Chiyambireni mliriwu, mabungwe ambiri a ana ayesetsa kupanga zothandizira. Ku Spirals Consultancy for Children tapanga zida zingapo zosiyanasiyana.

Muzolemba zabuloguzi ndikufuna kugawana makanema omwe ali ogwirizana ndi zomwe ndikugawana pano, pazifukwa zambiri.

1. Amapereka mauthenga omveka bwino komanso otakata mokwanira kuti akambirane ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata za mliri wa COVID-19, kuti adziwe zomwe zikuchitika kwa iwo.
2. Amapanga ntchito yodziwitsa thupi: kuchokera ku chitsanzo cha nzeru zitatu mpaka kukhudzana ndi mpweya, ndi zovuta kapena ndi zomverera zosiyanasiyana. Sizili choncho Kuganizira, koma kuloza ku tcheru kumeneko.
3. Iwo ali mu Spanish, komanso mu French ndi Moroccan Arabic. Ndasangalala kugwiritsa ntchito m’mavidiyowa zinenero ziwirizi zimene zandithandiza kwambiri kuti ndizilankhulana ndili ku Morocco komanso ndi achinyamata osamukira ku Spain..

Ndikusiya makanema pansipa:

• Kanema “Atatu anzeru ndi mkwiyo”.

• Kanema “Atatu anzeru ndi mantha”.

• Kanema “Atatu anzeru ndi kupempha thandizo”.

• Kanema “Nzeru zitatu ndi chisoni”.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti zotsatira za chidwi.

F. Javier Romeo

Ndimakonda kulangiza ntchito zomwe poyambilira zimangoyang'ana anthu wamba kuti aphunzitse maphunziro apamtima komanso ozama monga Kuganizira ndi Yofatsa Kulankhulana. Trilogy iyi imagwera m'gulu limenelo..

“Munthu: Kanemayo” ndi zolemba zamtundu wa trilogy zomwe zimatiwonetsa zidutswa za zoyankhulana ndi anthu opitilira zikwi ziwiri. (ngakhale m'mawu omaliza kusankha kwa anthu mazana awiri kumawonekera) kulankhula za zinthu zonse zimene zimatipanga ife kukhala “anthu”. Anthu amisinkhu yonse (ngakhale ana ochepa kwambiri amawonekera, atsikana ndi achinyamata molingana, ndi nkhani zovuta kwambiri onse a iwo), zamitundu yonse, kuchokera ku makontinenti onse. Ndi chokumana nacho chanzeru, molunjika kwambiri: palibe mafunso kuchokera kwa ofunsa, palibe dubbing (njira zonse zimawonekera ndi mawu am'munsi, kotero kuti liwu loyambirira limveke), popanda deta yochokera kwa munthu aliyense (kokha nthawi zina amatchula dziko lawo, koma nthawi zambiri mutha kungolingalira za kontinenti yake, pokhapokha ngati mawu ang'onoang'ono atsegulidwa), opanda malire (zoyankhulana zonse zimachitika ndi maziko amdima omwewo, ngakhale nthawi zina phokoso lochokera ku chilengedwe limayambitsidwa). Ndi anthu akumvetsera ndi kuyang'ana pa kamera pamene ena akulankhula, ndipo palibenso china. ndipo nthawi ndi nthawi, mawonedwe amlengalenga a malo odabwitsa, malo achilengedwe ndi mawonekedwe a anthu, ndi nyimbo zapadziko lonse lapansi (zomwe zimakhala zokopa makamaka zikagwiritsidwa ntchito popanda kugwirizana ndi chithunzicho: malo aku Africa okhala ndi nyimbo zaku Asia, Mwachitsanzo, zomwe zimatsimikiziranso za chilengedwe chonse cha munthu).

Wojambula ndi wopanga mafilimu Yann Artus-Bertrand, wodziwika chifukwa cha ntchito yake yayitali yoteteza zachilengedwe komanso chikhalidwe cha anthu, wayamba pa trilogy yochititsa chidwiyi, zomwe cholinga chake ndi kukhala chothandizira chimodzi chowonjezera pa chithunzi cha munthu m'miyeso yake yosiyana. ndi nyali zake, komanso ndi mithunzi yofunika. Mawonekedwe a filimuyo amakhudza chilichonse: kuyambira zabwino mpaka zoyipa, zomwe zimamasula ndi zomwe zimakhala akapolo, zomwe zimapereka tanthauzo ndi zopanda pake za moyo wamakono…

Pali dongosolo linalake la mitu, zomwe zingatchulidwe ngati kalozera:

“Munthu: Kanemayo (kuchuluka 1)”: chikondi (m'njira zosiyanasiyana), ntchito ndi umphawi. Kwambiri kuyambira mphindi yoyamba, kusinkhasinkha pa zinthu zitatu izi za moyo wa munthu.

“Munthu: Kanemayo (kuchuluka 2)”: nkhondo, kuopa amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, imfa ndi mavuto a m’banja. Odziwika bwino kwambiri mokomera ulemu waumunthu muzochitika zonse, ngakhale ndizovuta kuzindikira.

“Munthu: Kanemayo (kuchuluka 3)”: chisangalalo, Maphunziro, kulumala, mgwirizano ndi dziko lapansi, Tanthauzo la moyo, chilungamo ndi zochita za anthu. Kuyang'ana mbali zina zomwe zimafuna kuti tiyime (zabwino kwa anthu, timamvetsetsa masankhidwe a mauthenga).

Ndi ntchito yoyenera kuwonedwa ndi bata, mu zidutswa za mphindi makumi awiri kapena makumi atatu, kuchigaya mozama. Imayankha mafunso ambiri ndipo imatipempha kuti tiyankhe kuchokera mkati. Mutha kuwonanso zidule zazitali za anthu ena, zomwe zingasankhidwe ndi mutu kapena uthenga wawo, ndipo amaphatikizapo anthu amene nthawi zina saoneka m’filimuyo.

Ndipo ife amene timaonera filimu iliyonse tikhoza kusankha: Kodi tigawane munthu aliyense molingana ndi kachidutswa komwe kakuchokeramo? Kapena tidzatha kumvetsera momasuka, kuyesera kumuwona ndi malingaliro ake ndi zosowa zake, ndi zomverera zomwe iye ayenera kukhala nazo mu moyo wake kuti aziyankhula monga choncho, ndi umunthu wake ndi chinsinsi chake?

Ndikukupemphani kuti muwonere makanema ndikupeza zambiri za umunthu wathu womwe timagawana nawo, ndi za munthu aliyense makamaka.

Xavier

Sabata yatha ya 12 ndi 13 September 2015 Ndakhala ndi mwayi ndi chisangalalo kuyanjananso ndi Bridget Belgrave. Monga ndanena kale mu positi iyi, ndinakumana Bridget Belgrave Kale Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), mu 2009 ndipo kuyambira nthawi imeneyo tinayamba kugwira ntchito monga gulu kumasulira NVC Dance apansi ku Spanish. Matembenuzidwe athunthu pomalizira pake anawona kuwala kwa tsiku 2014, ndi mavidiyo ena owonetsera omwe angawoneke cholowa ichi ndapanga kuti amasulidwe. The Association for Nonviolent Communication wakonza magawo ophunzitsira angapo ku Madrid, Bilbao ndi Barcelona mu Seputembala 2015, ndipo kwa ine zakhala zokhutiritsa kugwiranso ntchito monga gulu ndi Bridget Belgrave kuthandiza ndi kumasulira kuchokera ku Chingerezi kupita ku Spanish ndi mosemphanitsa..

Pokonzekera msonkhanowu ndakhala ndikuwunika zonse zomwe ndili nazo kuchokera ku NVC Dance apansi ndi cha Bridget makamaka. Ndi kuyamikira zipangizo zonse, aliyense ndi chuma chake, pali imodzi yomwe ndimakondabe. Pamenepo, Bridget anandipempha kuti ndifotokoze masomphenya anga panthawi ina mu msonkhano, ndipo zandichitikira kuti ndiwonjezere malingaliro anga mu blog iyi.

Zomwe zikufunsidwazi zili m'Chingerezi chokha ndipo zilibe mawu am'munsi kapena zomasulira zomwe zilipo, koma ndikhulupirira kuti izi sizikufooketsa inu kusayandikira kwa iye. “Gwirizanani ndi Ulemu” (“Gwirizanani ndi ulemu”, kumasuliridwa kwenikweni m’Chisipanishi) ndi ma multimedia omwe amalemba ntchito yomwe Bridget Belgrave adachita 2004 con 21 achinyamata ndi achinyamata omwe ali ndi zaka zapakati pa khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ntchitoyi idapangidwa ngati njira yophunzitsira anyamata ndi atsikana omwe ali ndi mavuto azachuma Yofatsa Kulankhulana, mkati mwa dongosolo la msonkhano wokhudza kukhazikitsidwa kwa kayimbidwe ka mizinda, kwa masabata khumi.

chifukwa chiyani ndikupangira? Nachi chidule cha zifukwa zanga:

• DVD ndi kanema, wa 25 mphindi yaitali. Sungani mphindi zofunika za polojekitiyi, zolembedwa ndi alangizi atatuwo komanso ndi achinyamata omwe, ndi kukonzedwa mogwirizana ndi iwo. Pamenepo, monga zanenedwa m’ndime ina, kuyang'ana magawo am'mbuyomu kunathandiza aliyense kuzindikira bwino zomwe amaphunzira komanso makhalidwe omwe anali ogwirizana ndi zosowa za aliyense. Ndi chikalata chojambula chomwe chimakulolani kuti muyike nkhope (ndi mawu) ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana, ndikukulolani kuti muganizire momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pazinthu zina.

• Vidiyoyi ikugwirizana ndi mbali yachiwiri ya bukuli, “Wotsogolera Mafilimu” (“Mtsogoleli wowonera kanema”), momwe zonse zomwe zimachitika zimakambidwa motsatizana: chilichonse, mmene kulankhulana kopanda chiwawa kumaphunzitsidwa, nthawi zoyeserera, mikangano yeniyeni yomwe imabwera… Mwanjira imeneyi, cholinga cha ntchito iliyonse ndi zovuta zomwe zinabuka ndi momwe anachitira zimamveka bwino..

• Ndipo gawo lachitatu la bukhuli likusonkhanitsa Pulogalamu yonse, masabata khumi ndi machitidwe ake onse mwatsatanetsatane ndi zipangizo zonse masanjidwe kuwonjezera (m'Chingerezi), kuphatikiza pakuphatikiza CD-ROM yokhala ndi fayilo yazinthu zilizonse mu PDF yokonzeka kusindikizidwa. Mwachiwonekere kanemayo samaphatikizapo zochitika zonse, kotero ndizothandiza kwambiri kuwona momwe ntchito ikupitira patsogolo pochita, ndi kuthekera kobwerezanso.

• Choonadi chokhala ndi kumasulira kwa zomwe Malo ovina yokha ku castellano, ndi mutu wa “ulemu kwa ine, ulemu kwa inu”, mkati mwa phukusi lathunthu la Dance Floors.
• Ndipo the chenjezo a Bridget Belgrave kuti asayese pulojekiti yamtunduwu popanda, kumbali imodzi, maphunziro olimba komanso chidziwitso cha Nonviolent Communication., ndipo kumbali ina gulu la maphunziro lomwe lili ndi maziko ena a NVC komanso odziwa kugwira ntchito ndi achinyamata. Ndachitapo zina mwazochita zolimbitsa thupi ndi achinyamata komanso achinyamata omwe ali pachiwopsezo ku Madrid ndipo zidakhala bwino., ndiye ndikupezeka.

Powombetsa mkota, zinthu zofunika kuziwona, wapamwamba, werenganinso ndikuyika muzochita. Ndipo mungagule chiyani sitolo Intaneti, moyo Resources.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kumveketsa bwino, Mutha kundiyimbira foni nambala yanga ndipo titha kukambirana chilichonse chomwe mungafune..

Ndikukhulupirira kuti posachedwa titha kukhala ndi ma projekiti ambiri amtunduwu pano!!

Xavier

Mikangano yambiri itha kuthetsedwa m’njira yokhutiritsa ndi yopindulitsa kwa mbali zonse., Kupereka zofunikira ndi nthawi zimaperekedwa. Izi ndizochitika zanga komanso zaukadaulo zomwe ndaphunzira zaka zambiri, kuchita ndi kufalitsa Yofatsa Kulankhulana. ndizofunika kwambiri (osati zophweka) ndi kuti zofunikira zikukwaniritsidwa kuti chigamulochi chichitike. Kwa ine pali zinthu zingapo zofunika, zomwe tingazifotokoze mwachidule zotsatirazi:

• Njira yokwanira, zomwe zimalola onse omwe akukhudzidwa kuti azikhala otetezeka komanso olemekezedwa paufulu wawo.
• Akatswiri omwe ali ndi maphunziro odziwa kuyimira pakati komanso kumvetsera mozama komanso “kumasulira” za mauthenga kuti zikhale zosavuta kuti munthu aliyense amve.
• Dera lomwe limathandizira njira zobwezeretsa, kugawa nthawi, mipata, anthu ogwira ntchito, maphunziro…
• Anthu okonzeka kuthetsa mikangano m'njira yoti pamapeto pake onse azimva kuti akumva komanso kuti mbali zonse zikhutitsidwe ndi yankho.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndizosangalatsa kwa ine kugawana nawo zothandizira zomwe gulu lalikulu la anthu a m'dera la Son Gotleu ku Palma de Mallorca adachita. (Mallorca), popeza amasonkhanitsa momwe chilichonse mwazinthuzi chagwirira ntchito.

Muvidiyoyi mukuwona momwe adathandizira, ndi revitalization ya Institute for Coexistence and School Success (ndi Institute for Coexistence and School Success in Spanish) ya Boma la Zilumba za Balearic, kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi a malo ophunzirira a Early Childhood Education, Pulayimale ndi Sekondale, ophunzira amisinkhu yonse, mabanja, komanso Social Services, apolisi, yunivesite ndi magulu ena odziwika bwino. Mu mosaic wa mawu, timapeza lingaliro lazomwe zidachitika pakukhazikitsidwa kwa ukonde wachitetezo pamalo omwe ali pachiwopsezo, ndikuwona zina mwazotsatira.

Kuti muwone mwadongosolo, pali chofalitsidwa chimene chimasonkhanitsa mbali zofunika kwambiri. Adasinthidwa mu Catalan, Chisipanishi ndi Chingerezi mkati mwa projekiti yaku Europe yokhala ndi mutuwu, ndi Upangiri Timakulitsa kukhalirana ndi Makhalidwe Obwezeretsa / Kalozera Timathandizira kukhazikika ndi machitidwe obwezeretsa imapanga mbali zongopeka za Restorative Practices, amafunikira deta yochulukirapo ndipo amapereka zitsanzo zenizeni ndi malingaliro owerengera kuti awonjezere zambiri.

Ndipo kukulitsa Mabwalo Obwezeretsa, mchitidwe kuthetsa mikangano ndi chikhalidwe dimension anachokera Yofatsa Kulankhulana, mukhoza kuwerenga monograph chidwi Chilungamo ndi Zochita Zobwezeretsa. Mabwalo Obwezeretsa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo m'magawo osiyanasiyana, yolembedwa ndi Vicenç Rulan, mphunzitsi amene ndili wokondwa kumudziwa, zomwe zikuwoneka mu kanema ndi mu Bukhuli, ndi kuti iye ndi membala wa Association of Justice and Restorative Practices of the Balearics (ndi tsamba castellano ndi mu chikatalani, ndi zinthu zina zambiri). chiyambi chabwino, kuti tipitirize kuyang'ana mu chitsanzo ichi. Komanso mukhoza kuonera mavidiyo (m'Chingerezi) patsamba lovomerezeka la mlengi wa Restorative Circles, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Inu amene mwandiphunzitsako kulankhulana ndi anthu ena mwawona kuti nthawi zambiri ndimatchula mutu uwu wa Makhalidwe Obwezeretsa.. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zinthuzi zikuwonetsa bwino zomwe mwamva kuchokera kwa ine ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti ziyambitsa luso lanu komanso malingaliro anu kuti mupitilize kupeza njira zozama komanso zozama zothetsera mikangano m'malo ophunzirira., ndi kudera lina lililonse.

Xavier

Fotokozerani kwa aliyense zomwe psychotherapy, ndipo makamaka zomwe ndimamva ngati psychotherapy, nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta. Ndipo pamene ife tiwonjezera pa izi zomwe ife tikufuna kuzifotokoza izo kwa ana, atsikana kapena achinyamata, zikuwoneka kuti ndizovuta kwambiri. ndi pa, psychotherapy ndi chinthu chachilengedwe: kubweza ndalama zomwe zidatayika (ndipo potero tenganso zingwe za moyo wako).

Monga anthu, timakonzekera kuti tikule bwino. Chinthu chachibadwa chikanakhala kuti tonsefe tidutse mu magawo osiyanasiyana a ubwana, za unyamata ndi ukalamba sitepe ndi sitepe. Zingakhale zachibadwa, ndiye, Kumbali imodzi, phatikizani zinthu zopatsa thanzi pamlingo wamalingaliro (corporal, maganizo, wanzeru, mwadongosolo, maganizo…) ndipo kumbali ina kugonjetsa zowawa ngakhale zovulaza ndi kuphunzira kwatsopano (za mtundu “Makhalidwe angawa sandithandizanso” ndi “Sindikufuna kuchita ndi munthu amene sandilemekezanso”). Komabe, nthawi zina zinthu zimalakwika (pang'ono kapena zambiri), ndipo ndikofunikira kuchitapo kanthu kuti mupite patsogolo ndi thanzi. Psychotherapy ndi njira yabwino yophatikizira ndikuchiritsa zomwe zidakhalapo, kubwezeretsa chinyengo cha moyo wathu.

Kanemayo “Garra anatseka (Doctor Fish)”, anapangidwa ndi gulu la makanema ojambula pamanja ophunzira ku Sheridan College pansi pa dzina la Frozen Mammoth Productions, mwa ena Timothy Chan ndi Eunice Hwang, ndipo ikhoza kukhala poyambira poyambira kusinkhasinkha.

Kanemayu akuwoneka kwa ine kukhala chitsanzo chabwino chofotokozera mfundo zingapo zofunika zomwe ndimakonda kumveketsa bwino kwa ana ndi achinyamata., komanso kwa akuluakulu omwe akuganiza zochita a psychotherapy:

1) Ntchito ya ife omwe timachita ngati othandizira imakhala ndi achire athanzi ndi amoyo Zomwe zili mkati mwa omwe tili nawo pokambirana. Tonsefe tili ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali chifukwa chokhalapo, ngakhale nthawi zina zoopsa kwambiri zachitika, zakunja kapena zamkati.

2) Kuti tibwezeretse zomwe zili zathanzi komanso zamoyo, tatero osiyanasiyana media, oyenera kwa omwe tili nawo patsogolo (ndi pa msinkhu wake, zomwe amakonda, kalembedwe kake, chimene wakhala moyo…). timamvetsera nthawi zonse, nthawi zambiri timafunsa, ndipo nthawi zina timafuna zochita (kujambula, kapena kuchita zinthu zinazake, kapena yesani njira zosiyanasiyana). Cholinga chathu ndi kubwezera kwa munthuyo zomwe zili zathanzi komanso zamoyo, koma zoyera komanso zamphamvu kuti mutha kupitiriza ndi moyo wanu.

3) Ife tikudziwa zimenezo ndondomekoyi imatenga nthawi. Ngati titenga masabata, miyezi, zaka, kukhala ndi chinthu chowawa, tidzafunikanso nthawi yodzipatulira kuti tichiritse. Ndizowona kuti pangakhale zopezedwa zomwe zingasinthiretu zochitika zathu m'kamphindi, monga zikuwonekera muvidiyoyi, koma zimangochitika pamene takhala tikufufuza zamkati mwathu mokwanira. Ndipo zimatengeranso nthawi kuti izi zikhazikike padziko lonse lapansi m'miyoyo yathu..

4) Ndipo ife tikudziwa zimenezo ndondomekoyi imafuna khama. Zili ngati kuyeretsa chilonda chimene chadwala, zingabweretse ululu kwakanthawi, koma kusinthako kumawonekera pakapita nthawi. Khama limakhudza anthu omwe ali pafupi ndi munthu amene amabwera kudzakambirana. Pankhani ya ana, ndi achinyamata, kupsinjika maganizo kumakhudza banja, ndipo kuchokera ku masomphenya anga a psychotherapy ndimangolowerera ngati pali kudzipereka momveka bwino komanso kolimba pa mbali ya banja. (makamaka olera oyamba).

5) monga zimachitika muvidiyoyi, monga asing'anga timadziwa zochitika bwino chifukwa takhala ndi psychotherapy yathu ndi zovuta zathu. Zoonadi tili ndi maphunziro apadera, yotakata ndi yakuya, koma sitidziona ngati anthu apadera. Ndife anthu chabe amene ayang’ana zowawa zathu ndipo taphunzira kuyang’ana zowawa za anthu ena m’njira yomangirira ndi malingaliro atsopano..

Ndikukhulupirira kuti vidiyoyi ikuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro omveka bwino pankhaniyi psychotherapy, makamaka mukafuna kuwafotokozera ana anu, ndi achinyamata.

Xavier

Kuchokera pazolowera izi ndikufuna kukondwerera Mphotho ya Mtendere wa Nobel 2014 yaperekedwa kwa anthu awiri omwe amateteza ufulu wa ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ochokera ku Non-Violence.

Zakhala zosangalatsa kwa ine kudziwa kuti Kailash Satyarthi adzalandira, munthu wa ku India yemwe amateteza ufulu wa ana, makamaka amene amagwira ntchito, y Malala Yousafzai, wachinyamata wa ku Pakistan yemwe wakhala akumenyera ufulu wa maphunziro kwa ana makamaka atsikana. Kuyambira blog ya Spiral Consulting for Children Tapanga cholowa chachindunji pomwe timapereka zambiri zazinthu zomwe zimatisangalatsa kumeneko: ntchito kwa ana kuchokera nawo. Ndikukupemphani kuti muwerenge polowera, komwe timapereka zambiri ndipo mutha kuwawona onse pavidiyo.

Kuchokera pabulogu iyi, ndikufuna kukambirana momwe onse awiri amachitira ndi Zopanda Chiwawa. Ndipo amazichita bwanji chifukwa cha chifundo, komanso ndi mphamvu yaikulu. Salankhula chifukwa cha kufooka kapena mantha. Gandhi adanena kale “Pakati pa ziwawa ndi mantha, Ndimakonda zachiwawa”, ndipo kenako adawonetsa kuti panali njira yamphamvu kwambiri kuposa zonse ziwiri, kusachita zachiwawa. Ndikuwona izi ku Kailash komanso ku Malala.

Kailash Satyarthi, amene ndinali ndi mwayi wokumana naye zaka zingapo zapitazo pamsonkhano wokhudza ufulu wa ana, ali ndi ubale wapamtima, ndi chidwi chachikulu ndi zomwe akatswiri ena amachita. Amadziona kuti ndi wolowa m'malo mwa Gandhi's Non-Violence., ndipo wakhala wogwirizira zochitika zingapo mdziko lake komanso padziko lonse lapansi, chifukwa cha luso lake lomvetsera komanso kuphatikiza magulu onse okhudzidwa. Ndipo zimenezo sizinachotse mphamvu zake zopulumutsa antchito a ana ku mikhalidwe yowadyera masuku pamutu., kudalira apolisi aku India ndikuyika pachiwopsezo kukhulupirika kwake (wavulala mobwerezabwereza ndi imfa ya anzake opulumutsa).

Malala Yousafzai adadziwika chifukwa choyambitsa blog kuteteza ufulu wamaphunziro, makamaka ku maphunziro a atsikana onga iye, m'dera la Pakistan lolamulidwa ndi a Taliban. Zotsatira zake, a Taliban anayesa kumupha., koma mwamwayi idapulumuka ndipo ikupitiliza kupanga, koma ku UK kale. Malala akupitiriza kuyankhula, monga akunena, “za maphunziro a anyamata ndi atsikana onse, kuphatikizapo ana aamuna ndi aakazi a Taliban”. Ndipo ndemanga pa kanema mmene panthawiyo, pamene anaopsezedwa kuti adzaphedwa, ndinaganiza zoyankha, ndi momwe adasankhira kuti sakufuna kutenga mzere waukali chifukwa ndiye adzakhala ngati yemwe adamuukira..

Chotero kuzindikirika kwa anthu aŵiri ndi njira ziwiri zosiyana zokhalira kwandidzaza ndi chikhutiro. (mwamunayo, Iye mkazi; iye wamkulu, iye wachinyamata; Mmwenye, iye pakistani; iye hindu, iye Muslim), zomwe, komabe, zimachokera pakuyang'ana kwachifundo ndi mwamphamvu pazochitika zenizeni zaumunthu, ndipo zomwe zimabweretsa kudzipereka ndi zotsatira zenizeni, Pang'onopang'ono. Ndipotu asonyeza kale chidwi chogwira ntchito limodzi., ngakhale kuti sanali kudziwika kale.

Ndikusiya cholowa ichi ngati chikondwerero, komanso monga kudzoza. Zowona kuchokera kwa anthu omwe ndife titha kupeza njira yopita ku Kulumikizana Kowona Kwambiri, ndi kutengapo njira zothetsera mavuto enieni komanso enieni.

Ndikukupemphani kuti mufufuze zambiri za Kailash ndi Malala, ndi kuti mumasangalala ndi chilimbikitso chimene angatipatse.

Xavier

Zindikirani: Ndizosangalatsa kudziwa kuti pali mzere wa ntchito mkati Kuyang'ana kwa anthu ammudzi ku Afghanistan ndi Pakistan, m'madera omwe alangidwa kwambiri ndi a Taliban, kubwezeretsa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi kugwirizana kudzera mu miyambo ya Sufi, ndi gawo lowonjezera loperekedwa ndi Focusing. Ndikuganiza kuti Malala sakudziwa ntchito imeneyi, koma pali kudzoza kwina.

CNV dancefloors kale anaonekera mu Baibulo mu Chikasitilia, imene Ndagwira ntchito, komanso zilipo Spanish ndi mawu mavidiyo.

Bridget Belgrave ndi Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), Kwa zaka analenga chida chachikulu kuphunzitsa ndi kuchita Nonviolent Communication (CNV). Monga iwowo mu kugonjera, ndi NVC Dance apansi (NVC Dance apansi) Iwo anatuluka kupyola mu mndandanda wa njira kuti atsogolere mwambo wa Nonviolent Communication ndi mapu okhudza malo kuti amakulolani kugwiritsa ntchito gawo thupi kugwira ntchito gawo maganizo, njira mukuona kanema:

m'chilimwe 2009 Ine tasangalala formarme ndi Gina ndi kukumana Bridget, kuyambira pamenepo ntchito yomasulira ndi anatengera anali anabwerera Chikasitilia, Poyesayesa imene tathandiza anthu ambiri ndipo ine kaamba kanthawi. Choncho timasangalala kufalitsa Chida chophweka ndipo komabe kwambiri, potsiriza mu Spanish, imene ife kusamalira kuphatikizapo yaikulu zotheka angapo Spanish Baibulo.

zimene ndinaona kuti NVC Dance apansi anthu akhoza kuchita chabe kudziwa ochepa koyamba Communication Nonviolent (Ndipotu I ntchito zina zokambirana ndi malonje). Ngakhale anthu amene sadziwa njira yokha Nonviolent Communication (ana, ndi achinyamata, makasitomala mankhwala) Mosavuta kuwoloka mothandizidwa ndi winawake amene amadziwa zambiri.

Dancefloors CNV kuphatikiza ndi zithunzi, ogwirika ndi zinenero, choncho zomwe kumachitika mwa njira ndi zinachitikira chozama. Ndipo pali naini “zovina” chosiyana, ndi mayina monga “Masewero 13 masitepe”, “Dance Kusakanikirana ndi mgwirizano”, “Dance la Mkwiyo / Ukali, Manyazi ndi Depression”, “Gule wa Inde ndi No”, ndi “Kusintha ululu wa zofuna unmet mu Kukongola Zosowa”.

Kuphatikiza Apo, mu 2013 iwo anamasulidwa makanema kuti afotokoze atatu ya madansi ameneŵa, mu kope mosamala monga omasulira Chisipanishi.

Ngati mukufuna kugula dancefloor CNV mu akamagwiritsa osiyana (monga Koperani, pepala, plasticized Baibulo…) ndi ma DVD kuphunzira nawo kunyumba kapena kuchita gulu, mukhoza kukaona sitolo Intaneti, moyo Resources.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kundidalira kuyesa dancefloor mu gawo limodzi kapena zokambirana zenizeni, Ine ndidzakhala osangalala kuti apite.

Ndikuyembekeza inu mukufuna.

Xavier

Chiyambi cha chaka ndi nthawi ya zolinga zabwino, za projekiti zatsopano ndi zongopeka zatsopano. Zoyambira zonsezi zidzafuna masitepe, mwina masitepe ang'onoang'ono kwambiri poyamba. Kanemayu akuwonetsa lingaliro losintha dziko lapansi ndi manja.

Pali nthawi zosuntha zazikulu, kwa kusintha kwakukulu, kwa zilonda zazikulu.

Ndipo palinso nthawi zosintha pang'ono, zosintha mwatsatanetsatane, za “chitani zomwezo koma mwanjira ina”.

Nkhani ya kanemayu ndikuti bungwe la Czech Crossroads Olomouc ikonzanso zotsatsa zingapo Liberty Mutual, kampani ya inshuwaransi yomwe yakhala ikuchita zotsatsa zotsatsira kwazaka zambiri kuti ilimbikitse udindo wa nzika. Mukusintha uku timatenga zing'onozing'ono zomwe titha kuchita tsiku lililonse kuti dziko lapansi likhale labwinoko, mosasamala kanthu za malo amalingaliro kapena amtundu uliwonse. Ndipo podziwa kuti sitingalandire kuchokera kwa anthu omwe timawathandiza (ngakhale kuyanjana ndikofunikira pa ubale wofunikira), monga muvidiyo, koma zochita zathu zimatha kulimbikitsa anthu ena, ndipo sitingathe kudziwa zipatso zake.

Ine ndikukhumba inu ndi wokondwa 2014, ndi chidziwitso komanso zopereka zazikulu kudziko lapansi.

Xavier

Alex Rovira, mlangizi wamabizinesi, wophunzitsa komanso wolemba zolemba ndi ma novel, ali ndi masomphenya abwino aumunthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri ndi omwe tili nawo kuchokera ku Nonviolent Communication and Focusing.

Muvidiyo yayifupi iyi akupereka makiyi ofunikira ogwirira ntchito ndi anthu, zonse kuchokera ku kasamalidwe ka bizinesi komanso kwa ife omwe timalowerera kwambiri payekha komanso pagulu. mawu ofunikira “chuma cha caress” amasonkhanitsa chimodzi mwazinthu zofunikira zomwe ndimayesetsa kufalitsa kuchokera kumaphunziro anga ndi ntchito zotsagana nazo: anthu amafuna kuwonedwa, kuzindikirika, ndipo ngati sitipeza zabwinozo timazifunafuna kudzera mu mafoni odzutsa osasangalatsa. Chofunikira ndikuzindikira izi ndikuphunzira kuwerenga pakati pa mizere.. Izi zimandithandiza pa ntchito yanga ndi achinyamata ndi mabanja awo., ndipo ndicho chida chachikulu chomangira milatho pakati pa anthu.

Ndikukulimbikitsani kuti muwonere kanemayo (mobwerezabwereza, ngakhale, kuti agwire zobisika) ndi kulingalira momwe tingakhazikitsire chuma cha caress m'miyoyo yathu yachinsinsi, komanso mu professional.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda.

Xavier