Moyo wapaintaneti watithandiza kupanga magulu atsopano.

Zoposa chaka chapitacho ndinalandira chiitano cha kukhala m’gulu lolingalira za ana m’dongosolo la chitetezo ku Spain, kugwirizana ndi Alberto Rodriguez ndi Javier Mugica ndi momwe timachitira nawo Antonio Ferrandis, mi Mnzake wa CI Spirals Peppa Oven, Marta Llaurado ndi dzina langa pafupifupi lawiri F. Javier Romeu Soriano. Pambuyo pa miyezi iyi yamisonkhano yapaintaneti ndi maimelo angapo ndi zolemba, sabata yatha tinasindikiza pamodzi chikalata chokhazikitsa, Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati. Mavuto asanu ndi awiri ndi malingaliro opititsa patsogolo chitetezo cha ana ku Spain. Mawuwa amadzilankhula okha, ndipo akhoza dawunilodi kuchokera tsamba la “Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati”.

Pano ine ndikufuna kulankhula za chinachake chosiyana pang'ono: za ndondomeko yokha. Ndipo ndifotokoza mwachidule m'mawu atatu: mudzi, kukula ndi kuzindikira.

Community ndi zomwe takhala tikupanga. Ili ndi gawo la mwayi, kukumana ndi nkhani zoteteza ana m'malo osiyanasiyana. Koma ilinso ndi gawo la cholinga. Pezani malo ochitira misonkhano yapaintaneti. Lembani aliyense mbali yake ya chikalatacho ndi kubwereza malemba ena onse. kugawana malingaliro, nkhawa ndi mayankho omwe angathe. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono takhala tikukulitsa ubale wathu, kukulitsa chilankhulo chodziwika bwino chomwe chimaphatikiza umunthu wathu wosiyanasiyana komanso tcheru. Ndipo tikukhulupirira kuti mbali zina zakusintha kwachitetezo kumapita ndendende popanga anthu m'malo ena ambiri, ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja awo, m'magulu a akatswiri ndi maukonde olowera.

Kuphatikiza Apo, tapita patsogolo ndi kawonedwe ka wonjezani. Munthu aliyense m'gulu lathu wakhala akugwira ntchito limodzi ndikutsata njira zachitetezo kwazaka zambiri. Ndicho chifukwa chake tikhoza kulankhula za zofooka, za zofooka zomwe zimavulaza ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja omwe cholinga chake ndi kuwateteza. Koma timakumbukiranso kupita patsogolo, zosintha, nthawi zina zazing'ono kwambiri, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mbali zina zikhale bwino. Ichi ndichifukwa chake chikalatachi chikufuna kusonkhanitsa zovuta zomwe timawona ku Spain ndi malingaliro omwe tikudziwa, ndi zochitika zaumwini kapena zaukadaulo, zomwe zinagwirapo ntchito kale. Ndipo ndondomekoyi imapangitsanso ife omwe timawonetsera m'magulu kukula.

Chifukwa chiyani?, al omaliza, Ndi za kukulitsa kuzindikira. pamene tili ndi a “kuyang'ana mwachidwi”, monga mnzanga wabwino amanenera ndi ku CI Spirals Peppa Oven, timaona zenizeni mwakuya. Timazindikira zomwe zimachitika mwa ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja awo, komanso m'magulu a akatswiri komanso m'machitidwe omwe angawapatse chitetezo ndi chithandizo. Ndipo timazindikira zomwe zimachitika mkati mwathu, kuwongolera malingaliro ndi zomverera pazolinga zenizeni zomwe zimasintha miyoyo ya anthu ambiri. Sitingathe kuchita izi tokha, timafunikira malo otetezeka, mudzi, tithandizeni kupita patsogolo, kudzifunsa mafunso atsopano ndikupeza mayankho atsopano.

Kuchokera pano ndikutumiza kuthokoza kwanga ku timu yabwinoyi, ndi ku moyo kuti zitheke.

Ndipo ndikukupemphani kuti muwerenge chikalatacho ndikumvetsera zotsatirazi (Tikhala tikusindikiza zolemba za mwezi uliwonse za blog kuti tipitilize kusanthula malingaliro osiyanasiyana). Ndikukuwonani pa webusayiti “Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati”.

mu chikondwerero,

F. Javier Romeo

Eugene Gendlin, chithunzi chovomerezeka cha International Institute of Focusing.

Eugene (“Gene”) Gendlin anamwalira dzulo 1 Mulole 2017 pa zaka makumi asanu ndi anayi, ndi ine, monga gulu lonse la Focusing, Ndimakhudzidwa ndi kupita kwake, ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndikuthokoza chifukwa cha zopereka zanu zonse.

Eugene Gendlin anabadwa pa 25 kuyambira December mpaka 1926 ku Vienna, Austria, ndipo anathawa chizunzo cha Nazi popita ku United States 1939. American naturalized, Anapitiliza kupeza BA mu Philosophy ndi Ph.D. atagwira ntchito kwa zaka zoposa khumi mogwirizana ndi Carl Rogers ku yunivesite ya Chicago.. Chipatso cha maphunziro ake awiri monga filosofi komanso ngati psychotherapist, chopereka chanu ndi chachikulu kwambiri.

Gendlin nthawi zonse ankaumirira kuti palibe “adalengedwa” ndi Kuganizira, njira yodzidziwitsa komanso machiritso amalingaliro ndi malingaliro kudzera muzomverera za thupi, koma chete “anali atalingalirapo masitepe angapo kuti njirayo ipezeke mosavuta”. Pakalipano ndi chida chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mu psychotherapy komanso m'madera ena ambiri.. Ndipo zonse zomwe adazipeza zimatsagana ndi luntha lolimba laluntha, filosofi ya osadziwika.

Mu 1985 adapanga zomwe tsopano ndi International Institute of Focusing (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute) kupereka kupitiriza kwa mizere yonseyi ya ntchito, zomwe zimabweretsa pamodzi kuposa 2000 akatswiri ndi othandizira ochokera padziko lonse lapansi, ndi komwe wapereka laibulale yake yonse yomwe ingapezeke pa intaneti (ndi Gendlin Online Library).

Ngakhale kuti anali wokalamba, za matenda ndi imfa ya mkazi wake Mary Hendricks-Gendlin zaka ziwiri zapitazo, Gendlin adakhalabe wokangalika mkati mwa kuthekera kwake, kulemba zolemba ndi kutenga nawo mbali pa maphunziro pafoni.

Pankhani yanga, kupatula kuwerenga mabuku ake ndi zolemba zake, Ndakhala ndi chisangalalo ndi ulemu kutenga nawo mbali zingapo “Zokambirana kuchokera m'mphepete ndi Gene [Gendlin] Y Ann [Weiser Cornell]”, opangidwa ndi omaliza (ver maganizo anga kuchokera mu Kukambirana kwa September–October pa 2016). Kwa ine wakhala mwayi wolankhula naye mwachindunji, ndi chikondi chake ndi luntha lake ngakhale zowawa ndi zovuta zake, pozindikira chidwi chake mwa munthu aliyense komanso dziko lapansi, ndi chidwi kwambiri kudziwa momwe cholowa chake chinapitilira. Ndipo ndidachita chidwi ndi kupezeka kwake pomwe adandiperekeza munjira ya Focusing mu imodzi mwazokambirana zomaliza.

International Institute of Focusing yathandiza tsamba lapadera kulemekeza kukumbukira Gene Gendlin (www.EugeneGendlin.com), ndipo kuchokera pano ndikukuitanani kutenga nawo mbali, kuwerenga ndemanga za anthu ena kapena kuwonjezera zochitika zanu. Ndithudi ndikumva chisoni kwambiri ndi imfa imeneyi., ndipo nthawi yomweyo ndimakondwerera kudziwa ntchito ya Gene Gendlin pazaka zambiri ndipo ndatha kulankhula naye nthawi zingapo.. Ndikumva mbali ya cholowa chake, ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuzifotokoza mwachikondi, kuwuziridwa ndi iye.

Mu chikondwerero ndi maliro,

F. Javier Romeo

kukweza ku 14 Ogasiti 2017: Ndalembapo za ziphaso zitatu kwa Gene Gendlin momwe ndakhala ndikuchita nawo, zomwe zimamaliza gawo logawana pagulu la Community.

Kupitilira mu mzere wa kulowa m'mbuyomu, ndi wogwirizana naye kwambiri, ndikusankhidwa kukhala membala wa International Relations mkati mwa Board of Directors a Spanish Institute of Focusing, chinthu chinanso choyitanira kuchitapo kanthu chomwe chachokera kutenga nawo gawo pa International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) Julayi watha 2016.

monga ndemanga mu positi imeneyo, mu izo Spanish Focusing Institute ife tikumvetsa izo, komanso zochita za kuphunzitsa ndi kutsagana ndi Kuyikirapo maganizo makamaka payekha, aliyense ali ndi kalembedwe kake komanso kukhudzika kwake, komanso nthawi zonse mogwirizana ndi zomwe anthu amavomereza komanso luso, Komabe, zochita zonse za bungwe ndi kutenga nawo mbali ziyenera kuchokera kumagulu amagulu.

Ndichifukwa chake, pamene ndinaitanidwa kutenga nawo mbali mu Umembala wa Komiti ya International Institute of Focusing ku New York (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute), Ndinayika udindo umenewu m'manja mwa Spanish Institute of Focusing, kulandidwa ndi munthu aliyense ngati nthumwi yochokera ku Spain. Zingakhale zodabwitsidwa bwanji nditaitanidwa kuti ndikatenge nawo gawo lolumikizana ndi International Relations mkati mwa gulu la oyang'anira ndi kuvomereza udindo womwewo wapadziko lonse lapansi. Ndinavomera pempholo, njira zoyenera zomwe zaganiziridwa m'malamulo atengedwa ndipo posachedwapa ndasankhidwa kukhala membala.

Ndine wokondwa kwambiri kuti nditha kuthandiza nawo mgulu la Focusing ku Spain, kumene ndalandira zambiri. Kuyambira chiyambi cha maphunziro anga 2009, masiku a National, sukulu yachilimwe, kuyang'anira, Diploma ndi maudindo a Certified Trainer and Certified Focusing Counseling Psychotherapist ndi onse omwe amalumikizana nawo komanso kukula, Ine ndithudi kusinthidwa kukhala Focusing akatswiri (komanso ngati munthu).

Ndipo mu mndandanda wa zoyitanitsa kuchitapo kanthu (monga likunena Isabel Gascon, wotsogolera wanga, ndi “sitepe yachisanu ndi chiwiri” de Focusing: “Ndipo zonsezi zikukuitanani chiyani??”), Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti ndi nthawi yoti ndithandizire nawonso kuchokera paudindowu, bola ntchito yanga ndi yothandiza komanso yolimbikitsa. Ndizovuta kugwira nawo ntchito komanso potumikira anthu ambiri omwe ndimawadziwa, ndi chuma mkati mwake chimandiyika mumkhalidwe wodzichepetsa ndi kuphunzira.

Momwemonso kuchokera paudindo watsopanowu ndili pa ntchito yanu, tikuyembekeza kuti tithandizire ku chidziwitso chapadziko lonse cha chuma cha Focusing chomwe tikuchita pano, komanso kupereka malingaliro ndi malingaliro ochokera kumadera ena omwe amachokera ku chikhalidwe ichi cha ubale wapadziko lonse.

F. Javier Romeo

Monga ndafotokozera kale mu post ina, atenga nawo mbali mu International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) Julayi watha 2016 zatanthauza mafungulo ambiri atsopano, njira zatsopano, njira zatsopano zophatikizira Kukhazikika m'moyo wanga ndikugawana nawo. chidziwitso, komanso kuyitanira kuchitapo kanthu.

Kwa ine zakhala zodabwitsa kwambiri kuitanidwa kukhala m’Komiti Yamamembala (Komiti Yamamembala) a International Institute of Focusing ku New York (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute). Komiti iyi ndi bungwe la alangizi. (sichipanga zisankho) ndipo kwenikweni amapangidwa ndi anthu odzipereka, amene amalangiza mabungwe olamulira pa zinthu zonse zokhudzana ndi kukhala membala wa Institute: momwe mungalimbikitsire umembala, momwe mungapangire mtengo wanu kuwoneka, momwe angathandizire kutengapo mbali pakati pa mamembala. Ntchito yanu ndikuyang'ana mamembala ndikupeza zosowa zomwe zikubwera komanso malo ogwirira ntchito. Ndi komiti yapadziko lonse lapansi, ndi misonkhano ya videoconference ndi magulu apadera a ntchito. Ndi gulu latsopano kotero kuti ilibe gawo lake mu tsamba la Institute. Inenso, kuti ndasangalala ndi ubwino wokhala membala kuyambira pamenepo 2010, choyamba ngati Mphunzitsi mu Maphunziro, ndipo pambuyo pake ngati Mphunzitsi Wovomerezeka (2012) komanso ngati Certified Focusing Orientation Psychotherapist (2014), Ndimalandira ngati mwayi wothandiza kwa anthu ena komanso kapangidwe ka Institute.

Kwa ine ndikofunikira kutsatira mzere wa ntchito ya Spanish Focusing Institute, momwe timagwira ntchito mu maphunziro, kutsagana kapena magawo ena a Kukhazikika pamunthu payekha, koma momwe ubale ndi magulu ena ndi mabungwe amaganiziridwa pamodzi. Choncho, Ndatumiza chiitanochi ku Board of Directors of the Spanish Institute of Focusing ndipo posachedwapa ndasankhidwanso. membala wa International Relations, kuti athe kutenga udindo mu Komiti ya Umembala.

Ndicholinga choti, Ndayamba kale kuwerenga mabuku (zambiri zapangidwa pakangotha ​​chaka chimodzi chantchito) ndipo ndinachita nawo msonkhano. Ndikuyembekeza kupitiliza kuthandizira kudziko la Focusing motere. Ndipo ngati muli ndi malingaliro kapena malingaliro okhudzana ndi umembala wa International Institute of Focusing, Ndidzakondwera kuwamva.

Pautumiki wanu m'njira yatsopano,

F. Javier Romeo

Chilimwechi ndakhala ndi chisangalalo chochita nawo 27Msonkhano wapadziko lonse wa International Focusing Conference wa 2016 ndi Cambridge (United Kingdom), yolembedwa ndi British Focusing Association, ndi kutsegulidwa kwa mamembala a International Institute of Focusing (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute) a dziko lonse lapansi, chondichitikira chomwe chandizindikiritsa pazifukwa zingapo.

Masomphenya apadziko lonse osonkhanitsira zithunzi za Focusing International Conference 2016. Kawirikawiri, amasonkhanitsa mbali zosewerera kwambiri, koma amawululanso mphindi zakuya. Ndipo chithunzi chokongola chikuwoneka kuti Blanca Ruiz wandijambula, ku Spain, ndi zomwe ndatengera mbiri yanga (¡chisomo, Blanca!).

Kupereka ziwerengero zina: takhala ochuluka kuposa 250 otenga nawo gawo 30 mayiko ku Robinson College, pafupifupi odzipereka kwathunthu ku Msonkhano. Kupatula pamisonkhano yonse, kumene kunali anthu ambiri, pa nthawi ya msonkhano tidagawana (aliyense malinga ndi kusankha kwake) muzochitika zoposa khumi ndi zisanu panthawi imodzi. Ndipo zonse zimayendetsedwa ndi gulu lodzipereka la bungwe (kuchokera British Focusing Association,) chani, Ndisanayambe kuthetsa mavuto anga, poyamba anandimvera, ndi chidwi chokhazikika.

Chifukwa chake chokumana nacho choyamba chakhala kupeza anthu ndikupanga gulu., m'malo Olunjika kwambiri. Ndakumana ndi anthu omwe adatenga nawo gawo koyamba pamwambo wapadziko lonse lapansi ngati uwu, monga ine. Ndapanganso nkhope, kamvekedwe ka mawu, ubale… kwa anthu omwe ndimawadziwa ndi maumboni (mabuku awo, zinthu zanu, masamba anu, mauthenga anu pa Focusing lists, malangizo omwe ndalandira…). Y, ndinadabwa, Ndazindikiridwanso ndi psychotherapist waku Japan Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) kuti anawerenga ndi chidwi kwambiri nkhani yanga “Yonseyi Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication”, Kupeza bwanji! [Ndipo potsiriza apa likumasuliridwa mu Chijapani ndi mutu wosonyeza The mphambano ya moganizira ndi kulankhulana si achiwawa, Zikomo kwambiri, Madoka!].

Komabe, Chomwe chandichititsa chidwi kwambiri chakhala chaubwenzi komanso kusasunthika kwa mankhwalawa, zonse muzochitika zamagulu komanso muzochita zambiri payekha, pa chakudya, m'nthawi yopuma, mu ntchito zina. Ndipo kumverera kopitiliza kupeza anthu atsopano komanso osangalatsa nthawi zonse ndikayamba kumva kuti “tinali titawonana padziko lonse lapansi”. Pamlingo wozama, Tsopano kuti masabata angapo adutsa, Chochitika choyamba chomwe ndikufuna kusunga ndicho malingaliro a anthu ammudzi mkati mwa kusiyana (ndipo panali zosiyana zambiri, Ndikutsimikizira!). Ndiko kumva kuti tikugwira ntchito, kufufuza, kuzunzika ndi kusangalala wina ndi mzake kukulitsa kumvetsetsa kwathu kwa Focusing, ndi momwe mungagawire ndi anthu ena.

chochitika chachiwiri, zogwirizana ndi zakale, wakhala dziwani malumikizano opanga ndi anthu ambiri. Zokonda zathu wamba. Kuti mumvetsetse Kuyang'ana mofanana kapena, m'malo mwake, kuti mumvetse m’njira zosiyanasiyana kuti n’zothandizana. Kwa madera athu zochita. Mwa kugwirizana kosavuta kwaumwini. Tsopano ndi nthawi yoti muchite mawu otchuka a Aristotle, “chilakolako chaubwenzi chimadza msanga, koma ubwenzi umatenga nthawi”. Ndi anthu ena ndimalumikizana nawo kale, Ndili ndi ena pamndandanda wanga wautali wa omwe ndikuyembekezera, koma cholinga chopitiliza kukulitsa njira zatsopano za Kuyikirapo chilipo. Zikhala ngati maubwenzi omwe ndili nawo kale mdera la Focusing ku Spain, koma padziko lonse lapansi.

Chachitatu chachitika kuyitanira kuchitapo kanthu. Kuyitanira kuchitapo kanthu komwe kumachitika mkati ndi kunja. zotheka ntchito, migwirizano kufufuza, mndandanda watsopano wowerenga, masewera olimbitsa thupi, madera kuti mupeze… Pakadali pano, zinthu zikubwereketsa kusuntha, ndipo ndikuyenda nawo. Ndilankhula za izi ndi zina muma post ena..

Ndi kudzipereka kuti ndikuuzeni zambiri muzolemba zamtsogolo ndikusiyani, ndi malingaliro oti mupite kutsamba lovomerezeka la Msonkhanowo pamene ikugwira ntchito, chifukwa lili ndi zinthu zambiri zoti mufufuze (m'Chingerezi).

Xavier

zosintha (zolemba pambuyo pake zokhudzana ndi izi):

Mkati mwa kuyitana kuchitapo kanthu:

• Kusankhidwa kwanga kukhala membala wa Komiti ya International Institute of Focusing.
• Ndipo kusankhidwa kwanga kukhala membala wa International Relations ku Spain Institute of Focusing.

Zochitika zina:

• zikwapu burashi (2) wa International Focusing Conference: gulu lachidwi la Community Wellness Focusing.
• Gulu Lachidwi la Community Wellness Focusing Group ku Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (UK) 2016.

Mikangano yambiri itha kuthetsedwa m’njira yokhutiritsa ndi yopindulitsa kwa mbali zonse., Kupereka zofunikira ndi nthawi zimaperekedwa. Izi ndizochitika zanga komanso zaukadaulo zomwe ndaphunzira zaka zambiri, kuchita ndi kufalitsa Yofatsa Kulankhulana. ndizofunika kwambiri (osati zophweka) ndi kuti zofunikira zikukwaniritsidwa kuti chigamulochi chichitike. Kwa ine pali zinthu zingapo zofunika, zomwe tingazifotokoze mwachidule zotsatirazi:

• Njira yokwanira, zomwe zimalola onse omwe akukhudzidwa kuti azikhala otetezeka komanso olemekezedwa paufulu wawo.
• Akatswiri omwe ali ndi maphunziro odziwa kuyimira pakati komanso kumvetsera mozama komanso “kumasulira” za mauthenga kuti zikhale zosavuta kuti munthu aliyense amve.
• Dera lomwe limathandizira njira zobwezeretsa, kugawa nthawi, mipata, anthu ogwira ntchito, maphunziro…
• Anthu okonzeka kuthetsa mikangano m'njira yoti pamapeto pake onse azimva kuti akumva komanso kuti mbali zonse zikhutitsidwe ndi yankho.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndizosangalatsa kwa ine kugawana nawo zothandizira zomwe gulu lalikulu la anthu a m'dera la Son Gotleu ku Palma de Mallorca adachita. (Mallorca), popeza amasonkhanitsa momwe chilichonse mwazinthuzi chagwirira ntchito.

Muvidiyoyi mukuwona momwe adathandizira, ndi revitalization ya Institute for Coexistence and School Success (ndi Institute for Coexistence and School Success in Spanish) ya Boma la Zilumba za Balearic, kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi a malo ophunzirira a Early Childhood Education, Pulayimale ndi Sekondale, ophunzira amisinkhu yonse, mabanja, komanso Social Services, apolisi, yunivesite ndi magulu ena odziwika bwino. Mu mosaic wa mawu, timapeza lingaliro lazomwe zidachitika pakukhazikitsidwa kwa ukonde wachitetezo pamalo omwe ali pachiwopsezo, ndikuwona zina mwazotsatira.

Kuti muwone mwadongosolo, pali chofalitsidwa chimene chimasonkhanitsa mbali zofunika kwambiri. Adasinthidwa mu Catalan, Chisipanishi ndi Chingerezi mkati mwa projekiti yaku Europe yokhala ndi mutuwu, ndi Upangiri Timakulitsa kukhalirana ndi Makhalidwe Obwezeretsa / Kalozera Timathandizira kukhazikika ndi machitidwe obwezeretsa imapanga mbali zongopeka za Restorative Practices, amafunikira deta yochulukirapo ndipo amapereka zitsanzo zenizeni ndi malingaliro owerengera kuti awonjezere zambiri.

Ndipo kukulitsa Mabwalo Obwezeretsa, mchitidwe kuthetsa mikangano ndi chikhalidwe dimension anachokera Yofatsa Kulankhulana, mukhoza kuwerenga monograph chidwi Chilungamo ndi Zochita Zobwezeretsa. Mabwalo Obwezeretsa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo m'magawo osiyanasiyana, yolembedwa ndi Vicenç Rulan, mphunzitsi amene ndili wokondwa kumudziwa, zomwe zikuwoneka mu kanema ndi mu Bukhuli, ndi kuti iye ndi membala wa Association of Justice and Restorative Practices of the Balearics (ndi tsamba castellano ndi mu chikatalani, ndi zinthu zina zambiri). chiyambi chabwino, kuti tipitirize kuyang'ana mu chitsanzo ichi. Komanso mukhoza kuonera mavidiyo (m'Chingerezi) patsamba lovomerezeka la mlengi wa Restorative Circles, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Inu amene mwandiphunzitsako kulankhulana ndi anthu ena mwawona kuti nthawi zambiri ndimatchula mutu uwu wa Makhalidwe Obwezeretsa.. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zinthuzi zikuwonetsa bwino zomwe mwamva kuchokera kwa ine ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti ziyambitsa luso lanu komanso malingaliro anu kuti mupitilize kupeza njira zozama komanso zozama zothetsera mikangano m'malo ophunzirira., ndi kudera lina lililonse.

Xavier

Mary Hendricks-Gendlin, chithunzi cha The Focusing Institute.

Pomaliza 28 March 2015 Marion anamwalira (odziwika bwino ngati “Mary”) N. Hendricks-Gendlin, kufotokoza kofunikira kwa Kuganizira. Ine ndiri m’gulu la anthuwo, popanda kukumana naye mwachindunji, timalandira cholowa cha ntchito yake ndi mzimu wake.

Mary Hendricks-Gendlin fue, pakati pa mbali zina za moyo wake, katswiri wa zamaganizo, Psychotherapist wokhala ndi Kuyikira Kwambiri, membala woyambitsa wa The Focusing Institute (New York Focusing Institute) ndi wotsogolera yemweyo kwa zaka zambiri. Adakhalanso mnzake wa Gene Gendlin, amene anaumba Njira Yolunjika ndi yemwe akadali ndi moyo, ndi amake Elissa, mwana wamkazi anali naye limodzi.

Kwa ine kutchulidwa kwa Mary Hendricks-Gendlin kumabwera makamaka kudzera Isabel Gascon, Spanish Focusing Coordinator ndi mphunzitsi wanga (pambuyo pochita certification, Ndimaphunzirabe kuchokera kwa iye nthawi iliyonse yomwe timalumikizana nayo, payekha kapena akatswiri). Isabel Gascon, chifukwa cha ntchito yake yayitali mu Focusing komanso kuyimira kwake ku Spain Institute of Focusing for international issues (makamaka ngati wachiwiri kwa pulezidenti), adalumikizana kwambiri ndi Mary, ngakhale m’zaka zaposachedwapa, pamene Gene ndi Mary asiya adilesi ya The Focusing Institute (New York Focusing Institute). Ndendende, patatsala sabata kuti Mariya amwalire, mu Masiku a National Focusing Day 2015 mu Miraflores de A La Sierra, Loweruka 21, Isabel Gascón anali kuyankhapo kwa angapo omwe adatenga nawo gawo pazomwe adakumana nazo pa Mary ndi Gene, ndi chikondi ndi kukoma mtima kwakukulu, ndipo chifukwa cha kusilira zonse adazichita, kuthandizana wina ndi mzake. Ndikupangira kuwerenga msonkho wochokera pansi pamtima kwa Isabel Gascón patsamba lake.

Cholowa chomwe timalandira kuchokera kwa ife omwe sitinachidziwe mwachindunji chili ndi mitundu yambiri.:

• Ndipo Focusing Institute cholimba, kuti Mary ndi Gene adatsogolera kukusintha kupita ku bungwe latsopano losinthidwa ku zenizeni zapadziko lonse lapansi komanso zamitundu yambiri za Focusing..
• Kufalikira kwapadziko lonse kwa Focusing, zomwe zakhala zofunikira kwa iye panthawi yomwe anali director. Ndaona kuti nkhani yanu ndi yofunika. “Felt Sense Literacy” (Ikupezekanso mu Spanish ngati “anamva nzeru kuwerenga”), masomphenya osuntha a Kukhazikika ngati mphamvu yosinthira anthu.
• Thandizo pakupanga zinthu zofunika ngati magulu “Zosintha” (“Zosintha”), Kuyang'ana magulu osinthanitsa pakati pa akatswiri.
• Kafukufuku wake m'magawo osiyanasiyana apano a Focusing, monga Focusing Oriented Psychotherapy ndi “Kuganiza Pamphepete -TAE” (“Kuganiza kuchokera Kumphepete – PDB”).
• Lingaliro lake la “Kusintha Imani”, zomwe zimaphatikizapo kudzipatsa nthawi tisanayambe kuchita, asanayankhe, kuyima ndikuwona momwe thupi lathu limakhalira pazochitika zilizonse. Mwanjira imeneyi tingathe kukwaniritsa zisankho zenizeni. Mutha kuwerenga nkhani yake yodabwitsa “Kuyang'ana Monga Mphamvu Yamtendere: The Revolution Pause” (m'Chingerezi chokha pakadali pano), momwe mizere yoyamba ikukhudza chifukwa cha kuphweka ndi kuya kwake, ndi kumene malemba ena onse amachokera ku mfundo zosiyana “Kusintha Imani”.

Kuchokera apa ndikupita kwa Mary Hendricks-Gendlin ndi msonkho wanga ku moyo wake ndi ntchito yake, zomwe zakhudzanso moyo wanga. Ndipo chikondi changa ndi chisamaliro changa kwa Gene Gendlin ndi kwa anthu onse omwe amakonda Mary, ndi kuti ataya osati katswiri wofunikira, komanso kwa mphunzitsi, bwenzi ndi bwenzi lapamtima, Monga ndemanga za tsamba la msonkho wa The Focusing Institute.

ndi ulemu ndi chisamaliro,

Xavier

Kutengera mwayi kuti masika akuyamba lero, Kulumikiza More Longopeka ali nazo kale Twitter, ConexMasAutent, kumene zolemba zosiyanasiyana zidzawonekera zosindikizidwa, kuwonjezera pa malingaliro ndi zinthu zina zosangalatsa pa Kuganizira, kulankhulana pakati pa anthu potengera Yofatsa Kulankhulana, general chitukuko cha munthu ndi psychotherapy.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti muwapeza kukhala othandiza.

Xavier

The psychotherapy Ili ndi gawo lofunikira pakuphunzitsidwa mozama, ndipo nthawi yomweyo zimapindulitsa kwambiri kuphunzira njira zatsopano, njira zatsopano, njira zatsopano zofikira mitu yomwe ikubwera. Kuwongolera ndi kuphunzitsidwa kosalekeza ndi gawo limodzi la machitidwe abwino a psychotherapy.

Misala Networker Ndi chida chothandiza kwambiri kwa ine kuti ndikhale ndi nthawi psychotherapy. Kupatula pazinthu zina (makanema, malemba, manambala enieni…), bungweli limasindikiza magazini yapadera yomwe imapezeka kawiri pamwezi m'mapepala ndi pakompyuta (mwayi wotsegula kwa zaka ziwiri), ndipo nambala iliyonse ili ndi ulusi wofanana, ndi nkhani za akatswiri amene agwirapo mutu wa mweziwo, komanso ndi maumboni ochititsa chidwi a m'mabuku (kwenikweni ndagula kale mabuku angapo nditawerenga nkhani zina, ndipo ndakhutitsidwa kwambiri).

Webusaitiyi ili ndi zothandizira zambiri, ndipo kuchokera pano ndikufuna kupangira zolemba ndi nkhani zomwe zikuwoneka zatsopano kwa ine.

• Magazini ya November ndi December 2013, ndi mutu “Zizolowezi Zathu, Ife tokha. Kodi Chizungulire Chikhoza Kusweka?” (“zizolowezi zathu, ndi ife eni. Mutha kuswa bwalo?”), nkhani yokhala ndi malingaliro amomwe mungathetsere mabwalo oyipa mu psychotherapy, ndi nkhani yochokera Ann Weiser Cornell, katswiri wa Focusing Orientation Psychotherapy yemwe ndidaphunzira naye, “Chinachake Chatsopano, Pano ndi Tsopano. Kusiya Chizoloŵezi” (“Chinachake chatsopano, pano ndi pano. Momwe mungamasulire zomwe mwachizolowezi”).
• Ntchito ya May ndi June 2014, ndi mutu “Kuchiza Trauma. Kodi Tikusowa Chiyani?” (“Chitani zoopsa. tikusowa chiyani?”), ndi njira zatsopano zothanirana ndi zoopsa monga nkhani ya Janina Fisher “Kuyika Zidutswa Pamodzi. 25 Zaka Zophunzira Chithandizo cha Trauma” (“phatikizani zidutswa zonse pamodzi. Zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu kuphunzira kuthana ndi zoopsa”).
• Magazini ya September ndi October 2014, ndi mutu “Apo ndipo Osati Apo. Kukula M'zaka Zosokoneza” (“pamenepo ndipo ayi. Momwe mungakulire muzaka zododometsa”), zofunika ndi zinthu monga “Kusakhazikika. Kulumikizana ndi Ana Ovulala Omwe Amakankhira Mabatani Anu” (“Chokani pa mbedza. Momwe mungalumikizire ndi ana opwetekedwa mtima omwe amapangitsa chitetezo chanu kudumpha”) ndi Martha Strauss.

Ndikusiyirani kuwerenga kwabwino ndipo ndikhulupilira musangalala nazo..

Xavier

Komanso The Focusing Institute (New York Focusing Institute) ali ndi udindo waukulu wa certification zapadziko lonse lapansi, ndi Spanish Focusing Institute, amadziwikanso kuti Spanish Association of Focusing Carlos Alemany, imagwirizanitsa ndi kuyang'anira ntchito zophunzitsira mu Kuyikira Kwambiri ku Spain ndi kulimbikitsa kufalikira kwake.

The tsamba la Spanish Institute of Focusing, posachedwapa, ili ndi zofunikira zingapo zoti muphunzire za Focusing wamba komanso kufalitsa kwake ku Spain:

• Kufotokozera zomwe Focusing ndizovuta, popeza ndi njira yodziwiratu, Izi zimamveka bwino mukakhala moyo. Komabe, mu gawo “Kuyang'ana es” matanthauzo ena osangalatsa ndi malangizo amaperekedwa.
• Kuti mumvetse bwino Kukhazikika, mu gawo “Zida” mafotokozedwe a mabuku amaperekedwa, mavidiyo ndi zomvetsera, zipangizo zonse mu Spanish.
• Kwa iwo omwe akufuna kudziwa momwe angaphunzitsire ku Focusing ku Spain, mu gawo la “Maphunziro” zitha kupezeka kuchokera ku pulogalamu yathunthu yophunzitsidwa ndi Spanish Institute of Focusing (ndi kuzindikiridwa ndi Focusing Institute of New York) ku maphunziro ndi misonkhano yokonzedwa motengera malo ndi mitu yawo, kusinthidwa mosalekeza.
• Mu “Zambiri zaife” kapangidwe ka Spanish Institute of Focusing amasonkhanitsidwa, pa nthawi yomweyo kuti mukhoza kufufuza amene ali mbali yake (kwa omwe akufuna kundipeza, am patsamba lino monga mphunzitsi wovomerezeka).
• Pomaliza, ndi “Nkhani” perekani zambiri pazochitika zomwe zingawononge dziko, makamaka mapangidwe apadera ndi nkhani za zofalitsa ndi zochitika.

Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti musakatule ndikupeza zinthu zosiyanasiyana zoperekedwa patsambali.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuwona kuti ndizothandiza komanso zothandiza monga momwe zinalili kwa ine..

Xavier