Ngesonto eledlule le ncwadi yethulwe ngokusemthethweni bheka ukuvikela. Izihluthulelo zokuqonda udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nokuthuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezisebenzayo, ukuthi sichaze kabanzi umlingani wami Pepa Horno futhi mina kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane okwe I-UNICEF yaseSpain. Njengenjwayelo nge okuthunyelwe kwami, umkhakha la ukungena ngesandla bheka ukuvikela kuleyo bhulogi futhi wandise kwezinye izici ezifanele lapha.

Imanuwali inezici ezintathu ezibalulekile ukwabelana ngazo lapha.

Okokuqala, ihlela kabanzi imiqondo eyisisekelo ukuqonda udlame. Abantu abaningi abathola ukwelashwa kufanele baqonde ukuthi kwenzekeni kubo nokuthi kanjani, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile inqubo yokuhambisana yanele, ngezinye izikhathi bangicela ireferensi ukuze baqhubeke nokwandisa. Imanuwali, nakuba iwubuchwepheshe futhi ihloselwe ochwepheshe abasebenza nezingane, futhi intsha, futhi ingasiza abantu ngomsebenzi owanele wokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nokwandisa kulowo mugqa, le manuwali iwusizo futhi kuma-psychotherapist abafuna ukuvuselela ulwazi namakhono abo. Ngemisebenzi ehlongozwayo kuso sonke isahluko singanweba ukuzwela kwethu namandla ethu okuhambisana nezinqubo ezihlobene nodlame nokuhlukumezeka kanye nokuphulukiswa kwazo.. Ingxenye engokoqobo iklanyelwe ukuhlakulela ukuqaphela ukungenelela kwethu.

Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kobukhulu bomzimba kokubili kubudlova kanye nemiphumela yako (ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezekeni nasekuhlukaneni) njengasekululameni. Imanuwali yonke inezici zomzimba, futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza umuzwa wenhlalakahle ukuthi uzama ukwakha ezindaweni ezikhona Izindawo Eziphephile Nezivikelekile.

Imanuwali bheka ukuvikela ingalandwa mahhala kuwebhusayithi ye-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke, futhi ngizothanda ukwazi ukuthi uyamukela kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengodokotela wezengqondo ngihlukanisa isikhathi sami sobungcweti phakathi komkhuba wokwelashwa ohambisana nabantu ezinkambisweni zabo zokwelapha eMadrid kanye nezeluleko nokuqeqeshwa kwezinhlangano ezihlobene nokuvikelwa kwezingane., amantombazane nentsha evela eSpirales Consultoría de Infancia. Lokho sika ngalokho ngiyakuyala yamjabulisa ukwethula imanuwali Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, Ngiye ngalungiselela Office of SOS Wezingane imephu Latin America naseCaribbean Regional.

Ukuze uthole eminye imininingwane salolu shicilelo, elikuqukethe futhi ezinye izincwadi okuhlobene yokuvikela izingane, ungafunda lokhu entry blog Espirales CI.

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• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ekhasini elilodwa (iphrinta ukhululekile ngokunyathelisa nokufunda mobile noma ithebhulethi).
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Kulesi Ukubloga enginakho kuphela ukwengeza ukuthi incazelo uhlukunyezwe njengoba inqubo kusekelwe Umgudu imodeli (Inqubo Model) de Eugene Gendlin, futhi izincazelo okuvimba ngokomzwelo eziye wahlangana abaqeqeshi kanye nabaxhumanisi Ukugxilisa Ann Weiser Cornell futhi uBarbara McGavin. Ungathola okulotshiwe emithonjeni ethize emakhasini 16-20 umbhalo.

Ngithemba imiphumela emihle.

F. Javier Romeo