Ecosha intambo yokungenela nge ama-brushstrokes we-International Focusing Conference okwenzeka eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) kwe 20 al 24 July 2016, iqembu lesithakazelo Ukugxila Kwezempilo Yomphakathi (Ukugxila Kwezenhlalakahle Zomphakathi) Kwaba kimi okunye okuvelele. Bekuyisipiliyoni sokudala umphakathi ngendlela eyabiwe ngokusebenzisa i- uyalalela, le translation, imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili futhi isimo sengqondo sokugxila.

Sekuyizinyanga ezimbalwa, futhi bengilokhu ngibhala mayelana nolwazi lwami (konke okufakiwe kuvela kunkomba yokugcina yalokhu kungena), futhi ngiba nomuzwa ofudumele nomnene lapho ngikhumbula leliQembu. Njalo ekuseni ngeNgqungquthela, iqembu labahlanganyeli lijoyina elinye lamaQembu Abathakazelayo ayishumi nanhlanu. Lawa bekungamaqembu abefuna ukuba yindawo evulekile yokwabelana ngemibono yomuntu siqu kanye nephrofeshinali mayelana nokugxila ezindaweni ezithile.. Ngalingwa izihloko eziningi (kwakukhona ngisho a “Iqembu Lenzalo Ngaphandle Kwenzalo Eqondile”, nakuba ihlaya lizwakala kangcono ngesiNgisi). Ngeneliseke kakhulu ngokukhetha kwami, ngesikhathi esifanayo ukuthi ngiyazisola ngokungakwazi ukuzihlukanisa ukuze ngikwazi ukuhambela ezinye eziningi…

Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yamazwe Ngamazwe YaseCambridge (I-RU), uJulayi 2016.

Iqembu Lesithakazelo Ukugxila Kwezempilo Yomphakathi (Ukugxila Kwezenhlalakahle Zomphakathi) yahlanganiswa ngu Nina Joy Lawrence, Pat Omidian futhi U-Heidrun Essler, lokho kwadala indawo yesiqukathi ukuze sikwazi ukubamba iqhaza futhi, njengoba bebevele bekulindele, okwe “yethula amakhono okugxila kanye nezimo zengqondo ezimpilweni zethu zansuku zonke nasemaqenjini omphakathi” -ngisho naseqenjini lethu esithakaselayo-. Thanks!

Isici sokuqala kwaba uyalalela. Sasingabahlanganyeli abayishumi nesithupha abavela emazweni ayisithupha ahlukene (I-Afghanistan, Germany, China, Spain, I-United States ne-United Kingdom), futhi akubona bonke ababesazi kahle isiNgisi, ngakho isinyathelo sokuqala sokwakha umphakathi wethu kwakuwukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyaziveza futhi aqonde noma yini esiyishoyo: lokho kusho ukuthi sigcine sesisebenzisa izilimi ezintathu ezahlukene zokusebenza (IsiNgisi, isiShayina neSpanishi). Okungase kube umthwalo (humusha, isibonelo lokho okwashiwo umhlanganyeli waseShayina kumaNgisi, futhi ukusuka lapho ukuya eSpanishi, bese uphendula ngesiNgisi, bese uhumushela impendulo olimini lwesiShayina neSpanishi, njll.) yaba isipho esiyigugu: ithuba lokulalela umuntu ngamunye esimweni esijulile sokugxila, ngisho nangaphambi kokuba amagama ahunyushwe. Ngakho sihlakulela indlela yokuba ndawonye nesigqi esikhululekile, indawo lapho umuntu ngamunye elalela abanye abakhuluma ngezilimi zakwamanye amazwe futhi, ngandlela thize, ekupheleni, saqala ukuqonda okuhlangenwe nakho kwesikhulumi ngaphambi kokuhumusha.

isipiliyoni sesibili, okwakungithinta kakhulu, kwaba translation Ngokwakhe. Bengilokhu ngihumusha ezimeni ezahlukene naphakathi kwezilimi ezahlukene iminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amabili, futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu kuzilungiselelo professional (isibonelo, ukuhumusha abaqeqeshi be-Forcusing bangaphandle lapha eSpain). Kodwa kimina, ukuhumusha ingxoxo egxilile njalo kuwumzamo okhethekile., ukuqaphela ukuhumusha kokubili amagama kanye nolwazi olutholakala kulawo magama akhethiwe.

Lokho kungibeke kwelinye izinga: iqiniso lokuhumusha (phakathi kwesiNgisi neSpanishi, ngazo zombili izindlela) eqenjini engangizizwa njengomphakathi langikhumbuza izinguqulo zami zentsha yezifiki ukwakha iqembu enhlanganweni engasekho. Ngenkathi ngabelana ngalokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okukabili kwe, Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukwaneliseka kokukwazi ukuhumusha endaweni yomphakathi kanye, komunye, isililo sososeshini olahlekile, amanye amalungu eqembu nawo abelane ngemiphakathi abalahlekelwe kuyona - nokuthi kanjani imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili babekhona futhi benendawo kulokho esasikudala—.

Phakathi nalezo zikhathi ezine saxoxa, sazama ukuvivinya umzimba, siyaphawula… Njengoba ngihlanganyele emzuliswaneni wokugcina wokuvala, Ngangize eqenjini ngenhloso enkulu yokuthola imibono, amasu nokuzivocavoca ukwakha umphakathi osebenzisa i-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithatha into ehluke kakhulu: a isimo sengqondo sokugxila lokho kuthanda ukuba khona, lokho kuvumela iqembu kanye nelungu ngalinye lalo ukuthi linake izinga elihlukile lomzwelo, ukuxhumana okulondoloziwe okuvela emzimbeni.

Lezi ezinye zezifundo ezizohlala nami isikhathi eside (Empeleni, Sengike ngavakashela I-Focusing Initiatives International, inhlangano esiza ukusabalalisa i-Community Wellness Focusing, futhi ngibhalisele i Uhlu Lwezingxoxo Ezigxile Kwezempilo Yomphakathi, uhlu lwama-imeyili olubika kulokhu kusakazwa, isiZulu), kanye nokubonga okujulile kubasingathi bethu kanye nelungu ngalinye leqembu. Manje yisikhathi “qhubekela phambili” konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho okudala imiphakathi enalezi zimo zengqondo zokugxila.

Ngifisela nina eningifundele ulwazi oluningi olujulile lokwakhiwa komphakathi kanje.

F. Javier Romeo Biedma

Qaphela: Isithombe sishicilelwe ngemvume yamalungu eqembu. Awekho amagama afanele anikezwayo ngenxa yokuhlonipha ubumfihlo bakho, ngaphandle kwalabo bomengameli bokusingatha abanikeze Iqembu Lentshisekelo esidlangalaleni.

Funda lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi.