Impilo eku-inthanethi isisize ukuthi sakhe imiphakathi emisha ebonakalayo.

Esikhathini esingaphezu konyaka odlule ngathola isimemo sokuba yingxenye yeqembu elibonisa ubuntwana ohlelweni lokuvikela eSpain., kudidiyelwe ngu U-Alberto Rodriguez futhi Javier Múgica futhi esibamba iqhaza kukho u-Antonio Ferrandis, mina Umngane we-CI Spiral Pepa Horno, UMarta Llaurado futhi igama lami licishe liphindwe kabili F. Javier Romeu Soriano. Ngemva kwalezi zinyanga zemihlangano eku-inthanethi nama-imeyili amaningi nokusalungiswa, ngesonto eledlule sishicilele ngokuhlanganyela umqulu wokusungula, Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi. Izinselelo eziyisikhombisa neziphakamiso zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane e-Spain. Umbhalo uzikhulumela wona, futhi ingalandwa kusukela ku- iwebhusayithi ye “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”.

Lapha ngifuna ukukhuluma ngento ethe ukuhluka kancane: yenqubo ngokwayo. Futhi ngikufingqa ngamagama amathathu: umphakathi, ukukhula nokuqwashisa.

Umphakathi yikho ebesikudala. Unethuba, ngokuhlangana nathi ngezindaba zokuvikela izingane ezindaweni ezahlukene. Kodwa futhi inengxenye yenhloso. Vula indawo yemihlangano eku-inthanethi. Bhala ngamunye ingxenye yakhe yombhalo futhi ubuyekeze imibhalo yabanye. Yabelana ngamaphoyinti wokubuka, izinkathazo nezimpendulo ezingase zibe khona. Kancane kancane besilokhu sijulisa ubudlelwano bethu, ukuthuthukisa ulimi oluvamile oluhlanganisa ubuntu bethu obuhlukene nokuzwela. Futhi sikholelwa ukuthi ingxenye yokuthuthukiswa kwesistimu yokuvikela ihamba ngokuqondile ngokudala umphakathi kwezinye izindawo eziningi., nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo, ngaphakathi kwamaqembu ochwepheshe kanye namanethiwekhi okungenelela.

futhi, siye phambili ngombono we ukwanda. Umuntu ngamunye eqenjini lethu ubelokhu esebenzisana futhi ehambisana nezinqubo zohlelo lokuvikela iminyaka eminingi. Yingakho singakhuluma ngamaphutha, amaphuzu abuthakathaka alimaza izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni okuhloswe ngayo ukuyivikela. Kodwa futhi siyayikhumbula inqubekelaphambili, izinguquko, ngezinye izikhathi kuncane kakhulu, ezenza izici ezithile zibe ngcono. Kungakho lo mbhalo ufuna ukuqoqa zombili izinselelo esizibona eSpain nezinye iziphakamiso esizaziyo, kusukela kokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu noma kochwepheshe, ezike zasebenza ngaphambili. Futhi le nqubo yenza nalabo bethu ababonisa njengeqembu bakhule..

Ngoba, ekupheleni, Imayelana nokuthuthukisa i unembeza. Lapho sine a “ukugqolozela”, njengoba umngane wami omuhle esho futhi umlingani ku-CI Spirals Pepa Horno, sibona iqiniso ngendlela ejulile. Sikhomba okwenzeka ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo, kodwa futhi nasemaqenjini ochwepheshe kanye nezinhlelo okufanele zinikeze ukuvikeleka nokusekelwa. Futhi siyakubona okwenzeka ngaphakathi kwethu, ukuhambisa imibono nemizwa eziphakamisweni eziphathekayo ezithuthukisa izimpilo zabantu abaningi. Ngeke sikwenze lokhu sisodwa, sidinga indawo ephephile, umphakathi, ukuze asisize siye phambili, ukuzibuza imibuzo emisha futhi sithole izimpendulo ezintsha.

Kusukela lapha ngithumela ukubonga kuleli qembu elihle kakhulu, nasekuphileni ngokwenza kwaba nokwenzeka.

Futhi ngikumema ukuthi ufunde idokhumenti futhi unake izinyathelo ezilandelayo (sizobe sishicilela imibhalo yanyanga zonke yamabhulogi ukuze siqhubeke nokujula eziphakamisweni ezahlukene). Ngikubona kuwebhusayithi ye “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”.

Emgubheni,

F. Javier Romeo

Eugene Gendlin, isithombe esisemthethweni se-International Institute of Focusing.

Eugene (“Gene”) UGendlin udlule emhlabeni izolo 1 May 2017 eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ubudala, futhi mina, njengawo wonke umphakathi we-Focusing, Kungithinta ukudlula kwakhe emhlabeni, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngibonga ngayo yonke iminikelo yenu.

U-Eugene Gendlin wazalwa ngo 25 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 1926 eVienna, E-Austria, futhi waphunyuka ekushushisweni kwamaNazi ngokufika e-United States 1939. ngokwemvelo yaseMelika, Uqhubekile wazuza i-BA kuFilosofi kanye ne-Ph.D. ngemuva kokusebenza iminyaka engaphezu kweshumi ngokubambisana no-Carl Rogers eNyuvesi yaseChicago.. Isithelo sokuqeqeshwa kwakhe kabili njengesazi sefilosofi nanjengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, umnikelo wakho ubanzi kakhulu.

UGendlin wayehlale egcizelela ukuthi akukho “idaliwe” the Ukugxilisa, inqubo yokuzazi nokuphulukisa ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo ngokusebenzisa imizwa yomzimba, kodwa kuphela “ithole izinyathelo ezimbalwa zokwenza inqubo ifinyeleleke kakhudlwana”. Njengamanje iyithuluzi elisetshenziswa ku-psychotherapy nakwezinye izindawo eziningi.. Futhi konke akutholile kuhambisana nokuhlakazeka okuqinile kobuhlakani, ifilosofi yento engacacile.

e 1985 yakha lokho manje Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute) ukunikeza ukuqhubeka kuyo yonke le migqa yomsebenzi, okuhlanganisa okungaphezu kwalokho 2000 ochwepheshe nabasekeli abavela kuwo wonke umhlaba, nalapho eshiye khona wonke umtapo wakhe wezincwadi ongatholakala ku-inthanethi (le I-Gendlin Online Library).

Naphezu kokukhula kwakhe, ngezinkinga zempilo kanye nokushona komkakhe UMary Hendricks-Gendlin eminyakeni emibili edlule, UGendlin wayehlale ekhuthele ngaphakathi kwamakhono akhe, ukubhala izihloko kanye nokubamba iqhaza ekuqeqesheni ngocingo.

Endabeni yami, ngaphandle kokufunda izincwadi zakhe nemibhalo yakhe, Ngiye ngaba nenjabulo nodumo lokubamba iqhaza eziningana “Izingxoxo ezivela onqenqemeni noGene [Gendlin] Y Ann [Weiser Cornell]”, ihlelwe yilaba bakamuva (ver imicabango yami evela engxoxweni kaSepthemba–Okthoba ka 2016). Kimina kube yilungelo ukukwazi ukukhuluma naye ngokuqondile, ngemfudumalo yakhe nobuhlakani bakhe naphezu kwezinhlungu nobunzima bakhe, ukubona intshisekelo yakhe kumuntu ngamunye nasemhlabeni, futhi unentshisekelo enkulu yokwazi ukuthi ifa lakhe laqhubeka kanjani. Futhi ngahlabeka umxhwele ngokuba khona kwakhe ngesikhathi engiphelezela ohlelweni lwe-Focusing kwenye yezingxoxo zokugcina.

I-International Institute of Focusing inikeze amandla ikhasi elikhethekile lokuhlonipha inkumbulo ka-Gendlin (www.EugeneGendlin.com), futhi ukusuka lapha ngikumema ukuthi ubambe iqhaza, ukufunda imibono yabanye abantu noma ukwengeza okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Impela ngizizwa ngidabukile kakhulu ngalokhu kulahlekelwa., futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngigubha ukwazi umsebenzi kaGene Gendlin phakathi neminyaka edlule futhi ngikwazile ukukhuluma naye bukhoma izikhathi eziningana.. Ngizizwa ngiyingxenye yefa lakhe, futhi ngethemba ukuthi ngizoyidlulisela ngemfudumalo, ephefumulelwe nguye.

Emkhosini nasekulileni,

F. Javier Romeo

Ukuthuthukela 14 Agasti 2017: Ngibhale entry mayelana izinkokhelo ezintathu kuGene Gendlin engibambe iqhaza kukho, lokho kuqeda isici esabiwe ezingeni Lomphakathi.

Iqhubeka emgqeni we okufakiwe kwangaphambilini, futhi uhlobene kakhulu naye, ukuqashwa kwami ​​njengelungu le-International Relations ngaphakathi kwebhodi labaqondisi le-Spanish Institute of Focusing, enye ingxenye yokubizela esenzweni okuvele kuyo ukubamba iqhaza kwami ​​eNgqungqutheleni Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi odlule 2016.

njengoba kuphawuliwe kuleyo posi, ku Ukugxila Institute Spanish siyakuqonda lokho, kanye nesenzo sokufundisa kanye nokuhambisana ne-Focusing ikakhulukazi umuntu ngamunye, ngamunye unesitayela sakhe nokuzwela, futhi njalo ngaphakathi kwenqubo okuvunyelenwe ngayo esidlangalaleni kanye namakhono, Nokho, zonke izenzo zenhlangano kanye nokubamba iqhaza kufanele zivele ezinhlakeni zamaqoqo.

Yingakho ke, ngesikhathi ngimenywa ukuba ngibambe iqhaza IKomidi Lobulungu Le-International Institute of Focusing ezinze eNew York (I-International Focusing Institute), Ngibeke leso sikhundla esandleni se-Spanish Institute of Focusing, ukuze lithathwe yinoma yimuphi umuntu njengommeleli ovela eSpain. Yini engingayimangaza uma ngimenywa ukuba ngibambe iqhaza elixhumene ne-International Relations ngaphakathi kwe ibhodi labaqondisi kanye nokwamukela leso sikhundla samazwe ngamazwe. Ngasamukela isicelo, izinyathelo ezifanele ezihlongozwe emithethweni sezithathiwe futhi ngisanda kuqokwa njengelungu.

Ngijabule kakhulu ukukwazi ukufaka isandla emphakathini we-Focusing eSpain, engithole kuyo okuningi. Kusukela ekuqaleni kokuqeqeshwa kwami ​​ku 2009, Izinsuku Zezwe, isikole sasehlobo, ukugadwa, iDiploma kanye neziqu zomqeqeshi oqinisekisiwe kanye ne-Certified Focusing Counselling Psychotherapist kanye nabo bonke abathintwayo nezimo zokukhula, Impela ngicushwe njengochwepheshe be-Focusing (futhi njengomuntu).

Futhi kulolu chungechunge lwezimemo zesenzo (njengoba lisho Elizabeth Gascón, umxhumanisi wami wokudlulisela, the “isinyathelo sesikhombisa” de Ukugxila: “Futhi konke lokhu kukumemela ini?”), Kimina sengathi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ngifake isandla nakulesi sikhundla, inqobo nje uma umsebenzi wami usewusizo futhi wakha. Kuyinselelo ukusebenza kanye nasekusebenzeleni abantu abaningi engibaziyo, nengcebo ngaphakathi lokho kungibeka esimweni sokuthobeka nokufunda.

Ngakho futhi kulesi sikhundla esisha ngisenkonzweni yakho, ngethemba lokufaka isandla olwazini lwamazwe ngamazwe lwengcebo ye-Focusing esiyenzayo lapha, kanye nokunikela ngemibono neziphakamiso ezivela kwezinye izindawo ezivela kulesi simo sobudlelwano bamazwe ngamazwe.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengoba ngike ngaphawula kwenye iposi, babambe iqhaza ku I-International Focusing Conference eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi odlule 2016 kusho ukuvuleka okuningi okusha, izindlela ezintsha, izindlela ezintsha zokufaka i-Focusing empilweni yami nokwabelana ngayo. ukwazi, futhi ubizela esenzweni.

Kungimangaze kakhulu ukumenywa ukuba ngibe yingxenye yeKomidi Lobulungu (IKomidi Lobulungu) kwe Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke ezinze eNew York (I-International Focusing Institute). Leli komiti liwumgwamanda nje owelulekayo. (ayenzi izinqumo) futhi ngokuyisisekelo yakhiwe amavolontiya, oweluleka izigungu ezilawulayo ngazo zonke izindaba eziphathelene nokuba yilungu leSikhungo: indlela yokuthuthukisa ubulungu, ulenza kanjani inani lakho libonakale, kanjani ukwenza lula ukubamba iqhaza phakathi kwamalungu. Umsebenzi wakho ukubheka amalungu futhi uthole izidingo ezivelayo nezikhala zokusebenzisana. Liyikomidi lamazwe ngamazwe, nemihlangano yenkomfa yevidiyo kanye namathimba omsebenzi athile. Yiqembu elisha kangangokuthi alikabi naso isigaba salo Iwebhusayithi yesikhungo. Futhi mina, ukuthi ngiye ngajabulela izinzuzo zokuba yilungu kusukela ngaleso sikhathi 2010, okokuqala njengoMqeqeshi Ekuqeqesheni, futhi kamuva njengomqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe (2012) futhi Njengochwepheshe Oqinisekisiwe Wokugxila Ekugxileni Kubo (2014), Ngithola njengelungelo ukukwazi ukufaka isandla kwabanye abantu kanye nesakhiwo seSikhungo.

Kimina kubalulekile ukulandela umugqa womsebenzi we Ukugxila Institute Spanish, lapho sisebenza khona ekuqeqesheni, ukuphelezela noma eminye imikhakha yokuGxila ezingeni ngalinye, kodwa lapho ubudlelwano namanye amaqembu nezinhlangano kunqunywa ngokuhlanganyela. Ngakho-ke, Ngithumele isimemo kuBhodi Labaqondisi be-Spanish Institute of Focusing futhi muva nje ngiphinde ngaqokwa ilungu lobudlelwano bamazwe ngamazwe, ukuze akwazi ukuthatha isikhundla eKomidini Lobulungu.

Ukuze, Sengiqalile ukufunda izincwadi (kuningi okwenziwe esikhathini esingaphezudlwana nje konyaka sokusebenza) futhi ngahlanganyela emhlanganweni. Ngethemba ukuthi ngizoqhubeka nokufaka isandla emhlabeni we-Focusing ngale ndlela. Futhi uma unezincomo noma iziphakamiso mayelana nobulungu be-International Institute of Focusing, ngiyojabula ukubezwa.

Enkonzweni yakho ngendlela entsha,

F. Javier Romeo

Kuleli hlobo ngiye ngaba nenjabulo yokubamba iqhaza 27Ingqungquthela Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe ka 2016 kanye neCambridge (i-United Kingdom), ihlelwe yi I-British Focusing Association, futhi ivulekele amalungu e Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute) emhlabeni wonke, okuhlangenwe nakho okungiphawule ngezizathu eziningana.

Umbono womhlaba wonke weqoqo lezithombe ze-Focusing International Conference 2016. Ngokuvamile, baqoqa izici ezidlala kakhulu, kodwa futhi zembula izikhathi zokujula. Futhi kuvela isithombe esihle engithathwe nguBlanca Ruiz, evela eSpain, nokuthi ngikuthathele iphrofayili yami (¡umusa, UBlanca!).

Ukuze unikeze izibalo ezithile: sibe ngaphezu 250 ababambiqhaza be 30 amazwe aseRobinson College, cishe uzinikele ngokuphelele eNgqungqutheleni. Ngaphandle kwemihlangano yohlu, babekuphi abantu abaningi, ngesikhathi seworkshop sahlukana (yilowo nalowo ngokukhetha kwakhe) emisebenzini engaphezu kweshumi nanhlanu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Futhi konke kuhlelwe ithimba lenhlangano elizinikele (kusuka I-British Focusing Association,) lokho, Ngaphambi kokuthi ngizame ukuxazulula izinkinga zami, baqale bangilalela, ngokunaka okuvamile.

Ngakho-ke isipiliyoni sokuqala bekuwukuthola abantu nokudala umphakathi., endaweni Egxile kakhulu. Ngihlangane nabantu ababambe iqhaza okokuqala emcimbini wamazwe omhlaba ofana nalona, njengami. Ngiphinde ngenze ubuso, iphimbo lezwi, ubuhlobo… kubantu engangibazi ngezinkomba (izincwadi zabo, izinto zakho, amakhasi akho ewebhu, imiyalezo yakho ohlwini lokugxila, izincomo engangizitholile…). Y, ngamangala, Ngiphinde ngabona isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseJapan uMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) ukuthi wayesifunde ngesithakazelo esikhulu isihloko sami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele”, Yeka ukutholakala! [Futhi ekugcineni lapha ihunyushwa ngesiJapane ngesihloko esisikiselayo Empambana we ngokugxila kanye nokuxhumana engenalo udlame, Ngibonga kakhulu, Madoka!].

Noma kunjalo, Okungihlabe umxhwele kakhulu ubungane nokushesha kokwelashwa, kokubili emisebenzini yeqembu nasekuxhumaneni okwengeziwe komuntu ngamunye, ekudleni, emakhefini, kweminye imisebenzi. Futhi umuzwa wokuqhubeka nokuthola abantu abasha nabathakazelayo ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngiqala ukuthola umuzwa wokuthi “sasibonane emhlabeni wonke”. Ezingeni elijulile, Manje njengoba sekudlule amasonto ambalwa, Okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala engifuna ukukulonda umuzwa womphakathi phakathi kokungafani (futhi kwakukhona ukuhluka okuningi, Ngiyaqinisekisa!). Kuwukuzwa ukuthi siyasebenza, ukuphenya, ukuhlupheka kanye nokujabulelana ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda kwethu Ukugxila, nendlela yokwabelana ngayo nabanye abantu.

isipiliyoni sesibili, kuxhunyaniswe nokwangaphambilini, kade thola ukuxhumana okuhlakaniphile nabantu abaningi. Ngezintshisekelo zethu ezifanayo. Ukuze uqonde Ukugxila ngendlela efanayo noma, Ngokungafani, ukuze uyiqonde ngezindlela ezihlukene kangangokuthi ziyaphelelisana. Ngezindawo zethu zokusebenza. Ngoxhumano lomuntu siqu olulula. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokwenza isisho esidumile sika-Aristotle, “isifiso sobungane sivuka ngokushesha, kodwa ubungane ngokwabo buthatha isikhathi”. Ngabathile abantu esengixhumene nabo, Nginabanye ohlwini lwami olude loxhumana nabo abalindile, kodwa inhloso yokuqhubeka nokuhlakulela izindlela ezintsha zokugxila ikhona. Kuzofana nobudlelwano engivele nginabo emphakathini we-Focusing e-Spain, kodwa emazweni ngamazwe.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwesithathu kube isimemo sesenzo. Isimemo sesenzo esivela kokubili ngaphakathi nangaphandle. amaphrojekthi angenzeka, ukusebenzisana ukuhlola, uhlu olusha lokufunda, umzimba ukuze ujule, izindawo ongazithola… Okwamanje, izinto ziboleka ukunyakaza, futhi ngigeleza nabo. Ngizokhuluma ngalezi nezinye izinto kwezinye izikhala..

Ngokuzibophezela ukukutshela okuningi kokufakiwe okuzayo ngiyakushiya, ngesincomo sokuthi uvakashele iwebhusayithi esemthethweni Yenkomfa ngenkathi isebenza, ngoba inezinsiza eziningi ongazihlola (isiZulu).

Javier

izibuyekezo (okuthunyelwe kamuva okuhlobene nalokhu):

Ngaphakathi kokubizelwa esenzweni:

• Ukuqokwa kwami ​​eKomidini Lobulungu le-International Institute of Focusing.
• Nokuqokwa kwami ​​njengelungu le-International Relations e-Spanish Institute of Focusing.

Okunye okuhlangenwe nakho:

• brushstrokes (2) Conference International Ukugxilisa: isithakazelo iqembu Community Wellness Ukugxilisa.
• Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yokugxila eCambridge (UK) 2016.

izingxabano Iningi zingalungiswa ngendlela egculisayo futhi inzuzo yabo bonke abathintekayo, enikeziwe izinsiza futhi isikhathi esingakanani okufanele usichithe. Yilokho okwenzeka yami yemisindvo zeminyaka ukufunda, kutilolonga okuxhunyanwa Ukuxhumana benamathele. Kuyinto eziyisisekelo ngakho (akulula) njengoba izimo ezidingekile ukuthi isinqumo kwenzeka. Kimi kukhona izakhi eziningana ezibalulekile, okungase ngokufingqiwe okulandelayo:

• An indlela efanele, ukuvumela bonke labo abathintekayo uzizwe silondekile futhi sihloniphana njengomkhaya amalungelo abo.
• ochwepheshe Experiential nge ukuqeqeshwa e Ukulamula ukulalela ezijulile amakhono kanye “translation” imiyalezo ukuze kube lula ukuzwa wonke umuntu.
• Umphakathi esekela izinqubo okubuyisela, isikhathi ukunikelwa, izikhala, Manpower, ukuqeqeshwa…
• Abantu uzimisele ukuxazulula izingxabano ngendlela ekugcineni wonke amaqembu bazizwe wezwa nokuthi wonke amaqembu ushiye aneliseke isixazululo.

Ngakho mina kuyathokozisa ukwabelana izinsiza akhiwa nomphakathi omkhulu nakubantu basendaweni esihlala kuyo kuthiwa Gotleu Palma de Mallorca (Mallorca), ngoba ukuqoqa indlela basebenza ngasinye salezi zici.

Kule video ungabona indlela eziye abathintekayo, i-nalomsebenzi Institute for nokuhlalisana kanye Impumelelo School (the Institute for nokuhlalisana kanye School Impumelelo Castilian) Uhulumeni we-Balearic Islands, kusuka othisha ezikoleni Imfundo yezingane, Primary kanye yesibili, abafundi babo bonke ubudala, imindeni, Nezenhlalakahle, amaphoyisa, University kanye namanye amaqembu abalulekile nomphakathi. Ngo ingxube amazwi, Senza kithi umqondo nakho yokudala ukuthi ukuphepha inethiwekhi endaweni emphakathini sengozini, futhi sibona imiphumela.

Ukuze uthole umbono ehlelekile ngaphezulu, Kuyinto ukushicilelwa eqoqa eziyisisekelo. Kushicilelwe ku-Catalan, Castilia nesiNgisi ngaphakathi kohlaka iphrojekthi European ngale ndaba, le Umhlahlandlela ngcono nokuhlalisana kanye Imikhuba bokubuyisana / Guide Mejoramos nokuhlalisana kanye nemikhuba okubuyisela Kutfutfukisa izici ezincwadini Imikhuba bokubuyisana, idatha eqondile inikeza izibonelo ukhonkolo kanye iziphakamiso Ngokufuna okuzayo ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi.

Futhi ukuba sijulise emibuthanweni okubuyisela, umkhuba nengxabano ludabuka ezindaweni ubukhulu nomphakathi Ukuxhumana benamathele, Ungafunda wokulandisa ezithakazelisayo Bokubuyisana Imikhuba Justice. Imibuthano bokubuyisana nendlela osebenza ngayo emikhakheni ehlukahlukene, elotshwe yiKhomishani UVenç Rul·lan, nomqeqeshi ngubani ngijabulela lokuhlangana, kuvidiyo kanye Umhlahlandlela, futhi nguye ilungu Association of Justice futhi bokubuyisana Imikhuba Islands (nekhasi Castilia futhi Catalan, ngezisetshenziswa eziningana). A isingeniso esihle, ukuze kuqhutshekwe sijulise nalolu hlobo locingo. Futhi ungakwazi futhi ubuke amavidiyo (isiZulu) kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni umdali imibuthano okubuyisela, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Ngubani okwenzile ukuqeqeshwa okuthile ekuchumana nami oyibonile Ngivame ukusho le nkinga ye Imikhuba bokubuyisana. Ngithemba kulezi kancane kangcono ukufanekisa ukuthi yini abezwile nami ithemba ukuthi ukuvusa lokusungula wakho nomcabango yakho ukuze uqhubeke ukuthola izindlela ikhiqize kakhudlwana ezijulile yokuxazulula izingxabano imvelo zemfundo, futhi iyiphi enye indawo.

Javier

UMary Hendricks-Gendlin, isithombe se The Institute Ukugxilisa.

Okokugcina 28 Mashi 2015 UMarion washona (eyaziwa kangcono ngokuthi “UMary”) N. Hendricks-Gendlin, ireferensi ebalulekile ye Ukugxilisa. Ngiphakathi kwalabo, ngaphandle kokuhlangana naye ngqo, sithola ifa lomsebenzi wakhe nomoya wakhe.

UMary Hendricks-Gendlin fue, phakathi kwezinye izici zokuphila kwakhe, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, I-Psychotherapist ene-Focusing Orientation, ilungu lomsunguli we The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute) kanye nomqondisi ofanayo iminyaka eminingi. Ubuye waba ngumlingani weGene Gendlin, owabumba inqubo ye-Focusing futhi ngubani osaphila, kanye nomama ka-Elissa, indodakazi ababefana ngayo.

Kimina ireferensi kaMary Hendricks-Gendlin iza ngokuyinhloko Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi we-Spanish Focusing kanye nomqeqeshi wami wereferensi (ngemuva kokuqinisekisa, Ngilokhu ngifunda kuye kukho konke ukuxhumana esinakho, siqu noma professional). Elizabeth Gascón, ngomsebenzi wakhe omude ku-Focusing kanye nokumelela kwakhe i-Spanish Institute of Focusing ezindabeni zamazwe ngamazwe (ikakhulukazi njengesekela likamongameli), uye waxhumana kakhulu noMariya, ngisho naseminyakeni yamuva, lapho uGene noMary sebelishiyile ikheli lika The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute). Impela, isonto ngaphambi kokudlula kukaMariya, kwe Izinsuku Zokugxila Zikazwelonke ze 2015 Miraflores de la Sierra, NgoMgqibelo 21, U-Isabel Gascón ubephawula kubahlanganyeli abambalwa ngolwazi lwakhe lukaMary noGene, ngothando olukhulu nobubele, nasekubabazeni konke abakwenzile bobabili, besekelana. Ngincoma ukufunda ukubonga okusuka enhliziyweni ku-Isabel Gascón kuwebhusayithi yakhe.

Ifa esilithola kithina esingalazi ngqo linezinhlobo eziningi.:

• Futhi I-Focusing Institute okuqinile, ukuthi uMary noGene baye baholela ekuguqukeleni enhlanganweni entsha elungiselwe iqiniso lamazwe ngamazwe kanye nemikhakha eminingi ye-Focusing.
• Ukusabalala kwamazwe ngamazwe kwe-Focusing, obekubalulekile kuyena ngesikhathi engumqondisi. Ngithola isihloko sakho sibalulekile. “I-Felt Sense Literacy” (Iyatholakala futhi ngeSpanishi njenge “Ukufunda nokubhala komqondo ozwakalayo”), umbono onyakazayo wokuGxila njengamandla okuguqula umphakathi.
• Ukusekela ukwakhiwa kwezici ezibalulekile zokuGxila njengamaqembu “Izinguquko” (“Izinguquko”), Ukugxilisa amaqembu okushintshana phakathi kwabasebenzi.
• Ucwaningo lwakhe ezindaweni ezahlukene zamanje ze-Focusing, njenge-Focusing Oriented Psychotherapy kanye “Ukucabanga Emaphethelweni -TAE” (“Ecabanga esemaphethelweni – I-PDB”).
• Umqondo wakhe we “Ukumisa okwesikhashana”, okuhlanganisa ukuzinika isikhathi ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo, ngaphambi kokuphendula, ukuma futhi sibone ukuthi umzimba wethu uphila kanjani esimweni ngasinye. Ngale ndlela singathola ubuqiniso obukhulu bezinqumo. Ungafunda isihloko sakhe esimangalisayo “Ukugxila Njengamandla Okuthula: I-Revolutionary Pause” (ngesiNgisi kuphela okwamanje), lapho imigqa yokuqala ithinta khona ubulula nokujula kwayo, nalapho umbhalo wonke uthuthuka ngokwemibono ehlukene umqondo we “Ukumisa okwesikhashana”.

Kusukela lapha kuya ku-Mary Hendricks-Gendlin kanye nokubonga kwami ​​​​ngempilo nomsebenzi wakhe, lokho kuye kwathinta ukuphila kwami. Futhi uthando nokunakekela kwami ​​​​kuGene Gendlin nakubo bonke abantu abathanda uMary, nokuthi abalahlekelwanga nje uchwepheshe obalulekile, kodwa nakumfundisi, umngane nomngane othandekayo, Njengoba ukuphawula kwe ikhasi lokukhokhela le The Institute Ukugxilisa.

ngenhlonipho nangokunakekela,

Javier

Ukusebenzisa iqiniso lokuthi intwasahlobo iqala namuhla, Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic usenayo kakade Twitter, ConexMasAutent, lapho okufakiwe okuhlukile kuzovela kushicilelwe, ngaphezu kwezincomo nezinye izindaba ezinentshisekelo kuzo Ukugxilisa, ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu okusekelwe Ukuxhumana benamathele, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu jikelele kanye ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzowathola ewusizo.

Javier

The ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe Inengxenye ebalulekile yokuqeqeshwa okujulile, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo kuyacebisa kakhulu ukufunda izindlela ezintsha, amasu amasha, izindlela ezintsha zokufinyelela kuzindikimba ezisafufusa. Ukubuyekeza nokuqeqeshwa okuqhubekayo kuyingxenye yomkhuba omuhle wokwelapha kwengqondo.

I-Psychotherapy Networker Kungumthombo owusizo kakhulu kimina ukuthi ngihlale nginolwazi lwakamuva ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe. Ngaphandle kwezinye izinsiza (amavidiyo, imibhalo, izinombolo ezithile…), le nhlangano ishicilela umagazini okhethekile ovela kabili ngenyanga ngephepha nangefomethi ye-elekthronikhi (ukufinyelela okuvulekile iminyaka emibili), futhi inombolo ngayinye inentambo evamile, ngezindatshana zochwepheshe abasebenze ngesihloko senyanga, kanye nezikhombo zezincwadi ezithakazelisa kakhulu (empeleni sengithenge izincwadi ezimbalwa ngemva kokufunda izihloko ezithile, futhi nganeliseke kakhulu).

Iwebhusayithi inezinsiza eziningi, futhi kusukela lapha ngifuna ukutusa izindatshana ezithile nezindaba ezibonakala zizintsha kakhulu kimi.

• Umagazini kaNovemba noDisemba 2013, ngendikimba “Imikhuba Yethu, Okwethu. Ingabe Umbuthano Ungaphulwa?” (“imikhuba yethu, kanye nathi. Ungakwazi yini ukuphula indilinga?”), inkinga enemibono yokuthi ungayinqamula kanjani imibuthano enonya ku-psychotherapy, nge-athikili evela Ann Weiser Cornell, uchwepheshe we-Focusing Orientation Psychotherapy engiqeqeshwe naye, “Okuthile Okusha, Lapha futhi Manje. Ukuhlukana Nomkhuba” (“Okuthile okusha, lapha futhi manje. Ungagqashula kanjani kokujwayelekile”).
• Ukukhishwa kukaMeyi noJuni 2014, ngendikimba “Ukwelapha Ukuhlukumezeka. Yini Esishodayo?” (“Yelapha ukuhlukumezeka. sishoda ngani?”), enemigqa emisha yokungenelela ekuhlukumezeni njengendatshana ka-Janina Fisher “Ukuhlanganisa Izingcezu. 25 Iminyaka Yokufunda Ukwelashwa Kwe-Trauma” (“hlanganisa zonke izingcezu. Iminyaka engamashumi amabili nanhlanu yokufunda ukubhekana nokuhlukumezeka”).
• Umagazini kaSepthemba no-Okthoba 2014, ngendikimba “Lapho futhi Hhayi Lapho. Ukukhula Esikhathini Sokuphazamiseka” (“lapho futhi hhayi lapho. Ungakhula kanjani eminyakeni yokuphazamiseka”), kubalulekile ngezinto ezifana “Ukuthola Ukukhishwa. Ukuxhumana Nezingane Ezihlukumezekile Ezicindezela Izinkinobho Zakho” (“Yehla ehhuku. Ungaxhumana kanjani nezingane ezihlukumezekile ezenza ukuzivikela kwakho kugxume”) nguMartha Strauss.

Ngikushiye ufunde kahle futhi ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela..

Javier

Kanye ne The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute) unomthwalo wemfanelo wokugcina wezitifiketi zamazwe ngamazwe, the Ukugxila Institute Spanish, eyaziwa nangokuthi yi-Spanish Association of Focusing Carlos Alemany, iqondisa futhi iqondise izenzo zokuqeqesha ekugxileni eSpain futhi ikhuthaze ukusakazeka kwayo.

The Iwebhusayithi yeSpanish Institute for Focusing, okusha muva nje, inezinsizakusebenza ezimbalwa ezibalulekile zokufunda Ngokugxila ngokubanzi nokusatshalaliswa kwawo eSpain:

• Ukuchaza ukuthi yini ukugxila kuyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba kuyinqubo yokutholwa, lokho kuqondakala ngokuphelele lapho usuphile. Nokho, esigabeni “Ukugxila kuyinto” kunikezwa izincazelo ezithile nokuholwa okuthokozisayo.
• Ukuqonda kangcono Ukugxila, esigabeni “Izinsizakusebenza” Izinkomba ezincwadini ziyanikezwa, amavidiyo nokuqoshwa komsindo, zonke izinto zokwakha ngeSpanishi.
• Okwalabo abafuna ukwazi ukuthi ungaziqeqesha kanjani ekugxileni eSpain, engxenyeni ye “Training” ungatholakala ohlelweni lokuqeqeshwa oluphelele oluvunyelwe yiSpanish Institute of Focusing (futhi yaqashelwa yi-Focusing Institute of New York) kufika ezifundweni nasemihlanganweni yokucobelelana ngolwazi ehlelwe ngokwezindawo nangengqikithi, kuvuselelwa njalo.
• e “Mayelana NATHI” isakhiwo seSpain Institute of Focusing siqoqiwe, ngasikhathi sinye esingasesha labo abayingxenye yaso (kulabo abanesifiso sokungithola, Ngikhona kuleli khasi njengomqeqeshi oqinisekisiwe).
• Ekugcineni, le “Izindaba” hlinzeka ngemininingwane ngemicimbi yezwe lonke, ikakhulukazi ukwakheka okukhethekile nezindaba mayelana nokushicilelwa nemicimbi.

Ngikhuthaza ukuthi ubhekabheke futhi uthole izinsiza ezahlukahlukene ezinikezwa yikhasi.

Ngiyethemba uyithola ilusizo futhi isebenza njengami.

Javier