njengoba ngibala iposi blog by Spiral Consulting for Children, engiyilunga layo, phakathi kwezinqumo zonyaka omusha, kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane sihlongoze ukwenza amathuluzi okuvimbela nokungenelela aziwayo ekuphatheni, ukuvikela kanye nokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu esesivele sikusebenzisa nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha futhi lokho sincoma emindenini nakochwepheshe. Kwesinye isikhathi sincoma amathuluzi ashicilelwe kancane kakhulu ngesi-Spanish, noma imibhalo yereferensi okunzima ukuyithola. Ngemuva kwalokho sizonikeza izinkomba esithemba ukuthi zizoba yinkomba.

Akuyona indaba ye Ukugxilisa, inqubo kanye nendlela yokugxila komzimba, enezincwadi eziningi ngeSpanishi. Ukugxila kuyindlela eyakhiwe ngu-Eugene Gendlin, isazi sefilosofi esinolwazi kanye ne-psychotherapist yesintu, ukuthuthukisa ngokuqaphela ikhono lokuhlobana nemizwa yethu ngenye indlela. Kuhlanganisa (kuchazwe ngamagama ambalwa) ekusebenziseni izinkomba zemizwa yomzimba ukuze kusebenze imizwa nawo wonke umhlaba wangaphakathi (izinkolelo, imiyalezo ngaphakathi, imicabango ephindaphindayo…). Ngiyazi ukuthi ukuchaza kanje akusho okuningi, futhi yilokho Ukugxila, ngokuyisisekelo, onolwazi, futhi yingakho kungaqondwa kuphela ngokuhlangabezana nakho. Yebo kunjalo, wake wahlolwa, abantu abaningi bakubona njengento engokwemvelo, into leyo “sekuke kwenzeka kubo ngesinye isikhathi”, futhi nge-Focusing technique sifunda ukuyisebenzisa uma sifuna, futhi ukuze kungancikile ekutheni sibe nokugxila okukhethekile noma umthamo.

Njengamanye amasu engiwaziyo, Ngasondela kuFocusing phakathi 2009 ukucabanga ngezicelo engaba nazo ekungeneleleni kwabafana namantombazane, futhi nokho ngakhangwa amakhono angisiza ukuba ngizithole kimi njengomuntu nanjengochwepheshe.. Uma ufuna ukwazi ngalo mugqa womsebenzi, Ngilungise amafomu amabili amasha, “Ukugxila kanye nemfundo ngokomzwelo ezinganeni, futhi intsha” futhi “Ukugxila nokuvimbela udlame ezinganeni, futhi intsha” (kokubili ngokuhlonishwa kokuqeqeshwa okusemthethweni kwe-Focusing, njengoba ngaziwa njengo Umqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe (Umqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe) nge The Institute Ukugxilisa futhi ngaye Ukugxila Institute Spanish).

Ngakho-ke ukuze ukhulise isifiso sakho sokudla ngincoma incwadi enhle kaMarta Stapert no-Erik Verliefde Ukugxila nezingane. Ubuciko bokuxhumana nezingane kanye nentsha esikoleni nasekhaya, eshicilelwe ngabakwa I-Desclée yokuhlela eqoqweni le-Ama, ngokugadwa kohlelo lweSpanishi lwe Elizabeth Gascón kanye no-Lucia Emma, Ukugxila abaqeqeshi nabangane bami abahle. Ibhalwe nguMarta Stapert, i-psychotherapist yengane kanye nomxhumanisi Ogxile, y U-Erik Love, uthisha, le ncwadi isingeniso esihle se-Focusing for abadala, ngenkathi unikeza imisebenzi yezandla nokuzivocavoca kwabantu abanezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha eduze, hhayi kuphela ochwepheshe emkhakheni wezokwelapha nezemfundo, kodwa nangemindeni. Abazali abayifundile bayithole iwusizo kakhulu futhi iwusizo, nakuba kukhona ezinye izivivinyo ukuthi ngokusobala ngcono kakhulu endaweni yokwelapha.

Ithemba othanda ukuzenza (ungakwazi bheka okunye okuqukethwe kuwebhusayithi yomshicileli).

Javier

Njengomeluleki wezingane ku Spiral Consulting Izingane kulindeleke ukuthi ifundise amamojula we “Imfundo Esebenzayo Yokuvimbela Udlame” futhi “Ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu ngokuvinjelwa kodlame” (izisekelo Zokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame kochwepheshe Bezemfundo Yezenhlalakahle) phakathi nesifundo “Uthisha omusha wezenhlalakahle: Ukubuyekeza amakhono ochwepheshe ku-Social Education” ihlelwe yiSikole Sokuqeqeshela Abaqeqeshi be Inhlangano Yembewu.

Izinsuku (kwamamojula): mars 1, ULwesithathu 2, ULwesine 3 nangoLwesihlanu 4 October 2013, of 16:00 a 20:30.

Indawo: Inhlangano Yembewu
I-Paseo Alberto Palacios No. 13
28021 Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: 91 798 69 55

Landa idokhumenti yesifundo “Uthisha omusha wezenhlalakahle: Ukubuyekeza amakhono ochwepheshe ku-Social Education”

[Entry Original 3 September 2013, olusha 4 October 2013, usuku lokuqedwa kwamamojula.]

Isifundo “Ukusebenza kahle nokulalela ekukhulisweni kwamadodana namadodakazi ethu” ihlelwe yi Synthesis Center ePalma de Majorca.

Izinsuku: ULwesihlanu 22 February 2013 of 17:00 a 21:00 futhi Saturday 23 February 2013 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00.

Indawo: Ihhotela laseGarden City
C/ Isiqhingi saseMalta 14
07007 I-Palma de Mallorca
Iziqhingi zaseBalearic

Landa uhlelo nalo lonke ulwazi.

[Entry Original 18 Januwari 2013, olusha 23 February 2013, Yiqiniso kuphothulwe.]

Ngikopisha lapha ulwazi mayelana Nesifundo "Amakhono namasu okuthuthukisa ukuhlalisana ekilasini" ngokusekelwe ku-CNV Yezingane Ezisencane Nezifundiswa Zemfundo Eyisisekelo Emphakathini waseMadrid engibafundisayo kwa-Espirales Consultoría de Infancia. Lokhu okufakiwe kuyikhophi yalokhu okunye Iposi lebhulogi le-CI Spirals, futhi ngiyayikopisha lapha ngoba iyingxenye yokuqeqeshwa engikunikeza ngendikimba Yokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame, kodwa uthisha.

Izinsuku: UMsombuluko 6, 13, 20 futhi 27 February 2012, futhi 5, 12 futhi 26 Mashi 2012, of 17:30 a 20:30.

Vula isikhathi sokubhalisa: kwe 12 kusukela ngoDisemba kuya 2012 al 3 February 2012 (izindawo ezinomkhawulo nge-oda lokubhalisa).

I-CTIF Capital Collaborating Center "I-Prince Felipe Institute".
I-Finisterre Street 60.
Madrid

ezokuthutha: idolobha Indawo yasensika (umugqa 9), kanye nemigqa 82, 132, 134, 137, 147 yamabhasi e-EMT.

Ulwazi nokubhaliswa ngokusebenzisa I-CTIF Capital.

Funda incwadi ISHIDI LOMBHALO.

[Entry Original 11 Januwari 2012, olusha 26 Mashi 2012, Yiqiniso kuphothulwe.]

lapho bezalwa, Izingane ziyizidalwa ezithandeka kakhulu esizizwa sinozwelo nothando lwemvelo kuzo.. Nokho, njengoba bekhula, imizwa eminingi engemnandi ivela kubo. Futhi ngelinye ilanga sazithola sesihlala nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha esingayiqondi futhi engasiqondi. Lapho kunokubambisana nokufudumala kweminyaka yokuqala? Kungenzeka yini ukuxhuma kabusha, nakuba benjalo “kule minyaka enzima kangaka”?

Kusukela ku-Spirals Childhood Consulting, ngokubambisana neZaragoza Institute of Mediation and Collaborative Law, sinikeza lezi workshops ezimbili “Ukuvuselela uthando nezingane, futhi intsha” njengesiphakamiso sokuphinda siluke uthando lwethu nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha esibakhathalelayo. Akulula, kodwa kuyafaneleka. Futhi ngokuqondile ngoba sifuna ukubuyisela lezo zixhumanisi, sizosebenza ezinkundleni zokucobelelana ngolwazi komama, abazali kanye nezibalo zokubhekisela. Ngokusekelwe emiphumeleni yalezi zifundo ezimbili zokuqala, okunye ukuqeqeshwa kungahlongozwa okuhlanganisa izingane, futhi intsha, ukuthi bakwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo futhi bavuselele uthando lwabo nabantu babo ababalulekile ekuqeqeshweni kwabo. Kodwa ngenxa yalokho kuyadingeka ukuthi ngaphambi kokuba abantu abadala bakhulume kabanzi ngemithelela yabo. Chofoza ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nama-workshops “Ukuvuselela uthando nezingane, futhi intsha”

ama-workshops “Ukuvuselela uthando nezingane, futhi intsha”, ihlelwe yiZaragoza Institute of Mediation and Collaborative Law.

Izinsuku:
zinde 1: Saturday 17 Mashi 2012, phakathi namahora 10:00-14:00 futhi 16:00-20:00.
zinde 2: Saturday 28 April 2012, phakathi namahora 10:00-14:00 futhi 16:00-20:00.

Indawo: Isikhungo Sokulamula kanye Nomthetho Wokubambisana
Cesar Augusto Avenue No. 3, 4º A
Zaragoza

Ucingo kanye nomuntu oxhumana naye:
976 44 35 00, UMaria Begona
mediacionyderechocolaborativo@gmail.com

Njengoba ngasho le “Siyakwamukela ku-blog”, umbono wukuthi lokhu blog ufuna ukukhonza njengephayona onalo izinsiza, ukuze zonke izinto neziphakamiso bakhonza ukwakha Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic nabanye kanye nezwe lethu elingaphakathi. Njengoba kuzoba ezihlukahlukene ngokwanele, Ngifuna ukuchaza lapha amalebula ezahlukene ukuthi Ngizosebenzisa zokuhlukanisa okufakiwe.

• CNV: konke okufakiwe ezihlobene Ukuxhumana benamathele, ngokucacile noma lokho okubonakala sengathi kuyilo kimi ukuthi Nginayo “CNV consciencia”.
• Textos CNV: okufakiwe eziphathelene amabhuku, izihloko kanye imibhalo ethize Ukuxhumana benamathele.
• Ukugxilisa: konke okufakiwe ezihlobene Ukugxilisa noma into efana nalokho kakhulu.
• Ukugxilisa en Madrid: ziqoqe nemiklamo Madrid ku Ukugxilisa Area (isibonelo, Miraflores de la Sierra, ihora kusuka Madrid).
• Textos Ukugxilisa: okufakiwe eziphathelene amabhuku, izihloko kanye imibhalo ethize Ukugxilisa.
• CI ohlobo lwe: okufakiwe ezihlobene eduze umsebenzi wami Spiral Consulting Izingane ezindabeni affectivity, Ukuvikelwa kanye ekuchumana, futhi ngifuna futhi ubheke kule blog.
• Ezenye imibhalo: zikhona izincwadi, izihloko kanye imibhalo, ngaphandle kokuba ngokucacile kunoma yiziphi eyala ezihlongozwayo, Sinenkosi ziyezwana jikelele kanye value okuholela kimi ukukhuluma ngabo kule blog.
• Webs: amakhasi ewebhu, ibhulogi nezisetshenziswa inthanethi.
• Imiqophi: amavidiyo jikelele, kuhlangene nezinye amalebula ezidinga ekuqukethe.
• Movies: emadokhumenthari namafilimu, kokubili ezisekelwe emaqinisweni real nasezindabeni eziqanjiwe, I kubonakala olufanele ukuzwela ukuthi ngifuna ukuthuthukisa le blog.
• Indaba: inoveli (futhi izindaba nezincwadi zezingane) sisinikeze ithuba lokusho unambithe uzwela nge Ukuxhumana benamathele kanye Ukugxilisa.
• Okuhlangenwe Nakho: Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphila kusilethela lezimanga, nakho ezenza kithi uhlaziye izinto eziza kuqala kithi noma uqinisekise intuitions yethu, futhi lezo zenzakalo bazohlangana ngaphansi kwalesi sihloko.
• Ukuze izingane: izinsiza engasetshenziswa ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile nezingane.
• For Teens: izinsiza engasetshenziswa ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile nge intsha.
• Agenda langempela futhi Alondoloziwe Agenda: lidlulisele zokwakheka avaliwe kakhulu namaqembu ihlelwe, kodwa ezimweni ezingandile lapho ngivula i zokwakheka kuzithameli ezijwayelekile noma ethize hang nabo lezi amalebula, “Agenda langempela” ngenkathi iye aluphelanga futhi “Alondoloziwe Agenda” lapho sekuvele sekudlule usuku lomcimbi, kodwa irekhodi futhi ungabona kwemigomo zokwakheka ukuthi engikufundisayo.

Njengoba ubona, izigaba eziningi Ziyathandelana. Into ezithakazelisayo wukuthi wonke umuntu angakwazi uhlole, uthole ukuthi kube nosizo nehuha. Futhi kuyoba nabanye niyozenezelelwa.

Bon appétit!

inhloso yami yokuqala 2012 isiqalile le bhulogi. Ngemuva kokuthi udale iwebhusayithi ye-More Authentic Connection ivuliwe 2009, ingxenye yezinsiza ibincishisiwe. Ngokwengxenye ngoba kunezinto eziningi zokwakha ezingesiNgisi noma ngesiFulentshi kuphela, futhi ngokwengxenye ngokubhekisela ngokukhethekile emibhalweni ethile Yokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame, kwabonakala kungasadingeki.

Nokho, ubungqabavu engibubonile ku Blog of Spiral Consulting Izingane, engiyigcinile kanye no-Pepa Horno kanye no-Ana Sánchez-Mera kusukela ekupheleni 2009, Kungibonise ukuthi ibhulogi iyithuluzi elithakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi ngiqoqe zonke lezo zincomo ukuthi ekuqeqeshweni zinginike isikhathi sokucaphuna.: izihloko, izincwadi, amakhasi, amavidiyo, amafilimu kanye nemithombo ehlukahlukene engasisiza sijulise ukuqeqeshwa kwethu. Eqinisweni, Ngifuna kube njalo isincomo sami sokuqala: funda ibhulogi yethu yesikhungo. Futhi empeleni okunye okufakiwe ngizokubuyisela kule bhulogi.

Futhi kungigqugquzele futhi ibhulogi yomuntu siqu yomlingani wami nomngane wami uPepa Horno. Kunezinto ezisebenza kahle kakhulu ezingeni eliqinile lochwepheshe, bese kuba nezinye izinto ezifanelana kangcono nezomuntu siqu, ngendlela yokuba munye, futhi lokho kudinga ububanzi bayo.

Ngakho qala le bhulogi, lokho kuzokwandiswa kalula. Ngethemba ukuthi uzokuthola kuthakazelisa, nokuphawula kwamukelekile.