[Tumizani mu Spanish. Onani positi yoyambirira mu Chingerezi.]
Pulogalamu ya Kuganizira nthawi zonse wakhala ali ndi cholinga chachikulu chotukula anthu, osati paokha. Gendlin adalemba zambiri pazachikhalidwe ndi ndale za Focusing, popeza kuti malingaliro amatipatsa kumvetsetsa bwino za moyo wathu wamkati ndi mikhalidwe yathu yakunja. Kuchokera ku ntchito yozama yaumwini, Kuyang'ana kumatiyitanira kuti tilowe m'mayanjano pakati pa anthu ndi magulu amagulu mwamphamvu, kusinthasintha ndi kuzindikira, komanso kuti tiyambe kupanga masinthidwe omwe tikufuna kuwona padziko lapansi.

Pa zonsezi ndi mwayi kwa ine kupereka msonkhano wanga “ndi chiwawa ichi? Kutchula zachiwawa ngati njira yolimbikitsira ndale?” (mutu wachingerezi woyambirira ndi “Ndi ziwawa izi? Kutchula zachiwawa ngati kulimbikitsa”) pa Msonkhano Wachitatu Wokhudza Kumverera (Msonkhano wachitatu wa Felt Sense), yolembedwa ndi International Institute of Focusing pa intaneti chaka chino 2021 ndi cholinga “Kumasulidwa kophatikizidwa: maganizo ndi Social Justice” (m'Chingerezi “Ufulu Wophatikizidwa: The Felt Sense & Social Justice”). Mu msonkhano wanga ndikukonzekera kupanga kusiyana pakati pa Ntchito Yoteteza Ana yomwe ndimapanga kuchokera ku upangiri wanga, Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, ndi gawo lamkati la Kukhazikika. Nthawi yomweyo, Ndikuyembekeza kupereka zinthu zodziwitsa zamkati zomwe zingakhale zothandiza kwa aliyense wodzipereka ku Social Justice, osati ndi Chitetezo cha Ana.

Tsiku: Lachisanu, 3 kuyambira December mpaka 2021, wa 11:00 a 13:00 nthawi ya new york (17:00-19:00 Madrid nthawi, onani nthawi zina pano).

Malo: pa intaneti.

Chiyankhulo: Chingerezi.

Zambiri ndikulembetsa pa: Webusaiti ya Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[kulowa koyamba kwa 24 Novembala 2021, kusinthidwa ku 3 kuyambira December mpaka 2021, tsiku la chochitika].

Kuyang'ana nthawi zonse kwakhala ndi phata lake pakutukuka kwa anthu, osati anthu okha. Gendlin adalemba zambiri za chikhalidwe ndi ndale za Focusing, monga kumva kumapereka kumvetsetsa bwino kwa moyo wathu wamkati - komanso zakunja. Kuyambira ntchito zakuya zaumwini, Kuyang'ana kumatiyitanira kuti tilowe mu ubale ndi anthu komanso magulu amagulu ndi mphamvu, kusinthasintha komanso kuzindikira komanso kuyambitsa zosintha zomwe tikufuna kuziwona mdziko lapansi.

Chifukwa chake ndili ndi mwayi wopereka maphunziro anga “Ndi ziwawa izi? Kutchula zachiwawa ngati kulimbikitsa” ku Msonkhano wachitatu wa Felt Sense, opangidwa ndi Bungwe la International Focusing Institute pa intaneti chaka chino 2021 ndi focus mu “Ufulu Wophatikizidwa: The Felt Sense & Social Justice”. Mu msonkhano wanga ndikukonzekera kudutsa ntchito yoteteza ana yomwe ndimapanga kuchokera ku kampani yanga yothandizira, Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, ndi gawo lamkati la Focusing. Komabe, Ndikuyembekeza kupereka chidziwitso chamkati kwa munthu aliyense yemwe wadzipereka ndi Social Justice, osati mu Chitetezo cha Ana.

Tsiku: Lachisanu, Disembala 3 2021, 11:00-13:00 New York nthawi (17:00-19:00 Madrid nthawi, fufuzani nthawi yanu pano).

Malo: pa intaneti.

Chiyankhulo: Chingerezi.

Zambiri ndikulembetsa: Webusaiti ya Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Cholemba choyambirira cha Novembara 24 2021, zasinthidwa 3 December 2021, tsiku la chochitikacho].

Chimodzi mwa ntchito zanga monga katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi mnzanga pazochitika zaumwini ndi za bungwe ndizopeza njira zolankhulirana mauthenga ovuta kupyolera mu mafanizo ndi mafananidwe.. M'malo mwake “Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati”, zomwe ndapereka kale mu post ina iyi, tidapereka zovuta zingapo ndi malingaliro owongolera chitetezo cha ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ku Spain (Ndipo mu dziko lonse).

Mwezi uno ndagwirizana ndi nkhaniyi “Timatsagana ndi munthu amene tili”, yomwe imagwiritsa ntchito mafananidwe pakati pa zomwe tikuchita polimbana ndi mliriwu komanso zomwe tikuyenera kuzisamalira poyenda ndi ana., atsikana ndi achinyamata amene avutika kwambiri. Ndi njira yodziwitsa anthu momwe timakhalira komanso momwe timachitira, zonse payekha komanso mwaukadaulo.

Ndipo inu mudzaziwona izo, mwa nthawi zonse, Ndikuumirira kufunika kwa maphunziro mu zoopsa ndi kukumbukira mtengo wa Kuganizira, Ndimaona kuti ndi chida chothandiza kwambiri tsiku ndi tsiku..

Ndikufuna kudziwa zomwe mukuganiza komanso momwe mumakhalira.

F. Javier Romeo

[Werengani nkhaniyi mu Chingerezi]

Ndizosangalatsa kwa ine kuti ndizitha kutsogolera zokambirana “Kupeza lingaliro lomveka ndi zinthu: njira yolumikizirana ndi ziwalo zamkati” pa Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse Wapadziko Lonse wokhudza Focusing Oriented Therapy (Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse Wokhudzana Ndi Chithandizo) zomwe zikuyenera kuchitika pakati 21 ndi 25 October 2020 (pakati 22 ndi 26 ku Asia ndi Oceania).

Ikhala msonkhano wachidziwitso pa Focusing Orientation Psychotherapy (Psychotherapy / Therapy Yokhazikika, FOT / FOP), imodzi mwa mizere ya ntchito yomwe ndimatsatira Ndimayendera limodzi ndi psychotherapy ponse pamunthu komanso pavidiyo.

“Kugwira ntchito ndi ziwalo zamkati mu chithandizo kungakhale kovuta m'njira zambiri.. Titha kupangitsa kuti timvetsetse bwino magawo amkati pogwiritsa ntchito zinthu (ziwerengero, mapensulo, dongo). Njira yosankha chinthu chimodzi kapena zingapo zimatha kulimbikitsa m'badwo wamalingaliro omvera popanda kufunikira kufotokoza zambiri.. Choncho, tikhoza kuthandiza kasitomala aliyense (kuyambira ukhanda mpaka uchikulire) mverani mbali zonse za mkati, kotero kuti mutha kuwona kuyenda kwa moyo patsogolo mwa iwo ndi kuti mutha kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino ndi iwo. Ichi chikhala msonkhano wothandiza, choncho m'pofunika kubweretsa zinthu zochepa zochepa zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito pokambirana (mapensulo amitundu khumi ndi awiri adzachita).

mfundo zazikuluzikulu:

1) Malingaliro asanu ofunikira ogwirira ntchito ndi magawo amkati ndi ana, atsikana, achinyamata ndi akuluakulu.

2) Chitsanzo cha njira yofunafuna chidziwitso ndi zinthu.

3) Chochitika chaching'ono chogwira ntchito ndi zinthu kuti aliyense athe kupanga mawonekedwe ake.”

Tsiku: Lachisanu 23 October 2020, 09:00-11:00 mu nthawi ya New York (15:00-17:00 mu nthawi ya Madrid) (pezani ndandanda pano).

Malo: pa intaneti.

Chiyankhulo: msonkhano udzakhala mu Chingerezi ndi kumasulira nthawi imodzi ku Spanish.

Zambiri ndikulembetsa: Tsamba la International Focusing Counseling Therapy Conference (Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse Woganizira Kwambiri Zochizira).

[kulowa koyamba kwa 7 October 2020, kusinthidwa ku 20 October 2020, tsiku la chochitika].

[Werengani izi mu Spanish].

Ndine wokondwa kwambiri kutsogolera zokambirana za “Kumva ndi zinthu: njira yolumikizirana ndi ziwalo zamkati” ku pa intaneti Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse Woyang'ana-Oriented Therapy zomwe zidzachitika pa intaneti kuyambira Okutobala 21st. mpaka 25th. 2020 (October 22nd.-26th. ku Asia ndi Australasia).

Ikhala msonkhano wodziwa zambiri za Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy.

“Kugwira ntchito ndi ziwalo zamkati mu chithandizo kungakhale kovuta m'njira zambiri. Kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu (ziboliboli, mapensulo, Plasticine) akhoza kulola kumvetsetsa bwino za ziwalo zamkati. Kusankha chinthu chimodzi kapena zingapo kumalimbikitsa kumva popanda kufotokoza mopitirira muyeso. Mwa njira iyi, Titha kuthandiza makasitomala - ana komanso akuluakulu - kumvetsera gawo lililonse, kuwona moyo wamtsogolo mwa iwo ndi kukhazikitsa ubale wabwino ndi iwo. Iyi ikhala msonkhano wothandiza, kotero chonde bweretsani zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito m'chipinda chanu chothandizira (khumi ndi awiri a mapensulo achikuda adzakhala okwanira).

Zotengera:

1) Malingaliro asanu ofunikira ogwirira ntchito ndi ziwalo zamkati muzamankhwala ndi ana, achinyamata ndi akuluakulu.

2) Chitsanzo cha njira yomverera ndi zinthu.

3) Chidziwitso chachifupi chogwira ntchito ndi zinthu, kuti mupange masitayelo anu omwe mumakonda.”

Tsiku: Lachisanu October 23rd 2020, 09:00-11:00 New York nthawi (15:00-17:00 Madrid nthawi) (nthawi yanu pano).

Malo: pa intaneti.

Chiyankhulo: msonkhano udzakhala mu Chingerezi ndi kumasulira nthawi imodzi ku Spanish.

Zambiri ndikulembetsa: Webusaiti ya International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference.

[Cholemba choyambirira kuyambira pa Okutobala 7 2020, zasinthidwa pa October 23rd 2020, tsiku la chochitikacho].

[Dinani apa kuti muwerenge izi mu Chingerezi.]

Chikalata kupitirira kupulumuka. Momwe mungasinthire kulowererapo ndi ana osatsatizana komanso opatukana osamukira kwawo omwe amasiyidwa muchitetezo, chani Peppa Oven, Mnzanga mu Spiral Consulting for Children, ndipo ndalembera UNICEF ku Spain ndi UNICEF France, zangosindikizidwa kumene, ndipo likupezeka m'mitundu iwiri:

• Tsitsani Chingelezi choyambirira cha Kupitirira Kupulumuka. Kupititsa patsogolo kulowererapo ku Europe ndi Ana Osatsatizana Ndi Olekanitsidwa Osamuka omwe amagwa kudzera muchitetezo.
• Koperani zomasulira za Chisipanishi, kupitirira kupulumuka. Momwe mungasinthire kulowererapo ndi ana osatsatizana komanso opatukana osamukira kwawo omwe amasiyidwa muchitetezo.

Ili ndi buku laukadaulo lomwe likukhudzana ndi Chitetezo cha Ana, kulowererapo kwa anthu komanso ufulu wa anthu. Pamenepo, tili ndi malingaliro ndi chidziwitso cha akatswiri pafupifupi zana mu Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse mu December 2019 ku Madrid, zomwe ndidathandizira kuwongolera (timafotokoza zambiri mu wathu CI Spirals blog positi). Komabe, ilinso chikalata chaumwini kwambiri kwa ine.

Mbali inayi, ana, osaperekezedwa ndi olekanitsidwa atsikana osamukira ndi achinyamata ali ndi malo apadera kwambiri mu mtima mwanga. Ndinagwira ntchito ku Morocco kwa zaka zingapo ndi ana, atsikana am'misewu ndi achinyamata ndipo ndikudziwa zovuta zomwe ali nazo kumeneko, ndi zomwe zimawapangitsa kuyika moyo wawo pachiswe kuti athe kukhala ndi tsogolo labwino. Ndagwiranso ntchito kwa zaka zingapo ku Madrid ndi achinyamata omwe ali pachiwopsezo cha anthu, ndipo ambiri aiwo adali anyamata ndi atsikana osamukira m’mayiko ena opanda zonena za mabanja awo, kotero ndatsagana nawo pamavuto omwe adakumana nawo kuti amange tsogolo labwino ku Spain. Ndipo mpaka lero ndikusangalalabe kulankhula nawo m’Chiarabu cha ku Moroccan, chinenero chimene ndimakonda kwambiri. Ndikhulupilira kuti chikalatachi chithandiza akadaulo komanso anthu onse kuti aziwamvera chisoni anawa., ndi achinyamata, ndi kusamala za ubwino wanu. (Mutha kuwerenga zambiri za ntchito yanga pa mbiri yanga ya LinkedIn).

Tsidya, Panopa ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri., chifukwa cha zinthu zingapo. Monga wolemba wamkulu, Ndagwiritsa ntchito mobwerezabwereza do Kuganizira monga njira yopangira malingaliro ndikupeza zolemba zoyenera. Makiyi a nkhani zoteteza kwambiri ayenera kubwera kuchokera ku chidziwitso chokhazikika m'thupi. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zikupereka kumveka komanso kuzama kwa mutu wonsewu., makamaka ngati zigawo zovuta kwambiri zitha kukhala zomveka bwino.

Pomaliza, Sikunali vuto la akatswiri okha, komanso ndondomeko yaumwini. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mumasangalala nazo.

F. Javier Romeo

[Werengani izi mu Spanish].

Chikalata Kupitirira Kupulumuka. Kupititsa patsogolo kulowererapo ku Europe ndi Ana Osatsatizana Ndi Olekanitsidwa Osamuka omwe amagwa kudzera muchitetezo, kuti Peppa Oven, mnzanga ku Spirals Childhood Consultancy, ndipo ine ndalembera UNICEF ku Spain ndi UNICEF France, zasindikizidwa kumene, ndipo likupezeka m'mitundu iwiri:

• Koperani Baibulo loyambirira mu Chingerezi la Kupitirira Kupulumuka. Kupititsa patsogolo kulowererapo ku Europe ndi Ana Osatsatizana Ndi Olekanitsidwa Osamuka omwe amagwa kudzera muchitetezo.
• Koperani zomasulirazo m’Chisipanishi, kupitirira kupulumuka. Momwe mungasinthire kulowererapo ndi ana osatsatizana komanso opatukana osamukira kwawo omwe amasiyidwa muchitetezo.

Ili ndi buku laukadaulo lomwe likukhudzana ndi Chitetezo cha Ana, kulowererapo kwa anthu komanso ufulu wa anthu. Pamenepo, tinawerengera ndi malingaliro ndi chidziwitso cha akatswiri pafupifupi zana pa Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse mu December 2019 ku Madrid, zomwe ndidathandizira (tikufotokoza zambiri za izo mu tsamba lathu labulogu ku Espirales CI). Komabe, ilinso chikalata chaumwini kwambiri kwa ine.

Mbali inayi, Osawaperekeza Komanso Olekanitsidwa Osamukirako Ana amandikonda kwambiri. Ndinagwira ntchito ku Morocco kwa zaka zingapo ndi ana omwe ali mumsewu ndipo ndikudziwa za zovuta kumeneko, zomwe zimawapangitsa kuyika moyo wawo pachiswe kuti athe kukhala ndi tsogolo labwino. Ndinagwiranso ntchito kwa zaka zingapo ku Madrid ndi achinyamata omwe anali pangozi, ndipo ambiri a iwo anali ana osamukira kwina osatsagana nawo, chotero ndinatsagana ndi mapazi awo m’zovuta zodzipangira tsogolo labwino ku Spain. Ndipo ndimasangalalabe kulankhula nawo m’Chiarabu cha Moroccan, chinenero chimene ndimakonda kwambiri. Ndikukhulupirira kuti chikalatachi chithandiza akatswiri ena komanso anthu onse kuti aziwamvera chisoni anawa, ndi kusamalira ubwino wawo. (Zambiri za ntchito yanga mu LinkedIn Profile yanga).

Mbali inayi, pano ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri, chifukwa cha zinthu zingapo. Monga wolemba wamkulu, Ndagwiritsa ntchito kwambiri Kuganizira ndi ine ndekha ngati njira yopangira malingaliro, ndi kupeza mawu okwanira. Zidziwitso za nkhani zodzitchinjiriza ziyenera kubwera kuchokera ku chidziwitso chodziwika. Ndikukhulupirira kuti izi zibweretsa kumveka komanso kuzama pamutu wonsewu, ndi zina mwazovuta zake zidapangidwa momveka bwino.

Pomaliza, sikunali vuto la akatswiri okha, komanso ndondomeko yaumwini. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzasangalala nazo.

F. Javier Romeo

Chiyambireni mliriwu, mabungwe ambiri a ana ayesetsa kupanga zothandizira. Ku Spirals Consultancy for Children tapanga zida zingapo zosiyanasiyana.

Muzolemba zabuloguzi ndikufuna kugawana makanema omwe ali ogwirizana ndi zomwe ndikugawana pano, pazifukwa zambiri.

1. Amapereka mauthenga omveka bwino komanso otakata mokwanira kuti akambirane ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata za mliri wa COVID-19, kuti adziwe zomwe zikuchitika kwa iwo.
2. Amapanga ntchito yodziwitsa thupi: kuchokera ku chitsanzo cha nzeru zitatu mpaka kukhudzana ndi mpweya, ndi zovuta kapena ndi zomverera zosiyanasiyana. Sizili choncho Kuganizira, koma kuloza ku tcheru kumeneko.
3. Iwo ali mu Spanish, komanso mu French ndi Moroccan Arabic. Ndasangalala kugwiritsa ntchito m’mavidiyowa zinenero ziwirizi zimene zandithandiza kwambiri kuti ndizilankhulana ndili ku Morocco komanso ndi achinyamata osamukira ku Spain..

Ndikusiya makanema pansipa:

• Kanema “Atatu anzeru ndi mkwiyo”.

• Kanema “Atatu anzeru ndi mantha”.

• Kanema “Atatu anzeru ndi kupempha thandizo”.

• Kanema “Nzeru zitatu ndi chisoni”.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti zotsatira za chidwi.

F. Javier Romeo

Zambiri za Roundtable on Crossing Focusing and Nonviolent Communication (NVC) bungwe la International Focusing Institute kudzera mu Komiti Yake Yaumembala. Monga ndi chochitika cham'mbuyo chidziwitsochi sichikupezekanso patsamba la TIFI ndipo chasinthidwa moyenerera.

ulaliki “Thupi ndi mfundo zinayi: kudziletsa kusamalira odwazika” mu Maulendo 2019 kuchokera Madrid Association of Palliative Care “Kuphatikiza ndizovuta: lotseguka kwa maonekedwe ena”.

Tsiku: Lachinayi, 14 March 2019 ku 12:00.

Malo: Aula Magna, Maphunziro a Pavilion, Chipatala General Universitario Gregorio Marañón
C / Tsoka, 43
Madrid

Zambiri komanso kulembetsa patsamba la Maulendo 2019 wa Madrid Association of Palliative Care.

[Cholowa chosinthidwa ku 14 March 2019, tsiku la chochitika].