Kungukwaneliseka kimi ukwabelana ngokushicilelwa kwe Ukugxilisa e umkhuba emtholampilo. Ingqikithi yoshintsho, incwadi yokugcina ye Ann Weiser Cornell ngeSpanishi, kuleli cala elihunyushwe yimi.

Kuhlelo olucophelelayo ngaphakathi kwe Psychology Library kusuka I-Desclée yokuhlela, le ncwadi ivela ngenxa yomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wabantu abaningi, Ngiyabonga kusuka lapha.

Okokuqala, Ann Weiser Cornell uzimisele ukuba le ncwadi ishicilelwe (eyaqala ukuvela kumshicileli wezempilo yengqondo ohlonishwayo waseMelika W. W. Norton), futhi ubelokhu ekhona ekuhumusheni ku-nuances ngayinye, ngiphendula imibuzo ehlukene futhi ngibheke nami amagama afaneleka kakhulu imiqondo nezinkulumo zawo. Ufake nesandla a isandulela esifudumele sohlelo lweSpanishi (engafundwa ku incwajana yokuphromotha), lapho ithi:

Kule ncwadi ngizamile ukuchaza i-Focusing ngendlela elula kodwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkimbinkimbi eyenza ikhetheke kakhulu.. Ngizamile ukwenza le ncwadi ibe usizo kakhulu, ukuze umtholampilo akwazi ukusisebenzisa ngokushesha. (P. 18)

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umfutho we Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi Wokugxila Kazwelonke kanye nomeluleki wami ku-Focusing, usethe incwadi, kusukela ekusebenzisaneni nomshicileli kuya ekubuyekezweni okuphelele kwemibhalo kanye isethulo kuhlelo lweSpanishi eqokomisa isithakazelo sale ncwadi kubantu abakhuluma iSpanishi (iyatholakala futhi ku incwajana yokuphromotha).

Ekugcineni, intshisekelo nokunakekelwa kwethimba labahleli be Kwehlisiwe, osebenze ukuze azuze incwadi enhle necacile, kwelinye lamaqoqo e-psychology ahlonishwa kakhulu eSpain.

Ezingosini ezizayo ngizobe ngiphawula kwezinye izici zale ncwadi engizithola ziwusizo. Okwamanje ngikushiya nenkomba (elikhuliswayo lapha), Ngizophawula ngezahluko ezihlukene kwezinye izingosi zebhulogi:

• Isingeniso. umnyango ovulekayo.
• 1. Ingqikithi yoshintsho.
• 2. Lungiselela umhlangano: Ungethula kanjani i-Focusing kumaseshini namaklayenti.
• 3. Bona futhi uhlakulele imizwa ezwakalayo.
• 4. Siza amaklayenti aveze izinzwa.
• 5. Hlakulela Ukuzibonakalisa Kwekhasimende: Indawo ebalulekile yezinzwa ezizwakalayo.
• 6. ejula: Indlela yokwenza lula ushintsho oluzwakalayo.
• 7. Lapho kuba nzima kakhulu ngathi ukusebenza nobunzima obuthile bamakhasimende.
• 8. Ukugxila nokuhlukumezeka, imilutha nokucindezeleka.
• 9. Hlanganisa Ukugxila ezindleleni ezahlukene zokwelapha.
• 10. Ukugxila kumelaphi.
• Isithasiselo.

Kimina kuwumgubho esingathembela kuwo ngale ncwadi ngendlela ewusizo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ejulile, futhi ngithemba ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuyifunda njengoba ngikujabulele ukuyihumusha.

F. Javier Romeo

Qaphela:
uma ufuna ukuzama iseshini yokugxila, noma uqale ukwelashwa, ngineyami ukubonisana kwengqondo eMadrid, lapho ngiphelezela khona abafana namantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala futhi ngizojabula ukunamukela.