Sabata yatha bukuli linaperekedwa mwalamulo kuwona chitetezo. Mfungulo zomvetsetsa nkhanza kwa ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi kukhazikitsa njira zodzitetezera, kuti tafotokoza bwino mnzanga Peppa Oven ndi yo kuchokera Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana za UNICEF ku Spain. Monga mwachizolowezi ndi zolemba zanga, gawo la kulowa pamanja kuwona chitetezo pa blog imeneyo ndi kuwonjezera pa zina zofunika apa.

Bukuli lili ndi zinthu zitatu zofunika kugawana pano.

Choyamba, mozama systematizes mfundo zofunika kumvetsa zachiwawa. Anthu ambiri omwe akulandira chithandizo ayenera kumvetsetsa zomwe zawachitikira komanso momwe angachitire, ndipo ngakhale nthawi zambiri njira yotsatsira ndi yokwanira, nthawi zina amandifunsa kuti ndipitirize kukula. Ndi pamanja, ngakhale ndi luso ndipo umalimbana akatswiri amene ntchito ndi ana, ndi achinyamata, amathanso kutumikira anthu omwe ali ndi ntchito zokwanira zochizira.

Tsidya, ndi kuwonjezera pa mzere umenewo, Bukuli ndi lothandizanso kwa akatswiri azamisala omwe akufuna kusintha chidziwitso ndi luso lawo. Ndi zochitika zomwe zaperekedwa m'mutu uliwonse titha kukulitsa chidwi chathu komanso kuthekera kwathu kotsatira njira zomwe zimakhudzana ndi ziwawa ndi zoopsa komanso machiritso.. Mbali yothandiza yapangidwa kuti ikulitse kuzindikira za kulowererapo kwathu.

Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kufunikira kwa kukula kwa thupi mu chiwawa ndi zotsatira zake (makamaka mu zoopsa ndi kudzipatula) monga pakuchira. Buku lonseli lili ndi mawonekedwe a thupi, ndipo makamaka imagwira ntchito pakumverera kwabwino komwe kumayesa kumanga m'malo omwe ali Malo Otetezedwa ndi Otetezedwa.

Bukuli kuwona chitetezo Mutha kutsitsa kwaulere patsamba la UNICEF la Spain.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti zotsatira za chidwi, ndipo ndimakonda kudziwa momwe mukulandirira.

F. Javier Romeo

[Tumizani mu Spanish. Onani positi yoyambirira mu Chingerezi.]
Pulogalamu ya Kuganizira nthawi zonse wakhala ali ndi cholinga chachikulu chotukula anthu, osati paokha. Gendlin adalemba zambiri pazachikhalidwe ndi ndale za Focusing, popeza kuti malingaliro amatipatsa kumvetsetsa bwino za moyo wathu wamkati ndi mikhalidwe yathu yakunja. Kuchokera ku ntchito yozama yaumwini, Kuyang'ana kumatiyitanira kuti tilowe m'mayanjano pakati pa anthu ndi magulu amagulu mwamphamvu, kusinthasintha ndi kuzindikira, komanso kuti tiyambe kupanga masinthidwe omwe tikufuna kuwona padziko lapansi.

Pa zonsezi ndi mwayi kwa ine kupereka msonkhano wanga “ndi chiwawa ichi? Kutchula zachiwawa ngati njira yolimbikitsira ndale?” (mutu wachingerezi woyambirira ndi “Ndi ziwawa izi? Kutchula zachiwawa ngati kulimbikitsa”) pa Msonkhano Wachitatu Wokhudza Kumverera (Msonkhano wachitatu wa Felt Sense), yolembedwa ndi International Institute of Focusing pa intaneti chaka chino 2021 ndi cholinga “Kumasulidwa kophatikizidwa: maganizo ndi Social Justice” (m'Chingerezi “Ufulu Wophatikizidwa: The Felt Sense & Social Justice”). Mu msonkhano wanga ndikukonzekera kupanga kusiyana pakati pa Ntchito Yoteteza Ana yomwe ndimapanga kuchokera ku upangiri wanga, Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, ndi gawo lamkati la Kukhazikika. Nthawi yomweyo, Ndikuyembekeza kupereka zinthu zodziwitsa zamkati zomwe zingakhale zothandiza kwa aliyense wodzipereka ku Social Justice, osati ndi Chitetezo cha Ana.

Tsiku: Lachisanu, 3 kuyambira December mpaka 2021, wa 11:00 a 13:00 nthawi ya new york (17:00-19:00 Madrid nthawi, onani nthawi zina pano).

Malo: pa intaneti.

Chiyankhulo: Chingerezi.

Zambiri ndikulembetsa pa: Webusaiti ya Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[kulowa koyamba kwa 24 Novembala 2021, kusinthidwa ku 3 kuyambira December mpaka 2021, tsiku la chochitika].

Kuyang'ana nthawi zonse kwakhala ndi phata lake pakutukuka kwa anthu, osati anthu okha. Gendlin adalemba zambiri za chikhalidwe ndi ndale za Focusing, monga kumva kumapereka kumvetsetsa bwino kwa moyo wathu wamkati - komanso zakunja. Kuyambira ntchito zakuya zaumwini, Kuyang'ana kumatiyitanira kuti tilowe mu ubale ndi anthu komanso magulu amagulu ndi mphamvu, kusinthasintha komanso kuzindikira komanso kuyambitsa zosintha zomwe tikufuna kuziwona mdziko lapansi.

Chifukwa chake ndili ndi mwayi wopereka maphunziro anga “Ndi ziwawa izi? Kutchula zachiwawa ngati kulimbikitsa” ku Msonkhano wachitatu wa Felt Sense, opangidwa ndi Bungwe la International Focusing Institute pa intaneti chaka chino 2021 ndi focus mu “Ufulu Wophatikizidwa: The Felt Sense & Social Justice”. Mu msonkhano wanga ndikukonzekera kudutsa ntchito yoteteza ana yomwe ndimapanga kuchokera ku kampani yanga yothandizira, Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, ndi gawo lamkati la Focusing. Komabe, Ndikuyembekeza kupereka chidziwitso chamkati kwa munthu aliyense yemwe wadzipereka ndi Social Justice, osati mu Chitetezo cha Ana.

Tsiku: Lachisanu, Disembala 3 2021, 11:00-13:00 New York nthawi (17:00-19:00 Madrid nthawi, fufuzani nthawi yanu pano).

Malo: pa intaneti.

Chiyankhulo: Chingerezi.

Zambiri ndikulembetsa: Webusaiti ya Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Cholemba choyambirira cha Novembara 24 2021, zasinthidwa 3 December 2021, tsiku la chochitikacho].

mwa nthawi zonse, Mu blog iyi ndikugawana zinthu zomwe zimadutsana ndi ntchito yanga Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana ndi zokonda zaumwini ndi zaukadaulo. Pachifukwa ichi ndili ndi chikhutiro chogawana bukhuli mawu kusintha. Njira kalozera wofunsira ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata omwe ali m'nyumba zogona, zomwe timapanga Peppa Oven ndipo ndimayima UNICEF ku Spain.

Zinali zokhutiritsa kulandira bungweli kuti likonze ndondomekoyi polemba m'njira yotsika mtengo.. Imodzi mwa ntchito yathu potsagana ndi mabungwe aboma ndi azinsinsi achitetezo kuno ku Spain komanso m'maiko ena pakuwongolera kwawo ndikuwonetsetsa omwe akupikisana nawo.: ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata omwe amakhala m'malo otetezedwa. Ndipo iwo ali akatswiri pa miyoyo yawo, ndipo nthawi zambiri mabungwe amaiwala kuwafunsa, mwatsoka.

Ndicho chifukwa chake ndi chisangalalo chachikulu kuti UNICEF ku Spain, mkati mwa ntchito yake yolimbikitsa kutenga nawo mbali kwa ana ndi achinyamata, watipempha kuti tifotokoze njira yosavuta yofunsira ana amenewa, ndi achinyamata. Timakambirana zambiri za izo mu blog ya Spiral Consulting for Children.

Mkati mwake muli kalozera waukadaulo komanso wothandiza, Kwa ine, mawonekedwe a kulankhulana pakati pa anthu: tingalankhule bwanji akulu, momwe tingapangire malo oyenera komanso momwe tingamvetsere ana, ndi achinyamata. Mawu omwe timagwiritsa ntchito amatha kuyambitsa kulankhulana kapena kutseka, Ndicho chifukwa chake njira zomwe timapereka ndizomveka bwino.: ulemu, kuphatikizidwa ndi protagonism ya ana okha, ndi achinyamata.

Ndipo talimbikiranso kusinthasintha ndi kusintha kwa ana onse, ndi achinyamata, kupereka malangizo othandizira kulowererapo kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya magwiridwe antchito, kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe (makamaka ndi anyamata ndi atsikana osatsagana nawo) ndi omwe ali ndi vuto la thanzi komanso zoopsa. Mawu awo, monga tikunenera mutuwo, wamva bwino, akhoza kusintha moyo wawo kukhala wabwino.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda komanso kuti mukuipeza yosangalatsa.

F. Javier Romeo

Moyo wapaintaneti watithandiza kupanga magulu atsopano.

Zoposa chaka chapitacho ndinalandira chiitano cha kukhala m’gulu lolingalira za ana m’dongosolo la chitetezo ku Spain, kugwirizana ndi Alberto Rodriguez ndi Javier Mugica ndi momwe timachitira nawo Antonio Ferrandis, mi Mnzake wa CI Spirals Peppa Oven, Marta Llaurado ndi dzina langa pafupifupi lawiri F. Javier Romeu Soriano. Pambuyo pa miyezi iyi yamisonkhano yapaintaneti ndi maimelo angapo ndi zolemba, sabata yatha tinasindikiza pamodzi chikalata chokhazikitsa, Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati. Mavuto asanu ndi awiri ndi malingaliro opititsa patsogolo chitetezo cha ana ku Spain. Mawuwa amadzilankhula okha, ndipo akhoza dawunilodi kuchokera tsamba la “Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati”.

Pano ine ndikufuna kulankhula za chinachake chosiyana pang'ono: za ndondomeko yokha. Ndipo ndifotokoza mwachidule m'mawu atatu: mudzi, kukula ndi kuzindikira.

Community ndi zomwe takhala tikupanga. Ili ndi gawo la mwayi, kukumana ndi nkhani zoteteza ana m'malo osiyanasiyana. Koma ilinso ndi gawo la cholinga. Pezani malo ochitira misonkhano yapaintaneti. Lembani aliyense mbali yake ya chikalatacho ndi kubwereza malemba ena onse. kugawana malingaliro, nkhawa ndi mayankho omwe angathe. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono takhala tikukulitsa ubale wathu, kukulitsa chilankhulo chodziwika bwino chomwe chimaphatikiza umunthu wathu wosiyanasiyana komanso tcheru. Ndipo tikukhulupirira kuti mbali zina zakusintha kwachitetezo kumapita ndendende popanga anthu m'malo ena ambiri, ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja awo, m'magulu a akatswiri ndi maukonde olowera.

Kuphatikiza Apo, tapita patsogolo ndi kawonedwe ka wonjezani. Munthu aliyense m'gulu lathu wakhala akugwira ntchito limodzi ndikutsata njira zachitetezo kwazaka zambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake tikhoza kulankhula za zofooka, za zofooka zomwe zimavulaza ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja omwe cholinga chake ndi kuwateteza. Koma timakumbukiranso kupita patsogolo, zosintha, nthawi zina zazing'ono kwambiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mbali zina zikhale bwino. Ichi ndichifukwa chake chikalatachi chikufuna kusonkhanitsa zovuta zomwe timawona ku Spain ndi malingaliro omwe tikudziwa, ndi zochitika zaumwini kapena zaukadaulo, zomwe zinagwirapo ntchito kale. Ndipo ndondomekoyi imapangitsanso ife omwe timawonetsera m'magulu kukula.

Chifukwa chiyani?, al omaliza, Ndi za kukulitsa kuzindikira. pamene tili ndi a “kuyang'ana mwachidwi”, monga mnzanga wabwino amanenera ndi ku CI Spirals Peppa Oven, timaona zenizeni mwakuya. Timazindikira zomwe zimachitika mwa ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja awo, komanso m'magulu a akatswiri komanso m'machitidwe omwe angawapatse chitetezo ndi chithandizo. Ndipo timazindikira zomwe zimachitika mkati mwathu, kuwongolera malingaliro ndi zomverera pazolinga zenizeni zomwe zimasintha miyoyo ya anthu ambiri. Sitingathe kuchita izi tokha, timafunikira malo otetezeka, mudzi, tithandizeni kupita patsogolo, kudzifunsa mafunso atsopano ndikupeza mayankho atsopano.

Kuchokera pano ndikutumiza kuthokoza kwanga ku timu yabwinoyi, ndi ku moyo kuti zitheke.

Ndipo ndikukupemphani kuti muwerenge chikalatacho ndikumvetsera zotsatirazi (Tikhala tikusindikiza zolemba za mwezi uliwonse za blog kuti tipitilize kusanthula malingaliro osiyanasiyana). Ndikukuwonani pa webusayiti “Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati”.

mu chikondwerero,

F. Javier Romeo