe a filimuyo amakhudza chilichonse: kuyambira zabwino mpaka zoyipa, zomwe zimamasula ndi zomwe zimakhala akapolo, zomwe zimapereka tanthauzo ndi zopanda pake za moyo wamakono…

Pali dongosolo linalake la mitu, zomwe zingatchulidwe ngati kalozera:

“Munthu: Kanemayo (kuchuluka 1)”: chikondi (m'njira zosiyanasiyana), ntchito ndi umphawi. Kwambiri kuyambira mphindi yoyamba, kusinkhasinkha pa zinthu zitatu izi za moyo wa munthu.

“Munthu: Kanemayo (kuchuluka 2)”: nkhondo, kuopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, imfa ndi mavuto a m’banja. Odziwika bwino kwambiri mokomera ulemu waumunthu muzochitika zonse, ngakhale ndizovuta kuzindikira.

“Munthu: Kanemayo (kuchuluka 3)”: chisangalalo, Maphunziro, kulumala, mgwirizano ndi dziko lapansi, Tanthauzo la moyo, chilungamo ndi zochita za anthu. Kuyang'ana mbali zina zomwe zimafuna kuti tiyime (zabwino kwa anthu, timamvetsetsa masankhidwe a mauthenga).

Ndi ntchito yoyenera kuwonedwa ndi bata, mu zidutswa za mphindi makumi awiri kapena makumi atatu, kuchigaya mozama. Imayankha mafunso ambiri ndipo imatipempha kuti tiyankhe kuchokera mkati. Mutha kuwonanso zidule zazitali za anthu ena, zomwe zingasankhidwe ndi mutu kapena uthenga wawo, ndipo amaphatikizapo anthu amene nthawi zina saoneka m’filimuyo.

Ndipo ife amene timaonera filimu iliyonse tikhoza kusankha: Kodi tigawane munthu aliyense molingana ndi kachidutswa komwe kakuchokeramo? Kapena tidzatha kumvetsera momasuka, kuyesera kumuwona ndi malingaliro ake ndi zosowa zake, ndi zomverera zomwe iye ayenera kukhala nazo mu moyo wake kuti aziyankhula monga choncho, ndi umunthu wake ndi chinsinsi chake?

Ndikukupemphani kuti muwonere makanema ndikupeza zambiri za umunthu wathu womwe timagawana nawo, ndi za munthu aliyense makamaka.

Xavier

Sabata ino ndakhala ndi mwayi wochita nawo masewerawa Ndi Congress of Emotional Education ya Navarra, opangidwa ndi Makolo Ophunzitsidwa. Yakhala msonkhano wokonzedwa ndi chidwi chachikulu, ndi chisamaliro chachikulu ndi mlingo wabwino wa kulimbika mtima. Ulaliki wanga unakhudza mwachindunji “Maphunziro okhudzidwa omwe amateteza ku nkhanza zogonana”, imodzi mwamitu yomwe ndimagwirako Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, amene ine ndiri membala woyambitsa. Koma pamapeto pake panali tebulo lozungulira lomwe linali ndi mafunso kwa gulu la okamba nkhani, zomwe timagawana ndi kuwongolera kwa Sonsoles Echevarren, Mtolankhani wa Diario de Navarra. Inali nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale mafunso anayankhidwa kwa wokamba nkhani aliyense, pamapeto pake panali ambiri omwe ambiri adatenga nawo mbali. M’nkhaniyi panabuka funso lochititsa chidwi kwambiri, “Momwe mungamvere mwana yemwe akukana kuchoka paki?”. Mayankho ochititsa chidwi ndi ofunika anaperekedwa, ndipo ndinapereka chopereka changa: “Kumva 'inde'’ mu 'ayi'”.

Ine chotero kupulumutsa nkhani yanga mu blog Mvetserani kwa “Inde” mu izo “ayi”‘, yomwe idasindikizidwa mu nambala 52 (ya Januware ya 2011) Magazini Ngodya yathu ya 0-6, lofalitsidwa ndi ACCENT (pakadali pano sikupitilirabe kutulutsa manambala atsopano, ngakhale zilipo). M'nkhaniyi ndikufotokozera mozama zomwe ndidatsutsana nazo: Pamene munthu (ndipo mnyamata kapena mtsikana alinso munthu) dayisi “ayi”, akuti “Inde” ku zinthu zambiri, ndipo ngati timvera uthenga wonse, tidzatha kupanga mgwirizano wozama ndikupeza njira yokhutiritsa kwa maphwando onse. Nkhaniyi ikuyamba motere:

Ana, zaka ziwiri ndi theka, sakufuna kuvala malaya ake kuti atuluke panja. José, zaka zinayi, sakufuna kutsika panjira kupita kunyumba. Irene, wa zaka zisanu, safuna kukagona. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani safuna kucita zinthu zooneka ngati zoyenela kwa ife monga akulu??

Ndipo tidzatani kenako? Kodi tingagonje ndi kuwalola kuchita zimene akufuna?? Choncho timakhumudwa chifukwa sitikugwirizana ndi maphunziro awo., ndipo zimatipatsanso malingaliro osiya pambali zomwe ifenso tikufuna monga anthu. Kodi timawakakamiza kuchita zimene tikufuna?? Kotero ndife otsimikizika kukambirana ndi chikhalidwe choipa kwa nthawi yaitali., ndipo m’kupita kwa nthaŵi timawaphunzitsa kuti pamapeto pake chofunika ndicho kukhala ndi mphamvu kapena mphamvu, ndipo kukambirana kumeneko kumangogwira ntchito pamene muli ofooka. Muzochitika zanga zaumwini ndi zaukadaulo pali njira yachitatu, kutengera kulumikizana mwakuya muzochitika zonsezi. Ndipo luso limodzi lomwe timakulitsa m'misonkhano yomwe ndimathandizira ndikutha kumvetsera zomwe akunena “Inde” anyamata ndi atsikana athu akamati “ayi”.

Tsitsani nkhani yonse “mverani kwa “Inde” mu izo “ayi”‘

Ndikukhulupirira mukuwapeza osangalatsa.

Xavier

Pulogalamu ya 4 September 2015 m'mbuyomu ndinali ndi mwayi wopezeka nawo koyamba kwa documentary “atsikana atsopano 24 maola”, (@girlsnew24h) motsogozedwa ndi kupangidwa ndi Mabel Lozano (@LozanoMabel). Kuyambira Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, zomwe ndakhala membala woyambitsa kuyambira pamenepo 2009, takhala tikugwira ntchito yoletsa kwa zaka zambiri, kuzindikira ndi kuchitapo kanthu pa milandu ya za za ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata chifukwa chogwiriridwa. ndinalemba choncho izi blog positi momwe ndimafotokozera chifukwa chake ndimaliwona ngati documentary chodabwitsa, zosamasuka komanso zofunika.

WalkFree.org, gulu lomwe likulimbana ndi mitundu yonse yaukapolo wamakono, watulutsa chithunzichi kuti adziwitse anthu lero 23 September motsutsana ndi nkhanza zogonana.

Ndipo ndinatsala ndi kumva kukhala ndi zambiri zoti ndinene, mwanjira ina. lero, 23 ya September, ndi iye “Tsiku Lapadziko Lonse Loletsa Kugwiriridwa ndi Kugonana ndi Akazi, Atsikana ndi anyamata” (ndi, m'malo mwaukadaulo, “kugwiriridwa ndi kuzembetsa anthu”). Chotero lero likhoza kukhala tsiku labwino kuyankhanso kachiwiri..

Patatha milungu ingapo nditawona filimuyo ndinatsala ndi kumverera kwapadera. Ndinazindikira zotheka zonse zoperekedwa ndi Kuganizira ndi Yofatsa Kulankhulana kuthandiza anthu onse amene agulitsidwa chifukwa chogwiriridwa, kukhala akazi kapena amuna, atsikana kapena anyamata, achinyamata. Mwachionekere, kubwezera nkhanza zogonana ndizovuta kwambiri ndipo zimafuna chuma chambiri, komanso mkati mwazinthu zama psychosocial ndi chithandizo, muyenera kupezeka kwakukulu kwa zida. Zomwe ndikupereka apa ndi chiwonetsero chapadera cha zopereka za njira ziwirizi zomwe ndikudziwa komanso zomwe zimandithandizira kutsagana ndi anthu omwe adazunzidwa mwamtundu wina., makamaka nkhanza zogonana.

Pulogalamu ya Kuganizira, yomwe ndi njira yomvera mofatsa ku zomverera m'thupi, Ndi chida champhamvu kwambiri kuti munthu amene adagwiriridwapo azitha kuyambiranso ubale ndi thupi lake.. Thupi limenelo limene lavulazidwa kwambiri ndi kuchititsidwa manyazi lingakhale ndi njira zosonyezera ululu wake umene uli wovulaza, zonse mu mayankho mopupuluma ndi blockages awo komanso maubale kuti imakhazikitsa. Pulogalamu ya Kuganizira, ndi wake “pitani sitepe ndi sitepe, ku kamvekedwe kamene thupi likufuna kusonyeza”, amalola kutengeka mtima kupeza njira yabwino yodziwonetsera ndikuchira pang'onopang'ono. Nthawi yomweyo, munthuyo akhoza kuchira zinachitikira thupi “kuchokera mkati”, pang'onopang'ono kugonjetsa zotchinga ndi dissociations kuti thupi lake anamanga kuti apulumuke. Mutha kuwerenga zambiri za momwe ndikumvera Focusing, ndi kuwona zina mwa izo zolemba za Focusing zomwe ndasindikiza mu blog iyi.

Tsidya, ndi Yofatsa Kulankhulana Zikuwoneka kwa ine chida champhamvu kwambiri kuti munthu abwezeretse mawuwo. Munthu (mkazi kapena mwamuna, mtsikana kapena mnyamata), amene walandidwa ufulu wonena maganizo awo, kusankha pa moyo wanu, za thupi lake komanso za chikondi chake, angapeze chithandizo m'njira ziwiri. Mbali inayi, Nonviolent Communication imatha kutsagana nanu m'mene mumafotokozera nokha nkhani yanu, kukonzanso moyo wanu. Mwanjira iyi mutha kukonzekera duels zofunika, ndi kupanga zisankho mozindikira komanso mopatsa mphamvu. Tsidya, Kulankhulana Kwankhanza kumathandizanso kwambiri pankhani ya maubwenzi, ndipo zingathandize munthuyo kulankhulana moona mtima komanso motsimikiza, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo amalemekeza iyemwini komanso ndi anthu ena. Mwanjira imeneyi mutha kudzipatsa mphamvu kuti mulukenso, ndi kuzindikira, network ya chikondi chake. Mutha kuwonjezera chidziwitsochi powerenga za kumvetsetsa kwanga kwa Nonviolent Communication ndi ena Zithunzi za CNV kuchokera kubulogu iyi.

Ndikukumbukira kwanga kwa anthu onse omwe amavutika ndi kugwiriridwa, ndi kwa iwo amene amagwira ntchito kuti amasulidwe ndi machiritso.

Ndipo kupereka kwanga kumapitanso kutsagana ndi kukonza njirazi, kuchokera kutsagana ndi psychological ndi psychotherapy (ku Madrid, pakadali pano).

Ndi chiyembekezo ndi kuzindikira,

Xavier

Sabata yatha ya 12 ndi 13 September 2015 Ndakhala ndi mwayi ndi chisangalalo kuyanjananso ndi Bridget Belgrave. Monga ndanena kale mu positi iyi, ndinakumana Bridget Belgrave Kale Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), mu 2009 ndipo kuyambira nthawi imeneyo tinayamba kugwira ntchito monga gulu kumasulira NVC Dance apansi ku Spanish. Matembenuzidwe athunthu pomalizira pake anawona kuwala kwa tsiku 2014, ndi mavidiyo ena owonetsera omwe angawoneke cholowa ichi ndapanga kuti amasulidwe. The Association for Nonviolent Communication wakonza magawo ophunzitsira angapo ku Madrid, Bilbao ndi Barcelona mu Seputembala 2015, ndipo kwa ine zakhala zokhutiritsa kugwiranso ntchito monga gulu ndi Bridget Belgrave kuthandiza ndi kumasulira kuchokera ku Chingerezi kupita ku Spanish ndi mosemphanitsa..

Pokonzekera msonkhanowu ndakhala ndikuwunika zonse zomwe ndili nazo kuchokera ku NVC Dance apansi ndi cha Bridget makamaka. Ndi kuyamikira zipangizo zonse, aliyense ndi chuma chake, pali imodzi yomwe ndimakondabe. Pamenepo, Bridget anandipempha kuti ndifotokoze masomphenya anga panthawi ina mu msonkhano, ndipo zandichitikira kuti ndiwonjezere malingaliro anga mu blog iyi.

Zomwe zikufunsidwazi zili m'Chingerezi chokha ndipo zilibe mawu am'munsi kapena zomasulira zomwe zilipo, koma ndikhulupirira kuti izi sizikufooketsa inu kusayandikira kwa iye. “Gwirizanani ndi Ulemu” (“Gwirizanani ndi ulemu”, kumasuliridwa kwenikweni m’Chisipanishi) ndi ma multimedia omwe amalemba ntchito yomwe Bridget Belgrave adachita 2004 con 21 achinyamata ndi achinyamata omwe ali ndi zaka zapakati pa khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ntchitoyi idapangidwa ngati njira yophunzitsira anyamata ndi atsikana omwe ali ndi mavuto azachuma Yofatsa Kulankhulana, mkati mwa dongosolo la msonkhano wokhudza kukhazikitsidwa kwa kayimbidwe ka mizinda, kwa masabata khumi.

chifukwa chiyani ndikupangira? Nachi chidule cha zifukwa zanga:

• DVD ndi kanema, wa 25 mphindi yaitali. Sungani mphindi zofunika za polojekitiyi, zolembedwa ndi alangizi atatuwo komanso ndi achinyamata omwe, ndi kukonzedwa mogwirizana ndi iwo. Pamenepo, monga zanenedwa m’ndime ina, kuyang'ana magawo am'mbuyomu kunathandiza aliyense kuzindikira bwino zomwe amaphunzira komanso makhalidwe omwe anali ogwirizana ndi zosowa za aliyense. Ndi chikalata chojambula chomwe chimakulolani kuti muyike nkhope (ndi mawu) ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana, ndikukulolani kuti muganizire momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pazinthu zina.

• Vidiyoyi ikugwirizana ndi mbali yachiwiri ya bukuli, “Wotsogolera Mafilimu” (“Mtsogoleli wowonera kanema”), momwe zonse zomwe zimachitika zimakambidwa motsatizana: chilichonse, mmene kulankhulana kopanda chiwawa kumaphunzitsidwa, nthawi zoyeserera, mikangano yeniyeni yomwe imabwera… Mwanjira imeneyi, cholinga cha ntchito iliyonse ndi zovuta zomwe zinabuka ndi momwe anachitira zimamveka bwino..

• Ndipo gawo lachitatu la bukhuli likusonkhanitsa Pulogalamu yonse, masabata khumi ndi machitidwe ake onse mwatsatanetsatane ndi zipangizo zonse masanjidwe kuwonjezera (m'Chingerezi), kuphatikiza pakuphatikiza CD-ROM yokhala ndi fayilo yazinthu zilizonse mu PDF yokonzeka kusindikizidwa. Mwachiwonekere kanemayo samaphatikizapo zochitika zonse, kotero ndizothandiza kwambiri kuwona momwe ntchito ikupitira patsogolo pochita, ndi kuthekera kobwerezanso.

• Choonadi chokhala ndi kumasulira kwa zomwe Malo ovina yokha ku castellano, ndi mutu wa “ulemu kwa ine, ulemu kwa inu”, mkati mwa phukusi lathunthu la Dance Floors.
• Ndipo the chenjezo a Bridget Belgrave kuti asayese pulojekiti yamtunduwu popanda, kumbali imodzi, maphunziro olimba komanso chidziwitso cha Nonviolent Communication., ndipo kumbali ina gulu la maphunziro lomwe lili ndi maziko ena a NVC komanso odziwa kugwira ntchito ndi achinyamata. Ndachitapo zina mwazochita zolimbitsa thupi ndi achinyamata komanso achinyamata omwe ali pachiwopsezo ku Madrid ndipo zidakhala bwino., ndiye ndikupezeka.

Powombetsa mkota, zinthu zofunika kuziwona, wapamwamba, werenganinso ndikuyika muzochita. Ndipo mungagule chiyani sitolo Intaneti, moyo Resources.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kumveketsa bwino, Mutha kundiyimbira foni nambala yanga ndipo titha kukambirana chilichonse chomwe mungafune..

Ndikukhulupirira kuti posachedwa titha kukhala ndi ma projekiti ambiri amtunduwu pano!!

Xavier

Ndili ndi mwayi komanso wokhutira pothandizira pomasulira pa msonkhano wotsatira wa NVC Dance apansi zomwe zikuyembekezeka kupereka Bridget Belgrave ku Madrid, ndi bungwe la Association for Nonviolent Communication.

ndinakumana Bridget Belgrave Kale Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), mu 2009 ndipo kuyambira pamenepo tinayamba kugwira ntchito monga gulu lomasulira NVC Dance apansi ku Spanish. Matembenuzidwewo anawona kuwala kwa tsiku 2014, ndi mavidiyo ena owonetsera omwe angawoneke cholowa ichi ndapanga kuti amasulidwe. Tsopano a Association for Nonviolent Communication wakonza magawo ophunzitsira angapo ku Madrid, Bilbao ndi Barcelona mu Seputembala 2015, ndipo ndili wokondwa kugwiranso ntchito limodzi ndi Bridget Belgrave kuchirikiza kumasulira kuchokera ku Chingerezi kupita ku Chisipanishi ndi mosemphanitsa pamaphunziro ku Madrid., idzakhazikika pa mutuwo “Momwe mungalankhulire popanda kunena kapena kumva kudzudzula kapena kudzudzula (Dance of Autoempathy ndi Dance of the 13 masitepe a zokambirana)”.

masiku: Loweruka 12 September 2015 wa 10:00 a 14:00 ndi cha 16:00 a 20:00 ndi Sunday 13 September 2015 wa 10:00 a 14:00.

Malo: Sala Neuronilla
C/ Dokotala Cortezo 17, 2º
Madrid

Zambiri ndi mitengo (kuchotsera mwachizolowezi kwa mamembala a Association ndi kuchotsera kwapadera kwa zolembetsa zomwe zidamalizidwa mpaka 5 September 2015), zambiri komanso maphunziro a Bilbao ndi Barcelona patsamba la Association for Nonviolent Communication.

[kulowa koyamba kwa 2 September 2015, kusinthidwa ku 13 September 2015, tsiku lomaliza maphunziro.]

“malinga ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo, kuchita Zopanda Zachiwawa Kulankhulana ndi ana aang'ono ndi nkhani ya zomwe zikuchitika mkati mwanga-momwe ndimalankhula ndekha za zomwe zikuchitika ndi ine ndi mwana wanga-kuposa kukambirana. Komabe, Ndikufunanso kuyika m'mawu momwe ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika kwa tonsefe, mwina gawo la nthawi, ngakhale ndikuganiza kuti mwana wanga samamva chilankhulo, chifukwa zimandithandiza kulumikizana ndi malingaliro ndi zosowa za onse awiri. Kuti, nthawi yomweyo, zimandithandiza kukhazika mtima pansi ndikupeza njira zomwe zingagwire ntchito kwa tonsefe. Ndikufunanso kuyankhula mokweza chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yophunzirira chilankhulo komanso kumvetsetsa.” (Inbal Chestnut, Kukhala makolo kuchokera pansi pamtima, tsamba 38)

Pamene anthu omwe atenga nawo gawo pamisonkhano yanga yolankhulirana ndi anthu ali ndi ana aamuna kapena aakazi omwe ali paubwana wawo kapena unyamata wawo., kapena kugwira ntchito ndi mibadwo imeneyo, kawirikawiri amawuka “Inde, njira iyi yolankhulirana ndi yabwino kwambiri pakati pa akuluakulu, koma tiyeni tiwone momwe ndingamuwuzire mwana wanga/mchemwali/wophunzira/mwana wamkazi…”. ngati muli ndi nthawi, timaphunzira kulankhulana ndi anyamata ndi atsikana mu maphunziro, ngakhale nthawi zambiri ndimatha kuwonetsa malingaliro ndi zofufuza zomwe zingatheke. Tsopano tili ndi chida chatsopano, zimene zimalola kuti kulankhulana m’banja kupitirire kumlingo wina. Sikungothetsa kusamvana (kutinso), koma kupanga mtundu wodalirika kwambiri wamalumikizidwe, zakuya ndi zamphamvu kwambiri, zimene zimakonzekeretsa ana kukhala olimba m’moyo.

Ndi chidwi ichi Inbal Kashtan analemba buku lake Kukhala makolo kuchokera pansi pamtima. Gawanani mphatso zachifundo, kugwirizana ndi kusankha, lofalitsidwa chaka chatha m'Chisipanishi ndi Editorial Acanto. Inbal Chestnut, mphunzitsi wa Yofatsa Kulankhulana ndi mayi wa mwana, adatsogolera kwa zaka ntchito ya Nonviolent Communication m'banja, makamaka kuchokera kwa abambo ndi amayi kupita kwa ana awo aamuna ndi aakazi. Inbal anamwalira mu September 2014, koma cholowa chake chikhalapobe Zithunzi za BayNVC (bungwe lomwe limafalitsa Nonviolent Communication kuchokera ku San Francisco Bay Area, California, amene anali woyambitsa nawo) ndi m’zolemba zake (pambali pa bukhu ili, Mukhoza kuwerenga zina mwa nkhani zake zokhudza kulankhulana m'banja mu Chingerezi pa Zithunzi za BayNVC). Cholembera chabuloguchi chimafunanso kukuthokozani komanso kupereka ulemu ku moyo wake ndi ntchito yake.

Ndikupangira bukuli kwa iwo omwe amayandikira kwa nthawi yoyamba Yofatsa Kulankhulana ndi kwa iwo amene akufuna kuzamitsa machitidwe awo ndi ana. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda.

Xavier