isethulo “Umzimba kanye amaphuzu amane eziyinhloko: Ukuzinakekela nabanakekeli” kwe Uhambo 2019 kusuka I-Madrid Association of Palliative Care “Ukuhlanganisa inselele: kuvulekele okunye ukubukeka”.

usuku: ULwesine, 14 Mashi 2019 at 12:00.

Indawo: Aula Magna, I-Teaching Pavilion, Isibhedlela Jikelele Universitario Gregorio Marañón
C / Inhlekelele, 43
Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa kuwebhusayithi ye- Uhambo 2019 weMadrid Association of Palliative Care.

[Kubuyekezwe okufakiwe kokuthi 14 Mashi 2019, usuku lomcimbi].

“ukutholakala, Umphakathi nokukhula. Lawo amazwi umzimba wami owakhethayo ukuze afanekise ulwazi oluphelele loMhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila.. Ihlelwe yi-Spanish Institute of Focusing futhi ididiyelwe ithimba le-Sevillian le-Espacio Vivencial, Umhlangano wenzeka kusukela 12 al 15 Okthoba edolobheni elihle lase-Andalusian laseSeville, eningizimu yeSpain”.

Iqala kanjena indaba yami lapho ngichaza isipiliyoni sami se I-In-Focus, iphephandaba le-International Focusing Institute kaNovemba 2017. Esikhaleni engisihlinzekiwe, ngizamile ukubonisana ne-international Focusing community imisebenzi esihlanganyele kuyo Umhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila, ngesikhathi esifanayo engangifuna ukukhombisa futhi, ngokwesiko la Ukugxilisa kanye nefilosofi yokuhlangenwe nakho, bekuyini isipiliyoni sami. Kusukela lapha ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​ku Ukugxila Institute Spanish ngokubiza lo mcimbi omuhle kangaka, al Iqembu le-Espacio Vivencial eliholwa nguFrancisco Sivianes yokuwuxhumanisa kanye nesikhulumi ngasinye kanye nomhlanganyeli ngamunye owenze ukuba kwenzeke, kube yinto engingasoze yalibaleka.

• funda isihloko “Ukutholwa, Umphakathi kanye Nokukhula. Ingqungquthela Yoku-1 Evulekile Kazwelonke Yokugxila e-Seville” enguqulweni yokuqala yesingisi.
• Funda isihloko esihunyushelwe esiSpanishi esinesihloko “ukutholakala, Umphakathi nokukhula: I Open National Meeting of Focusing in Seville, Spain”.

Sethula u-Catherine Torpey, Umqondisi Omkhulu we-TIFI. Isithombe ngu-Francisco Sivianes.

Ngishiyele le bhulogi izici zomuntu siqu ezengeziwe, njengodumo engaba nalo lokukwazi ukwethula uCatherine Torpey, abeza eSeville ukuzokwethula lonke uhlobo lwamazwe ngamazwe lwe Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (TIFI) njenge Umqondisi ophakeme okufanayo. Kwami, ukuthi ngisebenzisana naye IKomidi Lobulungu isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka odlule, Kuyinto ukwaneliseka ukuthi umphakathi Focusing in Spain (nabahlanganyeli bakwamanye amazwe) angakwazi ukumazi mathupha u-Catherine nakho konke okwenziwa yi-International Institute of Focusing.

Indawo yami yokusebenzela “Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame”. Isithombe ngu-Francisco Sivianes.

Kube yilungelo futhi ukusingatha i-workshop yami “Ukugxilisa kanye nomsebenzi ngokwenza ubudlova”, lapho ngakwazi khona ukwabelana nabantu bezizwe ezinhlanu ezihlukene ezinye zezihluthulelo zokusebenzisa imizwa yomzimba kanye nenqubo yokugxila ekuhlonzeni udlame ngendlela ephelele futhi kukhiqize ukuphepha ezimpilweni zethu., inguqulo yesingeniso seshabhu yami “Ukugxilisa, umzimba kanye nokuphepha: Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame”.

Ziningi ezinye izinkumbulo, njengalezo zemihlangano yokucobelelana ngolwazi engaya kuyo, noma izinkomfa jikelele, noma abantu engahlangana nabo (entsha noma ejulile)… Ungabona okuningi mayelana nomkhathi wezikhathi ezahlukahlukene ezithombeni ezithathwe nguFrancisco Sivianes (Umqeqeshi ogxile kanye nomqondisi we-Espacio Vivencial): kwe ULwesine 12 Okthoba, kwe ULwesihlanu 13 Okthoba futhi kwe Saturday 14 Okthoba of 2017.

Okunye okutholakalayo yile phrezentheshini eyenziwe nguRosa Galiano enezithombe zakhe, nguFrancisco Sivianes nabanye abantu futhi yashicilelwa ku Isiteshi se-YouTube se-International Institute of Focusing:

Kube wumthombo wogqozi futhi ngiyethemba ukuthi izokukhuthaza nawe.

F. Javier Romeo

Ukuqwashisa umzimba njengendawo isivikelo ubudlova ingenye eziza kuqala yami emayelana nomsebenzi ukhiye. Lokhu workshop, “Ukugxilisa, umzimba kanye nokuphepha: Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame” Mina ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi wami eminyakeni engaphezu kweyishumi ezizimisele ukuvikela izingane ngokumelene izinhlobo ezahlukene zodlame (minyaka eyisishiyagalombili eminyakeni Spiral Consulting Izingane) ngamandla lobuchwepheshe Ukugxilisa, okuyinto singisize kokubili mathupha futhi efanele.

Ukugxilisa ungahlinzekela indlela entsha ukudala ukuphepha ezimpilweni zethu ngomzimba. Bonke abantu sifuna aphathwe kahle, ngenhlonipho nangokucabangela. Nokho, ubudlova ubufakazi emazingeni ahlukahlukene njalo. Uma singabantwana futhi nabo izingane, futhi intsha, kokubili imikhaya yethu futhi kusukela umsebenzi wethu, sibona izimo eziningi zodlame futhi sizibuze nendlela yokuzigwema ukuze zingasivimbi ke. Lokhu workshop eyedlule ukusebenza umqondo vivencial ngakho tekusebenta zodlame nge isizinda isipiliyoni kusuka emzimbeni. Ngakho singazibona ubudlova nemizimba yethu ngenkathi singenza ngokucace kakhudlwana futhi indlela zokuzivikela ezimpilweni zethu futhi ensimini wethu wezokusebenza.

Lokhu workshop sibhekiswe kubantu nothando lokufunda okwengeziwe mayelana nendlela yokuphatha udlame kusuka isikhundla sivikelekile umzimba, kokubili mathupha futhi efanele (Ochwepheshe kokungenela zomphakathi ezivela Psychology, ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe, social work, imfundo…). Ukugxilisa ulwazi ngaphambi kungukuthi ezidingekayo (nakuba kuyoba inzuzo). Lokhu workshop wokulandisa elibonakalayo ukuthola Diploma Ukugxilisa ka Ukugxila Institute Spanish.

usuku: Saturday 11 Novemba 2017 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00 nangeSonto 12 Novemba 2017 of 10:00 a 14:00.

Indawo: isikhala “Chitha lokhu ekhaya lakho”
C / Costa Brava, okokufaka C / La Masó 2, isitshalo 1, wendawo 8
28031 Madrid
(Metro Paco de uLucía, umugqa 9; amabhasi 133,134 futhi 178)

intengo: 170 euros.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe kanye nokubhalisa Ukugxilisa Centro, ukuqeqeshwa ehleliwe: focusingcentro@gmail.com

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke,

F. Javier Romeo

[Entry Original 16 October 2017, olusha 12 Novemba 2017, Usuku ukwakheka].

Kuyintokozo kimina ukunikeza indawo yami yokusebenzela “Ukugxilisa kanye nomsebenzi ngokwenza ubudlova” ngaphakathi kwe Umhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila ihlelwe yi Ukugxila Institute Spanish futhi ididiyelwe ngendlela engokoqobo yithimba le indawo yokuhlangenwe nakho eSevilla. Njengoba kuvela kuphrezentheshini, “Umhlangano Kazwelonke Wokugxila Ovulekile wokuqala ozokuba se-Seville, izinsuku 12, 13, 14 futhi 15 kusukela ngo-Okthoba 2017, futhi sikumema ukuthi ubambe iqhaza, Kuyindawo yokukhuthaza ukuhlangana phakathi kwabantu abasebenzisa i-Focusing emkhakheni othile wochwepheshe kanye nasezimpilweni zabo zomuntu siqu., noma abafuna ukuhlangana naye. Isikhala esisivumela ukuthi sisabalalise ukuzizwisa okusha kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe-Focusing emikhakheni eyahlukene: ukwelashwa, amaqembu, imfundo ,Impilo, ukukhula komuntu siqu, ingokomoya njll. Isikhala, ngamafuphi, lokho kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukushintshisana ngolwazi nokuzindla nge-paradigm yesipiliyoni kanye ne-Focusing”.

emsebenzini wokwelapha, umuntu ngamunye kanye neqembu, ekungeneleleni komphakathi namaqembu ahlukene (ikakhulukazi ebuntwaneni, ubusha nobusha), singabona imiphumela ubudlova obunayo ekuphileni kwabo. Inhloso jikelele yalo mhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi wukusebenza ngokuzibonela mayelana nodlame ezimpilweni zethu njengesinyathelo sokuqala sokuvimbela, thola futhi ungenele ezimeni zodlame.

usuku: Saturday 14 October 2017, at 16:30.

Indawo: Ihhotela NH Collection Sevilla
Avda. Diego Martinez Barrio, 8
41013 Sevilla

Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa, Xhumana iwebhusayithi yoMhlangano Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila eSeville 2017.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke,

F. Javier Romeo

[Entry Original 27 September 2017, olusha 14 October 2017, usuku lokusebenzela].

Ukusuka ukufa kukaGene Gendlin, the “ubaba” del Ukugxila, okokugcina 1 May 2017, umphakathi Wokugxila uzwakalise ukubonga ngomsebenzi nempilo yale ndoda enkulu kangaka, futhi ngibe nelungelo lokubamba iqhaza kokuthathu kwalokhu kuhlonishwa.

Intela eMadrid yiSpain Institute of Focusing

the 31 May 2017 umhlangano wokuhlonishwa kukaGene Gendlin ubanjwe uhlelwe ngu Elizabeth Gascón eThyme Open Centre, indawo yomlando yokuGxila eMadrid naseSpain, lapho ukukhushulwa okuningana esikwenzile khona. Ekuhlanganeni nabantu abaseduze nabakude, nangobukhona ebangeni labanye abantu abaningi, sabelane ngesikhathi sokukhumbula uGene Gendlin nakho konke asilethele kona.

Njengesenzo sokugcina, Silungiselele isihlahla esincane u-Isabel asitshala kamuva kanye nabanye abantu abavela emhlabeni weFocusing eSierra de Madrid, endlini esinezinkumbulo eziningi kangaka zokwakheka, Izikole zasehlobo nezinsuku zokugxila kuzwelonke.

Ngomuthi omncane, izithombe zikaGene Gendlin nomkakhe, UMary Hendricks-Gendlin, kanye no-Isabel Gascón, UTomeu Barceló nabanye abantu.

Tribute eGarrison Institute eNew York yiNgqungquthela Yomhlaba Wonke Yezokwelapha Egxile Kwezokwelapha 2017

NoYolanda Bernárdez, Umqeqeshi ne-FOP yaseSpain, phambi kwesihlahla iGene Gendlin eGarrison Institute.

the 22 June 2017, njengengxenye yomcimbi wokuvula we Ingqungquthela Yomhlaba Wonke ye-IV Yokugxila Ekwelapheni Okuqondiswayo 2017, okwenzeka eGarrison Institute (UGarrison, I-New York), kwakukhona isikhala sokukhumbula uGene Gendlin. Kwakuyilungelo kimi ukubamba iqhaza kulowo mcimbi wokuqala wamazwe omhlaba owenzeka ngemuva kokushona kukaGene Gendlin., futhi uzwe ngqo okwabiwe ngabantu abaningi ababemazi amashumi eminyaka, ngama-anecdotes, imininingwane, ukufunda nezinkumbulo kukonke, futhi lokho kwazwakala ngaphakathi kimi.

Y, ngokumangazayo, ubeselungisile nesiqu esincane (inkulu kuneMadrid) ukuyitshala eGarrison Institute, indawo efanekisela ukwakheka okuningi kakhulu komphakathi wamazwe omhlaba wokuGxila, futhi lapho uGene Gendlin afundisa khona kaningi. Isihlahla siphinde sasebenza ukulengisa wonke amakhadi ngezifiso ezinhle zeNgqungquthela esiyibhale phakathi kweqembu lababambe iqhaza futhi sasikhona egumbini lokuhlanganyela kwaze kwaba sekupheleni.

Inkokhiso Esemthethweni evela e-International Institute of Focusing eNew York

Nalomgqibelo 12 Agasti 2017 umcimbi osemthethweni wenziwe ngu Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute, TIFI) edolobheni elisha laseyork, kepha sakaza bukhoma futhi unake ngokusemthethweni ingxoxo yabahlanganyeli abavela kuwo wonke umhlaba. Ngaphandle kwebanga nemidiya yezobuchwepheshe, insizakalo ephelele nezingxoxo ezilandelayo ziyatholakala ngokuphelele ku-inthanethi (unezikhathi zangaphambilini namakhefu afakiwe, ngakho inkokhiso uqobo iqala ngomzuzu 16 yevidiyo).

Kube nezikhathi eziningi ezikhethekile. Phakathi kwabo ngingaqokomisa:

• Umbono onikezwe nguGerry Gendlin, Indodana kaGene Gendlin, kayise, Olandelayo, komuntu, nangesithembiso esamenza wasigcina: kusikhumbuze sonke ukuthi uGene wayehlukanisile nonkosikazi wakhe wokuqala futhi wabhema, ukuze sihlale sazi ukuthi wayengumuntu onamaphutha nemikhawulo (kusuka 1 isikhathi 23 imizuzu kuvidiyo).
• Izikhathi eziyisishiyagalombili ezabiwe ngu-Ann Weiser Cornell, lokho kuguqula isimo sengqondo sikaGendlin ezindaweni eziningi zomcabango kanye nokugxila ngokujwayelekile (itholakala kusuka ku- 1 isikhathi 07 imizuzu yevidiyo).
• Isikhala esivulekile lapho abantu abaningi babelane khona, ukwethula noma ukuthumela imibhalo yakho (Kuyatholakala kusuka ku- 3 amahora 2 imizuzu kanye 30 imizuzwana).

Ngikumema ukuba ubheke le vidiyo nokuthi ungajoyina ngandlela thile isigqoko ngempilo nomsebenzi kaGene Gendlin. Ungafunda kabanzi ekhasini le-Gene Gendlin: www.eugenegendlin.com.

Ngenhlonipho ejulile nangokugubha,

F. Javier Romeo

Eugene Gendlin, isithombe esisemthethweni se-International Institute of Focusing.

Eugene (“Gene”) UGendlin udlule emhlabeni izolo 1 May 2017 eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalolunye ubudala, futhi mina, njengawo wonke umphakathi we-Focusing, Kungithinta ukudlula kwakhe emhlabeni, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngibonga ngayo yonke iminikelo yenu.

U-Eugene Gendlin wazalwa ngo 25 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 1926 eVienna, E-Austria, futhi waphunyuka ekushushisweni kwamaNazi ngokufika e-United States 1939. ngokwemvelo yaseMelika, Uqhubekile wazuza i-BA kuFilosofi kanye ne-Ph.D. ngemuva kokusebenza iminyaka engaphezu kweshumi ngokubambisana no-Carl Rogers eNyuvesi yaseChicago.. Isithelo sokuqeqeshwa kwakhe kabili njengesazi sefilosofi nanjengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, umnikelo wakho ubanzi kakhulu.

UGendlin wayehlale egcizelela ukuthi akukho “idaliwe” the Ukugxilisa, inqubo yokuzazi nokuphulukisa ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo ngokusebenzisa imizwa yomzimba, kodwa kuphela “ithole izinyathelo ezimbalwa zokwenza inqubo ifinyeleleke kakhudlwana”. Njengamanje iyithuluzi elisetshenziswa ku-psychotherapy nakwezinye izindawo eziningi.. Futhi konke akutholile kuhambisana nokuhlakazeka okuqinile kobuhlakani, ifilosofi yento engacacile.

e 1985 yakha lokho manje Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute) ukunikeza ukuqhubeka kuyo yonke le migqa yomsebenzi, okuhlanganisa okungaphezu kwalokho 2000 ochwepheshe nabasekeli abavela kuwo wonke umhlaba, nalapho eshiye khona wonke umtapo wakhe wezincwadi ongatholakala ku-inthanethi (le I-Gendlin Online Library).

Naphezu kokukhula kwakhe, ngezinkinga zempilo kanye nokushona komkakhe UMary Hendricks-Gendlin eminyakeni emibili edlule, UGendlin wayehlale ekhuthele ngaphakathi kwamakhono akhe, ukubhala izihloko kanye nokubamba iqhaza ekuqeqesheni ngocingo.

Endabeni yami, ngaphandle kokufunda izincwadi zakhe nemibhalo yakhe, Ngiye ngaba nenjabulo nodumo lokubamba iqhaza eziningana “Izingxoxo ezivela onqenqemeni noGene [Gendlin] Y Ann [Weiser Cornell]”, ihlelwe yilaba bakamuva (ver imicabango yami evela engxoxweni kaSepthemba–Okthoba ka 2016). Kimina kube yilungelo ukukwazi ukukhuluma naye ngokuqondile, ngemfudumalo yakhe nobuhlakani bakhe naphezu kwezinhlungu nobunzima bakhe, ukubona intshisekelo yakhe kumuntu ngamunye nasemhlabeni, futhi unentshisekelo enkulu yokwazi ukuthi ifa lakhe laqhubeka kanjani. Futhi ngahlabeka umxhwele ngokuba khona kwakhe ngesikhathi engiphelezela ohlelweni lwe-Focusing kwenye yezingxoxo zokugcina.

I-International Institute of Focusing inikeze amandla ikhasi elikhethekile lokuhlonipha inkumbulo ka-Gendlin (www.EugeneGendlin.com), futhi ukusuka lapha ngikumema ukuthi ubambe iqhaza, ukufunda imibono yabanye abantu noma ukwengeza okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. Impela ngizizwa ngidabukile kakhulu ngalokhu kulahlekelwa., futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ngigubha ukwazi umsebenzi kaGene Gendlin phakathi neminyaka edlule futhi ngikwazile ukukhuluma naye bukhoma izikhathi eziningana.. Ngizizwa ngiyingxenye yefa lakhe, futhi ngethemba ukuthi ngizoyidlulisela ngemfudumalo, ephefumulelwe nguye.

Emkhosini nasekulileni,

F. Javier Romeo

Ukuthuthukela 14 Agasti 2017: Ngibhale entry mayelana izinkokhelo ezintathu kuGene Gendlin engibambe iqhaza kukho, lokho kuqeda isici esabiwe ezingeni Lomphakathi.

Kuyilungelo kimi ukumenywa ukuthi ngizokwenza umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukugxilisa nomzimba ubukhulu zobudlova” ngaphakathi kwe Usuku lokusebenza “Imizwelo kanye ukwelashwa kwengqondo: Izinselele kanye nezicelo”, ihlelwe yi I-Comillas Pontifical University yaseMadrid.

Ekubonisaneni nokwelashwa kwengqondo sibona izimo eziningi zodlame, kusukela kokucashile kuya kokuqine kakhulu, futhi ikakhulukazi imiphumela yako.. Le workshop iphakamisa uhambo lokuhlangenwe nakho ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo zolwazi ezisekelwe ku-Eugene Gendlin's Focusing.. Ngale ndlela sizokwazi ukuhlonza udlame kuma-corporal (Ngaphezu komqondo), isinyathelo esibalulekile sokwandisa ukusebenza kahle kwethu ekuvimbeleni, ukutholakala nokungenelela ezimeni zodlame (ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kanye nemiphumela yako ebudala, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, udlame lobulili…).

usuku: ULwesithathu, 15 Mashi 2017, of 15:30 a 17:30.

Indawo: I-Comillas Pontifical University yaseMadrid – I-ICADE
C/ Alberto Aguilera, 23
Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa kuwebhusayithi ye-Comillas Pontifical University of Madrid.

Landa uhlelo oluphelele lweNkomfa “Imizwa kanye Nokwelashwa Kwengqondo: Izinselele kanye nezicelo”.

[Entry Original 27 February 2017, olusha 15 Mashi 2017, usuku lomcimbi].

Ngenjabulo enkulu ngimemezela ukubukeka kwe Ukugxilisa Centro, iphrojekthi entsha yokuqeqeshwa okuphelele ku-Focusing engibamba iqhaza kuyo njengomhlanganyeli wangaphandle.

Ngemva kwezinyanga zokulungiselela, lesi sinyathelo esisha ekugcineni siyakubona ukukhanya. Benze a ithimba le-Focusing professionals onolwazi olunzulu: Elizabeth Gascón, Lucia Emma, UCarlos González noBeatriz Cazurro, futhi siyayisekela ngokubambisana kwangaphandle nabanye abaqeqeshi be-Focusing, okuhlanganisa nami.

Njengoba ivela kuwebhusayithi, Ukugxilisa Centro yiqembu lochwepheshe eligunyazwe yi-International Institute of Focusing elazalwa ngokuzibophezela nomdlandla wokunikeza ukuqeqeshwa komuntu siqu, eqinile futhi izinga. E-Focusing Centro sikholelwa ngokuqinile kuleli khono lokuziphilisa lomzimba sonke esinalo futhi sifuna ukusabalalisa nokufundisa le nqubo kanye nale filosofi ngokuqeqeshwa komuntu siqu., eqinile futhi izinga. Kuhlinzekwa uhlelo oluphelele lokuqeqeshwa kanye nethuba lokuthi abantu abaqeqeshwayo njengamanje baqedele umsebenzi wabo.

Ngeminye imininingwane, into engcono kakhulu ukuthi usebenzise amathuba anikezwa ku ikhasi lokuxhumana ngqo, kulapho behlanganisa khona lonke ulwazi. Uma usafuna ukungibuza okuthile okuqondile, Ngingakwazi futhi ukukwazisa ngokusebenzisa imigudu evamile yokuxhumana.

Ngomdlandla nangethemba,

Javier

Kungukwaneliseka kimi ukwabelana ngokushicilelwa kwe Ukugxilisa e umkhuba emtholampilo. Ingqikithi yoshintsho, incwadi yokugcina ye Ann Weiser Cornell ngeSpanishi, kuleli cala elihunyushwe yimi.

Kuhlelo olucophelelayo ngaphakathi kwe Psychology Library kusuka I-Desclée yokuhlela, le ncwadi ivela ngenxa yomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wabantu abaningi, Ngiyabonga kusuka lapha.

Okokuqala, Ann Weiser Cornell uzimisele ukuba le ncwadi ishicilelwe (eyaqala ukuvela kumshicileli wezempilo yengqondo ohlonishwayo waseMelika W. W. Norton), futhi ubelokhu ekhona ekuhumusheni ku-nuances ngayinye, ngiphendula imibuzo ehlukene futhi ngibheke nami amagama afaneleka kakhulu imiqondo nezinkulumo zawo. Ufake nesandla a isandulela esifudumele sohlelo lweSpanishi (engafundwa ku incwajana yokuphromotha), lapho ithi:

Kule ncwadi ngizamile ukuchaza i-Focusing ngendlela elula kodwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkimbinkimbi eyenza ikhetheke kakhulu.. Ngizamile ukwenza le ncwadi ibe usizo kakhulu, ukuze umtholampilo akwazi ukusisebenzisa ngokushesha. (P. 18)

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umfutho we Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi Wokugxila Kazwelonke kanye nomeluleki wami ku-Focusing, usethe incwadi, kusukela ekusebenzisaneni nomshicileli kuya ekubuyekezweni okuphelele kwemibhalo kanye isethulo kuhlelo lweSpanishi eqokomisa isithakazelo sale ncwadi kubantu abakhuluma iSpanishi (iyatholakala futhi ku incwajana yokuphromotha).

Ekugcineni, intshisekelo nokunakekelwa kwethimba labahleli be Kwehlisiwe, osebenze ukuze azuze incwadi enhle necacile, kwelinye lamaqoqo e-psychology ahlonishwa kakhulu eSpain.

Ezingosini ezizayo ngizobe ngiphawula kwezinye izici zale ncwadi engizithola ziwusizo. Okwamanje ngikushiya nenkomba (elikhuliswayo lapha), Ngizophawula ngezahluko ezihlukene kwezinye izingosi zebhulogi:

• Isingeniso. umnyango ovulekayo.
• 1. Ingqikithi yoshintsho.
• 2. Lungiselela umhlangano: Ungethula kanjani i-Focusing kumaseshini namaklayenti.
• 3. Bona futhi uhlakulele imizwa ezwakalayo.
• 4. Siza amaklayenti aveze izinzwa.
• 5. Hlakulela Ukuzibonakalisa Kwekhasimende: Indawo ebalulekile yezinzwa ezizwakalayo.
• 6. ejula: Indlela yokwenza lula ushintsho oluzwakalayo.
• 7. Lapho kuba nzima kakhulu ngathi ukusebenza nobunzima obuthile bamakhasimende.
• 8. Ukugxila nokuhlukumezeka, imilutha nokucindezeleka.
• 9. Hlanganisa Ukugxila ezindleleni ezahlukene zokwelapha.
• 10. Ukugxila kumelaphi.
• Isithasiselo.

Kimina kuwumgubho esingathembela kuwo ngale ncwadi ngendlela ewusizo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ejulile, futhi ngithemba ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuyifunda njengoba ngikujabulele ukuyihumusha.

F. Javier Romeo

Qaphela:
uma ufuna ukuzama iseshini yokugxila, noma uqale ukwelashwa, ngineyami ukubonisana kwengqondo eMadrid, lapho ngiphelezela khona abafana namantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala futhi ngizojabula ukunamukela.

Ecosha intambo yokungenela nge ama-brushstrokes we-International Focusing Conference okwenzeka eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) kwe 20 al 24 July 2016, iqembu lesithakazelo Ukugxila Kwezempilo Yomphakathi (Ukugxila Kwezenhlalakahle Zomphakathi) Kwaba kimi okunye okuvelele. Bekuyisipiliyoni sokudala umphakathi ngendlela eyabiwe ngokusebenzisa i- uyalalela, le translation, imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili futhi isimo sengqondo sokugxila.

Sekuyizinyanga ezimbalwa, futhi bengilokhu ngibhala mayelana nolwazi lwami (konke okufakiwe kuvela kunkomba yokugcina yalokhu kungena), futhi ngiba nomuzwa ofudumele nomnene lapho ngikhumbula leliQembu. Njalo ekuseni ngeNgqungquthela, iqembu labahlanganyeli lijoyina elinye lamaQembu Abathakazelayo ayishumi nanhlanu. Lawa bekungamaqembu abefuna ukuba yindawo evulekile yokwabelana ngemibono yomuntu siqu kanye nephrofeshinali mayelana nokugxila ezindaweni ezithile.. Ngalingwa izihloko eziningi (kwakukhona ngisho a “Iqembu Lenzalo Ngaphandle Kwenzalo Eqondile”, nakuba ihlaya lizwakala kangcono ngesiNgisi). Ngeneliseke kakhulu ngokukhetha kwami, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi ngiyazisola ngokungakwazi ukuzihlukanisa ukuze ngikwazi ukuhambela ezinye eziningi…

Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yamazwe Ngamazwe YaseCambridge (I-RU), uJulayi 2016.

Iqembu Lesithakazelo Ukugxila Kwezempilo Yomphakathi (Ukugxila Kwezenhlalakahle Zomphakathi) yahlanganiswa ngu Nina Joy Lawrence, Pat Omidian futhi U-Heidrun Essler, lokho kwadala indawo yesiqukathi ukuze sikwazi ukubamba iqhaza futhi, njengoba bebevele bekulindele, okwe “yethula amakhono okugxila kanye nezimo zengqondo ezimpilweni zethu zansuku zonke nasemaqenjini omphakathi” -ngisho naseqenjini lethu esithakaselayo-. Thanks!

Isici sokuqala kwaba uyalalela. Sasingabahlanganyeli abayishumi nesithupha abavela emazweni ayisithupha ahlukene (I-Afghanistan, Germany, China, Spain, I-United States ne-United Kingdom), futhi akubona bonke ababesazi kahle isiNgisi, ngakho isinyathelo sokuqala sokwakha umphakathi wethu kwakuwukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyaziveza futhi aqonde noma yini esiyishoyo: lokho kusho ukuthi sigcine sesisebenzisa izilimi ezintathu ezahlukene zokusebenza (IsiNgisi, isiShayina neSpanishi). Okungase kube umthwalo (humusha, isibonelo lokho okwashiwo umhlanganyeli waseShayina kumaNgisi, futhi ukusuka lapho ukuya eSpanishi, bese uphendula ngesiNgisi, bese uhumushela impendulo olimini lwesiShayina neSpanishi, njll.) yaba isipho esiyigugu: ithuba lokulalela umuntu ngamunye esimweni esijulile sokugxila, ngisho nangaphambi kokuba amagama ahunyushwe. Ngakho sihlakulela indlela yokuba ndawonye nesigqi esikhululekile, indawo lapho umuntu ngamunye elalela abanye abakhuluma ngezilimi zakwamanye amazwe futhi, ngandlela thize, ekupheleni, saqala ukuqonda okuhlangenwe nakho kwesikhulumi ngaphambi kokuhumusha.

isipiliyoni sesibili, okwakungithinta kakhulu, kwaba translation Ngokwakhe. Bengilokhu ngihumusha ezimeni ezahlukene naphakathi kwezilimi ezahlukene iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amabili, futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu kuzilungiselelo professional (isibonelo, ukuhumusha abaqeqeshi be-Forcusing bangaphandle lapha eSpain). Kodwa kimina, ukuhumusha ingxoxo egxilile njalo kuwumzamo okhethekile., ukuqaphela ukuhumusha kokubili amagama kanye nolwazi olutholakala kulawo magama akhethiwe.

Lokho kungibeke kwelinye izinga: iqiniso lokuhumusha (phakathi kwesiNgisi neSpanishi, ngazo zombili izindlela) eqenjini engangizizwa njengomphakathi langikhumbuza izinguqulo zami zentsha yezifiki ukwakha iqembu enhlanganweni engasekho. Ngenkathi ngabelana ngalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okukabili kwe, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwaneliseka kokukwazi ukuhumusha endaweni yomphakathi kanye, komunye, isililo sososeshini olahlekile, amanye amalungu eqembu nawo abelane ngemiphakathi abalahlekelwe kuyona - nokuthi kanjani imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili babekhona futhi benendawo kulokho esasikudala—.

Phakathi nalezo zikhathi ezine saxoxa, sazama ukuvivinya umzimba, siyaphawula… Njengoba ngihlanganyele emzuliswaneni wokugcina wokuvala, Ngangize eqenjini ngenhloso enkulu yokuthola imibono, amasu nokuzivocavoca ukwakha umphakathi osebenzisa i-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithatha into ehluke kakhulu: a isimo sengqondo sokugxila lokho kuthanda ukuba khona, lokho kuvumela iqembu kanye nelungu ngalinye lalo ukuthi linake izinga elihlukile lomzwelo, ukuxhumana okulondoloziwe okuvela emzimbeni.

Lezi ezinye zezifundo ezizohlala nami isikhathi eside (Empeleni, Sengike ngavakashela I-Focusing Initiatives International, inhlangano esiza ukusabalalisa i-Community Wellness Focusing, futhi ngibhalisele i Uhlu Lwezingxoxo Ezigxile Kwezempilo Yomphakathi, uhlu lwama-imeyili olubika kulokhu kusakazwa, isiZulu), kanye nokubonga okujulile kubasingathi bethu kanye nelungu ngalinye leqembu. Manje yisikhathi “qhubekela phambili” konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okudala imiphakathi enalezi zimo zengqondo zokugxila.

Ngifisela nina eningifundele ulwazi oluningi olujulile lokwakhiwa komphakathi kanje.

F. Javier Romeo Biedma

Qaphela: Isithombe sishicilelwe ngemvume yamalungu eqembu. Awekho amagama afanele anikezwayo ngenxa yokuhlonipha ubumfihlo bakho, ngaphandle kwalabo bomengameli bokusingatha abanikeze Iqembu Lentshisekelo esidlangalaleni.

Funda lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi.