njengoba ngibala iposi blog by Spiral Consulting for Children, engiyilunga layo, phakathi kwezinqumo zonyaka omusha, kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane sihlongoze ukwenza amathuluzi okuvimbela nokungenelela aziwayo ekuphatheni, ukuvikela kanye nokuxhumana phakathi kwabantu esesivele sikusebenzisa nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha futhi lokho sincoma emindenini nakochwepheshe. Kwesinye isikhathi sincoma amathuluzi ashicilelwe kancane kakhulu ngesi-Spanish, noma imibhalo yereferensi okunzima ukuyithola. Ngemuva kwalokho sizonikeza izinkomba esithemba ukuthi zizoba yinkomba.

Akuyona indaba ye Ukugxilisa, inqubo kanye nendlela yokugxila komzimba, enezincwadi eziningi ngeSpanishi. Ukugxila kuyindlela eyakhiwe ngu-Eugene Gendlin, isazi sefilosofi esinolwazi kanye ne-psychotherapist yesintu, ukuthuthukisa ngokuqaphela ikhono lokuhlobana nemizwa yethu ngenye indlela. Kuhlanganisa (kuchazwe ngamagama ambalwa) ekusebenziseni izinkomba zemizwa yomzimba ukuze kusebenze imizwa nawo wonke umhlaba wangaphakathi (izinkolelo, imiyalezo ngaphakathi, imicabango ephindaphindayo…). Ngiyazi ukuthi ukuchaza kanje akusho okuningi, futhi yilokho Ukugxila, ngokuyisisekelo, onolwazi, futhi yingakho kungaqondwa kuphela ngokuhlangabezana nakho. Yebo kunjalo, wake wahlolwa, abantu abaningi bakubona njengento engokwemvelo, into leyo “sekuke kwenzeka kubo ngesinye isikhathi”, futhi nge-Focusing technique sifunda ukuyisebenzisa uma sifuna, futhi ukuze kungancikile ekutheni sibe nokugxila okukhethekile noma umthamo.

Njengamanye amasu engiwaziyo, Ngasondela kuFocusing phakathi 2009 ukucabanga ngezicelo engaba nazo ekungeneleleni kwabafana namantombazane, futhi nokho ngakhangwa amakhono angisiza ukuba ngizithole kimi njengomuntu nanjengochwepheshe.. Uma ufuna ukwazi ngalo mugqa womsebenzi, Ngilungise amafomu amabili amasha, “Ukugxila kanye nemfundo ngokomzwelo ezinganeni, futhi intsha” futhi “Ukugxila nokuvimbela udlame ezinganeni, futhi intsha” (kokubili ngokuhlonishwa kokuqeqeshwa okusemthethweni kwe-Focusing, njengoba ngaziwa njengo Umqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe (Umqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe) nge The Institute Ukugxilisa futhi ngaye Ukugxila Institute Spanish).

Ngakho-ke ukuze ukhulise isifiso sakho sokudla ngincoma incwadi enhle kaMarta Stapert no-Erik Verliefde Ukugxila nezingane. Ubuciko bokuxhumana nezingane kanye nentsha esikoleni nasekhaya, eshicilelwe ngabakwa I-Desclée yokuhlela eqoqweni le-Ama, ngokugadwa kohlelo lweSpanishi lwe Elizabeth Gascón kanye no-Lucia Emma, Ukugxila abaqeqeshi nabangane bami abahle. Ibhalwe nguMarta Stapert, i-psychotherapist yengane kanye nomxhumanisi Ogxile, y U-Erik Love, uthisha, le ncwadi isingeniso esihle se-Focusing for abadala, ngenkathi unikeza imisebenzi yezandla nokuzivocavoca kwabantu abanezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha eduze, hhayi kuphela ochwepheshe emkhakheni wezokwelapha nezemfundo, kodwa nangemindeni. Abazali abayifundile bayithole iwusizo kakhulu futhi iwusizo, nakuba kukhona ezinye izivivinyo ukuthi ngokusobala ngcono kakhulu endaweni yokwelapha.

Ithemba othanda ukuzenza (ungakwazi bheka okunye okuqukethwe kuwebhusayithi yomshicileli).

Javier