izingxabano Iningi zingalungiswa ngendlela egculisayo futhi inzuzo yabo bonke abathintekayo, enikeziwe izinsiza futhi isikhathi esingakanani okufanele usichithe. Yilokho okwenzeka yami yemisindvo zeminyaka ukufunda, kutilolonga okuxhunyanwa Ukuxhumana benamathele. Kuyinto eziyisisekelo ngakho (akulula) njengoba izimo ezidingekile ukuthi isinqumo kwenzeka. Kimi kukhona izakhi eziningana ezibalulekile, okungase ngokufingqiwe okulandelayo:

• An indlela efanele, ukuvumela bonke labo abathintekayo uzizwe silondekile futhi sihloniphana njengomkhaya amalungelo abo.
• ochwepheshe Experiential nge ukuqeqeshwa e Ukulamula ukulalela ezijulile amakhono kanye “translation” imiyalezo ukuze kube lula ukuzwa wonke umuntu.
• Umphakathi esekela izinqubo okubuyisela, isikhathi ukunikelwa, izikhala, Manpower, ukuqeqeshwa…
• Abantu uzimisele ukuxazulula izingxabano ngendlela ekugcineni wonke amaqembu bazizwe wezwa nokuthi wonke amaqembu ushiye aneliseke isixazululo.

Ngakho mina kuyathokozisa ukwabelana izinsiza akhiwa nomphakathi omkhulu nakubantu basendaweni esihlala kuyo kuthiwa Gotleu Palma de Mallorca (Mallorca), ngoba ukuqoqa indlela basebenza ngasinye salezi zici.

Kule video ungabona indlela eziye abathintekayo, i-nalomsebenzi Institute for nokuhlalisana kanye Impumelelo School (the Institute for nokuhlalisana kanye School Impumelelo Castilian) Uhulumeni we-Balearic Islands, kusuka othisha ezikoleni Imfundo yezingane, Primary kanye yesibili, abafundi babo bonke ubudala, imindeni, Nezenhlalakahle, amaphoyisa, University kanye namanye amaqembu abalulekile nomphakathi. Ngo ingxube amazwi, Senza kithi umqondo nakho yokudala ukuthi ukuphepha inethiwekhi endaweni emphakathini sengozini, futhi sibona imiphumela.

Ukuze uthole umbono ehlelekile ngaphezulu, Kuyinto ukushicilelwa eqoqa eziyisisekelo. Kushicilelwe ku-Catalan, Castilia nesiNgisi ngaphakathi kohlaka iphrojekthi European ngale ndaba, le Umhlahlandlela ngcono nokuhlalisana kanye Imikhuba bokubuyisana / Guide Mejoramos nokuhlalisana kanye nemikhuba okubuyisela Kutfutfukisa izici ezincwadini Imikhuba bokubuyisana, idatha eqondile inikeza izibonelo ukhonkolo kanye iziphakamiso Ngokufuna okuzayo ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi.

Futhi ukuba sijulise emibuthanweni okubuyisela, umkhuba nengxabano ludabuka ezindaweni ubukhulu nomphakathi Ukuxhumana benamathele, Ungafunda wokulandisa ezithakazelisayo Bokubuyisana Imikhuba Justice. Imibuthano bokubuyisana nendlela osebenza ngayo emikhakheni ehlukahlukene, elotshwe yiKhomishani UVenç Rul·lan, nomqeqeshi ngubani ngijabulela lokuhlangana, kuvidiyo kanye Umhlahlandlela, futhi nguye ilungu Association of Justice futhi bokubuyisana Imikhuba Islands (nekhasi Castilia futhi Catalan, ngezisetshenziswa eziningana). A isingeniso esihle, ukuze kuqhutshekwe sijulise nalolu hlobo locingo. Futhi ungakwazi futhi ubuke amavidiyo (isiZulu) kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni umdali imibuthano okubuyisela, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Ngubani okwenzile ukuqeqeshwa okuthile ekuchumana nami oyibonile Ngivame ukusho le nkinga ye Imikhuba bokubuyisana. Ngithemba kulezi kancane kangcono ukufanekisa ukuthi yini abezwile nami ithemba ukuthi ukuvusa lokusungula wakho nomcabango yakho ukuze uqhubeke ukuthola izindlela ikhiqize kakhudlwana ezijulile yokuxazulula izingxabano imvelo zemfundo, futhi iyiphi enye indawo.

Javier

UMarshall B. Rosenberg, isithombe esivela ku-Center for Nonviolent Communication.

UMarshall B. Rosenberg, umdali we Ukuxhumana benamathele, wadlula okwedlule 7 February 2015, njengoba ngiphawule kule post.

Wonke umphakathi wabasebenzi Bezokuxhumana Ezingenalo Udlame uyanyakaza futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uhlonishwe ngokuqhubeka nomsebenzi owawuhlongozwa., dala uhlobo lobudlelwano nesimo sengqondo esithuthukisa izimpilo zabo bonke abantu, Ngaphandle kokuhlukile.

the Isikhungo Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (Isikhungo Samazwe Ngamazwe Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame) uhlele a ukukhumbula inkumbulo kaMarshall Rosenberg futhi kusukela emsebenzini wakho olandelayo i-domingo 29 Mashi 2015. Ukuze kube lula ukubamba iqhaza kwamazwe ngamazwe, kuzosakazwa ku-inthanethi. kulesi sixhumanisi.

Ukunaka: inkokhiso izakwenziwa ku 16:00 isikhathi sendawo, bayoba yini le 00:00 kwe 30 Mashi 2015 (ubusuku kusukela ngeSonto kuze kube nguMsombuluko) Isikhathi se-peninsular yaseSpain, le 23:00 NgeSonto 29 Mashi 2015 Isikhathi sase-Canary Islands.

Ngiyakumema ukuthi ubambe iqhaza ukude kule nkumbulo kaMarshall nempilo yakhe.

Javier

[Entry Original 25 Mashi 2015, olusha 30 Mashi 2015, usuku lokuphela komcimbi e-Spain.]

Buyekeza

Ekugcineni abantu abaningi bakwazile ukulandela bekude ukukhumbula inkumbulo kaMarshall Rosenberg. Basebenza ngaphakathi kwesiko labo, Abantu ababalulekile empilweni yakho bakhulumile, abaye babelane ngolwazi lwabo lukaMarshall. Ngithole ezithinta ikakhulukazi izinkulumo zamadodana akhe uRick noBrett, Ngithande ukwazi imininingwane eyengeziwe yempilo yakhe kuphrofayili yokuqala efundwe urabi owayephethe, futhi ngithande ukwazi okuhlangenwe nakho kwabaqeqeshi abahlukahlukene abaye babamba izikhundla ku- Isikhungo Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (Isikhungo Samazwe Ngamazwe Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame), kuhlanganise noRobert Gonzales (owayengumongameli, futhi engimazi mathupha njengomqeqeshi) y UDominic Barter (umongameli wamanje kanye nomdali Wemibuthano Yokubuyisela. Naphezu kwamahora asebusuku kakhulu lapha eMadrid, Isipiliyoni singicebise kakhulu futhi kube yindlela yokuhlonipha inkumbulo kaMarshall nabantu ababemazi ngokujulile..

Ngokubonga nangokuncoma.

Javier

Nginelungelo lokwenza umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi Ukuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame ngaphakathi kwe Izinsuku Zokugxila Zikazwelonke 2015 ihlelwe yi- Ukugxila Institute Spanish, ivulekele amalungu eSikhungo. Kuyoba isethulo ulwazi ezinye izici ukuthi mina ukuphakamisa esihlokweni yami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”, lapho yanyatheliswa inani 2014 of The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, ijenali yezemfundo esemthethweni ye The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute).

usuku: Saturday, 21 Mashi 2015, of 12:00 a 14:00.

Indawo: Indlu Yokomoya Yomoya Ongcwele
I-Paseo del Fuente del Cura, 13.
IMiraflores de la Sierra (Madrid)

Landa uhlelo oluphelele lweNkomfa Kazwelonke Yokugxila 2015.

Iya ekhasini le-Spanish Institute of Focusing lapho ungalanda khona lonke ulwazi.

[Entry Original 6 February 2015, olusha 21 Mashi 2015, usuku lokusebenzela.]

Buyekeza

Kuyatholakala ezinye izithombe kanye nesifinyezo Senkomfa ku ukungena kwebhulogi Isikhala Sokuzibonela ibhalwe nguFran J.. AmaSivian aseSeville. Sibonga kakhulu ku-Fran ngezithombe, kumalungu eBhodi Labaqondisi ngokuhlela Inkomfa kanye nomsebenzi wawo unyaka wonke kanye nakuwo wonke umphakathi wabahlanganyeli ukuze kwenzeke.

Ukusebenzisa iqiniso lokuthi intwasahlobo iqala namuhla, Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic usenayo kakade Twitter, ConexMasAutent, lapho okufakiwe okuhlukile kuzovela kushicilelwe, ngaphezu kwezincomo nezinye izindaba ezinentshisekelo kuzo Ukugxilisa, ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu okusekelwe Ukuxhumana benamathele, ukuthuthukiswa komuntu jikelele kanye ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzowathola ewusizo.

Javier

zinde “Ukuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame Nokugxila. Lalela izidingo ngomzimba wonke” ngaphakathi kwe IV Umhlangano Wabasebenzi Bezokuxhumana Abangenalo Udlame ihlelwe yi- Association for Communication benamathele.

Izinsuku: NgoLwesihlanu 20 kuze kube yiSonto 22 February 2015.

Indawo: Ihhostela laseSan Servando
I-Cuesta de San Servando s/n
I-Toledo

Ukuze ufunde ulwazi oluphelele, cela ukucaciselwa kanye nerejista, Iya ku iwebhusayithi ethize yomcimbi.

Ukufunda kancane mayelana nezisekelo zetiyori ze-workshop, Ungakwazi uthintane sihloko yami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”, lapho yanyatheliswa inani 2014 of The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, ijenali yezemfundo esemthethweni ye The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute).

[Entry Original 30 Januwari 2015, olusha 22 February 2015, usuku lokuphela komhlangano.]

Kube yizinsuku ezimbalwa ezihamba phambili phakathi kwethu esiwaziyo futhi esiwenza Ukuxhumana benamathele. UMarshall B. Rosenberg, umdali we-Nonviolent Communication, okwedlule kudlulile 7 February 2015 eminyakeni yobudala 80 iminyaka (sigubhe usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule kule post), futhi thina ebesimazi futhi ngokujwayelekile nalabo abafunde imodeli yakhe benza into asifundisa yona: sigubhe izehlakalo ezihlangabezane nezidingo zethu futhi zisivumele ukuthi sililele izehlakalo ezishiye izidingo zethu zingafezeki.

Ngaba nenjabulo yokuqeqeshwa naye phakathi nezinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye Zokuqeqeshwa Okujulile Kwamazwe Ngamazwe (Ukuqeqeshwa Okujulile Kwamazwe Ngamazwe, IIT) Switzerland ngoJulayi no-August 2008. Kusukela kulokho kwakheka isithombe enginaso noMarshall nomkakhe uValentina, ngomfanekiso ongeziwe wokuba khona kwabafana ababili abangabonakali nentombazane ngemuva, okuhlobene nesikhuthazo uMarshall anginikeza sona emsebenzini wami nezingane, futhi intsha (funda imininingwane eyengeziwe ekungeneni kokuqala).

Ngalezi zinsuku, lapho ngifunde khona imilayezo ehlukene kanye nezikhumbuzo ezenzeke emphakathini wezokuXhumana Okungenalo Udlame., Ngiphinde ngathatha ithuba lokuphinda ngifunde amanothi engangihlala naye ngalezo zinsuku (kanye nenkampani yabanye abaqeqeshi kanye nabanye ababambiqhaza). Futhi kamuva kuyoba yisikhathi sokufunda kabusha yonke imisebenzi yakhe, njengendlela yokuvuselela nokuhlonipha umsebenzi wabo.

UMarshall Rosenberg wasebenzela ukudala umhlaba onobuntu, ukuthola izici zokuphila nokukhula ngisho nasezenzweni ezingaqondakali kakhulu. Inkulumo yakhe eyisisekelo ithi “Udlame luwukubonakaliswa okudabukisayo kwezidingo ezingafezeki”, nendlela yakhe, Ukuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame, indlela yokulalela nokwenza kabusha izinkulumo kuze kutholakale izixazululo lapho zonke izinhlangothi ziwina khona.

Ukugcizelela kukaMarshall izinguquko kwezenhlalo kuyangicebisa ngokukhethekile., wayengafuni Ukukhulumisana Okungenalo Ubudlova ukusiza abantu bahlale bezolile ngempilo yabo. Umsebenzi uqala ngaphakathi komuntu ngamunye, kodwa ayikwazi ukuhlala lapho, kufanele ifinyelele ezakhiweni ezahlukene (ezomnotho, social, ezombusazwe, ezemfundo…) futhi uziguqule ngokuzenza zibe ngumuntu. Njengoba yena ngokwakhe esitshela eSwitzerland: “Isenzo sethu sifana nesomuntu obona ingane iwe empophomeni ayisindise, futhi ubone omunye futhi umsindise, futhi ubone omunye futhi umsindise… Kwesinye isikhathi kuzoba lula kulowo muntu ukuthi acabangele ukuthi ngubani ojikijela izingane futhi agibele impophoma ukuze ayigweme.”.

Ngaphandle komsebenzi wakhe obhaliwe (engaphezu kweshumi izincwadi, phakathi kwazo Ukuxhumana benamathele. Ukuphila ulimi) namavidiyo nokuqoshwa workshop yabo nezingoma zawo, Amaqabunga Marshall zazakha Isikhungo Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (Center for Communication benamathele), ngomlando wamashumi eminyaka wokusebenza, nokuthi ibisebenza ngaphandle kwakhe kule minyaka edlule. Ubuye ashiye amakhulu abaqeqeshi abaqinisekisiwe ukuze imodeli yakhe iqhubeke isakazwa ngokwethembeka kanye namashumi ezinkulungwane zabasebenzi abazama ukukhanyisa izingxabano zethu zansuku zonke.. Kuyinto yokugubha.

Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ukudlula kwakhe kushiya isikhala. Ukwazi ukuthi ushone emzini wakhe ephelezelwa umkakhe uValentina nezingane zabo kuyinduduzo encane. Siyazi ukuthi ngeke sisakubona umele izimo zokungqubuzana ezintsha, ukuthi ngeke sizwe ingoma entsha, lokho ngeke kubhale izincwadi ezintsha. Futhi ngaphambi kwalokho, kusele kuphela ukwamukela ngozwela ubuhlungu nokudabuka okuvelayo.

Ngokuhlanganisa kuphela ukuzizwisa okuphelele lapho singaqhubekela khona ngokugcwele, ukuhlanganisa lokho okwamukelwe kuMarshall nokufuna, umzuzu nomzuzu, ungayibuyekeza kanjani ngendlela enothisa wonke umuntu.

Emkhosini nasekulileni,

Javier

The Ukuxhumana benamathele It is a ithuluzi ejulile, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthuthukisa ngayo yonke abezindaba futhi wangiqinisa kuzo zonke iziteshi kungenzeka. Workshop ungibeke eziye sabona ukwanda imithombo ukusetshenziswa (ezibukwayo, isikhala…), phakathi kwezinye izincwadi enginakho ngesandla Yakhiwe, futhi ngisebenzisa eminyakeni eminingana.

Ngajabula kakhulu nge ukubukeka yamuva izinhlamvu “konekta Fácil”, umthombo ewusizo kakhulu ukuba ahambe izinqubo zabantu abathembele kuyi-ezibukwayo, ikakhulukazi izingane. e Simple Cat, ibhizinisi elincane ukuthi abalwela ukuvumelanisa futhi udale zokundisa nokuyala benamathele Ukuxhumana eSpain, Bakhethe ukuqalisa lamakhadi ukuklama ngokwayo.

Ngisanda wathola izincwadi “konekta Fácil” futhi ngiye bathandile izici eziningi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, the design, ngemigwalo alula enza amakhadi ezingabizi kakhulu, ngesizinda pink imizwa kanye kungemuva eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka izidingo (ikhodi bese universalized emphakathini benamathele Ukuxhumana nge Dance Floors CNV).

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, indlela bona amazwi abakhathalelayo: Imizwa enjalo owesilisa nowesifazane, ukuze wonke umuntu angakwazi nomuzwa kithi kuhlanganisiwe kalula; futhi ngokuvamile zidingo ziyafakwa obonakaliswe ngezindlela ezimbili aphelele, ukuze umuntu akwazi ukuyihlola ukuthi yizwi esifanelana kangcono.

futhi, Ukwengeza inombolo ukusetshenziswa ezihlongozwayo (iziphakamiso game), ingashintshwa evela kweminye imithombo enemvume, kuhlanganise edumile “Poker CNV”, okuyinto ngisebenzisa ngokujulile workshop.

Kusuka lapha siyakuhalalisela yami ethimbeni Simple Cat lo mthombo entsha. Sengijahe ukuzilinga ku workshop sami esilandelayo bese ubona ukuthi bacabanga labo abathintekayo. Khonamanjalo ungakwazi ukuhlola okwengeziwe amakhadi ku iwebhusayithi futhi ungakwazi ukuthenga kubo inthanethi uma unentshisekelo.

Ngethemba ukuthi mihle kakhulu futhi kulula ukuba sijulise Ukuxhumana benamathele.

Javier

Okokugcina 6 Okthoba UMarshall Rosenberg, umdali we Ukuxhumana benamathele, usehlanganise iminyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalombili kanti thina esizibonele izinzuzo zomsebenzi wakhe siyawubungaza.

UMarshall B. Rosenberg wazalwa ngo 6 October 1934 e-Guangzhou, E-Ohio (USA), nomndeni wangena 1943 kanye neDetroit, EMichigan, ngaphambi nje kodlame lomjaho ngalowo nyaka. UMarshall ulandisa ukuthi isipiliyoni sodlame sammaka kanjani. Wabhekana nodlame esikoleni, ngokubizwa ngokuthi ungumJuda ngesibongo sakhe. njengoba esho yena, wathola ukuthi kunabantu abangajabulela ukulimaza. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, wakwazi ukubona indlela abanye abantu ababekwazi ngayo ukunyakaza ngozwela ezimeni ezinzima ngokwedlulele (ugogo wakhe, okwathi ngesikhathi sobunzima bakwazi ukuphakela abantu emgwaqweni; noma umalume wakhe, owakwazi ukuphakela nokwelapha ugogo osemdala).

Kamuva wafunda i-psychology futhi wathola i-Ph.D. ku-Carl Rogers in 1961, ofaneleka ngokuphelele njengodokotela wezengqondo emtholampilo ku 1966. Nokho, indlela yokusebenza kwengqondo yomtholampilo ayizange imenelise, ngalokho kugcizelela kumalebula nokuxilongwa. Waqhubeka nokucwaninga nokuqeqesha (futhi waqeqeshwa ku-Focusing, futhi empeleni uyincoma ekuqeqeshweni kwayo okuthuthukile), futhi ekugcineni wadala inqubo ye Ukuxhumana benamathele njengoba sisazi njengamanje.

Kusukela ngeminyaka yamashumi ayisishiyagalombili usebenze emhlabeni wonke ekuxazululeni izingxabano ezinkulu kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amancane okuxazulula izingxabano ezimpilweni zethu zansuku zonke., izingxabano nabanye abantu kanye nezingxabano zangaphakathi. Uthathe umhlalaphansi eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngemva kokwenza amakhulukhulu ezinhlaka emhlabeni futhi esesungule Isikhungo Samazwe Ngamazwe Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (Center for Communication benamathele) ukusabalalisa le nqubo yokuguqula. Ungafunda kabanzi ngempilo yakhe nalapho asebenze khona Isizindalwazi se-International Centre for Nonviolent Communication (Center for Communication benamathele).

Ngikujabulele ukuzilolonga naye, nomkakhe u-Valentina kanye nabanye abahleli ku-International Intensive Formation (Ukuqeqeshwa Okujulile Kwamazwe Ngamazwe) izinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye eSwitzerland ngo-August 2008, futhi ngakwazi ukwamukela imfudumalo yakhe nendlela aye wangikhuthaza ngayo ukuba ngizame ukudlulisela ukuqonda kwami ​​Ukuxhumana Okungenabudlova ezinganeni nakubantu abaxhumana nabo. Umsebenzi wami omningi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi ugqugquzelwe yilokho engikufunde kuye., kokubili ukudala a Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic ezimpilweni zabo bonke abantu (kuhlanganise neyami), njengasezimpilweni zezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha engihlangana nayo, nabantu abakuzungezile (ikakhulukazi ngokusebenzisa Spiral Consulting Izingane, ngaphakathi komugqa Ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu). Kulokho kuqeqeshwa besikhuluma ngeSitifiketi, futhi nakuba ekugcineni kuyindlela engingazange ngiyilandele, Ngizizwa ngiyingxenye yenhlangano ye-Nonviolent Communication futhi ngiyaqhubeka nokuhlanganyela ne Association for Communication benamathele lapha eSpain kanye namanye ama-internship kanye namaqembu okufunda.

Ngaleso sikhathi sathatha lesi sithombe ukuthi, ukuqondana kwesiphetho, UMarshall uyasibonisa, Mina noValentina sinabafana ababili abangaziwa nentombazane, njengokufanekisa ngendlela ekhethekile umsebenzi nezingane engiwenza ngogqozi lwe-Marshall and Nonviolent Communication.

Kusukela lapha ngithumela ukubonga kwami ​​kanye nesipho sami. ¡Gracias, Marshall!

Ngokubonga okujulile ngithumela ukuhlonipha kwami ​​kokugubha. Ngiyabonga, Marshall!

Javier

CNV dancefloors kakade uvele version Castilian, lapho engisebenza, futhi iyatholakala kumavidiyo Spanish ezansi.

Bridget Belgrave futhi Gina Lawrie, Ukwakha Certified Center for Communication benamathele (Center for Communication benamathele, Nceku), Kwase kuyiminyaka eminingi wadala ithuluzi omkhulu futhi zikwenze Ukuxhumana benamathele (CNV). Njengoba bona ngokwabo babe e Ukuhanjiswa, le Dance Floors CNV (NVC Dance Phansi) Bona sekukhona ngokusebenzisa uchungechunge izinyathelo lula umkhuba wokusebenzisa benamathele Ukuxhumana nge amabalazwe ngekwendzawo ezikuvumela ukuba usebenzise ubukhulu umzimba ukusebenza nobukhulu ngokomzwelo, indlela ozibona le vidiyo:

ehlobo 2009 Mina sajabulela formarme nge Gina futhi ukuhlangabezana Bridget, futhi ukusuka lapho umsebenzi wokuhumusha futhi lithathelwe waphindiselwa Castilia, umzamo lapho siye sasiza abantu abaningi futhi ngiye esihlelwe isikhashana. Ngakho-ke kuyinjabulo ukusakaza ithuluzi elula kodwa ngakho ngokujulile, ekugcineni in Spanish, lapho siyabakhathalela ukufaka inani elikhulu kunawo kungenzeka version-Spanish.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwami ​​ukuthi Dance Floors CNV abantu bangazijayeza nje ulwazi ambalwa kokuqala Ukuxhumana benamathele (Eqinisweni ngiyisebenzisa ngezinye izikhathi workshop ezethula). Ngisho nabantu abangamazi inqubo ngokwalo Ukuxhumana benamathele (izingane, futhi intsha, amaklayenti therapy) Abakwazi kalula ukuwela ngayo usizo kothile abanolwazi kakhudlwana.

Dancefloors CNV hlanganisa ezibukwayo, ukhoporali nezezilimi, ukuze nakho kwenzeka ngokusebenzisa ezinye iziteshi nesipiliyoni lishonile. Futhi kukhona eziyisishiyagalolunye “nemidanso” ezahlukene, anamagama ezifana “Dance of 13 izinyathelo”, “Dance Kuhlanganiswa nekusetjentiswa Uxhumano”, “Dance Lolaka / Rage, Shame Nokucindezeleka”, “Dance of uyebo kanye noqhabo”, le “Guqula yobuhlungu izidingo unmet e Nobuhle Izidingo”.

futhi, e 2013 bakhipha abanye amavidiyo achaza ezintathu zalezi nemidanso, iwuhlelo ngokucophelela ukuthi kuhlanganisa imibhalo engezansi Spanish.

Uma ufuna ukuthenga CNV Dancefloor ngetakhiwo letehlukene (njengoba thwebula-PDF, iphepha, okufushane plasticized…) nama-DVD ukuze ufunde nabo ekhaya noma eqenjini umkhuba, ungavakashela esitolo inthanethi, Life Resources.

Futhi uma ufuna ukubala baragele phambili kimi ukuzama Dancefloor esidakayo zilandelana noma workshop ethize, Ngiyojabula ukuba ahambe.

Ithemba oyithandayo.

Javier

Ngiyajabula ukuhlanganyela lesi sihloko lokho The Institute Ukugxilisa ushicilele ku The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, iphephabhuku layo lezemfundo, ngevolumu yayo 25 ye 2014. Iphepha lami “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile“ yavela ekuqaleni kwe 2014 futhi isanda kushicilelwa ngokwedijithali ngokufinyelela kwamahhala kanye nefomethi ye-PDF kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni ye The Ikhasi.

Dawuniloda isihloko ngesiNgisi, “Crossing Ukugxilisa futhi Communication benamathele. Ukucabanga for lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

Landa inguqulo ye-Spanish yesihloko, “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”.

[Buyekeza ngoFebhuwari 9 2017] Landa inguqulo yesi-Japanese yesihloko, “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela emiphumeleni ejulile”, futhi ufunde i indaba yokuhumusha kwayo (ngeSpanishi) by Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) kanye noMako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa). ngibona kakhulu!

Ngishiya lapha i-abstract:

ABSTRACT

Kokubili Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele (NVC) zisekelwe embonweni wokuthi abantu bathola ukuqonda kanye nezinqubo zabo zangaphakathi ziqhubekela phambili lapho amanye amazwi abo ebonakaliswa.. Ukuzindla kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwakho kanye nomngane wakho. Futhi ukuzindla kuletha imiphumela ejulile, njengoba izici ezicatshangelwayo ziba khona futhi ziyaqaphela.

Nokho, Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele beka ingcindezi ekuboniseni izici ezihlukene zokuxhumana kokuqala. Ukugxila kuyalandela wazizwa emzimbeni njengendlela entsha yokudala incazelo entsha. Communication benamathele uzama ukuthola universal izidingo okuwumongo wazo zonke izenzo zomuntu. Ukugxila kanye Communication benamathele kade wawela ngezindlela ezahlukene (ukubuyekezwa okufushane kokuphambana okuthile kuhlolisiswa kuleli phepha). Ukugxila kungathuthukiswa ngokwethula ukuqwashisa okusha ngezidingo, ikakhulukazi uma Ukubuza. Futhi Communication benamathele ingathuthukiswa ukuzwela okusha ezimisweni zokuqala zomuntu -hhayi nje ukuzama "ukuhumusha" yonke into, kodwa futhi nokwazisa ulimi olujwayelekile njengezingathekiso.

Uma zombili izinqubo zihlanganisiwe futhi umngane/umelaphi ubonisa izici zawo womabili amazinga okuqwashisa, umuntu uthola imiphumela efanele njengoba kuvela imiphumela ejulile.

Amagama angukhiye: Ukugxilisa, Communication benamathele (NVC), Uzwela, Bonisa, Crossing.

Kwabakhuluma iSpanishi, ngena kulokhu okuthunyelwe ngeSpanishi.

Ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela futhi ngizokuthanda ukufunda imibono yakho,

Javier