Ngesonto eledlule le ncwadi yethulwe ngokusemthethweni bheka ukuvikela. Izihluthulelo zokuqonda udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nokuthuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezisebenzayo, ukuthi sichaze kabanzi umlingani wami Pepa Horno futhi mina kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane okwe I-UNICEF yaseSpain. Njengenjwayelo nge okuthunyelwe kwami, umkhakha la ukungena ngesandla bheka ukuvikela kuleyo bhulogi futhi wandise kwezinye izici ezifanele lapha.

Imanuwali inezici ezintathu ezibalulekile ukwabelana ngazo lapha.

Okokuqala, ihlela kabanzi imiqondo eyisisekelo ukuqonda udlame. Abantu abaningi abathola ukwelashwa kufanele baqonde ukuthi kwenzekeni kubo nokuthi kanjani, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile inqubo yokuhambisana yanele, ngezinye izikhathi bangicela ireferensi ukuze baqhubeke nokwandisa. Imanuwali, nakuba iwubuchwepheshe futhi ihloselwe ochwepheshe abasebenza nezingane, futhi intsha, futhi ingasiza abantu ngomsebenzi owanele wokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nokwandisa kulowo mugqa, le manuwali iwusizo futhi kuma-psychotherapist abafuna ukuvuselela ulwazi namakhono abo. Ngemisebenzi ehlongozwayo kuso sonke isahluko singanweba ukuzwela kwethu namandla ethu okuhambisana nezinqubo ezihlobene nodlame nokuhlukumezeka kanye nokuphulukiswa kwazo.. Ingxenye engokoqobo iklanyelwe ukuhlakulela ukuqaphela ukungenelela kwethu.

Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kobukhulu bomzimba kokubili kubudlova kanye nemiphumela yako (ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezekeni nasekuhlukaneni) njengasekululameni. Imanuwali yonke inezici zomzimba, futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza umuzwa wenhlalakahle ukuthi uzama ukwakha ezindaweni ezikhona Izindawo Eziphephile Nezivikelekile.

Imanuwali bheka ukuvikela ingalandwa mahhala kuwebhusayithi ye-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke, futhi ngizothanda ukwazi ukuthi uyamukela kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengenjwayelo, kule bhulogi ngabelana ngezinto ezithinta umsebenzi wami kuzo Spiral Consulting Izingane nezinye izithakazelo zomuntu siqu nezomsebenzi. Kulokhu ngiba nokwaneliseka ngokwabelana nomhlahlandlela Amazwi wenguquko. Umhlahlandlela wezindlela zokubonisana nezingane, amantombazane nentsha ekunakekelweni kokuhlala, esikuchazayo Pepa Horno futhi ngiyama I-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Kwaba ukwaneliseka ukuthola i-oda lokuhlela le ndlela yokusebenza ngokubhala ngendlela ethengekayo. Ingxenye yomsebenzi wethu lapho siphelezela izinhlangano zomphakathi nezizimele zezinhlelo zokuvikela lapha e-Spain nakwamanye amazwe ezinqubweni zabo zokuthuthukisa ihlanganisa ukubheka abalingiswa bazo.: izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala ezikhungweni zokuvikela. Futhi bangochwepheshe ezimpilweni zabo, futhi izikhungo zivame ukukhohlwa ukubabuza, Ngeshwa.

Yingakho kuyinjabulo enkulu lokho I-UNICEF yaseSpain, emsebenzini wayo wokukhuthaza ukubamba iqhaza kwezingane nentsha, wasimema ukuba sethule indlela elula yokubonisana nalezi zingane, futhi intsha. Siphawula kabanzi ngakho kubhulogi ye-Spiral Consulting for Children.

Ngaphakathi lokho kunesiqondiso sobuchwepheshe nesisebenzayo, isici se ukuxhumana nabanye abantu: singakhuluma kanjani thina bantu abadala, singakha kanjani indawo efanele nokuthi singalalela kanjani izingane, futhi intsha. Amagama esiwasebenzisayo angavula noma avale ukuxhumana, yingakho amafomula esiwethulayo ecace kakhulu: Ngiyahlonipha, ukufakwa kanye ne-protagonism yezingane ngokwazo, futhi intsha.

Futhi siye saphikelela ekuguquguqukeni nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kuzo zonke izingane, futhi intsha, ukuhlinzeka ngemihlahlandlela yokwamukela ukungenelela ekuhlukeni kokusebenza, ukuhlukahluka kwamasiko (Ngokukhethekile ukuze abafana namantombazane abafudukayo bengaphelezelwa) nalabo abanempilo yengqondo kanye nezinkinga zokuhlukumezeka. Amazwi abo, njengoba sisho esihlokweni, yezwa kahle, bangenza ushintsho lube ngcono ekuphileni kwabo.

Ngethemba ukuthi uyayithanda futhi uyayithola ithakasela.

F. Javier Romeo

Ingxenye yomsebenzi wami njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomngane ezinqubweni zomuntu siqu nezenhlangano ukuthola izindlela zokudlulisa imilayezo eyinkimbinkimbi ngokusebenzisa izingathekiso nezifaniso.. Ngokuhamba phambili “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”, esengizethulile kulokhu okunye ukungena, Siphakamisa izinselelo neziphakamiso ezimbalwa zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha eSpain (Nasemhlabeni wonke).

Kule nyanga ngibe nesandla esihlokweni “Sihamba nomuntu esiyikho”, esebenzisa ama-analogies phakathi kwezinyathelo esizithathayo lapho sibhekene nalolu bhubhane kanye nezici okudingeka sizinakekele lapho siphelezela izingane., amantombazane kanye nentsha eye yahlupheka kakhulu. Kuyindlela yokuqwashisa ngendlela yethu yokwenza nokwenza, kokubili ngokomuntu siqu nangokomsebenzi.

Futhi uzobona lokho, njengenjwayelo, Ngigcizelela ukubaluleka ukuqeqeshwa kokuhlukumezeka futhi ngikhumbula ukubaluleka Ukugxilisa, okuyithuluzi eliwusizo kakhulu kimina usuku nosuku.

Ngingathanda ukwazi ukuthi ucabangani nokuthi uphila kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengodokotela wezengqondo ngihlukanisa isikhathi sami sobungcweti phakathi komkhuba wokwelashwa ohambisana nabantu ezinkambisweni zabo zokwelapha eMadrid kanye nezeluleko nokuqeqeshwa kwezinhlangano ezihlobene nokuvikelwa kwezingane., amantombazane nentsha evela eSpirales Consultoría de Infancia. Lokho sika ngalokho ngiyakuyala yamjabulisa ukwethula imanuwali Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, Ngiye ngalungiselela Office of SOS Wezingane imephu Latin America naseCaribbean Regional.

Ukuze uthole eminye imininingwane salolu shicilelo, elikuqukethe futhi ezinye izincwadi okuhlobene yokuvikela izingane, ungafunda lokhu entry blog Espirales CI.

Amabili izinguqulo idokhumenti:

• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ekhasini elilodwa (iphrinta ukhululekile ngokunyathelisa nokufunda mobile noma ithebhulethi).
• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ikhasi double (ukubona esikrinini esikhulu noma ukunyathelisa ku ukuphrinta).

Kulesi Ukubloga enginakho kuphela ukwengeza ukuthi incazelo uhlukunyezwe njengoba inqubo kusekelwe Umgudu imodeli (Inqubo Model) de Eugene Gendlin, futhi izincazelo okuvimba ngokomzwelo eziye wahlangana abaqeqeshi kanye nabaxhumanisi Ukugxilisa Ann Weiser Cornell futhi uBarbara McGavin. Ungathola okulotshiwe emithonjeni ethize emakhasini 16-20 umbhalo.

Ngithemba imiphumela emihle.

F. Javier Romeo

Ukuqwashisa umzimba njengendawo isivikelo ubudlova ingenye eziza kuqala yami emayelana nomsebenzi ukhiye. Lokhu workshop, “Ukugxilisa, umzimba kanye nokuphepha: Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame” Mina ukuhlanganisa umsebenzi wami eminyakeni engaphezu kweyishumi ezizimisele ukuvikela izingane ngokumelene izinhlobo ezahlukene zodlame (minyaka eyisishiyagalombili eminyakeni Spiral Consulting Izingane) ngamandla lobuchwepheshe Ukugxilisa, okuyinto singisize kokubili mathupha futhi efanele.

Ukugxilisa ungahlinzekela indlela entsha ukudala ukuphepha ezimpilweni zethu ngomzimba. Bonke abantu sifuna aphathwe kahle, ngenhlonipho nangokucabangela. Nokho, ubudlova ubufakazi emazingeni ahlukahlukene njalo. Uma singabantwana futhi nabo izingane, futhi intsha, kokubili imikhaya yethu futhi kusukela umsebenzi wethu, sibona izimo eziningi zodlame futhi sizibuze nendlela yokuzigwema ukuze zingasivimbi ke. Lokhu workshop eyedlule ukusebenza umqondo vivencial ngakho tekusebenta zodlame nge isizinda isipiliyoni kusuka emzimbeni. Ngakho singazibona ubudlova nemizimba yethu ngenkathi singenza ngokucace kakhudlwana futhi indlela zokuzivikela ezimpilweni zethu futhi ensimini wethu wezokusebenza.

Lokhu workshop sibhekiswe kubantu nothando lokufunda okwengeziwe mayelana nendlela yokuphatha udlame kusuka isikhundla sivikelekile umzimba, kokubili mathupha futhi efanele (Ochwepheshe kokungenela zomphakathi ezivela Psychology, ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe, social work, imfundo…). Ukugxilisa ulwazi ngaphambi kungukuthi ezidingekayo (nakuba kuyoba inzuzo). Lokhu workshop wokulandisa elibonakalayo ukuthola Diploma Ukugxilisa ka Ukugxila Institute Spanish.

usuku: Saturday 11 Novemba 2017 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00 nangeSonto 12 Novemba 2017 of 10:00 a 14:00.

Indawo: isikhala “Chitha lokhu ekhaya lakho”
C / Costa Brava, okokufaka C / La Masó 2, isitshalo 1, wendawo 8
28031 Madrid
(Metro Paco de uLucía, umugqa 9; amabhasi 133,134 futhi 178)

intengo: 170 euros.

Imininingwane eyengeziwe kanye nokubhalisa Ukugxilisa Centro, ukuqeqeshwa ehleliwe: focusingcentro@gmail.com

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke,

F. Javier Romeo

[Entry Original 16 October 2017, olusha 12 Novemba 2017, Usuku ukwakheka].

Ngokuvumelana uqhubeke ukugubha ukushicilelwa ngonyaka owodwa edlule yezinganekwane Pepa Horno, umngane wami omuhle futhi umlingani e Spiral Consulting Izingane (lapho sisebenza ezindabeni imfundo affective ebuntwaneni), Liyanezela leli entry sangaphambilini, ebhekisela incwadi yakhe Ulimi izihlahla. le ndaba, The Wizard imicabango, Kuye enyatheliswa yi Editorial Phineus ngemifanekiso UMargarita manje.

Pepa akhawunti efanayo inhloso yakhe leli bhuku ngala mazwi alandelayo:

The Wizard imicabango Ukhuluma nokuqabulana, nendlela ayiphulule futhi ukubhucungwa ukukhonza ukuze ngokomzwelo ukuzithiba, La bantwana bona kunabantu abadala bathi namanje abayeki, abahluleka ukuhlunga imicabango yabo, noma Abathulise noma ukugxilisa ingqondo ... Ngenxa yalezi izingane abe "magic" akhohlisa ukubeka oda ezinye ngaphakathi kuye. Kulezo imicabango ukuthi ngokuyisisekelo kukhona kodwa isithelo ukuzwela ayekufezile.

Ukuze lokhu Ngalifaka ukuthi indaba ukuthi kungenziwa ingashintshwa ngokuphelele ukufundisa Ukugxilisa abafana namantombazane ngenxa yezizathu ezilandelayo:

• Lunikeza umbono omuhle futhi wamukelekile imicabango, emizweni, imizwa, imizwa kanye nakho ngokuvamile nezingane (futhi siphinde sibe abantu abadala): yini phakathi kwethu kwenza umqondo uma sinikeza wekulalela kahle.
• Izingane angenza izinto eziphathekako sinake okubehlele yangaphakathi, ngakho laba ezolile phansi (futhi, nakuba ayichazi indaba, Futhi ukuze kuqashwe), nalabo abamzungezile ungakwazi ukuhamba.
• nakho Yangaphakathi ahambisana ngemphumelelo nge yisiphi isinyathelo ngokomzimba. Pepa ehlongozwayo indaba ayiphulule ezindaweni abathintekayo (ikhanda lika protagonist, kuleli cala), kodwa wachaza ekhasini lokugcina, “Amagama umphefumulo abadala”, kungenzeka kube khona ezinye izindlela eziningi, inqobo nje uma kuhilela umzimba.

Ngakho mina zashaya ukuncoma leli bhuku njengendlela ukwethula Ukugxilisa ngendlela ezovumelana izingane.

Ngithemba wena uyobe othanda it kakhulu ngendlela mina,

Javier

Kule mpelasonto ngaba udumo iqhaza I Congress ngokomzwelo Navarra Ezemfundo, ihlelwe abazali kwakheka. Kwakuthinta inkomfa ihlelwe ngesithakazelo esikhulu, ngokukhulu ukucophelela futhi umthamo esihle sesibindi. isethulo wami kwaba ezimayelana “imfundo affective ukuthi zivikela zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi”, omunye izindikimba ezisebenza kusukela Spiral Consulting Izingane, ka engiyakhayo ilungu owasungula. Kodwa ekugcineni kube khona ingxoxo panel ngemibuzo ngoba bonke abakhuluma, sase ukwabelana Luhlolokulinganisa Sonsoles Echevarren, intatheli kusukela Diario de Navarra. Bekusikhathi kakhulu, futhi nakuba imibuzo ayebhekiswe isikhulumi ngasinye, ekupheleni babebaningi lapho sihlanganyela eziningana. Kulo mongo kwaphakama umbuzo kakhulu, “Wenzenjani ulalele ingane owenqaba ukuhamba kwepaki?”. izimpendulo ezithakazelisayo futhi abalulekile banikwa, futhi mina baletha umnikelo wami: “Listening yebo’ ku 'cha'”.

Rescue kule blog ngoba sihloko yami 'Lalela “yebo” ku “kungekho”‘, okuyinto yanyatheliswa inombolo 52 (Januwari 2011) umagazini ekhoneni yethu 0-6, enyatheliswa Accent (Aqhubeke ayisekho ukukhulula izinombolo, nakuba isatholakala). Lesi senzakalo sihloko ngokunabile ukuthi Nga- ngibatshela bese: lapho umuntu (futhi umfana noma intombazane futhi umuntu) idayisi “kungekho”, Uthi “yebo” izinto eziningi, futhi uma silalela wonke umlayezo, Singenza uxhumano ezijulile sithole nesisombululo egculisayo zonke izinhlangothi. Isihloko iqala:

unina, iminyaka emibili nengxenye, Akathandi elingenamikhono wakhe ukuya ngaphandle. uJosé, iminyaka emine, Awufuni ukulahlekelwa jika ukuya ekhaya. Irene, iminyaka emihlanu, Akafuni ukuya ukulala. Kungani lezi zinto ukuthi njengoba abadala sesiqala kahle ezinengqondo?

Futhi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo? ¿Thina ukuhoxa abenze noma yini abayifunayo? Ngemva kwalokho siba ezimbi ngoba asisebenzi nemfundo, futhi lokho kusinika umuzwa kokushiya eceleni kulokho esingakufeza njengabantu abantu futhi ufuna. Ungathanda ukubaphoqa ukuba lokho esikufunayo? Khona-ke siye yibhange ingxoxo futhi imvelo ezimbi isikhathi eside, eside futhi sifundisa ukuthi ekugcineni into ebalulekile ukuba namandla noma amandla, nokuthi inkhulumomphendvulwano kusebenza kuphela uma ibuthakathaka. Ngolwazi lwami yemisindvo kukhona indlela yesithathu, esekelwe zokuxhumana ajulile kulezi zimo. Futhi elinye lamakhono ukuthi ithuthukiswe amashabhu mina lula yikhono ulalele lokho abakushoyo “yebo” izingane zethu uma bethi “kungekho”.

Download isihloko full “ulalele “yebo” ku “kungekho”‘

Ithemba kuthakazelisa.

Javier

Kulezi zinsuku zokugcina zaleli Okthoba isihloko ukufa ngakho njalo ngaphezulu ekuphileni kwezingane kuphakama. Kusukela uSuku Lwabafileyo emikhayeni ezithile kuzo zonke izenzakalo lowehlukile Halloween, iqiniso liwukuthi kuyisikhathi lapho izingane ebuza imibuzo mayelana nokufa, futhi kulula ukuba uzilungiselele izimo zengqondo izikhala ukulalela nezimpendulo.

Ngaloba 2011 i-athikili yokutakula lapha, “Izingane nokufa”, ukukhumbula ezinye imikhondo ewusizo. Article, owanyatheliswa ephephabhukwini ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent ziqondiswe Imfundo yezingane, izindawo ezintathu ezibalulekile uhlole:

• Umbono sokufa emazingeni ahlukene (phakathi neminyaka engu-zero kanye eziyisithupha, okuyinto isihloko umagazini).
• Ezinye izinkombandlela eziyisisekelo ukuba ahambe izingane ukufa.
• Ukufundwa letiphakanyisiwe, ukufundwa ehlukile imindeni kanye nezifundiswa nezindaba ukufunda nezingane.

Futhi mina ngiqale nge lesi sihloko nokubiyela isigaba:

Kwaphela isikhathi eside kwakucatshangwa ukuthi izingane akazange ahlupheke inqubo lusizi kwaze kwaba ubudala amadala. Nokho, ucwaningo emkhakheni ingozi yokulutheka baye babonisa idlule sokulila kusukela ubudala bokuqala ukuthi, nakuba awusebenzi sibonakalise Njengabantu abadala kuze kamuva. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba ukhulume sokufa (hhayi ulifihle ngenxa yokwesaba odalekayo kuwo) lapho kwenzeka (noma uma kuzokwenzeka, esimweni ukufa), ukuqonda 1) ukuthi umuntu ngempela uya futhi 2) ukuthi umuntu akabashiyi ngokuzithandela, futhi ukuze bakwazi ukusho goodbye, ngoba uma imiqondo le ibingakaziwa hhayi yokuvalelisa kwenzeka, Yisililo sokugembula zingavela. Futhi ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi silalela futhi unake ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi lapho ukufa kwenzeka ezimpilweni zabo.
[zilandise njengoba: Romeo BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Izingane nokufa kwabantu abaningi" ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent, 60, 17-21.]

Qhubeka ufunda lesi sihloko…

Ngithemba la ukucabanga oluzosiza ezihambisana nalesi sihloko nezingane endaweni yakho. Ukufa kuyingxenye engenakugwenywa yokuphila, abuye ahlanganise kanjani kangcono, Bayophila ngokugcwele, izingane zethu kanye nathi.

Ngifisa sengathi ngabe ngiqaphele mkhosi,

Javier

Kuleliviki leliphelile 12 futhi 13 September 2015 Ngiye ngajabulela ilungelo sajabulela ukusebenza futhi Bridget Belgrave. Njengoba ngishilo kule post, ngahlangana Bridget Belgrave futhi Gina Lawrie, Ukwakha Certified Center for Communication benamathele (Center for Communication benamathele, Nceku), e 2009 futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi saqala ukusebenza ndawonye ukuhumusha Dance Floors CNV the Castilian. ekugcineni izinguqulo Kuqediwe wabona ukukhanya 2014, nabathile ama engokomfanekiso ukuthi ingabonwa Ngenza lokhu entry for release. The Association for Communication benamathele Kuye ihlelwe uchungechunge zokuqeqesha in Madrid, Bilbao futhi Barcelona ngesikhathi September 2015, futhi mina-ke Bekulokhu kuyinjabulo enkulu ukusebenza futhi nge Bridget Belgrave yithimba ukuhumusha kusuka esiNgisini Castilia kanye noHezekeli.

Ekulungiseleleni workshop ngiye ngamukela isikhathi ukuze ubuyekeze zonke izinto nginoMoya Dance Floors CNV futhi Bridget ikakhulukazi. Nasekwaziseni zonke izinto, ngasinye umcebo walo, ukhona ofunayo namanje intandokazi yami. Eqinisweni, Bridget wangimemela ukuze ngibonisane nabo ngombono wami ngesikhathi esithile se-workshop, nami kwenzeka ukudlulisa isincomo sami futhi kule blog.

I embuzweni kuphela ngesiNgisi hhayi nayo imibhalo izinguqulo etholakalayo, kodwa ngithemba ukuthi alimelene asondele kuye. “Xhuma nge Inhlonipho” (“Xhuma ukuhlonipha”, ngokwezwi nezwi ehunyushwa ngokuthi zibe Castilia) is a impahla multimedia nokubhalisa iphrojekthi owenza Bridget Belgrave 2004 nge 21 intsha kanye nabantu abadala abasha nge Isilinganiso sobudala nesikhombisa. Iphrojekthi ehlongozwayo njengenhlangano kokungenela ukuqeqesha abafana namantombazane ezimweni nobunzima nomphakathi Ukuxhumana benamathele, ngaphakathi kohlaka workshop ukwakha isigqi ezisemadolobheni, kwaphela amasonto ayishumi anzima.

Kungani ukuncoma? Nasi isifinyezo izizathu zami:

• DVD ne ifilimu, of 25 iminithi. Ukuqoqa izikhathi ukhiye yephrojekthi, kokubili esalotshwa abaqeqeshi abathathu njengoba abantu abasha ngokwabo, futhi ukuhlelwa ngekubambisana nabo. Eqinisweni, njengoba atshela engxenyeni, yokuthi ufunde amaseshini odlule eyabasiza zonke bati ngaphezulu emfundvweni yabo ukuthola ukuziphatha adecuasen kangcono izidingo wonke umuntu. Kuyinto idokhumenti ingcaca evumela baba ubuso (nemisindo) nezimo ezihlukene, futhi sisivumela ukuthi ukucabanga ukuthi ungakusebenzisa kanjani kwezinye izingqikithi.

• Ividiyo kulekelelwa ne ngxenye yencwadi yesibili, “Umhlahlandlela Film” (“Qondisa befilimu”), lapho ukulandelana by ukulandelana okuxoxwe konke okwenzekayo: isimo ngasinye, wafundisa Ukuxhumana kanjani benamathele, izikhathi Practice, zezimpi yangempela ukuthi kuphakama… Lokhu kuzokwenza uqonde kangcono ngenjongo yomsebenzi ngamunye futhi kobunzima futhi kanjani they ayebhekiswe.

• Futhi okwesithathu incwadi equkethe uhlelo oluphelele, amasonto ayishumi nazo zonke izivivinyo zalo enemininingwane futhi zonke izinto futhi typeset (isiZulu), kanye zokuhlanganisa i-CD-ROM ifayela ye impahla ngayinye PDF ukulungele uzitholele. Ngokusobala ividiyo akusho ukuqoqa wonke umzimba, ngakho-ke kubalulekile kakhulu ukubona umsebenzi inchubekelembili emsebenzini, benethuba ukuzandisa.

• Ukutholakala ukuhunyushwa lokho Dance phansi uqobo ukuze Castilia, ngaphansi kwesihloko esithi “Ukuhlonipha Me, Ukuhlonipha You”, ngaphakathi ephelele iphakheji Dance Floor.
• Futhi isixwayiso Bridget Belgrave hhayi ukuzama iphrojekthi yale isitayela ngaphandle ngesandla esisodwa ingemuva eqinile kanye nesipiliyoni Ukuxhumana benamathele, kanti okwesibili i team zemfundo nabanye ngesisekelo CNV futhi enolwazi olukhulu ukusebenza izingane. Engizenzileyo ezinye zalezi umzimba nge intsha kanye intsha engozini e Madrid futhi kwahamba kahle, ngakho mina am etholakalayo.

kafushane, a impahla engabiza ababonayo, funda, uphindza afundze kanye nokuqalisa. Futhi ungakwazi ukuthenga esitolo inthanethi, Life Resources.

Futhi uma ufuna ukucaciseleka okwengeziwe, ungabiza kimi efonini yami contact futhi nixoxe okufunayo.

Ngithemba ukuthi ngokushesha sizoba amaphrojekthi ngaphezulu lolu hlobo lana!

Javier

“Ngokusho umuzwa wami, Umkhuba wokusebenzelana benamathele Ukuxhumana abantwana ngaphezulu Kuxhomeke ekutheni yini okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kimi wokuHlinzekwa kanjani ngikhuluma ngokwami ​​ngalokho okwenzekayo nge mina kanye lendodana yami ukuxoxisana. Nokho, Futhi ngifuna ukubuchaza ngamazwi ukuqonda kwami ​​okwenzekayo kokubili, okungenani ingxenye isikhathi, ngisho uma ngicabanga ingane yami akaqondi ulimi, ngoba uyangisiza ukuxhumana imizwa nezidingo kokubili. ukuthi, ithuba, kusiza kwehlisa umoya wami futhi uthole amasu ukuthi ezingase ziphumelele kokubili. Futhi ngifuna ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo ngoba ngicabanga lokhu kuyindlela bafundze lulwimi kanye nekukwati kufundza nekubhala ngokomzwelo.” (Inbal Kashtan, Bezingosi ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ikhasi 38)

Lapho abantu abathintekayo ekuchumana workshop yami zokuxhumana babe namadodana noma amadodakazi enisezweni ebuntwaneni noma usakhula, noma basebenze ndawonye nalabo ubudala, ngokuvamile kuphakama “yebo, Lokhu indlela zokuxhumana kahle phakathi abadala, kodwa ukuze ubone ukuthi ngithi yami ingane / nomshana / umfundi / goddaughter…”. Uma isikhathi sivuma, thina zifundiseni bekhulumisana nezingane ekuqeqesheni, kodwa ngokuvamile Angikwazi kuphela kubonise iziphakamiso kungenzeka futhi ukuhlola. Thina manje sesinesisetshenziswa entsha, esikuvumela ukuxhumana nomndeni kwenye ezingeni. Lena akuyona kuphela yokuxazulula izingxabano (futhi), kodwa ukudala eyiqiniso ngaphezulu uhlobo loxhumano, ezijulile nonamandla, ukuthi ilungiselela izingane ezingaphezu resiliently ukuphila.

Nale ukuzwela Inbal Kashtan abhala ngaso incwadi yakhe Bezingosi ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Yaba izipho kobubele, uxhumano kanye nokuzikhethela, eshicilelwe ngonyaka odlule Castilian ngu Acanto Editorial. Inbal Kashtan, ukwakha Ukuxhumana benamathele futhi kumma, led iminyaka umsebenzi benamathele Ukuxhumana emkhayeni, ikakhulukazi nabazali maqondana nezingane zabo. Inbal eshona ngo-September 2014, kodwa igalelo lakhe uyaqhubeka baynvc (inhlangano disseminates benamathele Ukuxhumana kusukela San Francisco Bay, California, okuyinto azibonela yona omunye wabasunguli) nemibhalo (Ngaphezu le ncwadi, Ungafunda ezinye izihloko zakhe mayelana zokuxhumana umndeni ngesiNgisi baynvc). Le blog futhi noma ubani ofuna ukuba yokubonga wena intela ukuze asindise ukuphila kwakhe futhi umsebenzi.

I batusa le ncwadi kokubili labo abeza okokuqala Ukuxhumana benamathele futhi kulabo abafuna ukuba sijulise umkhuba wabo nezingane. Ithemba othanda ukuzenza.

Javier