Ngesonto eledlule le ncwadi yethulwe ngokusemthethweni bheka ukuvikela. Izihluthulelo zokuqonda udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nokuthuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezisebenzayo, ukuthi sichaze kabanzi umlingani wami Pepa Horno futhi mina kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane okwe I-UNICEF yaseSpain. Njengenjwayelo nge okuthunyelwe kwami, umkhakha la ukungena ngesandla bheka ukuvikela kuleyo bhulogi futhi wandise kwezinye izici ezifanele lapha.

Imanuwali inezici ezintathu ezibalulekile ukwabelana ngazo lapha.

Okokuqala, ihlela kabanzi imiqondo eyisisekelo ukuqonda udlame. Abantu abaningi abathola ukwelashwa kufanele baqonde ukuthi kwenzekeni kubo nokuthi kanjani, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile inqubo yokuhambisana yanele, ngezinye izikhathi bangicela ireferensi ukuze baqhubeke nokwandisa. Imanuwali, nakuba iwubuchwepheshe futhi ihloselwe ochwepheshe abasebenza nezingane, futhi intsha, futhi ingasiza abantu ngomsebenzi owanele wokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nokwandisa kulowo mugqa, le manuwali iwusizo futhi kuma-psychotherapist abafuna ukuvuselela ulwazi namakhono abo. Ngemisebenzi ehlongozwayo kuso sonke isahluko singanweba ukuzwela kwethu namandla ethu okuhambisana nezinqubo ezihlobene nodlame nokuhlukumezeka kanye nokuphulukiswa kwazo.. Ingxenye engokoqobo iklanyelwe ukuhlakulela ukuqaphela ukungenelela kwethu.

Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kobukhulu bomzimba kokubili kubudlova kanye nemiphumela yako (ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezekeni nasekuhlukaneni) njengasekululameni. Imanuwali yonke inezici zomzimba, futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza umuzwa wenhlalakahle ukuthi uzama ukwakha ezindaweni ezikhona Izindawo Eziphephile Nezivikelekile.

Imanuwali bheka ukuvikela ingalandwa mahhala kuwebhusayithi ye-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke, futhi ngizothanda ukwazi ukuthi uyamukela kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

[Thumela ngeSpanishi. Bona okuthunyelwe kwangempela ngesiNgisi.]
the Ukugxilisa ibilokhu inomnyombo wayo umgomo wokuthuthukisa umphakathi, hhayi nje abantu ngabanye. U-Gendlin wabhala kabanzi mayelana nenhlalo nepolitiki ye-Focusing., njengoba umuzwa ozwakalayo usinikeza ukuqonda okungcono kwempilo yethu yangaphakathi nezimo zethu zangaphandle. Kusukela emsebenzini womuntu siqu ojulile, Ukugxila kusimema ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni babantu nezinhlaka zomphakathi ngamandla, ukuguquguquka nokuqwashisa, kanye nokuqala ukwenza izinguquko esifuna ukuzibona emhlabeni.

Kukho konke lokhu kuwudumo kimina ukwethula ishabhu yami yokusebenzela “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengendlela yokumela ipolitiki?” (isihloko sokuqala sesiNgisi sithi “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengokumela”) kuNgqungquthela Yesithathu Yokuzwakala (Third Felt Sense Conference), ihlelwe yi Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke ku-inthanethi kulo nyaka 2021 ngokugxila ku “Ukukhishwa okuhlanganisiwe: umuzwa ozwakalayo kanye Nobulungiswa Kwezenhlalakahle” (isiZulu “Inkululeko Ehlanganisiwe: i-Felt Sense & Ubulungiswa Bezenhlalakahle”). Eshabhubhu yami ngihlela ukwenza umehluko phakathi komsebenzi Wokuvikelwa Kwezingane engiwusungula ku-consultant yami, Spiral Consulting Izingane, kanye nobukhulu bangaphakathi bokugxila. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, Ngithemba ukunikeza izici zokuqwashisa kwangaphakathi ezizoba usizo kunoma ubani ozibophezele ku-Social Justice, hhayi kuphela ngokuvikelwa kwezingane.

usuku: ULwesihlanu, 3 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2021, of 11:00 a 13:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (17:00-19:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid, bona ezinye izikhala zesikhathi lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Isisho: IsiNgisi.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe kanye nokubhalisa: página web ye-Third Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Entry Original 24 Novemba 2021, olusha 3 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2021, usuku lomcimbi].

Ukugxila bekulokhu kunomongo wakho wokuthuthukisa umphakathi, hhayi nje kwabantu ngabanye. U-Gendlin wabhala kabanzi mayelana nesimo senhlalo nepolitiki se-Focusing, njengoba umuzwa ozwakalayo unikeza ukuqonda okungcono kwempilo yethu yangaphakathi - kanye nezimo zangaphandle. Ukuqala emsebenzini womuntu siqu ojulile, Ukugxila kusimema ukuthi singene ebudlelwaneni babantu nezinhlaka zomphakathi ngamandla, ukuguquguquka nokuqwashisa kanye nokuqala izinguquko esifuna ukuzibona emhlabeni.

Ngakho-ke ngizizwa ngihloniphekile ngokwethula ishabhu yami yokusebenzela “Ingabe lolu dlame? Ukuqamba udlame njengokumela” kwe Third Felt Sense Conference, ihlelwe ngu I-International Focusing Institute ku-inthanethi kulo nyaka 2021 ngokugxila ku “Inkululeko Ehlanganisiwe: i-Felt Sense & Ubulungiswa Bezenhlalakahle”. Eshabhubhu yami ngihlela ukweqa umsebenzi wokuvikelwa kwezingane engiwuthuthukisa enkampanini yami yokusiza umphakathi, Spiral Consulting Izingane, nge-dimension yangaphakathi ye-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithemba ukunikeza ukuqwashisa kwangaphakathi kuwo wonke umuntu ozibophezele ku-Social Justice, hhayi nje Ekuvikelweni Kwezingane.

Usuku: NgoLwesihlanu, Disemba 3 2021, 11:00-13:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (17:00-19:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid, hlola isikhathi sakho lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Ulimi: IsiNgisi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Iwebhusayithi yeThird Felt Sense Conference (2021).

[Okuthunyelwe kwangempela kwangomhla zingama-24 kuNovemba 2021, ibuyekezwe ngoDisemba 3 2021, usuku lomcimbi].

Njengenjwayelo, kule bhulogi ngabelana ngezinto ezithinta umsebenzi wami kuzo Spiral Consulting Izingane nezinye izithakazelo zomuntu siqu nezomsebenzi. Kulokhu ngiba nokwaneliseka ngokwabelana nomhlahlandlela Amazwi wenguquko. Umhlahlandlela wezindlela zokubonisana nezingane, amantombazane nentsha ekunakekelweni kokuhlala, esikuchazayo Pepa Horno futhi ngiyama I-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Kwaba ukwaneliseka ukuthola i-oda lokuhlela le ndlela yokusebenza ngokubhala ngendlela ethengekayo. Ingxenye yomsebenzi wethu lapho siphelezela izinhlangano zomphakathi nezizimele zezinhlelo zokuvikela lapha e-Spain nakwamanye amazwe ezinqubweni zabo zokuthuthukisa ihlanganisa ukubheka abalingiswa bazo.: izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala ezikhungweni zokuvikela. Futhi bangochwepheshe ezimpilweni zabo, futhi izikhungo zivame ukukhohlwa ukubabuza, Ngeshwa.

Yingakho kuyinjabulo enkulu lokho I-UNICEF yaseSpain, emsebenzini wayo wokukhuthaza ukubamba iqhaza kwezingane nentsha, wasimema ukuba sethule indlela elula yokubonisana nalezi zingane, futhi intsha. Siphawula kabanzi ngakho kubhulogi ye-Spiral Consulting for Children.

Ngaphakathi lokho kunesiqondiso sobuchwepheshe nesisebenzayo, isici se ukuxhumana nabanye abantu: singakhuluma kanjani thina bantu abadala, singakha kanjani indawo efanele nokuthi singalalela kanjani izingane, futhi intsha. Amagama esiwasebenzisayo angavula noma avale ukuxhumana, yingakho amafomula esiwethulayo ecace kakhulu: Ngiyahlonipha, ukufakwa kanye ne-protagonism yezingane ngokwazo, futhi intsha.

Futhi siye saphikelela ekuguquguqukeni nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kuzo zonke izingane, futhi intsha, ukuhlinzeka ngemihlahlandlela yokwamukela ukungenelela ekuhlukeni kokusebenza, ukuhlukahluka kwamasiko (Ngokukhethekile ukuze abafana namantombazane abafudukayo bengaphelezelwa) nalabo abanempilo yengqondo kanye nezinkinga zokuhlukumezeka. Amazwi abo, njengoba sisho esihlokweni, yezwa kahle, bangenza ushintsho lube ngcono ekuphileni kwabo.

Ngethemba ukuthi uyayithanda futhi uyayithola ithakasela.

F. Javier Romeo

Impilo eku-inthanethi isisize ukuthi sakhe imiphakathi emisha ebonakalayo.

Esikhathini esingaphezu konyaka odlule ngathola isimemo sokuba yingxenye yeqembu elibonisa ubuntwana ohlelweni lokuvikela eSpain., kudidiyelwe ngu U-Alberto Rodriguez futhi Javier Múgica futhi esibamba iqhaza kukho u-Antonio Ferrandis, mina Umngane we-CI Spiral Pepa Horno, UMarta Llaurado futhi igama lami licishe liphindwe kabili F. Javier Romeu Soriano. Ngemva kwalezi zinyanga zemihlangano eku-inthanethi nama-imeyili amaningi nokusalungiswa, ngesonto eledlule sishicilele ngokuhlanganyela umqulu wokusungula, Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi. Izinselelo eziyisikhombisa neziphakamiso zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane e-Spain. Umbhalo uzikhulumela wona, futhi ingalandwa kusukela ku- iwebhusayithi ye “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”.

Lapha ngifuna ukukhuluma ngento ethe ukuhluka kancane: yenqubo ngokwayo. Futhi ngikufingqa ngamagama amathathu: umphakathi, ukukhula nokuqwashisa.

Umphakathi yikho ebesikudala. Unethuba, ngokuhlangana nathi ngezindaba zokuvikela izingane ezindaweni ezahlukene. Kodwa futhi inengxenye yenhloso. Vula indawo yemihlangano eku-inthanethi. Bhala ngamunye ingxenye yakhe yombhalo futhi ubuyekeze imibhalo yabanye. Yabelana ngamaphoyinti wokubuka, izinkathazo nezimpendulo ezingase zibe khona. Kancane kancane besilokhu sijulisa ubudlelwano bethu, ukuthuthukisa ulimi oluvamile oluhlanganisa ubuntu bethu obuhlukene nokuzwela. Futhi sikholelwa ukuthi ingxenye yokuthuthukiswa kwesistimu yokuvikela ihamba ngokuqondile ngokudala umphakathi kwezinye izindawo eziningi., nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo, ngaphakathi kwamaqembu ochwepheshe kanye namanethiwekhi okungenelela.

futhi, siye phambili ngombono we ukwanda. Umuntu ngamunye eqenjini lethu ubelokhu esebenzisana futhi ehambisana nezinqubo zohlelo lokuvikela iminyaka eminingi. Yingakho singakhuluma ngamaphutha, amaphuzu abuthakathaka alimaza izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni okuhloswe ngayo ukuyivikela. Kodwa futhi siyayikhumbula inqubekelaphambili, izinguquko, ngezinye izikhathi kuncane kakhulu, ezenza izici ezithile zibe ngcono. Kungakho lo mbhalo ufuna ukuqoqa zombili izinselelo esizibona eSpain nezinye iziphakamiso esizaziyo, kusukela kokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu noma kochwepheshe, ezike zasebenza ngaphambili. Futhi le nqubo yenza nalabo bethu ababonisa njengeqembu bakhule..

Ngoba, ekupheleni, Imayelana nokuthuthukisa i unembeza. Lapho sine a “ukugqolozela”, njengoba umngane wami omuhle esho futhi umlingani ku-CI Spirals Pepa Horno, sibona iqiniso ngendlela ejulile. Sikhomba okwenzeka ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo, kodwa futhi nasemaqenjini ochwepheshe kanye nezinhlelo okufanele zinikeze ukuvikeleka nokusekelwa. Futhi siyakubona okwenzeka ngaphakathi kwethu, ukuhambisa imibono nemizwa eziphakamisweni eziphathekayo ezithuthukisa izimpilo zabantu abaningi. Ngeke sikwenze lokhu sisodwa, sidinga indawo ephephile, umphakathi, ukuze asisize siye phambili, ukuzibuza imibuzo emisha futhi sithole izimpendulo ezintsha.

Kusukela lapha ngithumela ukubonga kuleli qembu elihle kakhulu, nasekuphileni ngokwenza kwaba nokwenzeka.

Futhi ngikumema ukuthi ufunde idokhumenti futhi unake izinyathelo ezilandelayo (sizobe sishicilela imibhalo yanyanga zonke yamabhulogi ukuze siqhubeke nokujula eziphakamisweni ezahlukene). Ngikubona kuwebhusayithi ye “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”.

Emgubheni,

F. Javier Romeo