[Thumela ngeSpanishi. Bona okuthunyelwe kwangempela ngesiNgisi.]
the Ukugxilisa ibilokhu inomnyombo wayo umgomo wokuthuthukisa umphakathi, hhayi nje abantu ngabanye. U-Gendlin wabhala kabanzi mayelana nenhlalo nepolitiki ye-Focusing., njengoba umuzwa ozwakalayo usinikeza ukuqonda okungcono kwempilo yethu yangaphakathi nezimo zethu zangaphandle. Kusukela emsebenzini womuntu siqu ojulile, Ukugxila kusimema ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni babantu nezinhlaka zomphakathi ngamandla, ukuguquguquka nokuqwashisa, kanye nokuqala ukwenza izinguquko esifuna ukuzibona emhlabeni.

Kukho konke lokhu kuwudumo kimina ukwethula ishabhu yami yokusebenzela “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengendlela yokumela ipolitiki?” (isihloko sokuqala sesiNgisi sithi “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengokumela”) kuNgqungquthela Yesithathu Yokuzwakala (Third Felt Sense Conference), ihlelwe yi Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke ku-inthanethi kulo nyaka 2021 ngokugxila ku “Ukukhishwa okuhlanganisiwe: umuzwa ozwakalayo kanye Nobulungiswa Kwezenhlalakahle” (isiZulu “Inkululeko Ehlanganisiwe: i-Felt Sense & Ubulungiswa Bezenhlalakahle”). Eshabhubhu yami ngihlela ukwenza umehluko phakathi komsebenzi Wokuvikelwa Kwezingane engiwusungula ku-consultant yami, Spiral Consulting Izingane, kanye nobukhulu bangaphakathi bokugxila. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, Ngithemba ukunikeza izici zokuqwashisa kwangaphakathi ezizoba usizo kunoma ubani ozibophezele ku-Social Justice, hhayi kuphela ngokuvikelwa kwezingane.

usuku: ULwesihlanu, 3 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2021, of 11:00 a 13:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (17:00-19:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid, bona ezinye izikhala zesikhathi lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Isisho: IsiNgisi.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe kanye nokubhalisa: página web ye-Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Entry Original 24 Novemba 2021, olusha 3 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2021, usuku lomcimbi].

Ukugxila bekulokhu kunomongo wakho wokuthuthukisa umphakathi, hhayi nje kwabantu ngabanye. U-Gendlin wabhala kabanzi mayelana nesimo senhlalo nepolitiki se-Focusing, njengoba umuzwa ozwakalayo unikeza ukuqonda okungcono kwempilo yethu yangaphakathi - kanye nezimo zangaphandle. Ukuqala emsebenzini womuntu siqu ojulile, Ukugxila kusimema ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni babantu nezinhlaka zomphakathi ngamandla, ukuguquguquka nokuqwashisa kanye nokuqala izinguquko esifuna ukuzibona emhlabeni.

Ngakho-ke ngizizwa ngihloniphekile ngokwethula ishabhu yami yokusebenzela “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengokumela” kwe Third Felt Sense Conference, ihlelwe ngu I-International Focusing Institute ku-inthanethi kulo nyaka 2021 ngokugxila ku “Inkululeko Ehlanganisiwe: i-Felt Sense & Ubulungiswa Bezenhlalakahle”. Eshabhubhu yami ngihlela ukweqa umsebenzi wokuvikelwa kwezingane engiwuthuthukisa enkampanini yami yokusiza umphakathi, Spiral Consulting Izingane, nge-dimension yangaphakathi ye-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithemba ukunikeza ukuqwashisa kwangaphakathi kuwo wonke umuntu ozibophezele ku-Social Justice, hhayi nje Ekuvikelweni Kwezingane.

Usuku: NgoLwesihlanu, Disemba 3 2021, 11:00-13:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (17:00-19:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid, hlola isikhathi sakho lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Ulimi: IsiNgisi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Iwebhusayithi yeThird Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Okuthunyelwe kwangempela kwangomhla zingama-24 kuNovemba 2021, ibuyekezwe ngoDisemba 3 2021, usuku lomcimbi].

Ingxenye yomsebenzi wami njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomngane ezinqubweni zomuntu siqu nezenhlangano ukuthola izindlela zokudlulisa imilayezo eyinkimbinkimbi ngokusebenzisa izingathekiso nezifaniso.. Ngokuhamba phambili “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”, esengizethulile kulokhu okunye ukungena, Siphakamisa izinselelo neziphakamiso ezimbalwa zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha eSpain (Nasemhlabeni wonke).

Kule nyanga ngibe nesandla esihlokweni “Sihamba nomuntu esiyikho”, esebenzisa ama-analogies phakathi kwezinyathelo esizithathayo lapho sibhekene nalolu bhubhane kanye nezici okudingeka sizinakekele lapho siphelezela izingane., amantombazane kanye nentsha eye yahlupheka kakhulu. Kuyindlela yokuqwashisa ngendlela yethu yokwenza nokwenza, kokubili ngokomuntu siqu nangokomsebenzi.

Futhi uzobona lokho, njengenjwayelo, Ngigcizelela ukubaluleka ukuqeqeshwa kokuhlukumezeka futhi ngikhumbula ukubaluleka Ukugxilisa, okuyithuluzi eliwusizo kakhulu kimina usuku nosuku.

Ngingathanda ukwazi ukuthi ucabangani nokuthi uphila kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

[Funda lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi]

Kuyinjabulo kimina ukukwazi ukuqhuba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukuthola umqondo ozwakalayo ngezinto: indlela yokuxhumana nezingxenye zangaphakathi” e Inkomfa Yamazwe Ngamazwe Ye-inthanethi Yokwelapha Okuqondiswayo (Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Kumazwe Ngamazwe) lokho okuhlelwe ukuthi kwenzeke phakathi kwe 21 futhi 25 October 2020 (phakathi 22 futhi 26 e-Asia nase-Oceania).

Kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi mayelana ne-Focusing Guided Psychotherapy (I-Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy/Therapy, I-FOT / FOP), omunye wemigqa yomsebenzi engiyilandelayo lapho Ngihambisana ne-psychotherapy kokubili mathupha nangevidiyo.

“Ukusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni kungaba inselele ngezindlela eziningi. Singakwazi ukusiza ukuqonda kangcono izingxenye zangaphakathi ngokusebenzisa izinto (izibalo, amapensela, ubumba). Inqubo yokukhetha into eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ingasiza ukukhiqiza umuzwa ozwakalayo ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuchaza ngokweqile.. Ngale ndlela, singasiza iklayenti ngalinye (kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ebudaleni) lalela zonke izingxenye ngaphakathi, ukuze ukwazi ukubona umnyakazo wempilo uya phambili kubo futhi wakhe ubudlelwano obungcono nabo. Lokhu kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi, ngakho-ke kuhle ukuletha izinto ezimbalwa ezincane ezingasetshenziswa ekubonisaneni (amapensela anemibala ayishumi nambili azokwenza).

Okuqukethwe okubalulekile:

1) Imibono emihlanu ebalulekile yokusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi nezingane, amantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala.

2) Isibonelo senqubo yokufuna umuzwa ozwakalayo ngezinto.

3) Isipiliyoni esincane sokusebenza ngezinto ukuze wonke umuntu akwazi ukuthuthukisa isitayela sakhe somuntu siqu.”

usuku: ULwesihlanu 23 October 2020, 09:00-11:00 ngesikhathi saseNew York (15:00-17:00 ngesikhathi saseMadrid) (thola uhlelo lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Isisho: ishabhu izoba ngesiNgisi futhi ihunyushelwe kanye kanye ngesiSpanishi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Isizindalwazi seNgqungquthela Yamazwe Ngamazwe Yokwelashwa Okuqondisiwe (i-International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference).

[Entry Original 7 October 2020, olusha 20 October 2020, usuku lomcimbi].

[Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi].

Ngijabule kakhulu ngokukwazi ukuqhuba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukuzwa imizwa ngezinto: indlela yokuxhumana nezingxenye zangaphakathi” kwe ku-inthanethi Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Ekugxileni Kwamazwe Ngamazwe lokho kuzokwenzeka ku-inthanethi kusukela ngo-Okthoba 21st. kuze kube umhlaka-25. 2020 (Okthoba 22.-26. e-Asia nase-Australasia).

Kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi mayelana ne-Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy.

“Ukusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni kungaba inselele ngezindlela eziningi. Ukusebenzisa izinto (imifanekiso, amapensela, Ipulasitiki) ingavumela ukuqonda okungcono kwezingxenye zangaphakathi. Inqubo yokukhetha into eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ingakhuthaza ukuzwa ngaphandle kokuchaza ngokweqile. Ngale ndlela, singasiza amaklayenti - izingane kodwa nabantu abadala - ukulalela ingxenye ngayinye, ukubona ugqozi oluya phambili kubo futhi bakhe ubuhlobo obungcono nabo. Lena kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi, ngakho-ke sicela ulethe izinto ezincane ongazisebenzisa egumbini lakho lokwelapha (ishumi nambili lamapensela anemibala azokwanela).

Okuthathayo:

1) Imibono emihlanu ebalulekile yokusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni nezingane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala.

2) Isibonelo senqubo yokuzwa ngezinto.

3) Isipiliyoni esifushane sokusebenza ngezinto, ukuthuthukisa isitayela sakho siqu.”

Usuku: NgoLwesihlanu zingama-23 kuMfumfu 2020, 09:00-11:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (15:00-17:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid) (isikhathi sakho lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Ulimi: ishabhu izoba ngesiNgisi futhi ihunyushelwe kanye kanye ngesiSpanishi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Isizindalwazi se-International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference.

[Okuthunyelwe kwangempela kusuka ngomhlaka-7 Okthoba 2020, ibuyekezwe ngo-Okthoba 23 2020, usuku lomcimbi].

[Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi.]

Idokhumenti Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela, lokho Pepa Horno, umlingani wami ku-Childhood Consulting Spirals, futhi ngibhalele I-UNICEF yaseSpain futhi I-UNICEF eFrance, isanda kuthunyelwa, futhi itholakala ngezinguqulo ezimbili:

• Landa inguqulo yokuqala yesiNgisi ye Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela.
• Dawuniloda ukuhumusha kweSpanishi, Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela.

Lokhu ukushicilelwa kwezobuchwepheshe okuphathelene nokuvikelwa kwezingane, ukungenelela komphakathi kanye namalungelo abantu. Eqinisweni, Sinemibono kanye nonembeza wochwepheshe abangaba yikhulu ku-International Workshop ngoDisemba 2019 e Madrid, ukuthi ngisize ukwenza lula (sichaza kabanzi ku yethu okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi ye-CI Spirals). Nokho, futhi idokhumenti yomuntu siqu kakhulu kimi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane, Amantombazane afudukayo angaphelezelwa futhi ahlukanisiwe anendawo ekhetheke kakhulu enhliziyweni yami. Ngasebenza eMorocco iminyaka eminingana nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala emigwaqweni futhi ngiyabazi ubunzima abanayo lapho, nokuthi yini ebenza babeke izimpilo zabo engozini ukuze babe nekusasa elingcono. Ngiphinde ngasebenza iminyaka eminingana eMadrid nentsha esengozini yomphakathi, futhi abaningi babo kwakungabafana namantombazane abafudukayo abangenazo izinkomba zomndeni, ngakho ngihambisane nezinyathelo zabo ebunzimeni abahlangabezane nabo ukuze bakhe ikusasa elihle eSpain. Futhi kuze kube namuhla ngisajabulela ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabo ngesi-Moroccan Arabic., ulimi engiluthanda kakhulu. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lo mbhalo usiza ochwepheshe kanye nomphakathi wonkana ukuthi ube nozwelo kulaba bantwana., futhi intsha, kanye nokukhathazeka ngenhlalakahle yabo. (Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana indlela yami yomsebenzi kuphrofayela yami ye-LinkedIn).

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, okwamanje lolu udaba olubucayi kakhulu, ngenxa yezici eziningi. Njengomhleli oholayo, Ngisebenzise kaningi ukwenza Ukugxilisa njengenqubo yokuhlela imibono kanye nokuthola ukubunjwa okufanele. Izihluthulelo zezindaba ezimnandi ezivikelayo zidinga ukuvela ekwazini okugxilile emzimbeni.. Ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kunikeza ukucaca kanye nombono ojulile kuso sonke isihloko., ikakhulukazi uma izingxenye eziyinkimbinkimbi zikwazi ukucacisa kancane.

Ekuphetheni, akubanga yinselele yobungcweti kuphela, kodwa futhi inqubo yomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyakuthokozela.

F. Javier Romeo

[Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi].

Idokhumenti Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela, lokho Pepa Horno, engisebenza naye kwa-Espirales Consultoría de Infancia, nami ngibhalele I-UNICEF yaseSpain futhi I-UNICEF eFrance, isanda kushicilelwa, futhi itholakala ngezinguqulo ezimbili:

• Landa inguqulo yokuqala ngesiNgisi ye Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela.
• Dawuniloda okuhunyushelwe kusiSpanishi, Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela.

Lokhu ukushicilelwa kwezobuchwepheshe okuphathelene nokuvikelwa kwezingane, ukungenelela komphakathi kanye namalungelo abantu. Empeleni, sibale kanye nemibono kanye nokuqwashisa kochwepheshe abacishe babe yikhulu e-International Workshop ngoZibandlela 2019 eMadrid, ukuthi ngihlanganyele (sichaza kabanzi ngakho ku okuthunyelwe kwethu kwebhulogi ku-Espirales CI). Nokho, futhi idokhumenti yomuntu siqu kakhulu kimi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Abafuduki Abangaphelezelwa Nabahlukanisiwe Ngizithanda kakhulu. Ngisebenze eMorocco iminyaka eminingana nezingane ezisemgwaqweni futhi ngiyabazi ubunzima obukhona, okubenza babeke izimpilo zabo engozini ukuze babe nekusasa elingcono. Ngasebenza iminyaka eminingana eMadrid nentsha eyayisengozini, futhi abaningi babo kwakungabantwana abafudukayo abangaphelezelwa muntu, ngakho ngaphelezela izinyathelo zabo ebunzimeni bokuzakhela ikusasa elihle eSpain. Futhi ngisakujabulela ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabo ngesi-Moroccan Arabic, ulimi engiluthanda kakhulu. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lo mbhalo uzosiza abanye ochwepheshe kanye nomphakathi jikelele ukuthi uzizwele lezi zingane, kanye nokunakekela inhlalakahle yabo. (Okuningi mayelana indlela yami yomsebenzi kuphrofayela yami ye-LinkedIn).

Ngokwesinye isandla, lolu udaba okwamanje olubucayi kakhulu, ngenxa yezici eziningana. Njengombhali omkhulu, Ngisebenzise kakhulu Ukugxilisa nami njengenqubo yokuhlela imibono, kanye nokuthola amagama afanele. Imikhondo yezindaba ezimnandi ezivikelayo zidinga ukuvela ekuqwashiseni okuhlanganisiwe. Ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kuzoletha ukucaca kanye nombono ojulile kuso sonke lesi sihloko, ngobunkimbinkimbi bayo obenziwe kwacaca kakhudlwana.

Ekuphetheni, bekungeyona nje inselele yobungcweti, kodwa futhi inqubo yomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela.

F. Javier Romeo

Kusukela ekuqaleni kwalolu bhubhane, izinhlangano eziningi zezingane zenze imizamo yokwakha izinsiza. Kwa-Spirals Consultancy for Children sikhiqize izinto ezihlukahlukene ezihlukahlukene.

Kulo mbhalo webhulogi ngifuna ukwabelana ngamavidiyo athile ahlobene nalokho engikwabelana ngakho lapha, ngenxa yezizathu eziningi.

1. Bethula imiyalezo ecacile nebanzi ngokwanele ukuthi baxoxe ngayo nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha mayelana nobhubhane lwe-COVID-19, ukuze babe nolwazi lokuthi kwenzekani kubo.
2. Baphakamisa umsebenzi wokuqwashisa umzimba: kusukela kumodeli yobuhlakani obuthathu kuya ekuthinteni umoya, ngokushuba noma ngemizwa eyahlukene. Akuyona Ukugxilisa, kodwa khomba lokho kuzwela.
3. BangeSpanishi, kodwa nangesiFulentshi nesiMoroccan Arabic. Ngiye ngajabulela ukusebenzisa lezi zilimi ezimbili kula mavidiyo, okungisize kakhulu ukuthi ngikwazi ukuxhumana nabanye ngesikhathi ngihlala eMorocco kanye nentsha efudukayo eSpain..

Ngishiya amavidiyo angezansi:

• Ividiyo “I-intelligences emithathu nentukuthelo”.

• Ividiyo “Ama-intelligences amathathu nokwesaba”.

• Ividiyo “Abahlakaniphile abathathu futhi becela usizo”.

• Ividiyo “I-intelligences emithathu nokudabuka”.

Ngithemba ukuthi imiphumela of interest.

F. Javier Romeo

Ulwazi mayelana ne-Roundtable on Crossing Focusing kanye Nokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (NVC) ihlelwe yi-International Focusing Institute ngeKomidi layo Lobulungu. Njengoba kuwumcimbi odlule ulwazi alusatholakali kuwebhusayithi ye-TIFI futhi luhlelwe ngokufanele.

isethulo “Umzimba kanye amaphuzu amane eziyinhloko: Ukuzinakekela nabanakekeli” kwe Uhambo 2019 kusuka I-Madrid Association of Palliative Care “Ukuhlanganisa inselele: kuvulekele okunye ukubukeka”.

usuku: ULwesine, 14 Mashi 2019 at 12:00.

Indawo: Aula Magna, I-Teaching Pavilion, Isibhedlela Jikelele Universitario Gregorio Marañón
C / Inhlekelele, 43
Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa kuwebhusayithi ye- Uhambo 2019 weMadrid Association of Palliative Care.

[Kubuyekezwe okufakiwe kokuthi 14 Mashi 2019, usuku lomcimbi].