Umbhalo ngeSpanishi – IsiJapane – Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde ngesiNgisi

The I-International Focusing Conference eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi 2016 iqhubeka ithela izithelo.

Namuhla nginelungelo lokwethula ukuhunyushwa kwesihloko sami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile” (kuvele phakathi 2014 e The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy) ku-japanese, ngesihloko esiyela ngasocansini “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Kumithelela Ejulile-“.

Con Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

E-Cambridge ngathola injabulo yokuhlangana noMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), i-psychotherapist enokuqeqeshwa ku-Focusing owayeqale ukuhunyushwa kwesihloko esikhathini esidlule, futhi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Umdidiyeli Wokugxila owaziwayo, ojoyine iphrojekthi yokuhumusha esigabeni sayo sokugcina. Izingxoxo zethu zalowo mhlangano zenze umsebenzi waqhubekela phambili, futhi manje kukhona lokhu kuhumusha ngokucophelela okutholakala kuwebhusayithi ye Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), futhi engikhiqiza lapha ngemvume yakhe.

Kusukela lapha ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​okujulile ngomzamo nokuzinikela kwabo (kube nama-imeyili amaningi emuva naphambili ukuze acacise imiqondo nemigomo) ukuze lesi sici sokuGxila saziwe phakathi kodokotela nochwepheshe abaningi be-Focusing in Japan..

ekubongeni okujulileyo,

Javier

IsiJapane

Ingqungquthela ye-27th International Focusing Conference eCambridge (UK)amazinyo、Ukuletha imiphumela enothile。

manje、I、iphepha"Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Emithelela Ejulile-"("Ijenali Yezemfundo Yokugxila Nokuthola Inqubo Yokwelapha"The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential TherapyUmqulu 25, No. 1、2014Ngihlonishwa ngokuthi (ishicilelwe ngonyaka) yahunyushelwa olimini lwesiJapane.。

UMnu. Kawahara

E-Cambridge、Umeluleki u-En Kawahara oqeqeshelwa i-Focusing、Ngibe nokuhlangana okujabulisayo noNkz. Mako Hikasa, Umdidiyeli Wokugxila Oqinisekisiwe owaziwa kakhulu.。Ngoba、UMnu. Kawahara usevele esebenza kulokhu kuhumusha、Futhi esigabeni sokugcina sephrojekthi、Mako HikasaUjoyinile。Ngemva kwengqungquthela yamazwe ngamazwe、Sihlala sithintana ukuze siqedele ukuhumusha、Futhi manje、Ukuhunyushwa okuqondile kwesi-Japanese kuqediwe。lokhu、Iwebhusayithi yeJapan Focusing AssociationUngafunda ku。Kusuka kunhlangano、Ngithole imvume yokuthumela isixhumanisi。

Nginentshisekelo kwintshisekelo yabo kanye nomdlandla、Ngibonga ngokujulile。Ukucacisa imiqondo nama-nuances、Ukuhwebelana kwama-imeyili njalo。Kubaqeqeshi nabasebenzi abaningi Abagxilile abagunyaziwe e-Japan、Ngoba kuyithuba lokwazi lesi sici se-Focusing.。

Ngokubonga

Javier

Umbhalo wesiNgisi

I-International Focusing Conference 2016 eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ilokhu iletha izithelo ezengeziwe.

Manje nginelungelo lokwethula isihloko sami “Ukugxila Okuwela kanye Nokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame: Ukucabangela Imithelela Ejulile”, okwavela ku The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy phakathi 2014, ihunyushwe ngesiJapane ngesihloko “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Kumithelela Ejulile-“.

With Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

E-Cambridge ngathola injabulo yokuhlangana noMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esiqeqeshwe ku-Focusing owayesevele waqala ukuhumusha esikhathini esithile esidlule, futhi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Umxhumanisi Wokugxila owaziwayo ojoyine iphrojekthi ezigabeni zayo zokugcina. Izingxoxo esibe nazo ngemuva kwalokho ziphothule umsebenzi, futhi manje sinalokhu kuhumusha okunembayo, etholakala kuwebhusayithi ye Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), kukhiqizwa lapha ngemvume.

Ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​okukhulu ngentshisekelo yabo nokuzikhandla kwabo –kube nama-imeyili amaningi ukuze acacise imibono nama-nuances– ukwenza kwenzeke ukuthi lesi sici sokuGxila saziwe phakathi kochwepheshe abaningi Abagxilile kanye nabasebenzi baseJapan.

Ekubongeni,

Javier

Kungukwaneliseka kimi ukwabelana ngokushicilelwa kwe Ukugxilisa e umkhuba emtholampilo. Ingqikithi yoshintsho, incwadi yokugcina ye Ann Weiser Cornell ngeSpanishi, kuleli cala elihunyushwe yimi.

Kuhlelo olucophelelayo ngaphakathi kwe Psychology Library kusuka I-Desclée yokuhlela, le ncwadi ivela ngenxa yomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wabantu abaningi, Ngiyabonga kusuka lapha.

Okokuqala, Ann Weiser Cornell uzimisele ukuba le ncwadi ishicilelwe (eyaqala ukuvela kumshicileli wezempilo yengqondo ohlonishwayo waseMelika W. W. Norton), futhi ubelokhu ekhona ekuhumusheni ku-nuances ngayinye, ngiphendula imibuzo ehlukene futhi ngibheke nami amagama afaneleka kakhulu imiqondo nezinkulumo zawo. Ufake nesandla a isandulela esifudumele sohlelo lweSpanishi (engafundwa ku incwajana yokuphromotha), lapho ithi:

Kule ncwadi ngizamile ukuchaza i-Focusing ngendlela elula kodwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkimbinkimbi eyenza ikhetheke kakhulu.. Ngizamile ukwenza le ncwadi ibe usizo kakhulu, ukuze umtholampilo akwazi ukusisebenzisa ngokushesha. (P. 18)

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umfutho we Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi Wokugxila Kazwelonke kanye nomeluleki wami ku-Focusing, usethe incwadi, kusukela ekusebenzisaneni nomshicileli kuya ekubuyekezweni okuphelele kwemibhalo kanye isethulo kuhlelo lweSpanishi eqokomisa isithakazelo sale ncwadi kubantu abakhuluma iSpanishi (iyatholakala futhi ku incwajana yokuphromotha).

Ekugcineni, intshisekelo nokunakekelwa kwethimba labahleli be Kwehlisiwe, osebenze ukuze azuze incwadi enhle necacile, kwelinye lamaqoqo e-psychology ahlonishwa kakhulu eSpain.

Ezingosini ezizayo ngizobe ngiphawula kwezinye izici zale ncwadi engizithola ziwusizo. Okwamanje ngikushiya nenkomba (elikhuliswayo lapha), Ngizophawula ngezahluko ezihlukene kwezinye izingosi zebhulogi:

• Isingeniso. umnyango ovulekayo.
• 1. Ingqikithi yoshintsho.
• 2. Lungiselela umhlangano: Ungethula kanjani i-Focusing kumaseshini namaklayenti.
• 3. Bona futhi uhlakulele imizwa ezwakalayo.
• 4. Siza amaklayenti aveze izinzwa.
• 5. Hlakulela Ukuzibonakalisa Kwekhasimende: Indawo ebalulekile yezinzwa ezizwakalayo.
• 6. ejula: Indlela yokwenza lula ushintsho oluzwakalayo.
• 7. Lapho kuba nzima kakhulu ngathi ukusebenza nobunzima obuthile bamakhasimende.
• 8. Ukugxila nokuhlukumezeka, imilutha nokucindezeleka.
• 9. Hlanganisa Ukugxila ezindleleni ezahlukene zokwelapha.
• 10. Ukugxila kumelaphi.
• Isithasiselo.

Kimina kuwumgubho esingathembela kuwo ngale ncwadi ngendlela ewusizo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ejulile, futhi ngithemba ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuyifunda njengoba ngikujabulele ukuyihumusha.

F. Javier Romeo

Qaphela:
uma ufuna ukuzama iseshini yokugxila, noma uqale ukwelashwa, ngineyami ukubonisana kwengqondo eMadrid, lapho ngiphelezela khona abafana namantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala futhi ngizojabula ukunamukela.

Umuzwa ojulile wokuhlonipha kanye nomuzwa ocacile wokuzithoba kanye namahloni uphakama kimi njengoba ngabelana ngale ngxoxo.. Ngiwuzwa ngokucacile umthwalo wemfanelo wokukhuluma ngomsebenzi engiwenza kuwo “Ukugxilisa nokuthi ukusebenza experientially ngezinkinga zobudlova” (“Ukugxilisa nokuthi ukusebenza experientially ngodlame”), njengoba isihloko sengxoxo sisho ngesingisi. Kuyisihloko esibalulekile kimina (Ngisebenza kakhulu ngakho Spiral Consulting Izingane, i-consultancy egxile ekuvikelweni kwezingane enginguzakwethu wokuqala wayo), futhi ukuzama ukudlulisa wonke ama-nuances kuhlale kuyinselele.

the Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute, inhlangano exhumanisa ezingeni lamazwe ngamazwe imisebenzi ehlobene nokuqeqeshwa nokusabalalisa kwe-Focusing) ikhuthaza “izingxoxo” (isiZulu) nge-Focusing professionals abavela kuwo wonke umhlaba. Serge Prengel, Umqeqeshi Ogxilile kanye NePsychotherapist Egxile Ekugxileni engahlangana naye I-International Focusing Conference 2016 kanye neCambridge (i-United Kingdom), umsingathi, futhi ikwenza ngendlela ejwayeleke kakhulu ye-Focusing -ngokuboniswa kozwela, ngokuma, ukuvumela imibono emisha ukuthi iqhamuke futhi yembuleke ngejubane layo-.

Kulokhu “Ingxoxo” uzothola ukuthi siphawula ngezihloko ezifana nalezi ezilandelayo:

• Udlame njengenqubo emisiwe (“Bekuzomele kwenzeke okuthile ukuletha lesi simo phambili, kodwa akwenzekanga, ngakho inqubo ibambeka”).
• Ukulimala kuchaza udlame, futhi umonakalo uvela emzimbeni.
• Thola a “isibambo” (“isibambo”) ngodlame (khomba yena) kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuphuma kukho: ngalokhu kuyadingeka ukwazi amaphethini amasiko asenza sijwayele ubudlova.
• Iqhaza lamandla odlameni.
• Uthando oluhambisana nokunakekela njengendlela yokugwema udlame—kanye nobukhulu bomzimba obungazuzwa ngokugxila—.
• Ukutholwa nokungenelela ezimeni zodlame Ekuvikelweni Kwezingane.
• Umlayezo wethemba mayelana namathuba okwelapha kanye nokuguqula udlame, futhi Ukugxila njengethuluzi elihle kakhulu lokukwenza.

Futhi uma ufuna ukuzwa ukuthi ungawuguqula kanjani umuzwa wodlame emzimbeni ngokuFocusing, Ngiyatholakala amaseshini afika ngesikhathi isitobhi i-psychotherapy eMadrid.

Ngethemba ukuthi ungathola eminye imibono ukuze ukhuthaze umsebenzi wakho wokuhlangenwe nakho ngodlame., futhi ngingathanda ukwazi ukusabela kwakho ngakho.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedma

Funda lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi

Umuzwa ojulile wokuhlonipha kanye nomuzwa ohlukile wokuzithoba kanye namahloni kuza kimi lapho ngihlanganyela le ngxoxo. Ngiwuzwa ngokucacile umthwalo wemfanelo wokukhuluma ngomsebenzi engiwenzayo “Ukugxilisa nokuthi ukusebenza experientially ngodlame”, njengokusho kwesihloko sengxoxo. Yindaba ebalulekile kimina (Ngisebenza kakhulu ngakho Spiral Consulting Izingane, inkampani yamazwe omhlaba eyelulekayo egxile ekuvikelekeni kwezingane I eyasungulwa ngokubambisana), futhi ukuzama ukudlulisa wonke ama-nuances akhona kuhlale kuyinselele.

I-International Focusing Institute (inhlangano exhumanisa imisebenzi egxile emhlabeni jikelele ehlobene nokuqeqeshwa nokusabalalisa) ikhuthaza kabili ngenyanga “Izingxoxo” nge-Focusing professionals emhlabeni wonke. Serge Prengel, Umqeqeshi Ogxilile kanye NePsychotherapist Egxile Ekugxileni engahlangana naye I-International Focusing Conference 2016 eCambridge (UK), usebenza njengosokhaya, futhi ukwenza lokho ngendlela Egxilile kakhulu -ekhombisa, ngokuma, ukuvumela imibono emisha ivele futhi ithuthuke ngesikhathi sayo.

Kulokhu “Ingxoxo” uzothola izindaba okuxoxwe ngazo njengalezi ezilandelayo:

• Udlame njengenqubo emisiwe (“Kukhona okufanele ngabe kwenzekile ukuqhubekisela phambili isimo, futhi akwenzekanga, ngakho inqubo ibambeka”).
• Ukulimala kuchaza udlame, futhi ukulimala kuphila emzimbeni.
• Ukuthola isibambo sodlame (ewukhomba) yisinyathelo sokuqala sokuphuma kukho: ukwazi amaphethini ethu amasiko ajwayelekile udlame.
• Iqhaza lamandla odlameni.
• Uthando oluxhunyaniswe nokunakekelwa njengendlela yokugwema udlame - kanye nobukhulu bomzimba okungafinyelelwa kukho ngokugxila.
• Ukutholwa nokungenelela kodlame Ekuvikelweni Kwezingane.
• Umlayezo wethemba mayelana nokuphulukisa kanye nokuguqula udlame, futhi Ukugxila njengethuluzi elimangalisayo lokukwenza.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzothola umbono noma emibili engakhuthaza umsebenzi wakho wokuhlangenwe nakho mayelana nodlame, futhi ngizothanda ukuzwa kuwe ngakho.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedma

Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi (nakuba inhlolokhono ngokwayo ingeyesiNgisi).

Omunye unyaka, Kuyinjabulo nodumo kimina ukuthi ngiphinde ngibambe iqhaza kulo mdlalo V Umhlangano Wabasebenzi Bezokuxhumana Abangenalo Udlame ihlelwe yi- Association for Communication benamathele, ukugqugquzela umhlangano wami wokucobelelana ngolwazi kulo nyaka “Ukuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame Nokugxila. Ubukhulu bomzimba bezidingo”.

Amadethi omcimbi aphelele: NgoLwesihlanu 11 kuze kube yiSonto 13 Mashi 2016.

Indawo: Ihhostela laseSan Servando
I-Cuesta de San Servando s/n
I-Toledo

Ukuze ufunde ulwazi oluphelele, cela ukucaciselwa kanye nerejista, Iya ku iwebhusayithi ethize yomcimbi.

Ukuze ufunde kancane mayelana nezisekelo zetiyori zalokho esizosebenza kukho, kusukela uMarshall Rosenberg ngokwakhe wayeyingxenye yenqubo ye Ukugxilisa kwezinye izikhathi zokulalela futhi wakuncoma, Ungakwazi uthintane sihloko yami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”, eshicilelwe ngenombolo ye 2014 of The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, ijenali yezemfundo esemthethweni ye The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute).

Ngethemba ukuthi singahlangana khona.

Javier

[Entry Original 1 Mashi 2016, olusha 13 Mashi 2016, idethi yokuphela komcimbi].

Kule mpelasonto ngaba udumo iqhaza I Congress ngokomzwelo Navarra Ezemfundo, ihlelwe abazali kwakheka. Kwakuthinta inkomfa ihlelwe ngesithakazelo esikhulu, ngokukhulu ukucophelela futhi umthamo esihle sesibindi. isethulo wami kwaba ezimayelana “imfundo affective ukuthi zivikela zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi”, omunye izindikimba ezisebenza kusukela Spiral Consulting Izingane, ka engiyakhayo ilungu owasungula. Kodwa ekugcineni kube khona ingxoxo panel ngemibuzo ngoba bonke abakhuluma, sase ukwabelana Luhlolokulinganisa Sonsoles Echevarren, intatheli kusukela Diario de Navarra. Bekusikhathi kakhulu, futhi nakuba imibuzo ayebhekiswe isikhulumi ngasinye, ekupheleni babebaningi lapho sihlanganyela eziningana. Kulo mongo kwaphakama umbuzo kakhulu, “Wenzenjani ulalele ingane owenqaba ukuhamba kwepaki?”. izimpendulo ezithakazelisayo futhi abalulekile banikwa, futhi mina baletha umnikelo wami: “Listening yebo’ ku 'cha'”.

Rescue kule blog ngoba sihloko yami 'Lalela “yebo” ku “kungekho”‘, okuyinto yanyatheliswa inombolo 52 (Januwari 2011) umagazini ekhoneni yethu 0-6, enyatheliswa Accent (Aqhubeke ayisekho ukukhulula izinombolo, nakuba isatholakala). Lesi senzakalo sihloko ngokunabile ukuthi Nga- ngibatshela bese: lapho umuntu (futhi umfana noma intombazane futhi umuntu) idayisi “kungekho”, Uthi “yebo” izinto eziningi, futhi uma silalela wonke umlayezo, Singenza uxhumano ezijulile sithole nesisombululo egculisayo zonke izinhlangothi. Isihloko iqala:

unina, iminyaka emibili nengxenye, Akathandi elingenamikhono wakhe ukuya ngaphandle. uJosé, iminyaka emine, Awufuni ukulahlekelwa jika ukuya ekhaya. Irene, iminyaka emihlanu, Akafuni ukuya ukulala. Kungani lezi zinto ukuthi njengoba abadala sesiqala kahle ezinengqondo?

Futhi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo? ¿Thina ukuhoxa abenze noma yini abayifunayo? Ngemva kwalokho siba ezimbi ngoba asisebenzi nemfundo, futhi lokho kusinika umuzwa kokushiya eceleni kulokho esingakufeza njengabantu abantu futhi ufuna. Ungathanda ukubaphoqa ukuba lokho esikufunayo? Khona-ke siye yibhange ingxoxo futhi imvelo ezimbi isikhathi eside, eside futhi sifundisa ukuthi ekugcineni into ebalulekile ukuba namandla noma amandla, nokuthi inkhulumomphendvulwano kusebenza kuphela uma ibuthakathaka. Ngolwazi lwami yemisindvo kukhona indlela yesithathu, esekelwe zokuxhumana ajulile kulezi zimo. Futhi elinye lamakhono ukuthi ithuthukiswe amashabhu mina lula yikhono ulalele lokho abakushoyo “yebo” izingane zethu uma bethi “kungekho”.

Download isihloko full “ulalele “yebo” ku “kungekho”‘

Ithemba kuthakazelisa.

Javier

Kulezi zinsuku zokugcina zaleli Okthoba isihloko ukufa ngakho njalo ngaphezulu ekuphileni kwezingane kuphakama. Kusukela uSuku Lwabafileyo emikhayeni ezithile kuzo zonke izenzakalo lowehlukile Halloween, iqiniso liwukuthi kuyisikhathi lapho izingane ebuza imibuzo mayelana nokufa, futhi kulula ukuba uzilungiselele izimo zengqondo izikhala ukulalela nezimpendulo.

Ngaloba 2011 i-athikili yokutakula lapha, “Izingane nokufa”, ukukhumbula ezinye imikhondo ewusizo. Article, owanyatheliswa ephephabhukwini ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent ziqondiswe Imfundo yezingane, izindawo ezintathu ezibalulekile uhlole:

• Umbono sokufa emazingeni ahlukene (phakathi neminyaka engu-zero kanye eziyisithupha, okuyinto isihloko umagazini).
• Ezinye izinkombandlela eziyisisekelo ukuba ahambe izingane ukufa.
• Ukufundwa letiphakanyisiwe, ukufundwa ehlukile imindeni kanye nezifundiswa nezindaba ukufunda nezingane.

Futhi mina ngiqale nge lesi sihloko nokubiyela isigaba:

Kwaphela isikhathi eside kwakucatshangwa ukuthi izingane akazange ahlupheke inqubo lusizi kwaze kwaba ubudala amadala. Nokho, ucwaningo emkhakheni ingozi yokulutheka baye babonisa idlule sokulila kusukela ubudala bokuqala ukuthi, nakuba awusebenzi sibonakalise Njengabantu abadala kuze kamuva. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba ukhulume sokufa (hhayi ulifihle ngenxa yokwesaba odalekayo kuwo) lapho kwenzeka (noma uma kuzokwenzeka, esimweni ukufa), ukuqonda 1) ukuthi umuntu ngempela uya futhi 2) ukuthi umuntu akabashiyi ngokuzithandela, futhi ukuze bakwazi ukusho goodbye, ngoba uma imiqondo le ibingakaziwa hhayi yokuvalelisa kwenzeka, Yisililo sokugembula zingavela. Futhi ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi silalela futhi unake ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi lapho ukufa kwenzeka ezimpilweni zabo.
[zilandise njengoba: Romeo BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Izingane nokufa kwabantu abaningi" ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent, 60, 17-21.]

Qhubeka ufunda lesi sihloko…

Ngithemba la ukucabanga oluzosiza ezihambisana nalesi sihloko nezingane endaweni yakho. Ukufa kuyingxenye engenakugwenywa yokuphila, abuye ahlanganise kanjani kangcono, Bayophila ngokugcwele, izingane zethu kanye nathi.

Ngifisa sengathi ngabe ngiqaphele mkhosi,

Javier

Ukusebenzisa iqiniso lokuthi intwasahlobo iqala namuhla, Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic usenayo kakade Twitter, ConexMasAutent, lapho okufakiwe okuhlukile kuzovela kushicilelwe, ngaphezu kwezincomo nezinye izindaba ezinentshisekelo kuzo Ukugxilisa, ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu okusekelwe Ukuxhumana benamathele, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu jikelele kanye ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzowathola ewusizo.

Javier

CNV dancefloors kakade uvele version Castilian, lapho engisebenza, futhi iyatholakala kumavidiyo Spanish ezansi.

Bridget Belgrave futhi Gina Lawrie, Ukwakha Certified Center for Communication benamathele (Center for Communication benamathele, Nceku), Kwase kuyiminyaka eminingi wadala ithuluzi omkhulu futhi zikwenze Ukuxhumana benamathele (CNV). Njengoba bona ngokwabo babe e Ukuhanjiswa, le Dance Floors CNV (NVC Dance Phansi) Bona sekukhona ngokusebenzisa uchungechunge izinyathelo lula umkhuba wokusebenzisa benamathele Ukuxhumana nge amabalazwe ngekwendzawo ezikuvumela ukuba usebenzise ubukhulu umzimba ukusebenza nobukhulu ngokomzwelo, indlela ozibona le vidiyo:

ehlobo 2009 Mina sajabulela formarme nge Gina futhi ukuhlangabezana Bridget, futhi ukusuka lapho umsebenzi wokuhumusha futhi lithathelwe waphindiselwa Castilia, umzamo lapho siye sasiza abantu abaningi futhi ngiye esihlelwe isikhashana. Ngakho-ke kuyinjabulo ukusakaza ithuluzi elula kodwa ngakho ngokujulile, ekugcineni in Spanish, lapho siyabakhathalela ukufaka inani elikhulu kunawo kungenzeka version-Spanish.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​ukuthi Dance Floors CNV abantu bangazijayeza nje ulwazi ambalwa kokuqala Ukuxhumana benamathele (Eqinisweni ngiyisebenzisa ngezinye izikhathi workshop ezethula). Ngisho nabantu abangamazi inqubo ngokwalo Ukuxhumana benamathele (izingane, futhi intsha, amaklayenti therapy) Abakwazi kalula ukuwela ngayo usizo kothile abanolwazi kakhudlwana.

Dancefloors CNV hlanganisa ezibukwayo, ukhoporali nezezilimi, ukuze nakho kwenzeka ngokusebenzisa ezinye iziteshi nesipiliyoni lishonile. Futhi kukhona eziyisishiyagalolunye “nemidanso” ezahlukene, anamagama ezifana “Dance of 13 izinyathelo”, “Dance Kuhlanganiswa nekusetjentiswa Uxhumano”, “Dance Lolaka / Rage, Shame Nokucindezeleka”, “Dance of uyebo kanye noqhabo”, le “Guqula yobuhlungu izidingo unmet e Nobuhle Izidingo”.

futhi, e 2013 bakhipha abanye amavidiyo achaza ezintathu zalezi nemidanso, iwuhlelo ngokucophelela ukuthi kuhlanganisa imibhalo engezansi Spanish.

Uma ufuna ukuthenga CNV Dancefloor ngetakhiwo letehlukene (njengoba thwebula-PDF, iphepha, okufushane plasticized…) nama-DVD ukuze ufunde nabo ekhaya noma eqenjini umkhuba, ungavakashela esitolo inthanethi, Life Resources.

Futhi uma ufuna ukubala baragele phambili kimi ukuzama Dancefloor esidakayo zilandelana noma workshop ethize, Ngiyojabula ukuba ahambe.

Ithemba oyithandayo.

Javier

Ngiyajabula ukuhlanganyela lesi sihloko lokho The Institute Ukugxilisa ushicilele ku The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, iphephabhuku layo lezemfundo, ngevolumu yayo 25 ye 2014. Iphepha lami “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile“ yavela ekuqaleni kwe 2014 futhi isanda kushicilelwa ngokwedijithali ngokufinyelela kwamahhala kanye nefomethi ye-PDF kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni ye The Ikhasi.

Dawuniloda isihloko ngesiNgisi, “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

Landa inguqulo ye-Spanish yesihloko, “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

[Buyekeza ngoFebhuwari 9 2017] Landa inguqulo yesi-Japanese yesihloko, “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela emiphumeleni ejulile”, futhi ufunde i indaba yokuhumusha kwayo (ngeSpanishi) by Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) kanye noMako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa). ngibona kakhulu!

Ngishiya lapha i-abstract:

ABSTRACT

Kokubili Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele (NVC) zisekelwe embonweni wokuthi abantu bathola ukuqonda kanye nezinqubo zabo zangaphakathi ziqhubekela phambili lapho amanye amazwi abo ebonakaliswa.. Ukuzindla kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwakho kanye nomngane wakho. Futhi ukuzindla kuletha imiphumela ejulile, njengoba izici ezicatshangelwayo ziba khona futhi ziyaqaphela.

Nokho, Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele beka ingcindezi ekuboniseni izici ezihlukene zokuxhumana kokuqala. Ukugxila kuyalandela wazizwa emzimbeni njengendlela entsha yokudala incazelo entsha. Communication benamathele uzama ukuthola universal izidingo okuwumongo wazo zonke izenzo zomuntu. Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele kade wawela ngezindlela ezahlukene (ukubuyekezwa okufushane kokuphambana okuthile kuhlolisiswa kuleli phepha). Ukugxila kungathuthukiswa ngokwethula ukuqwashisa okusha ngezidingo, ikakhulukazi uma Ukubuza. Futhi Communication benamathele ingathuthukiswa ukuzwela okusha ezimisweni zokuqala zomuntu -hhayi nje ukuzama "ukuhumusha" yonke into, kodwa futhi nokwazisa ulimi olujwayelekile njengezingathekiso.

Uma zombili izinqubo zihlanganisiwe futhi umngane/umelaphi ubonisa izici zawo womabili amazinga okuqwashisa, umuntu uthola imiphumela efanele njengoba kuvela imiphumela ejulile.

Amagama angukhiye: Ukugxilisa, Communication benamathele (NVC), Uzwela, Bonisa, Crossing.

Kwabakhuluma iSpanishi, ngena kulokhu okuthunyelwe ngeSpanishi.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela futhi ngizokuthanda ukufunda imibono yakho,

Javier