I-Community Wellness Focusing Interest Group kimina ibingezinye zezinto ezinhle kakhulu ze-International Focusing Conference eCambridge. (UK) NgoJulayi 20-27 2016. Bekuyisipiliyoni sokwakha ngokubambisana umphakathi ngokusebenzisa ukulalela, ukuhumusha, imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili futhi Isimo sengqondo sokugxila.

Sekudlule izinyanga ezithile, futhi bengilokhu ngibhala ngesipiliyoni sami eNgqungqutheleni (konke okuthunyelwe kukhonjisiwe kulokhu okuthunyelwe ngeSpanishi), futhi umuzwa ofudumele nomnene ufika kimi lapho ngikhumbula leliQembu. Njalo ekuseni ngesikhathi seNgqungquthela bonke abahlanganyeli bajoyina enye ye 15 Amaqembu Ezithakazelo. Lawa bekungamaqembu ahloselwe ukuthi abe yindawo evulekile yokwabelana ngemibono yomuntu siqu kanye nephrofeshinali mayelana nokugxila ezizindeni ezithile. Ngalingwa izihloko eziningi (kwakukhona ngisho a “Iqembu Lenzalo Elingenayo Inzalo”!) futhi ngijabule kakhulu ngokukhetha kwami, kuyilapho ngizisola ngokungakwazi ukuzihlukanisa ukuze nginakekele abanye abaningi…

Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe, Cambridge (I-RU), July 2016.

I-Community Wellness Focusing Group isingathwe ngu Nina Joy Lawrence, Pat Omidian futhi U-Heidrun Essler, owadala indawo yokubamba ukuze sonke sibambe iqhaza futhi, njengoba beqhubeka, “ukuletha amakhono okugxila kanye nezimo zengqondo ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke nasemaqenjini omphakathi” -kuhlanganise neqembu lethu. Ngiyabonga!

Isici sokuqala kwaba ukulalela. Sasingabahlanganyeli abayishumi nesithupha abavela emazweni ayisithupha ahlukene (I-Afghanistan, China, Germany, Spain, UK kanye USA), futhi akuwona wonke umuntu owayesazi kahle isiNgisi, ngakho-ke isinyathelo sokuqala sokwakha umphakathi wethu kwakuwukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyaziveza futhi aqonde noma yini eshiwoyo: lokho kwakusho ukuthi siqede ukusebenzisa izilimi ezintathu ezihlukene zokusebenza (IsiNgisi, IsiShayina neSpanishi). Okungase kube umthwalo (ukuhumusha, Ngokwesibonelo, lokho okwashiwo umhlanganyeli waseShayina esiNgisini, bese kuba ngeSpanishi, bese ephendula ngesiNgisi, bese ehumushela olimini lwesiShayina naseSpanishi, njalo njalo) yaba isipho esiyigugu: ithuba lokulalela omunye komunye usuka esimweni esijulile sokugxila, ngisho nangaphambi kokuba amagama ahunyushwe. Ngakho sahlakulela indlela ehamba kancane yokuba ndawonye, indawo lapho wonke umuntu wayelalela abantu bekhuluma ngezilimi zakwamanye amazwe futhi, ngandlela thize, ekugcineni, besiqala ukuqonda okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ngaphambi kokuhumusha.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwesibili okwangithinta inhliziyo kwaba ukuhumusha uqobo. Bengilokhu ngihumusha ngezilungiselelo ezahlukene futhi kusukela ezilimini ezahlukene ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabili, futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu kuzilungiselelo professional (Ngokwesibonelo, ukuhumusha abaqeqeshi be-Forcusing bangaphandle lapha eSpain). Kodwa kimina ukuhumusha ingxoxo ethi Focusing kuhlale kuletha umzamo okhethekile, ukuhumusha kanjani kokubili amagama kanye nolwazi olungacacile kulawo magama.

Lokho kungibeke kwelinye izinga: iqiniso lokuthi bengihumusha (IsiNgisi neSpanishi, izindlela zombili) eqenjini elalizizwa njengomphakathi langikhumbuza indlela engangivame ukuhumusha ngayo intsha evela kwamanye amazwe ukuze kwakhiwe iqembu enhlanganweni engasekho. Ngenkathi ngabelana ngalokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokubili ukwaneliseka mayelana nokukwazi ukuhumusha endaweni yomphakathi kanye nosizi mayelana nenhlangano enyamalele., amanye amalungu abelane ngemiphakathi elahlekelwe nawo – futhi kanjani imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili besikhona futhi sinendawo kulokhu ebesikudala.

Phakathi nalezo zikhathi ezine saxoxa, wazama umzimba, ubeke amazwana, kuxoxiwe… Njengoba ngihlanganyele ohlwini lokugcina, Ngangifike eqenjini nginomgomo omkhulu wokuthola imibono, amasu nokuzivocavoca ukwakha umphakathi osebenzisa i-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithathe into ehluke kakhulu: a Isimo sengqondo sokugxila lokho kukhuthaza ukuba khona, lokho kuvumela iqembu kanye nelungu ngalinye ukuba banakekele ikhwalithi ehlukile yomuzwa, ukuxhumana okugcinwa emzimbeni.

Lezo ezinye zezifundo ezizohlala kimi (empeleni ngivakashile I-Focusing Initiatives International, inhlangano esiza ukusabalalisa i-Community Wellness Focusing, futhi ngijoyine Uhlu Lwezingxoxo Ezigxile Kwezempilo Yomphakathi), kanye nokubonga okujulile kubasingathi bethu kanye nawo wonke amalungu eqembu. Manje yisikhathi sokuyisa phambili konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho sidala imiphakathi enalesi simo sengqondo sokuGxila.

Ngifisela nina eningifundele ulwazi olujulile lokwakhiwa komphakathi kanje.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedma

Qaphela: Isithombe sithunyelwe ngemvume yamalungu. Awekho amagama abantu anikezwa ngokuhlonipha ubumfihlo babo, ngaphandle kwababungazi abanikeze esidlangalaleni Iqembu Elithakaselayo.

Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi.

Iqhubeka emgqeni we okufakiwe kwangaphambilini, futhi uhlobene kakhulu naye, ukuqashwa kwami ​​njengelungu le-International Relations ngaphakathi kwebhodi labaqondisi le-Spanish Institute of Focusing, enye ingxenye yokubizela esenzweni okuvele kuyo ukubamba iqhaza kwami ​​eNgqungqutheleni Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi odlule 2016.

njengoba kuphawuliwe kuleyo posi, ku Ukugxila Institute Spanish siyakuqonda lokho, kanye nesenzo sokufundisa kanye nokuhambisana ne-Focusing ikakhulukazi umuntu ngamunye, ngamunye unesitayela sakhe nokuzwela, futhi njalo ngaphakathi kwenqubo okuvunyelenwe ngayo esidlangalaleni kanye namakhono, Nokho, zonke izenzo zenhlangano kanye nokubamba iqhaza kufanele zivele ezinhlakeni zamaqoqo.

Yingakho ke, ngesikhathi ngimenywa ukuba ngibambe iqhaza IKomidi Lobulungu Le-International Institute of Focusing ezinze eNew York (I-International Focusing Institute), Ngibeke leso sikhundla esandleni se-Spanish Institute of Focusing, ukuze lithathwe yinoma yimuphi umuntu njengommeleli ovela eSpain. Yini engingayimangaza uma ngimenywa ukuba ngibambe iqhaza elixhumene ne-International Relations ngaphakathi kwe ibhodi labaqondisi kanye nokwamukela leso sikhundla samazwe ngamazwe. Ngasamukela isicelo, izinyathelo ezifanele ezihlongozwe emithethweni sezithathiwe futhi ngisanda kuqokwa njengelungu.

Ngijabule kakhulu ukukwazi ukufaka isandla emphakathini we-Focusing eSpain, engithole kuyo okuningi. Kusukela ekuqaleni kokuqeqeshwa kwami ​​ku 2009, Izinsuku Zezwe, isikole sasehlobo, ukugadwa, iDiploma kanye neziqu zomqeqeshi oqinisekisiwe kanye ne-Certified Focusing Counselling Psychotherapist kanye nabo bonke abathintwayo nezimo zokukhula, Impela ngicushwe njengochwepheshe be-Focusing (futhi njengomuntu).

Futhi kulolu chungechunge lwezimemo zesenzo (njengoba lisho Elizabeth Gascón, umxhumanisi wami wokudlulisela, the “isinyathelo sesikhombisa” de Ukugxila: “Futhi konke lokhu kukumemela ini?”), Kimina sengathi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ngifake isandla nakulesi sikhundla, inqobo nje uma umsebenzi wami usewusizo futhi wakha. Kuyinselelo ukusebenza kanye nasekusebenzeleni abantu abaningi engibaziyo, nengcebo ngaphakathi lokho kungibeka esimweni sokuthobeka nokufunda.

Ngakho futhi kulesi sikhundla esisha ngisenkonzweni yakho, ngethemba lokufaka isandla olwazini lwamazwe ngamazwe lwengcebo ye-Focusing esiyenzayo lapha, kanye nokunikela ngemibono neziphakamiso ezivela kwezinye izindawo ezivela kulesi simo sobudlelwano bamazwe ngamazwe.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengoba ngike ngaphawula kwenye iposi, babambe iqhaza ku I-International Focusing Conference eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi odlule 2016 kusho ukuvuleka okuningi okusha, izindlela ezintsha, izindlela ezintsha zokufaka i-Focusing empilweni yami nokwabelana ngayo. ukwazi, futhi ubizela esenzweni.

Kungimangaze kakhulu ukumenywa ukuba ngibe yingxenye yeKomidi Lobulungu (IKomidi Lobulungu) kwe Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke ezinze eNew York (I-International Focusing Institute). Leli komiti liwumgwamanda nje owelulekayo. (ayenzi izinqumo) futhi ngokuyisisekelo yakhiwe amavolontiya, oweluleka izigungu ezilawulayo ngazo zonke izindaba eziphathelene nokuba yilungu leSikhungo: indlela yokuthuthukisa ubulungu, ulenza kanjani inani lakho libonakale, kanjani ukwenza lula ukubamba iqhaza phakathi kwamalungu. Umsebenzi wakho ukubheka amalungu futhi uthole izidingo ezivelayo nezikhala zokusebenzisana. Liyikomidi lamazwe ngamazwe, nemihlangano yenkomfa yevidiyo kanye namathimba omsebenzi athile. Yiqembu elisha kangangokuthi alikabi naso isigaba salo Iwebhusayithi yesikhungo. Futhi mina, ukuthi ngiye ngajabulela izinzuzo zokuba yilungu kusukela ngaleso sikhathi 2010, okokuqala njengoMqeqeshi Ekuqeqesheni, futhi kamuva njengomqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe (2012) futhi Njengochwepheshe Oqinisekisiwe Wokugxila Ekugxileni Kubo (2014), Ngithola njengelungelo ukukwazi ukufaka isandla kwabanye abantu kanye nesakhiwo seSikhungo.

Kimina kubalulekile ukulandela umugqa womsebenzi we Ukugxila Institute Spanish, lapho sisebenza khona ekuqeqesheni, ukuphelezela noma eminye imikhakha yokuGxila ezingeni ngalinye, kodwa lapho ubudlelwano namanye amaqembu nezinhlangano kunqunywa ngokuhlanganyela. Ngakho-ke, Ngithumele isimemo kuBhodi Labaqondisi be-Spanish Institute of Focusing futhi muva nje ngiphinde ngaqokwa ilungu lobudlelwano bamazwe ngamazwe, ukuze akwazi ukuthatha isikhundla eKomidini Lobulungu.

Ukuze, Sengiqalile ukufunda izincwadi (kuningi okwenziwe esikhathini esingaphezudlwana nje konyaka sokusebenza) futhi ngahlanganyela emhlanganweni. Ngethemba ukuthi ngizoqhubeka nokufaka isandla emhlabeni we-Focusing ngale ndlela. Futhi uma unezincomo noma iziphakamiso mayelana nobulungu be-International Institute of Focusing, ngiyojabula ukubezwa.

Enkonzweni yakho ngendlela entsha,

F. Javier Romeo