Mikangano yambiri itha kuthetsedwa m’njira yokhutiritsa ndi yopindulitsa kwa mbali zonse., Kupereka zofunikira ndi nthawi zimaperekedwa. Izi ndizochitika zanga komanso zaukadaulo zomwe ndaphunzira zaka zambiri, kuchita ndi kufalitsa Yofatsa Kulankhulana. ndizofunika kwambiri (osati zophweka) ndi kuti zofunikira zikukwaniritsidwa kuti chigamulochi chichitike. Kwa ine pali zinthu zingapo zofunika, zomwe tingazifotokoze mwachidule zotsatirazi:

• Njira yokwanira, zomwe zimalola onse omwe akukhudzidwa kuti azikhala otetezeka komanso olemekezedwa paufulu wawo.
• Akatswiri omwe ali ndi maphunziro odziwa kuyimira pakati komanso kumvetsera mozama komanso “kumasulira” za mauthenga kuti zikhale zosavuta kuti munthu aliyense amve.
• Dera lomwe limathandizira njira zobwezeretsa, kugawa nthawi, mipata, anthu ogwira ntchito, maphunziro…
• Anthu okonzeka kuthetsa mikangano m'njira yoti pamapeto pake onse azimva kuti akumva komanso kuti mbali zonse zikhutitsidwe ndi yankho.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake ndizosangalatsa kwa ine kugawana nawo zothandizira zomwe gulu lalikulu la anthu a m'dera la Son Gotleu ku Palma de Mallorca adachita. (Mallorca), popeza amasonkhanitsa momwe chilichonse mwazinthuzi chagwirira ntchito.

Muvidiyoyi mukuwona momwe adathandizira, ndi revitalization ya Institute for Coexistence and School Success (ndi Institute for Coexistence and School Success in Spanish) ya Boma la Zilumba za Balearic, kuchokera kwa aphunzitsi a malo ophunzirira a Early Childhood Education, Pulayimale ndi Sekondale, ophunzira amisinkhu yonse, mabanja, komanso Social Services, apolisi, yunivesite ndi magulu ena odziwika bwino. Mu mosaic wa mawu, timapeza lingaliro lazomwe zidachitika pakukhazikitsidwa kwa ukonde wachitetezo pamalo omwe ali pachiwopsezo, ndikuwona zina mwazotsatira.

Kuti muwone mwadongosolo, pali chofalitsidwa chimene chimasonkhanitsa mbali zofunika kwambiri. Adasinthidwa mu Catalan, Chisipanishi ndi Chingerezi mkati mwa projekiti yaku Europe yokhala ndi mutuwu, ndi Upangiri Timakulitsa kukhalirana ndi Makhalidwe Obwezeretsa / Kalozera Timathandizira kukhazikika ndi machitidwe obwezeretsa imapanga mbali zongopeka za Restorative Practices, amafunikira deta yochulukirapo ndipo amapereka zitsanzo zenizeni ndi malingaliro owerengera kuti awonjezere zambiri.

Ndipo kukulitsa Mabwalo Obwezeretsa, mchitidwe kuthetsa mikangano ndi chikhalidwe dimension anachokera Yofatsa Kulankhulana, mukhoza kuwerenga monograph chidwi Chilungamo ndi Zochita Zobwezeretsa. Mabwalo Obwezeretsa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwawo m'magawo osiyanasiyana, yolembedwa ndi Vicenç Rulan, mphunzitsi amene ndili wokondwa kumudziwa, zomwe zikuwoneka mu kanema ndi mu Bukhuli, ndi kuti iye ndi membala wa Association of Justice and Restorative Practices of the Balearics (ndi tsamba castellano ndi mu chikatalani, ndi zinthu zina zambiri). chiyambi chabwino, kuti tipitirize kuyang'ana mu chitsanzo ichi. Komanso mukhoza kuonera mavidiyo (m'Chingerezi) patsamba lovomerezeka la mlengi wa Restorative Circles, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Inu amene mwandiphunzitsako kulankhulana ndi anthu ena mwawona kuti nthawi zambiri ndimatchula mutu uwu wa Makhalidwe Obwezeretsa.. Ndikukhulupirira kuti zinthuzi zikuwonetsa bwino zomwe mwamva kuchokera kwa ine ndipo ndikhulupilira kuti ziyambitsa luso lanu komanso malingaliro anu kuti mupitilize kupeza njira zozama komanso zozama zothetsera mikangano m'malo ophunzirira., ndi kudera lina lililonse.

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Marshall B. Rosenberg, chithunzi chochokera ku Center for Nonviolent Communication.

Marshall B. Rosenberg, mlengi wa Yofatsa Kulankhulana, wapita kale 7 February 2015, monga ndinanena mu positi iyi.

Gulu lonse la akatswiri a Nonviolent Communication practitioners lisunthidwa ndipo nthawi yomweyo amalemekezedwa kuti apitilize ntchito yomwe idaperekedwa., pangani mtundu wa ubale ndi malingaliro omwe amasintha miyoyo ya anthu onse, Popanda kuchotserapo.

Pulogalamu ya Center for Nonviolent Communication (International Center for Nonviolent Communication) wapanga a Kukumbukira kwa Marshall Rosenberg ndi ntchito yanu yotsatira domingo 29 March 2015. Kuti athandizire kutenga nawo gawo kwa mayiko, iziulutsidwa pa intaneti. mu link iyi.

Chidwi: msonkho udzaperekedwa kwa iwo 16:00 nthawi yakomweko, adzakhala chiyani ndi 00:00 a 30 March 2015 (usiku kuyambira Lamlungu mpaka Lolemba) Spanish peninsular nthawi, ndi 23:00 Lamlungu 29 March 2015 Nthawi ya Canary Islands.

Ndikukupemphani kuti mutenge nawo mbali patali kukumbukira Marshall ndi moyo wake.

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[kulowa koyamba kwa 25 March 2015, kusinthidwa ku 30 March 2015, tsiku lomaliza la chochitika ku Spain.]

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Pamapeto pake anthu ambiri atha kutsatira patali msonkho wa kukumbukira Marshall Rosenberg. Oyang'anira mwa mwambo wawo, Anthu ofunikira m'moyo wanu alankhula, omwe adagawana nawo zomwe adakumana nazo pa Marshall. Ndapeza mawu okhudza mtima kwambiri a ana ake aamuna Rick ndi Brett, Ndinkakonda kudziwa zambiri za moyo wake mu mbiri yoyambirira yomwe adawerenga rabbi yemwe adatsogolera, ndipo ndidakonda kudziwa zokumana nazo za ophunzitsa osiyanasiyana omwe adakhalapo ndi maudindo mu Center for Nonviolent Communication (International Center for Nonviolent Communication), kuphatikizapo Robert Gonzales (pulezidenti wakale, komanso amene ndimamudziwa ngati mphunzitsi) ndi Dominic Barter (Purezidenti wapano komanso mlengi wa Restorative Circles. Ngakhale madzulo a usiku kuno ku Madrid, Zomwe zandichitikirazi zandilemeretsa kwambiri ndipo yakhala njira yolemekeza kukumbukira kwa Marshall ndi anthu omwe amamudziwa mozama..

Ndi chiyamikiro ndi kusilira.

Xavier

Ndili ndi mwayi wopereka msonkhano Kulumikizana Kwachindunji ndi Kusagwirizana mkati mwa Masiku a National Focusing Day 2015 yolembedwa ndi Spanish Focusing Institute, lotseguka kwa mamembala a Institute. Kudzakhala chiwonetsero chazidziwitso zina mwazinthu zomwe ndikupangira m'nkhani yanga “Yonseyi Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Lingalirani zozama zakuya”, lomwe linasindikizidwa mu chiwerengero cha 2014 wa The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy, magazini yovomerezeka yamaphunziro a The Focusing Institute (New York Focusing Institute).

Tsiku: Loweruka, 21 March 2015, wa 12:00 a 14:00.

Malo: Nyumba ya Uzimu wa Mtima Wopatulika
Promenade ya Kasupe wa Wansembe, 13.
Miraflores wa Sierra (Madrid)

Tsitsani pulogalamu yonse ya National Focusing Conference 2015.

Pitani patsamba la Spanish Institute of Focusing komwe mungatsitse zidziwitso zonse.

[kulowa koyamba kwa 6 February 2015, kusinthidwa ku 21 March 2015, tsiku la msonkhano.]

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Zithunzi zina ndi chidule cha Msonkhano mu kulowa kwabulogu Experiential Space yolembedwa ndi Fran J.. Sivians aku Seville. Zikomo kwambiri Fran chifukwa cha zithunzi, kwa mamembala a Board of Directors pokonzekera Msonkhanowu ndi ntchito yawo chaka chonse ndi gulu lonse la omwe akutenga nawo gawo kuti akwaniritse.

Kutengera mwayi kuti masika akuyamba lero, Kulumikiza More Longopeka ali nazo kale Twitter, ConexMasAutent, kumene zolemba zosiyanasiyana zidzawonekera zosindikizidwa, kuwonjezera pa malingaliro ndi zinthu zina zosangalatsa pa Kuganizira, kulankhulana pakati pa anthu potengera Yofatsa Kulankhulana, general chitukuko cha munthu ndi psychotherapy.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti muwapeza kukhala othandiza.

Xavier

Mapewa “Kulankhulana Kopanda Zachiwawa ndi Kuyikira Kwambiri. Mvetserani zosowa ndi thupi lonse” mkati mwa IV Msonkhano wa Ogwiritsa Ntchito Zosagwirizana ndi Zachiwawa yolembedwa ndi Association for Nonviolent Communication.

masiku: cha friday 20 ku Sunday 22 February 2015.

Malo: Hostel ya San Servando
Cuesta de San Servando s/n
Toledo

Kuti muwerenge zambiri, pemphani kumveketsa ndi kulembetsa, kupita ku tsamba lodziwika bwino la zochitika.

Kuwerenga pang'ono za zoyambira zongopeka za msonkhanowu, mutha kuwona nkhani yanga “Yonseyi Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Lingalirani zozama zakuya”, lomwe linasindikizidwa mu chiwerengero cha 2014 wa The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy, magazini yovomerezeka yamaphunziro a The Focusing Institute (New York Focusing Institute).

[kulowa koyamba kwa 30 ya Januware ya 2015, kusinthidwa ku 22 February 2015, tsiku lomaliza la Msonkhano.]

Awa ndi masiku osangalatsa kwambiri pakati pa ife omwe timadziwa ndikuchita Yofatsa Kulankhulana. Marshall B. Rosenberg, mlengi wa yofatsa Kulankhulana, zakale zapita 7 February 2015 pa usinkhu wa 80 zaka (tinakondwerera kubadwa kwake miyezi ingapo yapitayo mu positi iyi), ndipo ife amene timamdziŵa iye ndi ife amene taphunzira chitsanzo chake mwachisawawa tikuchita zimene iye anatiphunzitsa: kukondwerera zochitika zomwe zakwaniritsa zosowa zathu ndikudzilola kuti timve chisoni zochitika zomwe zasiya zosowa zathu.

Ndinasangalala kuphunzira naye pamasiku asanu ndi anayi a International Intensive Training (International Intensive Training, IIT) ku Switzerland mu July ndi August 2008. Chithunzi chomwe ndili nacho ndi Marshall ndi mkazi wake Valentina chikuchokera ku mapangidwe amenewo., ndi chizindikiro chowonjezera cha kukhalapo kwa anyamata awiri osadziwika ndi mtsikana kumbuyo, zomwe zimagwirizana ndi chilimbikitso chimene Marshall anandipatsa m’ntchito yanga ndi ana, ndi achinyamata (werengani zambiri m'malo oyamba).

Masiku ano, momwe ndawerenga mauthenga osiyanasiyana ndi zikumbutso zomwe zachitika m'gulu la Nonviolent Communication, Ndapezanso mwayi wowerenganso zolemba zomwe ndidakumana nazo masiku amenewo ndili naye (komanso pagulu la ophunzitsa ena ndi ena onse otenga nawo mbali). Ndipo pambuyo pake idzakhala nthawi yowerenganso ntchito zake zonse, monga njira yotsitsimula ndi kulemekeza ntchito yawo.

Marshall Rosenberg adagwira ntchito kuti apange dziko laumunthu, kuzindikira mbali za moyo ndi kukula ngakhale muzochita zosamvetsetseka. Mawu ake enieni ndi “Chiwawa ndi chiwonetsero chomvetsa chisoni cha zosowa zosakwanira”, ndi njira yake, kulankhulana kopanda chiwawa, njira yoti athe kumvetsera ndikusinthanso mawu mpaka mayankho apezeka momwe mbali zonse zipambana.

Ndimaona kuti kugogomezera kwa Marshall pankhani ya kusintha kwa anthu kumakhala kopindulitsa kwambiri., sanafune kuti Kulankhulana Kwankhanza kutumikire kuti anthu azikhala odekha ndi moyo wawo. Ntchitoyi imayambira mkati mwa munthu aliyense, koma inu simungakhoze kukhala pamenepo, ndikofunikira kuti ifike kumagulu osiyanasiyana (zachuma, chikhalidwe, ndondomeko, zamaphunziro…) ndi kuwasintha powasintha kukhala anthu. Monga momwe iye mwini anatiuzira ku Switzerland: “Zimene timachita zimafanana ndi zimene munthu amaona khandalo likugwa pa mathithi n’kumupulumutsa., napenya wina, nampulumutsa, napenya wina, nampulumutsa… Panthawi ina zimakhala bwino kuti munthuyo adzifunse kuti ndani akuponya ana ndikukwera mathithi kuti apewe.”.

Kupatula ntchito yake yolembedwa (mabuku oposa khumi ndi awiri, mwa iwo Yofatsa Kulankhulana. chinenero cha moyo) ndi mavidiyo ndi zojambulidwa za ma workshop ake ndi nyimbo zake, Marshall anayambitsa Center for Nonviolent Communication (Center kwa Communication NonViolent), ndi mbiri ya zaka zambiri za ntchito, ndipo izi zakhala zikugwira ntchito popanda iye kwa zaka zingapo zapitazi. Zimasiyanso mazana a ophunzitsidwa ovomerezeka kuti chitsanzo chake chipitirize kufalikira ndi kukhulupirika ndi zikwi makumi a akatswiri omwe amayesa kuwunikira mikangano yathu ya tsiku ndi tsiku.. Ndi chinachake kukondwerera.

Nthawi yomweyo, imfa yake imasiya malo opanda kanthu. Kudziwa kuti wamwalira kunyumba kwake limodzi ndi mkazi wake Valentina ndi ana awo ndi chitonthozo chaching'ono.. Tikudziwa kuti sitidzamuwonanso akuyimira mikangano yatsopano, kuti sitidzamva nyimbo yatsopano, kuti sadzalemba mabuku atsopano. Ndipo izi zisanachitike, zimangotsala kuvomereza ndi chifundo zowawa ndi chisoni chomwe chikuwonekera.

Pokhapokha pophatikiza zochitika zonse tingathe kupita patsogolo mokwanira, kuphatikiza zomwe zidalandiridwa kuchokera kwa Marshall ndikuyang'ana, mphindi ndi mphindi, momwe mungasinthire m'njira yolemeretsa kwa aliyense.

Mu chikondwerero ndi maliro,

Xavier

The Yofatsa Kulankhulana Zimakhala kwambiri chida, ndi zofunika kukhala Mulimonse ndi kudzera n'kotheka njira. Amene adachita zokambirana ndi ine aona profusion chuma ntchito (zithunzi, danga…), mwa zina makalata I-zachinyengo, ndi ntchito pa zaka zingapo.

Ine kunamukomera kwambiri ndi posachedwapa zikamera mwa makalata “ZOPHWEKA Konekta”, ndi gwero zothandiza limodzi ndi njira ya anthu amene amadalira zithunzi, makamaka ana. Mu Zambiri mphaka, yaing'ono kampani ndi kuyesetsa kubweretsa ndi kulenga chiphunzitso zipangizo yophunzitsa mu yofatsa Kulankhulana ku Spain, Anasankha kumasula makalata amenewa kupanga wokha.

Ndalandira makalata “ZOPHWEKA Konekta” ndi kuwakonda mbali zambiri. Mbali inayi, ndi kamangidwe, ndi losavuta zojambula kuti apange makadi kwambiri angakwanitse, pinki maziko kwa maganizo ndi buluu maziko zosowa (kachidindo ndi universalized m'dera la yofatsa Kulankhulana ndi NVC Dance apansi).

Tsidya, mmene wachikondi mawu: maganizo ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi, kuti aliyense amaona zinaphatikizapo ifeyo mosavuta; ndi zosowa amaonetsa mu awiri njira, kotero kuti munthu angathe kufufuza zinthu mawu n'zogwirizana inu zabwino.

Kuphatikiza Apo, kuonjezera chiwerengero cha akufuna kugwiritsa (Game malingaliro), Anasintha kuchokera zina ndi chilolezo, kuphatikizapo wotchuka “Poker CNV”, Ine ndimagwiritsa ntchito mozama zokambirana.

Kuyambira pano wanga Zabwino zonse kwa timu Zambiri mphaka latsopanoli gwero. Ndikuyembekezera wanga wotsatira msonkhano kuyesa kuona chimene iwo amaganiza anthu amene amachita. Panthawiyi mukhoza kufufuza zambiri zokhudza makadi mu tsamba la webu ndipo inu mukhoza kuwagula iwo Intaneti ngati muli ndi chidwi.

Ine ndikudalira kuti ndinu othandiza ndi zovuta kuzamitsa yofatsa Kulankhulana.

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Pomaliza 6 October Marshall Rosenberg, Mlengi wa Yofatsa Kulankhulana, wakwanitsa zaka makumi asanu ndi atatu ndipo ife amene tawonapo ubwino wa ntchito yake tikukondwerera.

Marshall B. Rosenberg anabadwa pa 6 October 1934 ku Guangzhou, Ohio (U.S), ndipo banja lidalowa 1943 ndi Detroit, Michigan, kutatsala pang'ono kuchita zipolowe za mpikisano chaka chimenecho. Marshall akufotokoza momwe zochitika zachiwawa zidamuzindikiritsira. Anakumananso ndi chiwawa kusukulu, podziwika kuti ndi Myuda ndi dzina lake lachibale. monga anenera mwini, anapeza kuti pali anthu amene angasangalale kuwawa. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo, adatha kuwona momwe anthu ena amatha kuyenda mwachifundo m'mikhalidwe yovuta kwambiri (agogo ake, amene panthawi yamavuto adatha kudyetsa anthu mumsewu; kapena amalume ake, amene anatha kudyetsa ndi kuchiritsa agogo okalamba kale).

Pambuyo pake adaphunzira za psychology ndipo adalandira Ph.D. kuchokera kwa Carl Rogers in 1961, woyenereradi kukhala katswiri wazamisala mu 1966. Komabe, njira ya psychology yachipatala sinamukhutiritse, ndi kutsindika kumeneko pa zilembo ndi matenda. Anapitiriza kufufuza ndi kuphunzitsa (amaphunzitsidwanso Focusing, ndipo amavomereza mu maphunziro ake apamwamba), ndipo pamapeto adapanga njira ya Yofatsa Kulankhulana monga tikudziwira panopa.

Kuyambira zaka makumi asanu ndi atatu wakhala akugwira ntchito padziko lonse lapansi poyimira pakati pa mikangano yayikulu komanso kukulitsa luso laling'ono lothetsera mikangano pamoyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku., mikangano ndi anthu ena komanso mikangano yamkati. Anapuma pantchito zaka zingapo zapitazo, atatha kupanga mazana a mapangidwe padziko lapansi ndikukhazikitsa International Center for Nonviolent Communication (Center kwa Communication NonViolent) kufalitsa njira yosinthira iyi. Mutha kuwerenga zambiri za moyo wake komanso komwe adagwirako ntchito Webusaiti ya International Center for Nonviolent Communication (Center kwa Communication NonViolent).

Ndinasangalala kuphunzira naye, ndi mkazi wake Valentina komanso ndi opanga ena mu International Intensive Formation (International Intensive Training) masiku asanu ndi anayi ku Switzerland mu Ogasiti 2008, ndipo ndinatha kulandira chikondi chake ndi momwe adandilimbikitsira kuti ndiyese kupereka kumvetsetsa kwanga kwa Nonviolent Communication kwa ana ndi anthu omwe amakumana nawo.. Zambiri mwa ntchito zanga kuyambira pamenepo zalimbikitsidwa ndi zomwe ndaphunzira kwa iye., zonse kupanga a Kulumikiza More Longopeka m’miyoyo ya anthu onse (kuphatikizapo wanga), monga m’miyoyo ya ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata omwe ndimakumana nawo, ndi anthu ozungulira inu (makamaka kudzera Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, mkati mwa mzere Kulankhulana pakati pa anthu). M'maphunzirowa tinkakamba za Certification, ndipo ngakhale kuti pamapeto pake ndi njira yomwe sindinayitsatire, Ndikumva mbali ya gulu la Nonviolent Communication ndipo ndikupitiriza kugwirizana ndi Association for Nonviolent Communication kuno ku Spain komanso ndi magulu ena a internship ndi maphunziro.

Pa nthawi imeneyo tinajambula chithunzi ichi, kugwirizana kwa tsogolo, Marshall amatifotokozera, Valentina ndi ine tili ndi anyamata awiri osadziwika bwino ndi mtsikana, monga kuyimira mwapadera ntchito ndi ana yomwe ndimachita ndi kudzoza kwa Marshall ndi Nonviolent Communication.

Kuchokera pano nditumiza zikomo zanga ndi msonkho wanga. ¡Gracias pa, Marshall!

Ndi chiyamiko chakuya ndimatumiza ulemu wanga wokondwerera. Zikomo, Marshall!

Xavier

CNV dancefloors kale anaonekera mu Baibulo mu Chikasitilia, imene Ndagwira ntchito, komanso zilipo Spanish ndi mawu mavidiyo.

Bridget Belgrave ndi Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), Kwa zaka analenga chida chachikulu kuphunzitsa ndi kuchita Nonviolent Communication (CNV). Monga iwowo mu kugonjera, ndi NVC Dance apansi (NVC Dance apansi) Iwo anatuluka kupyola mu mndandanda wa njira kuti atsogolere mwambo wa Nonviolent Communication ndi mapu okhudza malo kuti amakulolani kugwiritsa ntchito gawo thupi kugwira ntchito gawo maganizo, njira mukuona kanema:

m'chilimwe 2009 Ine tasangalala formarme ndi Gina ndi kukumana Bridget, kuyambira pamenepo ntchito yomasulira ndi anatengera anali anabwerera Chikasitilia, Poyesayesa imene tathandiza anthu ambiri ndipo ine kaamba kanthawi. Choncho timasangalala kufalitsa Chida chophweka ndipo komabe kwambiri, potsiriza mu Spanish, imene ife kusamalira kuphatikizapo yaikulu zotheka angapo Spanish Baibulo.

zimene ndinaona kuti NVC Dance apansi anthu akhoza kuchita chabe kudziwa ochepa koyamba Communication Nonviolent (Ndipotu I ntchito zina zokambirana ndi malonje). Ngakhale anthu amene sadziwa njira yokha Nonviolent Communication (ana, ndi achinyamata, makasitomala mankhwala) Mosavuta kuwoloka mothandizidwa ndi winawake amene amadziwa zambiri.

Dancefloors CNV kuphatikiza ndi zithunzi, ogwirika ndi zinenero, choncho zomwe kumachitika mwa njira ndi zinachitikira chozama. Ndipo pali naini “zovina” chosiyana, ndi mayina monga “Masewero 13 masitepe”, “Dance Kusakanikirana ndi mgwirizano”, “Dance la Mkwiyo / Ukali, Manyazi ndi Depression”, “Gule wa Inde ndi No”, ndi “Kusintha ululu wa zofuna unmet mu Kukongola Zosowa”.

Kuphatikiza Apo, mu 2013 iwo anamasulidwa makanema kuti afotokoze atatu ya madansi ameneŵa, mu kope mosamala monga omasulira Chisipanishi.

Ngati mukufuna kugula dancefloor CNV mu akamagwiritsa osiyana (monga Koperani, pepala, plasticized Baibulo…) ndi ma DVD kuphunzira nawo kunyumba kapena kuchita gulu, mukhoza kukaona sitolo Intaneti, moyo Resources.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kundidalira kuyesa dancefloor mu gawo limodzi kapena zokambirana zenizeni, Ine ndidzakhala osangalala kuti apite.

Ndikuyembekeza inu mukufuna.

Xavier

Ndine wokondwa kugawana nawo nkhaniyi The Focusing Institute yasindikizidwa mu The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy, magazini yake yamaphunziro, mu volume yake 25 za 2014. Pepala langa “Kuwoloka Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Kulingalira zozama zakuya“ adawonekera pa chiyambi cha 2014 ndipo yangosindikizidwa pa digito ndi mwayi waulere komanso mtundu wa PDF patsamba lovomerezeka la The Folio.

Koperani nkhaniyi mu Chingerezi, “Kuwoloka Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Kulingalira zozama zakuya”.

Tsitsani mtundu wa Chisipanishi wa nkhaniyi, “Momwe mungaphatikizire Kulumikizana Kwambiri ndi Kusagwirizana. Lingalirani zozama zakuya”.

[Kusintha pa February 9th 2017] Tsitsani mtundu wa Chijapani wa nkhaniyi, “Kuphatikizika kwa Kuyikira Kwambiri ndi Kuyankhulana Kopanda Chiwawa-Kubwerera ku Zozama Zozama”, ndi kuwerenga nkhani ya kumasulira kwake (mu Spanish) by Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) ndi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa). Zikomo kwambiri!

Ndikusiyirani apa mwatsatanetsatane:

ABSTRACT

Onse Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication (NVC) zimachokera ku lingaliro lakuti anthu amapeza chidziwitso ndipo machitidwe awo amkati amapita patsogolo pamene mawu awo ena akuwonekera.. Kusinkhasinkha kumakulitsa kulumikizana kwanu nokha komanso ndi mnzanu. Ndipo kusinkhasinkha kumabweretsa zozama, momwe zinthu zomwe zimaganiziridwa zimakhazikika ndikuzindikirika.

Komabe, Kuyang'ana ndi Nonviolent Communication ikani kupsinjika pakuwonetsa mbali zosiyanasiyana za kulumikizana koyambirira. Kuyang'ana kumatsatira anamva mphamvu m'thupi ngati njira yatsopano yopangira tanthauzo latsopano. Nonviolent Communication amayesa kupeza chilengedwe chonse zosowa zomwe zili pachimake cha zochita za munthu aliyense. Kuyang'ana ndi Nonviolent Communication akhala kuwoloka m'njira zosiyanasiyana (kubwereza kwachidule kwa zodutsa zina zikufufuzidwa mu pepala ili). Kuyang'ana kungathe kulemeretsedwa mwa kuyambitsa chidziwitso chatsopano cha zosowa, makamaka pofunsa. Ndipo Nonviolent Communication zitha kulimbikitsidwa ndi chidwi chatsopano ku mawu oyamba a munthuyo -osati kungoyesa "kumasulira" chilichonse, komanso kuyamikira chinenero chachizolowezi monga mafanizo.

Pamene njira zonsezi zikuphatikizidwa ndipo mnzake / wothandizira akuwonetsa mbali zonse ziwiri za chidziwitso, munthuyo amapeza zotsatira zoyenera pamene zotsatira zakuya zikuwonekera.

Mawu osakira: Kuganizira, Nonviolent Communication (NVC), Chifundo, Lingalirani, Kuwoloka.

Kwa olankhula Chisipanishi, pitani ku positi iyi mu Spanish.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzasangalala nazo ndipo ndimakonda kuwerenga ndemanga zanu,

Xavier