Ngesonto eledlule le ncwadi yethulwe ngokusemthethweni bheka ukuvikela. Izihluthulelo zokuqonda udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nokuthuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezisebenzayo, ukuthi sichaze kabanzi umlingani wami Pepa Horno futhi mina kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane okwe I-UNICEF yaseSpain. Njengenjwayelo nge okuthunyelwe kwami, umkhakha la ukungena ngesandla bheka ukuvikela kuleyo bhulogi futhi wandise kwezinye izici ezifanele lapha.

Imanuwali inezici ezintathu ezibalulekile ukwabelana ngazo lapha.

Okokuqala, ihlela kabanzi imiqondo eyisisekelo ukuqonda udlame. Abantu abaningi abathola ukwelashwa kufanele baqonde ukuthi kwenzekeni kubo nokuthi kanjani, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile inqubo yokuhambisana yanele, ngezinye izikhathi bangicela ireferensi ukuze baqhubeke nokwandisa. Imanuwali, nakuba iwubuchwepheshe futhi ihloselwe ochwepheshe abasebenza nezingane, futhi intsha, futhi ingasiza abantu ngomsebenzi owanele wokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nokwandisa kulowo mugqa, le manuwali iwusizo futhi kuma-psychotherapist abafuna ukuvuselela ulwazi namakhono abo. Ngemisebenzi ehlongozwayo kuso sonke isahluko singanweba ukuzwela kwethu namandla ethu okuhambisana nezinqubo ezihlobene nodlame nokuhlukumezeka kanye nokuphulukiswa kwazo.. Ingxenye engokoqobo iklanyelwe ukuhlakulela ukuqaphela ukungenelela kwethu.

Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kobukhulu bomzimba kokubili kubudlova kanye nemiphumela yako (ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezekeni nasekuhlukaneni) njengasekululameni. Imanuwali yonke inezici zomzimba, futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza umuzwa wenhlalakahle ukuthi uzama ukwakha ezindaweni ezikhona Izindawo Eziphephile Nezivikelekile.

Imanuwali bheka ukuvikela ingalandwa mahhala kuwebhusayithi ye-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke, futhi ngizothanda ukwazi ukuthi uyamukela kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

[Thumela ngeSpanishi. Bona okuthunyelwe kwangempela ngesiNgisi.]
the Ukugxilisa ibilokhu inomnyombo wayo umgomo wokuthuthukisa umphakathi, hhayi nje abantu ngabanye. U-Gendlin wabhala kabanzi mayelana nenhlalo nepolitiki ye-Focusing., njengoba umuzwa ozwakalayo usinikeza ukuqonda okungcono kwempilo yethu yangaphakathi nezimo zethu zangaphandle. Kusukela emsebenzini womuntu siqu ojulile, Ukugxila kusimema ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni babantu nezinhlaka zomphakathi ngamandla, ukuguquguquka nokuqwashisa, kanye nokuqala ukwenza izinguquko esifuna ukuzibona emhlabeni.

Kukho konke lokhu kuwudumo kimina ukwethula ishabhu yami yokusebenzela “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengendlela yokumela ipolitiki?” (isihloko sokuqala sesiNgisi sithi “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengokumela”) kuNgqungquthela Yesithathu Yokuzwakala (Third Felt Sense Conference), ihlelwe yi Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke ku-inthanethi kulo nyaka 2021 ngokugxila ku “Ukukhishwa okuhlanganisiwe: umuzwa ozwakalayo kanye Nobulungiswa Kwezenhlalakahle” (isiZulu “Inkululeko Ehlanganisiwe: i-Felt Sense & Ubulungiswa Bezenhlalakahle”). Eshabhubhu yami ngihlela ukwenza umehluko phakathi komsebenzi Wokuvikelwa Kwezingane engiwusungula ku-consultant yami, Spiral Consulting Izingane, kanye nobukhulu bangaphakathi bokugxila. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, Ngithemba ukunikeza izici zokuqwashisa kwangaphakathi ezizoba usizo kunoma ubani ozibophezele ku-Social Justice, hhayi kuphela ngokuvikelwa kwezingane.

usuku: ULwesihlanu, 3 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2021, of 11:00 a 13:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (17:00-19:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid, bona ezinye izikhala zesikhathi lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Isisho: IsiNgisi.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe kanye nokubhalisa: página web ye-Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Entry Original 24 Novemba 2021, olusha 3 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2021, usuku lomcimbi].

Ukugxila bekulokhu kunomongo wakho wokuthuthukisa umphakathi, hhayi nje kwabantu ngabanye. U-Gendlin wabhala kabanzi mayelana nesimo senhlalo nepolitiki se-Focusing, njengoba umuzwa ozwakalayo unikeza ukuqonda okungcono kwempilo yethu yangaphakathi - kanye nezimo zangaphandle. Ukuqala emsebenzini womuntu siqu ojulile, Ukugxila kusimema ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni babantu nezinhlaka zomphakathi ngamandla, ukuguquguquka nokuqwashisa kanye nokuqala izinguquko esifuna ukuzibona emhlabeni.

Ngakho-ke ngizizwa ngihloniphekile ngokwethula ishabhu yami yokusebenzela “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengokumela” kwe Third Felt Sense Conference, ihlelwe ngu I-International Focusing Institute ku-inthanethi kulo nyaka 2021 ngokugxila ku “Inkululeko Ehlanganisiwe: i-Felt Sense & Ubulungiswa Bezenhlalakahle”. Eshabhubhu yami ngihlela ukweqa umsebenzi wokuvikelwa kwezingane engiwuthuthukisa enkampanini yami yokusiza umphakathi, Spiral Consulting Izingane, nge-dimension yangaphakathi ye-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithemba ukunikeza ukuqwashisa kwangaphakathi kuwo wonke umuntu ozibophezele ku-Social Justice, hhayi nje Ekuvikelweni Kwezingane.

Usuku: NgoLwesihlanu, Disemba 3 2021, 11:00-13:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (17:00-19:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid, hlola isikhathi sakho lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Ulimi: IsiNgisi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Iwebhusayithi yeThird Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Okuthunyelwe kwangempela kwangomhla zingama-24 kuNovemba 2021, ibuyekezwe ngoDisemba 3 2021, usuku lomcimbi].

[Funda lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi]

Kuyinjabulo kimina ukukwazi ukuqhuba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukuthola umqondo ozwakalayo ngezinto: indlela yokuxhumana nezingxenye zangaphakathi” e Inkomfa Yamazwe Ngamazwe Ye-inthanethi Yokwelapha Okuqondiswayo (Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Kumazwe Ngamazwe) lokho okuhlelwe ukuthi kwenzeke phakathi kwe 21 futhi 25 October 2020 (phakathi 22 futhi 26 e-Asia nase-Oceania).

Kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi mayelana ne-Focusing Guided Psychotherapy (I-Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy/Therapy, I-FOT / FOP), omunye wemigqa yomsebenzi engiyilandelayo lapho Ngihambisana ne-psychotherapy kokubili mathupha nangevidiyo.

“Ukusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni kungaba inselele ngezindlela eziningi. Singakwazi ukusiza ukuqonda kangcono izingxenye zangaphakathi ngokusebenzisa izinto (izibalo, amapensela, ubumba). Inqubo yokukhetha into eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ingasiza ukukhiqiza umuzwa ozwakalayo ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuchaza ngokweqile.. Ngale ndlela, singasiza iklayenti ngalinye (kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ebudaleni) lalela zonke izingxenye ngaphakathi, ukuze ukwazi ukubona umnyakazo wempilo uya phambili kubo futhi wakhe ubudlelwano obungcono nabo. Lokhu kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi, ngakho-ke kuhle ukuletha izinto ezimbalwa ezincane ezingasetshenziswa ekubonisaneni (amapensela anemibala ayishumi nambili azokwenza).

Okuqukethwe okubalulekile:

1) Imibono emihlanu ebalulekile yokusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi nezingane, amantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala.

2) Isibonelo senqubo yokufuna umuzwa ozwakalayo ngezinto.

3) Isipiliyoni esincane sokusebenza ngezinto ukuze wonke umuntu akwazi ukuthuthukisa isitayela sakhe somuntu siqu.”

usuku: ULwesihlanu 23 October 2020, 09:00-11:00 ngesikhathi saseNew York (15:00-17:00 ngesikhathi saseMadrid) (thola uhlelo lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Isisho: ishabhu izoba ngesiNgisi futhi ihunyushelwe kanye kanye ngesiSpanishi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Isizindalwazi seNgqungquthela Yamazwe Ngamazwe Yokwelashwa Okuqondisiwe (i-International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference).

[Entry Original 7 October 2020, olusha 20 October 2020, usuku lomcimbi].

[Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi].

Ngijabule kakhulu ngokukwazi ukuqhuba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukuzwa imizwa ngezinto: indlela yokuxhumana nezingxenye zangaphakathi” kwe ku-inthanethi Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Ekugxileni Kwamazwe Ngamazwe lokho kuzokwenzeka ku-inthanethi kusukela ngo-Okthoba 21st. kuze kube umhlaka-25. 2020 (Okthoba 22.-26. e-Asia nase-Australasia).

Kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi mayelana ne-Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy.

“Ukusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni kungaba inselele ngezindlela eziningi. Ukusebenzisa izinto (imifanekiso, amapensela, Ipulasitiki) ingavumela ukuqonda okungcono kwezingxenye zangaphakathi. Inqubo yokukhetha into eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ingakhuthaza ukuzwa ngaphandle kokuchaza ngokweqile. Ngale ndlela, singasiza amaklayenti - izingane kodwa nabantu abadala - ukulalela ingxenye ngayinye, ukubona ugqozi oluya phambili kubo futhi bakhe ubuhlobo obungcono nabo. Lena kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi, ngakho-ke sicela ulethe izinto ezincane ongazisebenzisa egumbini lakho lokwelapha (ishumi nambili lamapensela anemibala azokwanela).

Okuthathayo:

1) Imibono emihlanu ebalulekile yokusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni nezingane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala.

2) Isibonelo senqubo yokuzwa ngezinto.

3) Isipiliyoni esifushane sokusebenza ngezinto, ukuthuthukisa isitayela sakho siqu.”

Usuku: NgoLwesihlanu zingama-23 kuMfumfu 2020, 09:00-11:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (15:00-17:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid) (isikhathi sakho lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Ulimi: ishabhu izoba ngesiNgisi futhi ihunyushelwe kanye kanye ngesiSpanishi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Isizindalwazi se-International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference.

[Okuthunyelwe kwangempela kusuka ngomhlaka-7 Okthoba 2020, ibuyekezwe ngo-Okthoba 23 2020, usuku lomcimbi].

isethulo “Umzimba kanye amaphuzu amane eziyinhloko: Ukuzinakekela nabanakekeli” kwe Uhambo 2019 kusuka I-Madrid Association of Palliative Care “Ukuhlanganisa inselele: kuvulekele okunye ukubukeka”.

usuku: ULwesine, 14 Mashi 2019 at 12:00.

Indawo: Aula Magna, I-Teaching Pavilion, Isibhedlela Jikelele Universitario Gregorio Marañón
C / Inhlekelele, 43
Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa kuwebhusayithi ye- Uhambo 2019 weMadrid Association of Palliative Care.

[Kubuyekezwe okufakiwe kokuthi 14 Mashi 2019, usuku lomcimbi].

Ukuqwashisa umzimba njengendawo isivikelo ubudlova ingenye eziza kuqala yami emayelana nomsebenzi ukhiye. Lokhu workshop, “Ukugxilisa, umzimba kanye nokuphepha: Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame” Mina ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi wami eminyakeni engaphezu kweyishumi ezizimisele ukuvikela izingane ngokumelene izinhlobo ezahlukene zodlame (minyaka eyisishiyagalombili eminyakeni Spiral Consulting Izingane) ngamandla lobuchwepheshe Ukugxilisa, okuyinto singisize kokubili mathupha futhi efanele.

Ukugxilisa ungahlinzekela indlela entsha ukudala ukuphepha ezimpilweni zethu ngomzimba. Bonke abantu sifuna aphathwe kahle, ngenhlonipho nangokucabangela. Nokho, ubudlova ubufakazi emazingeni ahlukahlukene njalo. Uma singabantwana futhi nabo izingane, futhi intsha, kokubili imikhaya yethu futhi kusukela umsebenzi wethu, sibona izimo eziningi zodlame futhi sizibuze nendlela yokuzigwema ukuze zingasivimbi ke. Lokhu workshop eyedlule ukusebenza umqondo vivencial ngakho tekusebenta zodlame nge isizinda isipiliyoni kusuka emzimbeni. Ngakho singazibona ubudlova nemizimba yethu ngenkathi singenza ngokucace kakhudlwana futhi indlela zokuzivikela ezimpilweni zethu futhi ensimini wethu wezokusebenza.

Lokhu workshop sibhekiswe kubantu nothando lokufunda okwengeziwe mayelana nendlela yokuphatha udlame kusuka isikhundla sivikelekile umzimba, kokubili mathupha futhi efanele (Ochwepheshe kokungenela zomphakathi ezivela Psychology, ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe, social work, imfundo…). Ukugxilisa ulwazi ngaphambi kungukuthi ezidingekayo (nakuba kuyoba inzuzo). Lokhu workshop wokulandisa elibonakalayo ukuthola Diploma Ukugxilisa ka Ukugxila Institute Spanish.

usuku: Saturday 11 Novemba 2017 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00 nangeSonto 12 Novemba 2017 of 10:00 a 14:00.

Indawo: isikhala “Chitha lokhu ekhaya lakho”
C / Costa Brava, okokufaka C / La Masó 2, isitshalo 1, wendawo 8
28031 Madrid
(Metro Paco de uLucía, umugqa 9; amabhasi 133,134 futhi 178)

intengo: 170 euros.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe kanye nokubhalisa Ukugxilisa Centro, ukuqeqeshwa ehleliwe: focusingcentro@gmail.com

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke,

F. Javier Romeo

[Entry Original 16 October 2017, olusha 12 Novemba 2017, Usuku ukwakheka].

Kuyintokozo kimina ukunikeza indawo yami yokusebenzela “Ukugxilisa kanye nomsebenzi ngokwenza ubudlova” ngaphakathi kwe Umhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila ihlelwe yi Ukugxila Institute Spanish futhi ididiyelwe ngendlela engokoqobo yithimba le indawo yokuhlangenwe nakho eSevilla. Njengoba kuvela kuphrezentheshini, “Umhlangano Kazwelonke Wokugxila Ovulekile wokuqala ozokuba se-Seville, izinsuku 12, 13, 14 futhi 15 kusukela ngo-Okthoba 2017, futhi sikumema ukuthi ubambe iqhaza, Kuyindawo yokukhuthaza ukuhlangana phakathi kwabantu abasebenzisa i-Focusing emkhakheni othile wochwepheshe kanye nasezimpilweni zabo zomuntu siqu., noma abafuna ukuhlangana naye. Isikhala esisivumela ukuthi sisabalalise ukuzizwisa okusha kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe-Focusing emikhakheni eyahlukene: ukwelashwa, amaqembu, imfundo ,Impilo, ukukhula komuntu siqu, ingokomoya njll. Isikhala, ngamafuphi, lokho kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukushintshisana ngolwazi nokuzindla nge-paradigm yesipiliyoni kanye ne-Focusing”.

emsebenzini wokwelapha, umuntu ngamunye kanye neqembu, ekungeneleleni komphakathi namaqembu ahlukene (ikakhulukazi ebuntwaneni, ubusha nobusha), singabona imiphumela ubudlova obunayo ekuphileni kwabo. Inhloso jikelele yalo mhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi wukusebenza ngokuzibonela mayelana nodlame ezimpilweni zethu njengesinyathelo sokuqala sokuvimbela, thola futhi ungenele ezimeni zodlame.

usuku: Saturday 14 October 2017, at 16:30.

Indawo: Ihhotela NH Collection Sevilla
Avda. Diego Martinez Barrio, 8
41013 Sevilla

Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa, Xhumana iwebhusayithi yoMhlangano Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila eSeville 2017.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke,

F. Javier Romeo

[Entry Original 27 September 2017, olusha 14 October 2017, usuku lokusebenzela].

Kuyilungelo kimi ukumenywa ukuthi ngizokwenza umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukugxilisa nomzimba ubukhulu zobudlova” ngaphakathi kwe Usuku lokusebenza “Imizwelo kanye ukwelashwa kwengqondo: Izinselele kanye nezicelo”, ihlelwe yi I-Comillas Pontifical University yaseMadrid.

Ekubonisaneni nokwelashwa kwengqondo sibona izimo eziningi zodlame, kusukela kokucashile kuya kokuqine kakhulu, futhi ikakhulukazi imiphumela yako.. Le workshop iphakamisa uhambo lokuhlangenwe nakho ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo zolwazi ezisekelwe ku-Eugene Gendlin's Focusing.. Ngale ndlela sizokwazi ukuhlonza udlame kuma-corporal (Ngaphezu komqondo), isinyathelo esibalulekile sokwandisa ukusebenza kahle kwethu ekuvimbeleni, ukutholakala nokungenelela ezimeni zodlame (ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kanye nemiphumela yako ebudala, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, udlame lobulili…).

usuku: ULwesithathu, 15 Mashi 2017, of 15:30 a 17:30.

Indawo: I-Comillas Pontifical University yaseMadrid – I-ICADE
C/ Alberto Aguilera, 23
Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa kuwebhusayithi ye-Comillas Pontifical University of Madrid.

Landa uhlelo oluphelele lweNkomfa “Imizwa kanye Nokwelashwa Kwengqondo: Izinselele kanye nezicelo”.

[Entry Original 27 February 2017, olusha 15 Mashi 2017, usuku lomcimbi].

Ngenjabulo enkulu ngimemezela ukubukeka kwe Ukugxilisa Centro, iphrojekthi entsha yokuqeqeshwa okuphelele ku-Focusing engibamba iqhaza kuyo njengomhlanganyeli wangaphandle.

Ngemva kwezinyanga zokulungiselela, lesi sinyathelo esisha ekugcineni siyakubona ukukhanya. Benze a ithimba le-Focusing professionals onolwazi olunzulu: Elizabeth Gascón, Lucia Emma, UCarlos González noBeatriz Cazurro, futhi siyayisekela ngokubambisana kwangaphandle nabanye abaqeqeshi be-Focusing, okuhlanganisa nami.

Njengoba ivela kuwebhusayithi, Ukugxilisa Centro yiqembu lochwepheshe eligunyazwe yi-International Institute of Focusing elazalwa ngokuzibophezela nomdlandla wokunikeza ukuqeqeshwa komuntu siqu, eqinile futhi izinga. E-Focusing Centro sikholelwa ngokuqinile kuleli khono lokuziphilisa lomzimba sonke esinalo futhi sifuna ukusabalalisa nokufundisa le nqubo kanye nale filosofi ngokuqeqeshwa komuntu siqu., eqinile futhi izinga. Kuhlinzekwa uhlelo oluphelele lokuqeqeshwa kanye nethuba lokuthi abantu abaqeqeshwayo njengamanje baqedele umsebenzi wabo.

Ngeminye imininingwane, into engcono kakhulu ukuthi usebenzise amathuba anikezwa ku ikhasi lokuxhumana ngqo, kulapho behlanganisa khona lonke ulwazi. Uma usafuna ukungibuza okuthile okuqondile, Ngingakwazi futhi ukukwazisa ngokusebenzisa imigudu evamile yokuxhumana.

Ngomdlandla nangethemba,

Javier