With injabulo enkulu engimtshela lesi sihloko I eshicilelwe The Institute Ukugxilisa (International Ukugxilisa Institute ezinze eNew York) umthamo 25 elihambisana 2014 of The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, Iphephabhuku official academic. Uvele version iphepha phambilini 2014, Isihloko yami “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile“ It usanda eyanyatheliswa ngesiNgisi ngo ukufinyelela free PDF on the website esemthethweni The Ikhasi.

Download isihloko sokuqala in English, “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

Version Spanish of Article Thwebula “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

[Isibuyekezo se- 9 February 2017] Landa inguqulo yesi-Japanese ye-athikili “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela emiphumeleni ejulile” futhi ubone umlando wokuhunyushwa kwayo.

Futhi Ngiphinde ukushiya summary sokuqala:

NGOKUFINGQIWE

Ukugxilisa njengoba bobabili Communication benamathele (CNV) Bathi zisekelwe embonweni wokuthi abantu nokuqonda futhi izinqubo zethu abazenzi phambili lapho sicabanga amanye amazwi. Uxhumano Amandla reflection of the umuntu ngokwakhe nangokuthi angakuthuthukisa ohambisa. Futhi reflection ithwala nemithelela ezijulile kanti izici ngokuphelele evulekile khona zabo siqu futhi waqaphela uyaqaphela.

Nokho, Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele Bathi ukugcizelela kubonise yizici ezihlukene zokuxhumana original. Ukugxilisa kanje imizwa ngokusuka enhliziyweni emzimbeni njengendlela entsha ukudala nencazelo entsha. The Communication benamathele uzama ukuthola izidingo ecashile human jikelele zonke izenzo zabantu. Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele Baye kuhlangene (sawela) ngezindlela ezahlukene (kokubukeza kafushane ezinye inhlanganisela zibhekiwe kulesi sihloko). Ukugxila kungenziwa ahlanganiswe ngokwethula ngiqaphele entsha mayelana nezidingo, ikakhulukazi ngokudlula Buza. Futhi Communication benamathele Ungazi ukukhuthaza uzwela entsha ukuze imigomo original umuntu-hhayi nje uzama "ukuhumusha" yonke, kodwa futhi ekwaziseni ulimi common njengoba isethi izingathekiso.

Lapho izinqubo ezimbili ehlangana futhi lapho isilaleli njengoba umqeqeshi noma owelapha libonakalisa izici omabili emazinga ukwazi, umuntu ufinyelela imiphumela efanele ukuvela anencazelo ejulile.

Keywords: Ukugxilisa, Communication benamathele (NVC) / Communication benamathele (CNV), Uzwela, Reflect, Crossing/Cross / Hlanganisa.

For izikhulumi English, iya le post in English.

Ngithemba Wawujabulela futhi sijabule ukufunda imibono yakho,

Javier

Ukuthuthukela 26 September 2014:

Ngiye ngajabulela ilungelo version Castilian sihloko yami esisesigabeni page in Spanish Ukugxila Institute of New York (The Institute Ukugxilisa). Thanks! ngibona kakhulu!

Ukuthuthukela 9 February 2017:

Ngibonga kakhulu ngokuhumusha kwesiJapane kuka-Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) kanye noMako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa). ngibona kakhulu! Aquí está la umlando wokuhunyushwa kwayo.

zinde “Ubukhulu bomzimba be-NVC. Ukuhlolwa kokuqiniswa okubonakalayo kwezidingo nge-Focusing” ku III Umhlangano Wabasebenzi Bezokuxhumana Abangenalo Udlame, ihlelwe yi- Association for Communication benamathele.

Izinsuku: NgoLwesihlanu 31 kusukela ngoJanuwari kuya ngeSonto 2 February 2014.

Indawo: I-Villa Castora Youth Hostel
Amadlelo onguthelawayeka, 29.
I-Cercedilla (Madrid)

Ulwazi oluthe xaxa futhi ukubhalisa ngesikhathi Iwebhusayithi yenhlangano.

Landa ulwazi olujwayelekile loMhlangano we-III Wabasebenzi be-NVC eCercedilla, 2014.

Landa uhlelo (okwesikhashana) Womhlangano Wesithathu Wabasebenzi Be-NVC eCercedilla, 2014.

[Entry Original 28 Januwari 2014, olusha 2 February 2014, idethi yokuphela komcimbi.]

Njengomeluleki wezingane ku Spiral Consulting Izingane kulindeleke ukuthi ifundise amamojula we “Imfundo Esebenzayo Yokuvimbela Udlame” futhi “Ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu ngokuvinjelwa kodlame” (izisekelo Zokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame kochwepheshe Bezemfundo Yezenhlalakahle) phakathi nesifundo “Uthisha omusha wezenhlalakahle: Ukubuyekeza amakhono ochwepheshe ku-Social Education” ihlelwe yiSikole Sokuqeqeshela Abaqeqeshi be Inhlangano Yembewu.

Izinsuku (kwamamojula): mars 1, ULwesithathu 2, ULwesine 3 nangoLwesihlanu 4 October 2013, of 16:00 a 20:30.

Indawo: Inhlangano Yembewu
I-Paseo Alberto Palacios No. 13
28021 Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: 91 798 69 55

Landa idokhumenti yesifundo “Uthisha omusha wezenhlalakahle: Ukubuyekeza amakhono ochwepheshe ku-Social Education”

[Entry Original 3 September 2013, olusha 4 October 2013, usuku lokuqedwa kwamamojula.]

Alex Rovira, umeluleki webhizinisi, umfundisi nombhali wazo zombili izindatshana namanoveli, inombono omuhle womuntu osondelene kakhulu nalowo esinawo ovela Ezokuxhumana Ezingenalo Udlame kanye Nokugxila.

Kule vidiyo emfushane unikeza izihluthulelo eziyisisekelo zokusebenza nabantu, kokubili kusukela ekuphathweni kwebhizinisi kanye nakulabo bethu abangenelela ngokomuntu siqu nangokomphakathi. isisho esiyinhloko “umnotho we-caress” iqoqa omunye wemiqondo eyisisekelo engizama ukuyidlulisela ekuqeqeshweni kwami ​​nasekuphelezeleni umsebenzi wami: abantu bafuna ukubukwa, aqashelwe, futhi uma singakutholi ngephozithivu siyakufuna ngezinye izincingo zokuvuka ezingajabulisi. Okubalulekile wukuqaphela lokhu futhi ufunde ukufunda phakathi kwemigqa.. Lokhu kuyangisiza emsebenzini wami nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo., futhi iyithuluzi eliyinhloko lokwakha amabhuloho phakathi kwabantu.

Ngiyakukhuthaza ukuthi ubukele ividiyo (ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngisho, ukubamba ubuqili) kanye nokuzindla ngokuthi singawusungula kanjani lowo mnotho we-caress ezimpilweni zethu zangasese, futhi nakuchwepheshe.

Ithemba othanda ukuzenza.

Javier

Isifundo “Ukusebenza kahle nokulalela ekukhulisweni kwamadodana namadodakazi ethu” ihlelwe yi Synthesis Center ePalma de Majorca.

Izinsuku: ULwesihlanu 22 February 2013 of 17:00 a 21:00 futhi Saturday 23 February 2013 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00.

Indawo: Ihhotela laseGarden City
C/ Isiqhingi saseMalta 14
07007 I-Palma de Mallorca
Iziqhingi zaseBalearic

Landa uhlelo nalo lonke ulwazi.

[Entry Original 18 Januwari 2013, olusha 23 February 2013, Yiqiniso kuphothulwe.]

ama-workshops “Lalela amazwi ethu angaphakathi” futhi “Ukugxila y CNV” ku II Umhlangano Wabasebenzi Bezokuxhumana Abangenalo Udlame, ihlelwe yi- Association for Communication benamathele.

Izinsuku: NgoLwesihlanu 25 kuze kube yiSonto 27 Januwari 2013.

Indawo: I-Villa Castora Youth Hostel
Amadlelo onguthelawayeka, 29.
I-Cercedilla (Madrid)

Ulwazi oluthe xaxa futhi ukubhalisa ngesikhathi Iwebhusayithi yenhlangano.

Landa ulwazi oluphelele nohlelo (okwesikhashana) Womhlangano Wesibili Wabasebenzi Be-NVC eCercedilla, NgoJanuwari 2013.

[Entry Original 17 Januwari 2013, olusha 27 Januwari 2013, idethi yokuphela komcimbi.]

Ngikopisha lapha ulwazi mayelana Nesifundo "Amakhono namasu okuthuthukisa ukuhlalisana ekilasini" ngokusekelwe ku-CNV Yezingane Ezisencane Nezifundiswa Zemfundo Eyisisekelo Emphakathini waseMadrid engibafundisayo kwa-Espirales Consultoría de Infancia. Lokhu okufakiwe kuyikhophi yalokhu okunye Iposi lebhulogi le-CI Spirals, futhi ngiyayikopisha lapha ngoba iyingxenye yokuqeqeshwa engikunikeza ngendikimba Yokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame, kodwa uthisha.

Izinsuku: UMsombuluko 6, 13, 20 futhi 27 February 2012, futhi 5, 12 futhi 26 Mashi 2012, of 17:30 a 20:30.

Vula isikhathi sokubhalisa: kwe 12 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2012 al 3 February 2012 (izindawo ezinomkhawulo nge-oda lokubhalisa).

I-CTIF Capital Collaborating Center "I-Prince Felipe Institute".
I-Finisterre Street 60.
Madrid

ezokuthutha: idolobha Indawo yasensika (umugqa 9), kanye nemigqa 82, 132, 134, 137, 147 yamabhasi e-EMT.

Ulwazi nokubhaliswa ngokusebenzisa I-CTIF Capital.

Funda incwadi ISHIDI LOMBHALO.

[Entry Original 11 Januwari 2012, olusha 26 Mashi 2012, Yiqiniso kuphothulwe.]

Izindlela Zokuxhumana Eziphumelelayo, ngokusekelwe kumasu we Ukuxhumana benamathele nguMarshall Rosenberg, ihlelwe yi I-Institute of Mediation and Collaborative Law of Zaragoza, kubantu abanokuqeqeshwa kwangaphambilini kulawa masu.

Izinsuku: i-domingo 19 February 2012 of 10:00 a 14:00 .

Indawo: Isikhungo Sokulamula kanye Nomthetho Wokubambisana
Cesar Augusto Avenue No. 3, 4º A
Zaragoza

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: 976 44 35 00, UMaria Begona. mediacionyderechocolaborativo@gmail.com

Landa idokhumenti enolwazi oluphelele mayelana nezinqubo zokuxhumana eZaragoza.

[Entry Original 8 February 2012, olusha 19 February 2012, usuku lokuphothulwa komhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi.]

Isifundo Sokuxhumana Esiphumelelayo, ngokusekelwe kumasu we Ukuxhumana benamathele nguMarshall Rosenberg, ihlelwe yi I-Institute of Mediation and Collaborative Law of Zaragoza.

Izinsuku: ULwesihlanu 17 February 2012 of 17:00 a 21:00 futhi Saturday 18 February 2012 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00 .

Indawo: Isikhungo Sokulamula kanye Nomthetho Wokubambisana
Cesar Augusto Avenue No. 3, 4º A
Zaragoza

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: 976 44 35 00, UMaria Begona. mediacionyderechocolaborativo@gmail.com

Landa idokhumenti enolwazi oluphelele Lwezifundo Zokuxhumana Eziphumelelayo e-Zaragoza

[Entry Original 8 February 2012, olusha 18 February 2012, Yiqiniso kuphothulwe.]

Izikhathi eziningi ukuba khona kwethu kubaluleke kakhulu, sinjani, senzenjani.

Le vidiyo, engabonwa ku-YouTube, ukhombisa indlela uSolwazi Toshiro Kanamori akhona ngayo umthelela futhi uguqula abafundi bakhe. Ohlelweni lwezemfundo oluncintisana njengamaJapane, lo thisha wesikole samabanga aphansi uyakwazi ukwakha indawo yokwethembeka nokuhlonipha abafana namantombazane esikoleni esijwayelekile. Asikho isidingo sokusebenza ngenye imodeli yemfundo, USolwazi Kanamori usebenzisa imisebenzi yansuku zonke ukuze akhe izindawo ezishintshayo zokuxhumana.

Futhi impilo ayimnandi kubafundi. Okusha yindlela uSolwazi Kanamori akha ngayo indawo lapho emlalela khona (phakathi kwabafundi nothisha) futhi ukuzilalela kuqinisa ubudlelwane futhi kwelaphe izilonda eziningi. Futhi konke okuvela endaweni yenhlonipho ejulile (kanye namandla azolile navikelayo kathisha). Ungaphuthelwa yiziqephu zokushona kwezihlobo, izinkinga zokunaka, ngisho nobudlova bontanga esikoleni, ukubona ukuthi baziphatha kanjani.

Ngikholelwa ngokujulile ukuthi lolu hlobo lobudlelwano lungadalwa esikhungweni ngasinye semfundo uma sithuthukisa ikhono lethu lokuxhumana ngendlela ejulile., lokho kusivumela ukuthi sakhe uxhumano oluyiqiniso kakhulu.

Futhi manje ngikushiya nevidiyo.

Ukuze ubone inguqulo yeSpanishi (inguqulo enezihlokwana ngesiCatalan):

Ingxenye 1:

Lena ingxenye yokuqala yenguqulo yeSpanishi, kukhona futhi inguqulo yesiNgisi (bona ngezansi).

Ingxenye 2:

Ingxenye 3:

Ingxenye 4:

Ingxenye 5:

Inguqulo yesiCatalan (ihunyushwe isuka enguqulweni yesiNgisi):

Le nguqulo isusiwe ku-YouTube. Uma othile eyithola futhi asitshele, sizoyilenga futhi.

Inguqulo yesiNgisi / Inguqulo yesiNgisi:

Ingxenye 1:

Ingxenye 2:

Ingxenye 3:

Ingxenye 4:

Ingxenye 5:

Kujabulele.

imikhonzo,

Javier