Kutola ulusi wa zolemba ndi ma brushstrokes a International Focusing Conference zomwe zidachitika ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) a 20 Al 24 July 2016, gulu lachidwi Kuyang'ana Ubwino Wadera (Kuyang'ana pa Ubwino wa Community) Kwa ine chinali chimodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri. Chinali chokumana nacho chopanga anthu m'njira yogawana kudzera mu mverani, ndi kumasulira, madera athu akale ndi Mkhalidwe wolunjika.

Patha miyezi ingapo, ndipo ndakhala ndikulemba za zomwe zandichitikira (zolemba zonse zimawonekera mu index yomaliza za kulowa uku), ndipo ndimamva bwino ndikamakumbukira Gululi. M'mawa uliwonse wa Msonkhanowu, gulu la anthu omwe adatenga nawo mbali adalowa m'gulu lamagulu khumi ndi asanu a Chidwi. Awa anali magulu omwe ankafuna kukhala malo otseguka kuti agawane malingaliro aumwini ndi akatswiri okhudza Kukhazikika m'madera enaake.. Ndinayesedwa ndi maudindo ambiri (panali ngakhale a “Gulu lachiwongola dzanja lopanda chidwi chenicheni”, ngakhale nthabwala zimamveka bwino mu Chingerezi). Ndine wokhutira kwambiri ndi chisankho changa, pa nthawi yomweyi kuti ndikudandaula kuti sindinathe kudzigawa kuti ndipite kuzinthu zina zambiri…

Gulu Lachidwi la Community Wellness Focusing Group ku Cambridge International Conference (RU), Julayi 2016.

Gulu la Chidwi Kuyang'ana Ubwino Wadera (Kuyang'ana pa Ubwino wa Community) idalumikizidwa ndi Ndine Joy Lawrence, Pat Omidian ndi Heidrun Essler, zomwe zidapanga danga la chidebe kuti titha kutenga nawo mbali komanso, monga iwo ankayembekezera kale, za “dziwitsani luso lolunjika pamiyoyo yathu yatsiku ndi tsiku komanso m'magulu ammudzi” -ngakhale mu gulu lathu lokonda-. Zikomo kwambiri!

Chinthu choyamba chinali mverani. Tinali otenga nawo mbali khumi ndi asanu ndi limodzi ochokera kumayiko asanu ndi limodzi (Afghanistan, Germany, China, Spain, United States ndi United Kingdom), ndipo si onse amene ankadziwa bwino Chingelezi, choncho sitepe yoyamba yomanga dera lathu inali kuonetsetsa kuti aliyense atha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwake ndikumvetsetsa chilichonse chomwe tanena: Izi zikutanthauza kuti titha kugwiritsa ntchito zilankhulo zitatu zosiyanasiyana (Chingerezi, Chinese ndi Spanish). Zomwe zikadakhala zolemetsa (kumasulira, mwachitsanzo zomwe munthu wachitchaina adauza achingerezi, ndipo kuchokera kumeneko kupita ku Spanish, ndiyeno muyankhe mu Chingerezi, ndiyeno masulirani yankholo m’Chitchaina ndi Chispanya, ndi zina zotero) inakhala mphatso yamtengo wapatali: kuthekera komvetsera kwa munthu aliyense kuchokera mumaganizo ozama, ngakhale mawu asanamasuliridwe. Chifukwa chake timakulitsa njira yokhalira limodzi ndi nyimbo yopumula, danga limene munthu aliyense anali kumvetsera ena olankhula zinenero zakunja ndi, mwanjira ina, al omaliza, tinayamba kumvetsetsa zokumana nazo za wokamba nkhani asanayambe kumasulira.

chochitika chachiwiri, zomwe zinkandikhudza kwambiri, anali kumasulira Mwa iyeyekha. Ndakhala ndikumasulira m'malo osiyanasiyana komanso pakati pa zilankhulo zosiyanasiyana kwazaka zopitilira makumi awiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri m'malo mwa akatswiri (Mwachitsanzo, kumasulira akunja Focusing trainers kuno ku Spain). Koma kwa ine, kumasulira zokambirana za Focusing ndizovuta kwambiri., kuti azindikire kumasulira mawu ndi zochitika zomwe zili m'mawu osankhidwawo.

Zimenezo zinanditengera pamlingo wina: mfundo yomasulira (pakati pa English ndi Spanish, m’njira zonse ziwiri) m’gulu limene ndinkaona ngati ndili m’gulu linandikumbutsa za matembenuzidwe anga a achinyamata osamukira kudziko lina kuti apange gulu m’gulu limene kulibenso.. Pamene ndinagawana izi ziwiri zinachitikira, mbali inayi, kukhutitsidwa ndikutha kumasulira m'dera la anthu komanso, kwa wina, maliro osoweka mayanjano, Mamembala ena adagawananso za madera omwe adataya mbali yawo - komanso momwe angakhalire madera athu akale analipo ndipo anali ndi danga mu zomwe timapanga-.

Pamagawo anayiwo tinakambirana, tinayesa masewera olimbitsa thupi, timayankha… Monga ndidagawana nawo gawo lomaliza lotseka, Ndinabwera kugululi ndi cholinga chachikulu chofuna kupeza malingaliro, njira ndi machitidwe kuti apange gulu lomwe limagwiritsa ntchito Focusing. Komabe, Ndimatenga china chosiyana kwambiri: a Mkhalidwe wolunjika zomwe zimakondweretsa kupezeka, zomwe zimalola gulu ndi aliyense wa mamembala ake kulabadira mtundu wina wakumverera, kugwirizana kotetezedwa kuchokera ku thupi.

Izi ndi zina mwa maphunziro omwe ndikhala nawo kwa nthawi yayitali (Pamenepo, Ndayendera kale Focusing Initiatives International, bungwe lomwe limathandiza kufalitsa Community Wellness Focusing, ndipo ndalembetsa ku Mndandanda wa Zokambirana za Ubwino Wadera, mndandanda wamakalata wonena za mtsinjewu, m'Chingerezi), komanso kuthokoza kwambiri kwa omwe atilandira komanso membala aliyense wa gululo. Tsopano nthawi yakwana “pitirira patsogolo” zochitika zonsezi zikupanga madera omwe ali ndi malingaliro awa a Kukhazikika.

Ndikulakalaka inu amene mumandiwerengera zokumana nazo zakuya zomanga anthu ammudzi monga chonchi.

F. Javier Romeo Biedma

Zindikirani: Chithunzichi chasindikizidwa ndi chilolezo cha mamembala a gululo. Palibe mayina abwino omwe amaperekedwa polemekeza zinsinsi zanu, kupatula aja a hostess-moderators amene anapereka poyera Gulu la Chidwi.

Werengani nkhaniyi mu Chingerezi.