Ngiyajabula ukuhlanganyela lesi sihloko lokho The Institute Ukugxilisa ushicilele ku The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, iphephabhuku layo lezemfundo, ngevolumu yayo 25 ye 2014. Iphepha lami “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile“ yavela ekuqaleni kwe 2014 futhi isanda kushicilelwa ngokwedijithali ngokufinyelela kwamahhala kanye nefomethi ye-PDF kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni ye The Ikhasi.

Dawuniloda isihloko ngesiNgisi, “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

Landa inguqulo ye-Spanish yesihloko, “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

[Buyekeza ngoFebhuwari 9 2017] Landa inguqulo yesi-Japanese yesihloko, “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela emiphumeleni ejulile”, futhi ufunde i indaba yokuhumusha kwayo (ngeSpanishi) by Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) kanye noMako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa). ngibona kakhulu!

Ngishiya lapha i-abstract:

ABSTRACT

Kokubili Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele (NVC) zisekelwe embonweni wokuthi abantu bathola ukuqonda kanye nezinqubo zabo zangaphakathi ziqhubekela phambili lapho amanye amazwi abo ebonakaliswa.. Ukuzindla kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwakho kanye nomngane wakho. Futhi ukuzindla kuletha imiphumela ejulile, njengoba izici ezicatshangelwayo ziba khona futhi ziyaqaphela.

Nokho, Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele beka ingcindezi ekuboniseni izici ezihlukene zokuxhumana kokuqala. Ukugxila kuyalandela wazizwa emzimbeni njengendlela entsha yokudala incazelo entsha. Communication benamathele uzama ukuthola universal izidingo okuwumongo wazo zonke izenzo zomuntu. Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele kade wawela ngezindlela ezahlukene (ukubuyekezwa okufushane kokuphambana okuthile kuhlolisiswa kuleli phepha). Ukugxila kungathuthukiswa ngokwethula ukuqwashisa okusha ngezidingo, ikakhulukazi uma Ukubuza. Futhi Communication benamathele ingathuthukiswa ukuzwela okusha ezimisweni zokuqala zomuntu -hhayi nje ukuzama "ukuhumusha" yonke into, kodwa futhi nokwazisa ulimi olujwayelekile njengezingathekiso.

Uma zombili izinqubo zihlanganisiwe futhi umngane/umelaphi ubonisa izici zawo womabili amazinga okuqwashisa, umuntu uthola imiphumela efanele njengoba kuvela imiphumela ejulile.

Amagama angukhiye: Ukugxilisa, Communication benamathele (NVC), Uzwela, Bonisa, Crossing.

Kwabakhuluma iSpanishi, ngena kulokhu okuthunyelwe ngeSpanishi.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela futhi ngizokuthanda ukufunda imibono yakho,

Javier