Njengenjwayelo, kule bhulogi ngabelana ngezinto ezithinta umsebenzi wami kuzo Spiral Consulting Izingane nezinye izithakazelo zomuntu siqu nezomsebenzi. Kulokhu ngiba nokwaneliseka ngokwabelana nomhlahlandlela Amazwi wenguquko. Umhlahlandlela wezindlela zokubonisana nezingane, amantombazane nentsha ekunakekelweni kokuhlala, esikuchazayo Pepa Horno futhi ngiyama I-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Kwaba ukwaneliseka ukuthola i-oda lokuhlela le ndlela yokusebenza ngokubhala ngendlela ethengekayo. Ingxenye yomsebenzi wethu lapho siphelezela izinhlangano zomphakathi nezizimele zezinhlelo zokuvikela lapha e-Spain nakwamanye amazwe ezinqubweni zabo zokuthuthukisa ihlanganisa ukubheka abalingiswa bazo.: izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala ezikhungweni zokuvikela. Futhi bangochwepheshe ezimpilweni zabo, futhi izikhungo zivame ukukhohlwa ukubabuza, Ngeshwa.

Yingakho kuyinjabulo enkulu lokho I-UNICEF yaseSpain, emsebenzini wayo wokukhuthaza ukubamba iqhaza kwezingane nentsha, wasimema ukuba sethule indlela elula yokubonisana nalezi zingane, futhi intsha. Siphawula kabanzi ngakho kubhulogi ye-Spiral Consulting for Children.

Ngaphakathi lokho kunesiqondiso sobuchwepheshe nesisebenzayo, isici se ukuxhumana nabanye abantu: singakhuluma kanjani thina bantu abadala, singakha kanjani indawo efanele nokuthi singalalela kanjani izingane, futhi intsha. Amagama esiwasebenzisayo angavula noma avale ukuxhumana, yingakho amafomula esiwethulayo ecace kakhulu: Ngiyahlonipha, ukufakwa kanye ne-protagonism yezingane ngokwazo, futhi intsha.

Futhi siye saphikelela ekuguquguqukeni nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kuzo zonke izingane, futhi intsha, ukuhlinzeka ngemihlahlandlela yokwamukela ukungenelela ekuhlukeni kokusebenza, ukuhlukahluka kwamasiko (Ngokukhethekile ukuze abafana namantombazane abafudukayo bengaphelezelwa) nalabo abanempilo yengqondo kanye nezinkinga zokuhlukumezeka. Amazwi abo, njengoba sisho esihlokweni, yezwa kahle, bangenza ushintsho lube ngcono ekuphileni kwabo.

Ngethemba ukuthi uyayithanda futhi uyayithola ithakasela.

F. Javier Romeo

Kuleli hlobo bengidinga ukunqamula, futhi sengikuzuzile. Ezingeni lengqondo, kodwa nange-elekthronikhi. Futhi kube ngokuyinhloko ngenxa yokufunda I-Digital Minimalism, of Cal Newport, umbhali engimthandayo isitimela sakhe somcabango, Ngizama ukukusebenzisa futhi ngincoma.

Ngale ncwadi, onombhalo ongezansi osikiselayo “Ekuvikeleni ukunakekelwa ezweni elinomsindo”, Ngilolonge uhlobo lobudlelwano engifuna ukuba nabo nezinkundla zokuxhumana: zisebenzise ngokuqaphela, ukusizakala ngamathuba okuxhumana nokuxhumana nabanye abantu nezinhlangano ezithakazelisayo, kodwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ukulawula isikhathi sami, yokunakekelwa kwami ​​​​noma inhlalakahle yami engokomzwelo. Ibhalwe ngephrozi ehlanganisa ukuchayeka kocwaningo oluqinile nama-anecdotes ajabulisayo enza amaphuzu abalulekile akhombe..

Futhi into engcono kakhulu ukuthi akukhona ukushiya wonke amanethiwekhi omphakathi, kodwa ukunciphisa ukusetshenziswa kwayo emazingeni anele obuchopho bethu. Incwadi iqala ngesiphakamiso sokuthi 30 izinsuku ngaphandle kwamanethiwekhi omphakathi bese ubethula kancane kancane, ngendlela efanele izithakazelo zethu. Ngihlale u-August wonke ngingawavuli ama-akhawunti ami Twitter futhi I-LinkedIn futhi, nakuba ekuqaleni kwangibiza, Ngize ngoSepthemba ngivuselelwe. Manje ngiwavula kabili noma kathathu ngesonto, ngenhloso, ukubona izihloko ezingithakazelisa ngempela, futhi sengithole izindlela ezimbalwa ezithakazelisayo ngaphandle kokuhlupheka imiyalezo eshubile ye “izihloko ezihamba phambili”.

Futhi ingxenye engcono kakhulu ukuthi iCal Newport ayihlali “yeka ukusetshenziswa okungafanele kwezinkundla zokuxhumana”, kodwa futhi ithuthukisa izindlela ezine zokusebenzisa isikhathi esisishiyelwe sona:

• Thatha ithuba lokuba wedwa, ngesikhathi sokuxhumana kwangaphakathi.
• Shiya i “okuthandayo” njengendlela yobudlelwano futhi esikhundleni sabo ufake izingxoxo eziqondile (Funda kuphela, ngefoni noma ngekholi yevidiyo), ekusebenzelaneni kwangempela okujwayelane namandla ethu emizwelo.
• Hlakulela ukuzijabulisa okunempilo, lokho kusinika amandla esikhundleni sokuwasusa.
• Sinakekele ngokucophelela, okuyinto elinganiselwe. Esikhundleni sokuyimosha ngemisebenzi engasiniki okuningi, sigxile kulokho okusenza sikhule futhi sinakekelane.

Ngakho-ke uma ubona ukuthi ngisebenzisa amanethiwekhi omphakathi amancane, Uzokwazi ukuthi nginakekela ukunaka kwami. Futhi uma ufuna siphawule okuthile, kangcono ngocingo noma mathupha kunokusebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana, kubukeka sengathi?

Isiqalo esihle sonyaka wesikole,

F. Javier Romeo

Impilo eku-inthanethi isisize ukuthi sakhe imiphakathi emisha ebonakalayo.

Esikhathini esingaphezu konyaka odlule ngathola isimemo sokuba yingxenye yeqembu elibonisa ubuntwana ohlelweni lokuvikela eSpain., kudidiyelwe ngu U-Alberto Rodriguez futhi Javier Múgica futhi esibamba iqhaza kukho u-Antonio Ferrandis, mina Umngane we-CI Spiral Pepa Horno, UMarta Llaurado futhi igama lami licishe liphindwe kabili F. Javier Romeu Soriano. Ngemva kwalezi zinyanga zemihlangano eku-inthanethi nama-imeyili amaningi nokusalungiswa, ngesonto eledlule sishicilele ngokuhlanganyela umqulu wokusungula, Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi. Izinselelo eziyisikhombisa neziphakamiso zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane e-Spain. Umbhalo uzikhulumela wona, futhi ingalandwa kusukela ku- iwebhusayithi ye “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”.

Lapha ngifuna ukukhuluma ngento ethe ukuhluka kancane: yenqubo ngokwayo. Futhi ngikufingqa ngamagama amathathu: umphakathi, ukukhula nokuqwashisa.

Umphakathi yikho ebesikudala. Unethuba, ngokuhlangana nathi ngezindaba zokuvikela izingane ezindaweni ezahlukene. Kodwa futhi inengxenye yenhloso. Vula indawo yemihlangano eku-inthanethi. Bhala ngamunye ingxenye yakhe yombhalo futhi ubuyekeze imibhalo yabanye. Yabelana ngamaphoyinti wokubuka, izinkathazo nezimpendulo ezingase zibe khona. Kancane kancane besilokhu sijulisa ubudlelwano bethu, ukuthuthukisa ulimi oluvamile oluhlanganisa ubuntu bethu obuhlukene nokuzwela. Futhi sikholelwa ukuthi ingxenye yokuthuthukiswa kwesistimu yokuvikela ihamba ngokuqondile ngokudala umphakathi kwezinye izindawo eziningi., nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo, ngaphakathi kwamaqembu ochwepheshe kanye namanethiwekhi okungenelela.

futhi, siye phambili ngombono we ukwanda. Umuntu ngamunye eqenjini lethu ubelokhu esebenzisana futhi ehambisana nezinqubo zohlelo lokuvikela iminyaka eminingi. Yingakho singakhuluma ngamaphutha, amaphuzu abuthakathaka alimaza izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni okuhloswe ngayo ukuyivikela. Kodwa futhi siyayikhumbula inqubekelaphambili, izinguquko, ngezinye izikhathi kuncane kakhulu, ezenza izici ezithile zibe ngcono. Kungakho lo mbhalo ufuna ukuqoqa zombili izinselelo esizibona eSpain nezinye iziphakamiso esizaziyo, kusukela kokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu noma kochwepheshe, ezike zasebenza ngaphambili. Futhi le nqubo yenza nalabo bethu ababonisa njengeqembu bakhule..

Ngoba, ekupheleni, Imayelana nokuthuthukisa i unembeza. Lapho sine a “ukugqolozela”, njengoba umngane wami omuhle esho futhi umlingani ku-CI Spirals Pepa Horno, sibona iqiniso ngendlela ejulile. Sikhomba okwenzeka ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nemindeni yabo, kodwa futhi nasemaqenjini ochwepheshe kanye nezinhlelo okufanele zinikeze ukuvikeleka nokusekelwa. Futhi siyakubona okwenzeka ngaphakathi kwethu, ukuhambisa imibono nemizwa eziphakamisweni eziphathekayo ezithuthukisa izimpilo zabantu abaningi. Ngeke sikwenze lokhu sisodwa, sidinga indawo ephephile, umphakathi, ukuze asisize siye phambili, ukuzibuza imibuzo emisha futhi sithole izimpendulo ezintsha.

Kusukela lapha ngithumela ukubonga kuleli qembu elihle kakhulu, nasekuphileni ngokwenza kwaba nokwenzeka.

Futhi ngikumema ukuthi ufunde idokhumenti futhi unake izinyathelo ezilandelayo (sizobe sishicilela imibhalo yanyanga zonke yamabhulogi ukuze siqhubeke nokujula eziphakamisweni ezahlukene). Ngikubona kuwebhusayithi ye “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”.

Emgubheni,

F. Javier Romeo

[Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi.]

Idokhumenti Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela, lokho Pepa Horno, umlingani wami ku-Childhood Consulting Spirals, futhi ngibhalele I-UNICEF yaseSpain futhi I-UNICEF eFrance, isanda kuthunyelwa, futhi itholakala ngezinguqulo ezimbili:

• Landa inguqulo yokuqala yesiNgisi ye Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela.
• Dawuniloda ukuhumusha kweSpanishi, Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela.

Lokhu ukushicilelwa kwezobuchwepheshe okuphathelene nokuvikelwa kwezingane, ukungenelela komphakathi kanye namalungelo abantu. Eqinisweni, Sinemibono kanye nonembeza wochwepheshe abangaba yikhulu ku-International Workshop ngoDisemba 2019 e Madrid, ukuthi ngisize ukwenza lula (sichaza kabanzi ku yethu okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi ye-CI Spirals). Nokho, futhi idokhumenti yomuntu siqu kakhulu kimi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane, Amantombazane afudukayo angaphelezelwa futhi ahlukanisiwe anendawo ekhetheke kakhulu enhliziyweni yami. Ngasebenza eMorocco iminyaka eminingana nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala emigwaqweni futhi ngiyabazi ubunzima abanayo lapho, nokuthi yini ebenza babeke izimpilo zabo engozini ukuze babe nekusasa elingcono. Ngiphinde ngasebenza iminyaka eminingana eMadrid nentsha esengozini yomphakathi, futhi abaningi babo kwakungabafana namantombazane abafudukayo abangenazo izinkomba zomndeni, ngakho ngihambisane nezinyathelo zabo ebunzimeni abahlangabezane nabo ukuze bakhe ikusasa elihle eSpain. Futhi kuze kube namuhla ngisajabulela ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabo ngesi-Moroccan Arabic., ulimi engiluthanda kakhulu. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lo mbhalo usiza ochwepheshe kanye nomphakathi wonkana ukuthi ube nozwelo kulaba bantwana., futhi intsha, kanye nokukhathazeka ngenhlalakahle yabo. (Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana indlela yami yomsebenzi kuphrofayela yami ye-LinkedIn).

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, okwamanje lolu udaba olubucayi kakhulu, ngenxa yezici eziningi. Njengomhleli oholayo, Ngisebenzise kaningi ukwenza Ukugxilisa njengenqubo yokuhlela imibono kanye nokuthola ukubunjwa okufanele. Izihluthulelo zezindaba ezimnandi ezivikelayo zidinga ukuvela ekwazini okugxilile emzimbeni.. Ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kunikeza ukucaca kanye nombono ojulile kuso sonke isihloko., ikakhulukazi uma izingxenye eziyinkimbinkimbi zikwazi ukucacisa kancane.

Ekuphetheni, akubanga yinselele yobungcweti kuphela, kodwa futhi inqubo yomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyakuthokozela.

F. Javier Romeo

[Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi].

Idokhumenti Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela, lokho Pepa Horno, engisebenza naye kwa-Espirales Consultoría de Infancia, nami ngibhalele I-UNICEF yaseSpain futhi I-UNICEF eFrance, isanda kushicilelwa, futhi itholakala ngezinguqulo ezimbili:

• Landa inguqulo yokuqala ngesiNgisi ye Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela.
• Dawuniloda okuhunyushelwe kusiSpanishi, Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela.

Lokhu ukushicilelwa kwezobuchwepheshe okuphathelene nokuvikelwa kwezingane, ukungenelela komphakathi kanye namalungelo abantu. Empeleni, sibale kanye nemibono kanye nokuqwashisa kochwepheshe abacishe babe yikhulu e-International Workshop ngoZibandlela 2019 eMadrid, ukuthi ngihlanganyele (sichaza kabanzi ngakho ku okuthunyelwe kwethu kwebhulogi ku-Espirales CI). Nokho, futhi idokhumenti yomuntu siqu kakhulu kimi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Abafuduki Abangaphelezelwa Nabahlukanisiwe Ngizithanda kakhulu. Ngisebenze eMorocco iminyaka eminingana nezingane ezisemgwaqweni futhi ngiyabazi ubunzima obukhona, okubenza babeke izimpilo zabo engozini ukuze babe nekusasa elingcono. Ngasebenza iminyaka eminingana eMadrid nentsha eyayisengozini, futhi abaningi babo kwakungabantwana abafudukayo abangaphelezelwa muntu, ngakho ngaphelezela izinyathelo zabo ebunzimeni bokuzakhela ikusasa elihle eSpain. Futhi ngisakujabulela ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabo ngesi-Moroccan Arabic, ulimi engiluthanda kakhulu. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lo mbhalo uzosiza abanye ochwepheshe kanye nomphakathi jikelele ukuthi uzizwele lezi zingane, kanye nokunakekela inhlalakahle yabo. (Okuningi mayelana indlela yami yomsebenzi kuphrofayela yami ye-LinkedIn).

Ngokwesinye isandla, lolu udaba okwamanje olubucayi kakhulu, ngenxa yezici eziningana. Njengombhali omkhulu, Ngisebenzise kakhulu Ukugxilisa nami njengenqubo yokuhlela imibono, kanye nokuthola amagama afanele. Imikhondo yezindaba ezimnandi ezivikelayo zidinga ukuvela ekuqwashiseni okuhlanganisiwe. Ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kuzoletha ukucaca kanye nombono ojulile kuso sonke lesi sihloko, ngobunkimbinkimbi bayo obenziwe kwacaca kakhudlwana.

Ekuphetheni, bekungeyona nje inselele yobungcweti, kodwa futhi inqubo yomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela.

F. Javier Romeo

Ngokuvumelana uqhubeke ukugubha ukushicilelwa ngonyaka owodwa edlule yezinganekwane Pepa Horno, umngane wami omuhle futhi umlingani e Spiral Consulting Izingane (lapho sisebenza ezindabeni imfundo affective ebuntwaneni), Liyanezela leli entry sangaphambilini, ebhekisela incwadi yakhe Ulimi izihlahla. le ndaba, The Wizard imicabango, Kuye enyatheliswa yi Editorial Phineus ngemifanekiso UMargarita manje.

Pepa akhawunti efanayo inhloso yakhe leli bhuku ngala mazwi alandelayo:

The Wizard imicabango Ukhuluma nokuqabulana, nendlela ayiphulule futhi ukubhucungwa ukukhonza ukuze ngokomzwelo ukuzithiba, La bantwana bona kunabantu abadala bathi namanje abayeki, abahluleka ukuhlunga imicabango yabo, noma Abathulise noma ukugxilisa ingqondo ... Ngenxa yalezi izingane abe "magic" akhohlisa ukubeka oda ezinye ngaphakathi kuye. Kulezo imicabango ukuthi ngokuyisisekelo kukhona kodwa isithelo ukuzwela ayekufezile.

Ukuze lokhu Ngalifaka ukuthi indaba ukuthi kungenziwa ingashintshwa ngokuphelele ukufundisa Ukugxilisa abafana namantombazane ngenxa yezizathu ezilandelayo:

• Lunikeza umbono omuhle futhi wamukelekile imicabango, emizweni, imizwa, imizwa kanye nakho ngokuvamile nezingane (futhi siphinde sibe abantu abadala): yini phakathi kwethu kwenza umqondo uma sinikeza wekulalela kahle.
• Izingane angenza izinto eziphathekako sinake okubehlele yangaphakathi, ngakho laba ezolile phansi (futhi, nakuba ayichazi indaba, Futhi ukuze kuqashwe), nalabo abamzungezile ungakwazi ukuhamba.
• nakho Yangaphakathi ahambisana ngemphumelelo nge yisiphi isinyathelo ngokomzimba. Pepa ehlongozwayo indaba ayiphulule ezindaweni abathintekayo (ikhanda lika protagonist, kuleli cala), kodwa wachaza ekhasini lokugcina, “Amagama umphefumulo abadala”, kungenzeka kube khona ezinye izindlela eziningi, inqobo nje uma kuhilela umzimba.

Ngakho mina zashaya ukuncoma leli bhuku njengendlela ukwethula Ukugxilisa ngendlela ezovumelana izingane.

Ngithemba wena uyobe othanda it kakhulu ngendlela mina,

Javier

Kusanda kugujwa iminyaka yokuqala yokushicilelwa kwendaba. Ulimi izihlahla of Pepa Horno, umngane wami othandekayo kanye nomlingani wami Spiral Consulting Izingane (lapho sisebenza khona ezindabeni zokuvikela izingane). le ndaba, eshicilelwe ngabakwa Editorial Phineus futhi kuboniswe ngu Martina Vanda, yaba nezintshumayelo eziningana, eyokuqala yaba se I-Madrid Book Fair 2015 zalezi zinsuku, ngakho kubonakale kufanelekile ukuyikhumbula ngalokhu kufakwa kwebhulogi.

UPepa wethula incwadi ngale ndlela elandelayo:

Ulimi izihlahla kumayelana nokufa. Noma kunalokho mayelana nentambo yothando ehlanganisa izinhlangothi zombili zokuphila. Khuluma ngabantu abanezinhliziyo ezihlukene phakathi, “ingxenye emhlabeni nengxenye ezulwini”, futhi ibhalelwe abafana namantombazane amaningi (labo abayizingane manje nalabo abanye abafana namantombazane bacashe ngaphansi kwesikhumba sabantu abadala) abanezinhliziyo ezinje.

Ngifuna ukugqamisa izici ezintathu engincoma ngazo le ndaba (futhi ngenxa yaleso sizathu sengivele ngikunike njengesipho izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa):

• Ukubaluleka kokuthola isixhumanisi esingokomfanekiso nomuntu oshonile, ezingatshalwa empilweni noma uma sekufe. Akukephuzi kakhulu ukwenza isiko elinikeza labo bethu abasaphila umuzwa wokuxhumana.
• Ubukhulu bomzimba bosizi, okubonakala kukhonjwe ngobuciko. Hamba ngezinyawo, hambahamba ebaleni, yenza ukuthinta komzimba… isisiza ukuthi sicubungule kangcono ukulahlekelwa, kungakhathaliseki ubudala.
• Ububele obugcwele umsebenzi busimema ukuba sinakekele ubuhlobo esimweni ngasinye sosizi nabo bonke abafana namantombazane.: abalaye ngeminyaka, futhi esithwala nabo abafana namantombazane angaphakathi (futhi nazo zidinga ukunakwa kwakho).

Kukho konke lokhu nokunye okuningi, yincwadi engicabanga ukuthi iyifunde enconyiwe., futhi ikakhulukazi ukuba nayo lapho ukulahlekelwa kwenzeka endaweni ezungezile.

Ngithemba Wawujabulela kakhulu ngendlela mina.

Javier

Kulezi zinsuku zokugcina zaleli Okthoba isihloko ukufa ngakho njalo ngaphezulu ekuphileni kwezingane kuphakama. Kusukela uSuku Lwabafileyo emikhayeni ezithile kuzo zonke izenzakalo lowehlukile Halloween, iqiniso liwukuthi kuyisikhathi lapho izingane ebuza imibuzo mayelana nokufa, futhi kulula ukuba uzilungiselele izimo zengqondo izikhala ukulalela nezimpendulo.

Ngaloba 2011 i-athikili yokutakula lapha, “Izingane nokufa”, ukukhumbula ezinye imikhondo ewusizo. Article, owanyatheliswa ephephabhukwini ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent ziqondiswe Imfundo yezingane, izindawo ezintathu ezibalulekile uhlole:

• Umbono sokufa emazingeni ahlukene (phakathi neminyaka engu-zero kanye eziyisithupha, okuyinto isihloko umagazini).
• Ezinye izinkombandlela eziyisisekelo ukuba ahambe izingane ukufa.
• Ukufundwa letiphakanyisiwe, ukufundwa ehlukile imindeni kanye nezifundiswa nezindaba ukufunda nezingane.

Futhi mina ngiqale nge lesi sihloko nokubiyela isigaba:

Kwaphela isikhathi eside kwakucatshangwa ukuthi izingane akazange ahlupheke inqubo lusizi kwaze kwaba ubudala amadala. Nokho, ucwaningo emkhakheni ingozi yokulutheka baye babonisa idlule sokulila kusukela ubudala bokuqala ukuthi, nakuba awusebenzi sibonakalise Njengabantu abadala kuze kamuva. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba ukhulume sokufa (hhayi ulifihle ngenxa yokwesaba odalekayo kuwo) lapho kwenzeka (noma uma kuzokwenzeka, esimweni ukufa), ukuqonda 1) ukuthi umuntu ngempela uya futhi 2) ukuthi umuntu akabashiyi ngokuzithandela, futhi ukuze bakwazi ukusho goodbye, ngoba uma imiqondo le ibingakaziwa hhayi yokuvalelisa kwenzeka, Yisililo sokugembula zingavela. Futhi ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi silalela futhi unake ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi lapho ukufa kwenzeka ezimpilweni zabo.
[zilandise njengoba: Romeo BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Izingane nokufa kwabantu abaningi" ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent, 60, 17-21.]

Qhubeka ufunda lesi sihloko…

Ngithemba la ukucabanga oluzosiza ezihambisana nalesi sihloko nezingane endaweni yakho. Ukufa kuyingxenye engenakugwenywa yokuphila, abuye ahlanganise kanjani kangcono, Bayophila ngokugcwele, izingane zethu kanye nathi.

Ngifisa sengathi ngabe ngiqaphele mkhosi,

Javier

izingxabano Iningi zingalungiswa ngendlela egculisayo futhi inzuzo yabo bonke abathintekayo, enikeziwe izinsiza futhi isikhathi esingakanani okufanele usichithe. Yilokho okwenzeka yami yemisindvo zeminyaka ukufunda, kutilolonga okuxhunyanwa Ukuxhumana benamathele. Kuyinto eziyisisekelo ngakho (akulula) njengoba izimo ezidingekile ukuthi isinqumo kwenzeka. Kimi kukhona izakhi eziningana ezibalulekile, okungase ngokufingqiwe okulandelayo:

• An indlela efanele, ukuvumela bonke labo abathintekayo uzizwe silondekile futhi sihloniphana njengomkhaya amalungelo abo.
• ochwepheshe Experiential nge ukuqeqeshwa e Ukulamula ukulalela ezijulile amakhono kanye “translation” imiyalezo ukuze kube lula ukuzwa wonke umuntu.
• Umphakathi esekela izinqubo okubuyisela, isikhathi ukunikelwa, izikhala, Manpower, ukuqeqeshwa…
• Abantu uzimisele ukuxazulula izingxabano ngendlela ekugcineni wonke amaqembu bazizwe wezwa nokuthi wonke amaqembu ushiye aneliseke isixazululo.

Ngakho mina kuyathokozisa ukwabelana izinsiza akhiwa nomphakathi omkhulu nakubantu basendaweni esihlala kuyo kuthiwa Gotleu Palma de Mallorca (Mallorca), ngoba ukuqoqa indlela basebenza ngasinye salezi zici.

Kule video ungabona indlela eziye abathintekayo, i-nalomsebenzi Institute for nokuhlalisana kanye Impumelelo School (the Institute for nokuhlalisana kanye School Impumelelo Castilian) Uhulumeni we-Balearic Islands, kusuka othisha ezikoleni Imfundo yezingane, Primary kanye yesibili, abafundi babo bonke ubudala, imindeni, Nezenhlalakahle, amaphoyisa, University kanye namanye amaqembu abalulekile nomphakathi. Ngo ingxube amazwi, Senza kithi umqondo nakho yokudala ukuthi ukuphepha inethiwekhi endaweni emphakathini sengozini, futhi sibona imiphumela.

Ukuze uthole umbono ehlelekile ngaphezulu, Kuyinto ukushicilelwa eqoqa eziyisisekelo. Kushicilelwe ku-Catalan, Castilia nesiNgisi ngaphakathi kohlaka iphrojekthi European ngale ndaba, le Umhlahlandlela ngcono nokuhlalisana kanye Imikhuba bokubuyisana / Guide Mejoramos nokuhlalisana kanye nemikhuba okubuyisela Kutfutfukisa izici ezincwadini Imikhuba bokubuyisana, idatha eqondile inikeza izibonelo ukhonkolo kanye iziphakamiso Ngokufuna okuzayo ukuze uthole olunye ulwazi.

Futhi ukuba sijulise emibuthanweni okubuyisela, umkhuba nengxabano ludabuka ezindaweni ubukhulu nomphakathi Ukuxhumana benamathele, Ungafunda wokulandisa ezithakazelisayo Bokubuyisana Imikhuba Justice. Imibuthano bokubuyisana nendlela osebenza ngayo emikhakheni ehlukahlukene, elotshwe yiKhomishani UVenç Rul·lan, nomqeqeshi ngubani ngijabulela lokuhlangana, kuvidiyo kanye Umhlahlandlela, futhi nguye ilungu Association of Justice futhi bokubuyisana Imikhuba Islands (nekhasi Castilia futhi Catalan, ngezisetshenziswa eziningana). A isingeniso esihle, ukuze kuqhutshekwe sijulise nalolu hlobo locingo. Futhi ungakwazi futhi ubuke amavidiyo (isiZulu) kuwebhusayithi esemthethweni umdali imibuthano okubuyisela, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Ngubani okwenzile ukuqeqeshwa okuthile ekuchumana nami oyibonile Ngivame ukusho le nkinga ye Imikhuba bokubuyisana. Ngithemba kulezi kancane kangcono ukufanekisa ukuthi yini abezwile nami ithemba ukuthi ukuvusa lokusungula wakho nomcabango yakho ukuze uqhubeke ukuthola izindlela ikhiqize kakhudlwana ezijulile yokuxazulula izingxabano imvelo zemfundo, futhi iyiphi enye indawo.

Javier

Umlobi waseBrithani okuphumelela, Jasper Gwyn, Nge engamashumi amane enquma ukungaqhubeki ukubhala amanoveli. Uzokwenzenjani nesidingo sakho ukugcina lokubhala “okuthile”? Namanje isidingo lokuqoka, ukusebenzisa amazwi lokulolonga izinto ezidinga uzwakalise. Ngakho unquma ukuba abe “umkopishi”. Uzokwenza ekumeni zabantu abaphila. Futhi ngeke wenze noma yiziphi incazelo. Indlela uthwebule okushiwo umuntu ngamagama?

Futhi kule noveli ezinhle kakhulu iqala Mr Gwyn umbhali odumile wase-Italy Alessandro Baricco (1958). Ngaphandle izinga layo elingenakuphikwa etemibhalo, singobani banesithakazelo Ukugxilisa Lokhu inoveli kusinika umbono entsha symbolization nakho, izinqubo zenuzi Ukugxilisa. Mr Gwyn, umbhali protagonist, Kuyinto emakhasini phambi ngengozi embukisweni ekumeni, futhi ukufunda ikhathalogu igalari is izomangaza ngokwazi ukuthi isebenza kanjani umdwebi izithombe. Mr Gwyn uthola into ekhethekile:

Jasper Gwyn wacabanga kumelwe adinga isikhathi esiningi, kokudingiswa ezithile, kanye nokuqedwa resistors eziningi. Akazange acabange iyiphi iqhinga lobuchwepheshe noma kwakubonakala kubalulekile ekugcineni master umdwebi, kuphela wangena ikhanda lakhe ukuthi umsebenzi isiguli sase umgomo, futhi ukuqeda ngalokho ayekutholile wakwazi ukuthola ukuthi abuyise ikhaya indoda ephethe amadevu. Kwabonakala isenzo esihle kakhulu. (ikhasi 36)

Futhi njengoba elapho uqala on an adventure ukuthi silungiselela isikhala nge kucikelela tinhlangotsi sezinzwa futhi kudala isimo lapho ungenza ekumeni. Capture okushiwo kumuntu onjalo la mazwi, como uthi Baricco, ukuthatha umuntu ekhaya. Akunakwenzeka ukucabanga inqubo Ukugxilisa, nendlela ngokusebenzisa khona yokwamukela futhi usizo lomusa ukuze ifanekisele isipiliyoni, ukuze inqubo It wenziwa (kancane eduze nasekhaya, njengoba kungaba njalo Baricco). Futhi mayelana inqubo ukufanekisa, Kanti inikeza ukuvulwa isimanga (Mina ngeke embule lapha, ngoba ingeyesizinda ukuthuthukiswa efanele kule noveli).

Ngenxa yakho konke lokhu, kubalulekile ngoba abantu abanentshisekelo inqubo Ukugxilisa.

Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi okungenani oyosiza ukwenza imibuzo eziningi ezintsha. Futhi uma wazi ezinye amanoveli (noma ama-movie) ugqozi mayelana Ukugxilisa, Ukuxhumana benamathele noma ukwelashwa kwengqondo, comentádmelas ngibenze amathikithi abo.

Ngifisa sengathi ngabe Ukufundwa emnandi,

Javier

idatha lwempilo: Baricco, Alessandro (2011): Mr Gwyn. Milan: Giangiacomo Feltrinelli Editore. translation Castilia ka Xavier González Rovira (2012): Mr Gwyn. Barcelona: wokuphicaphicana ngamagama nezinombolo. Iya ikhasi Anagram yokuhlela, lapho ungafunda amakhasi okuqala ambalwa inoveli.