Ngesonto eledlule le ncwadi yethulwe ngokusemthethweni bheka ukuvikela. Izihluthulelo zokuqonda udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nokuthuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezisebenzayo, ukuthi sichaze kabanzi umlingani wami Pepa Horno futhi mina kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane okwe I-UNICEF yaseSpain. Njengenjwayelo nge okuthunyelwe kwami, umkhakha la ukungena ngesandla bheka ukuvikela kuleyo bhulogi futhi wandise kwezinye izici ezifanele lapha.

Imanuwali inezici ezintathu ezibalulekile ukwabelana ngazo lapha.

Okokuqala, ihlela kabanzi imiqondo eyisisekelo ukuqonda udlame. Abantu abaningi abathola ukwelashwa kufanele baqonde ukuthi kwenzekeni kubo nokuthi kanjani, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile inqubo yokuhambisana yanele, ngezinye izikhathi bangicela ireferensi ukuze baqhubeke nokwandisa. Imanuwali, nakuba iwubuchwepheshe futhi ihloselwe ochwepheshe abasebenza nezingane, futhi intsha, futhi ingasiza abantu ngomsebenzi owanele wokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nokwandisa kulowo mugqa, le manuwali iwusizo futhi kuma-psychotherapist abafuna ukuvuselela ulwazi namakhono abo. Ngemisebenzi ehlongozwayo kuso sonke isahluko singanweba ukuzwela kwethu namandla ethu okuhambisana nezinqubo ezihlobene nodlame nokuhlukumezeka kanye nokuphulukiswa kwazo.. Ingxenye engokoqobo iklanyelwe ukuhlakulela ukuqaphela ukungenelela kwethu.

Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kobukhulu bomzimba kokubili kubudlova kanye nemiphumela yako (ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezekeni nasekuhlukaneni) njengasekululameni. Imanuwali yonke inezici zomzimba, futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza umuzwa wenhlalakahle ukuthi uzama ukwakha ezindaweni ezikhona Izindawo Eziphephile Nezivikelekile.

Imanuwali bheka ukuvikela ingalandwa mahhala kuwebhusayithi ye-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke, futhi ngizothanda ukwazi ukuthi uyamukela kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengenjwayelo, kule bhulogi ngabelana ngezinto ezithinta umsebenzi wami kuzo Spiral Consulting Izingane nezinye izithakazelo zomuntu siqu nezomsebenzi. Kulokhu ngiba nokwaneliseka ngokwabelana nomhlahlandlela Amazwi wenguquko. Umhlahlandlela wezindlela zokubonisana nezingane, amantombazane nentsha ekunakekelweni kokuhlala, esikuchazayo Pepa Horno futhi ngiyama I-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Kwaba ukwaneliseka ukuthola i-oda lokuhlela le ndlela yokusebenza ngokubhala ngendlela ethengekayo. Ingxenye yomsebenzi wethu lapho siphelezela izinhlangano zomphakathi nezizimele zezinhlelo zokuvikela lapha e-Spain nakwamanye amazwe ezinqubweni zabo zokuthuthukisa ihlanganisa ukubheka abalingiswa bazo.: izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala ezikhungweni zokuvikela. Futhi bangochwepheshe ezimpilweni zabo, futhi izikhungo zivame ukukhohlwa ukubabuza, Ngeshwa.

Yingakho kuyinjabulo enkulu lokho I-UNICEF yaseSpain, emsebenzini wayo wokukhuthaza ukubamba iqhaza kwezingane nentsha, wasimema ukuba sethule indlela elula yokubonisana nalezi zingane, futhi intsha. Siphawula kabanzi ngakho kubhulogi ye-Spiral Consulting for Children.

Ngaphakathi lokho kunesiqondiso sobuchwepheshe nesisebenzayo, isici se ukuxhumana nabanye abantu: singakhuluma kanjani thina bantu abadala, singakha kanjani indawo efanele nokuthi singalalela kanjani izingane, futhi intsha. Amagama esiwasebenzisayo angavula noma avale ukuxhumana, yingakho amafomula esiwethulayo ecace kakhulu: Ngiyahlonipha, ukufakwa kanye ne-protagonism yezingane ngokwazo, futhi intsha.

Futhi siye saphikelela ekuguquguqukeni nokuzivumelanisa nezimo kuzo zonke izingane, futhi intsha, ukuhlinzeka ngemihlahlandlela yokwamukela ukungenelela ekuhlukeni kokusebenza, ukuhlukahluka kwamasiko (Ngokukhethekile ukuze abafana namantombazane abafudukayo bengaphelezelwa) nalabo abanempilo yengqondo kanye nezinkinga zokuhlukumezeka. Amazwi abo, njengoba sisho esihlokweni, yezwa kahle, bangenza ushintsho lube ngcono ekuphileni kwabo.

Ngethemba ukuthi uyayithanda futhi uyayithola ithakasela.

F. Javier Romeo

Ingxenye yomsebenzi wami njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomngane ezinqubweni zomuntu siqu nezenhlangano ukuthola izindlela zokudlulisa imilayezo eyinkimbinkimbi ngokusebenzisa izingathekiso nezifaniso.. Ngokuhamba phambili “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”, esengizethulile kulokhu okunye ukungena, Siphakamisa izinselelo neziphakamiso ezimbalwa zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha eSpain (Nasemhlabeni wonke).

Kule nyanga ngibe nesandla esihlokweni “Sihamba nomuntu esiyikho”, esebenzisa ama-analogies phakathi kwezinyathelo esizithathayo lapho sibhekene nalolu bhubhane kanye nezici okudingeka sizinakekele lapho siphelezela izingane., amantombazane kanye nentsha eye yahlupheka kakhulu. Kuyindlela yokuqwashisa ngendlela yethu yokwenza nokwenza, kokubili ngokomuntu siqu nangokomsebenzi.

Futhi uzobona lokho, njengenjwayelo, Ngigcizelela ukubaluleka ukuqeqeshwa kokuhlukumezeka futhi ngikhumbula ukubaluleka Ukugxilisa, okuyithuluzi eliwusizo kakhulu kimina usuku nosuku.

Ngingathanda ukwazi ukuthi ucabangani nokuthi uphila kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

[Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi.]

Idokhumenti Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela, lokho Pepa Horno, umlingani wami ku-Childhood Consulting Spirals, futhi ngibhalele I-UNICEF yaseSpain futhi I-UNICEF eFrance, isanda kuthunyelwa, futhi itholakala ngezinguqulo ezimbili:

• Landa inguqulo yokuqala yesiNgisi ye Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela.
• Dawuniloda ukuhumusha kweSpanishi, Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela.

Lokhu ukushicilelwa kwezobuchwepheshe okuphathelene nokuvikelwa kwezingane, ukungenelela komphakathi kanye namalungelo abantu. Eqinisweni, Sinemibono kanye nonembeza wochwepheshe abangaba yikhulu ku-International Workshop ngoDisemba 2019 e Madrid, ukuthi ngisize ukwenza lula (sichaza kabanzi ku yethu okuthunyelwe kwebhulogi ye-CI Spirals). Nokho, futhi idokhumenti yomuntu siqu kakhulu kimi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izingane, Amantombazane afudukayo angaphelezelwa futhi ahlukanisiwe anendawo ekhetheke kakhulu enhliziyweni yami. Ngasebenza eMorocco iminyaka eminingana nezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala emigwaqweni futhi ngiyabazi ubunzima abanayo lapho, nokuthi yini ebenza babeke izimpilo zabo engozini ukuze babe nekusasa elingcono. Ngiphinde ngasebenza iminyaka eminingana eMadrid nentsha esengozini yomphakathi, futhi abaningi babo kwakungabafana namantombazane abafudukayo abangenazo izinkomba zomndeni, ngakho ngihambisane nezinyathelo zabo ebunzimeni abahlangabezane nabo ukuze bakhe ikusasa elihle eSpain. Futhi kuze kube namuhla ngisajabulela ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabo ngesi-Moroccan Arabic., ulimi engiluthanda kakhulu. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lo mbhalo usiza ochwepheshe kanye nomphakathi wonkana ukuthi ube nozwelo kulaba bantwana., futhi intsha, kanye nokukhathazeka ngenhlalakahle yabo. (Ungafunda kabanzi mayelana indlela yami yomsebenzi kuphrofayela yami ye-LinkedIn).

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, okwamanje lolu udaba olubucayi kakhulu, ngenxa yezici eziningi. Njengomhleli oholayo, Ngisebenzise kaningi ukwenza Ukugxilisa njengenqubo yokuhlela imibono kanye nokuthola ukubunjwa okufanele. Izihluthulelo zezindaba ezimnandi ezivikelayo zidinga ukuvela ekwazini okugxilile emzimbeni.. Ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kunikeza ukucaca kanye nombono ojulile kuso sonke isihloko., ikakhulukazi uma izingxenye eziyinkimbinkimbi zikwazi ukucacisa kancane.

Ekuphetheni, akubanga yinselele yobungcweti kuphela, kodwa futhi inqubo yomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uyakuthokozela.

F. Javier Romeo

[Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi].

Idokhumenti Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela, lokho Pepa Horno, engisebenza naye kwa-Espirales Consultoría de Infancia, nami ngibhalele I-UNICEF yaseSpain futhi I-UNICEF eFrance, isanda kushicilelwa, futhi itholakala ngezinguqulo ezimbili:

• Landa inguqulo yokuqala ngesiNgisi ye Ngalé Kokusinda. Ukuthuthukisa ukungenelela e-Europe Ngezingane Ezifudukayo Ezingaphelezeli Futhi Ezihlukanisiwe eziwela ohlelweni lokuvikela.
• Dawuniloda okuhunyushelwe kusiSpanishi, Ngaphandle kokusinda. Ungakuthuthukisa kanjani ukungenelela nezingane ezifudukayo ezingaphelezelwa futhi ezihlukene ezishiywe ngaphandle kohlelo lokuvikela.

Lokhu ukushicilelwa kwezobuchwepheshe okuphathelene nokuvikelwa kwezingane, ukungenelela komphakathi kanye namalungelo abantu. Empeleni, sibale kanye nemibono kanye nokuqwashisa kochwepheshe abacishe babe yikhulu e-International Workshop ngoZibandlela 2019 eMadrid, ukuthi ngihlanganyele (sichaza kabanzi ngakho ku okuthunyelwe kwethu kwebhulogi ku-Espirales CI). Nokho, futhi idokhumenti yomuntu siqu kakhulu kimi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Abafuduki Abangaphelezelwa Nabahlukanisiwe Ngizithanda kakhulu. Ngisebenze eMorocco iminyaka eminingana nezingane ezisemgwaqweni futhi ngiyabazi ubunzima obukhona, okubenza babeke izimpilo zabo engozini ukuze babe nekusasa elingcono. Ngasebenza iminyaka eminingana eMadrid nentsha eyayisengozini, futhi abaningi babo kwakungabantwana abafudukayo abangaphelezelwa muntu, ngakho ngaphelezela izinyathelo zabo ebunzimeni bokuzakhela ikusasa elihle eSpain. Futhi ngisakujabulela ukukwazi ukukhuluma nabo ngesi-Moroccan Arabic, ulimi engiluthanda kakhulu. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lo mbhalo uzosiza abanye ochwepheshe kanye nomphakathi jikelele ukuthi uzizwele lezi zingane, kanye nokunakekela inhlalakahle yabo. (Okuningi mayelana indlela yami yomsebenzi kuphrofayela yami ye-LinkedIn).

Ngokwesinye isandla, lolu udaba okwamanje olubucayi kakhulu, ngenxa yezici eziningana. Njengombhali omkhulu, Ngisebenzise kakhulu Ukugxilisa nami njengenqubo yokuhlela imibono, kanye nokuthola amagama afanele. Imikhondo yezindaba ezimnandi ezivikelayo zidinga ukuvela ekuqwashiseni okuhlanganisiwe. Ngethemba ukuthi lokhu kuzoletha ukucaca kanye nombono ojulile kuso sonke lesi sihloko, ngobunkimbinkimbi bayo obenziwe kwacaca kakhudlwana.

Ekuphetheni, bekungeyona nje inselele yobungcweti, kodwa futhi inqubo yomuntu siqu kakhulu. Ngethemba ukuthi uzokujabulela.

F. Javier Romeo

Umbiko ukhishwe ngesonto eledlule. Fika ngesikhathi. Izingane, amantombazane nentsha esengozini eSpain, okube ngukwaneliseka kimi. Iqoqa imiphumela yocwaningo esilwenza kusukela lapho Spiral Consulting Izingane e 2018 futhi 2019 okwe I-SOS Children's Villages yaseSpain. Nakuba sekukhona eyodwa ukungena ngokusemthethweni kubhulogi le-CI Spirals, Ngithatha i izincwadi engihlanganyela kuyo futhi kule bhulogi.

Izinguqulo ezimbili zingalandwa:

• umbiko ogcwele.
• Isifinyezo esiphezulu.

Ngokwami, ngingasho ukuthi ukunakekela ukuhlanganiswa kwezobuchwepheshe kwalolu cwaningo kanye nokwenza ingxenye yokuqoqwa kwedatha ehambisana nami kungilethele ukufunda okusha..

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, zazi izimo ezintsha eziphathekayo zokuvikela izingane, futhi intsha, izingozi ababhekana nazo kanye nezindaba ezidinga ukubhekwana nazo.

Okwesinye, ukubaluleka kokuxhumana, ukubona ukuthi omasipala abanamanethiwekhi okuxhumana angaphakathi banikeza kanjani ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha ehlala kuzo kanye nemindeni yabo.

Okwesithathu, isidingo sokuqhubeka nokuqwashisa bonke abantu abathintekayo:

• Omasipala nabaholi babo bezepolitiki, ukuze babeke phambili ngokwanele ingxenye yabantu abanjalo, kodwa, ayinazo izinsiza ngaphandle kwalokho imindeni engakwazi ukuyikhokhela.
• Ochwepheshe bakho, ikakhulukazi kuZinkonzo Zezenhlalakahle, ukuze bakwazi ukubheka kabanzi umsebenzi wabo. Ezimweni eziningi ngokuchichima komsebenzi kanye nokushoda kwezinsiza, kodwa ngokuzibophezela okukhulu enhlalakahleni yabantu, ukubheka ngokucophelela kungabasiza ukuhlela kangcono ukunaka kwabo kanye nezinsiza, kanye nokufuna ngempumelelo lokho okudingekayo.
• Imindeni, ukuze baqonde ubunzima nezingozi amadodana namadodakazi abo abhekana nazo futhi bathole usizo oluhlongozwayo kubo..
• Futhi izingane, futhi intsha, ukuze bazwiwe futhi banikezwe ukuvelela okubafanele ngokusebenzisa imigudu ehambisanayo yokubamba iqhaza.

Futhi ngiphetha ngokubonga ithimba locwaningo lonke ngomsebenzi wokusebenzisana: U-Pepa Horno njengomxhumanisi jikelele kanye no-Violeta Assiego, I-Iziar Fernandez, Igolide Ferreres, ULourdes Juan noSantiago Miguez. Kube wudumo. Futhi ku-Aldeas Infantiles SOS de España nezingcweti zayo ngokusinika leli thuba.

Ngethemba ukuthi lolu cwaningo luzosikhanyisela ngawo wonke umsebenzi esisalindile, njengoba nesihloko sisho, Fika ngesikhathi ukunakekela izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha esengozini.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengodokotela wezengqondo ngihlukanisa isikhathi sami sobungcweti phakathi komkhuba wokwelashwa ohambisana nabantu ezinkambisweni zabo zokwelapha eMadrid kanye nezeluleko nokuqeqeshwa kwezinhlangano ezihlobene nokuvikelwa kwezingane., amantombazane nentsha evela eSpirales Consultoría de Infancia. Lokho sika ngalokho ngiyakuyala yamjabulisa ukwethula imanuwali Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, Ngiye ngalungiselela Office of SOS Wezingane imephu Latin America naseCaribbean Regional.

Ukuze uthole eminye imininingwane salolu shicilelo, elikuqukethe futhi ezinye izincwadi okuhlobene yokuvikela izingane, ungafunda lokhu entry blog Espirales CI.

Amabili izinguqulo idokhumenti:

• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ekhasini elilodwa (iphrinta ukhululekile ngokunyathelisa nokufunda mobile noma ithebhulethi).
• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ikhasi double (ukubona esikrinini esikhulu noma ukunyathelisa ku ukuphrinta).

Kulesi Ukubloga enginakho kuphela ukwengeza ukuthi incazelo uhlukunyezwe njengoba inqubo kusekelwe Umgudu imodeli (Inqubo Model) de Eugene Gendlin, futhi izincazelo okuvimba ngokomzwelo eziye wahlangana abaqeqeshi kanye nabaxhumanisi Ukugxilisa Ann Weiser Cornell futhi uBarbara McGavin. Ungathola okulotshiwe emithonjeni ethize emakhasini 16-20 umbhalo.

Ngithemba imiphumela emihle.

F. Javier Romeo

“ukutholakala, Umphakathi nokukhula. Lawo amazwi umzimba wami owakhethayo ukuze afanekise ulwazi oluphelele loMhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila.. Ihlelwe yi-Spanish Institute of Focusing futhi ididiyelwe ithimba le-Sevillian le-Espacio Vivencial, Umhlangano wenzeka kusukela 12 al 15 Okthoba edolobheni elihle lase-Andalusian laseSeville, eningizimu yeSpain”.

Iqala kanjena indaba yami lapho ngichaza isipiliyoni sami se I-In-Focus, iphephandaba le-International Focusing Institute kaNovemba 2017. Esikhaleni engisihlinzekiwe, ngizamile ukubonisana ne-international Focusing community imisebenzi esihlanganyele kuyo Umhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila, ngesikhathi esifanayo engangifuna ukukhombisa futhi, ngokwesiko la Ukugxilisa kanye nefilosofi yokuhlangenwe nakho, bekuyini isipiliyoni sami. Kusukela lapha ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​ku Ukugxila Institute Spanish ngokubiza lo mcimbi omuhle kangaka, al Iqembu le-Espacio Vivencial eliholwa nguFrancisco Sivianes yokuwuxhumanisa kanye nesikhulumi ngasinye kanye nomhlanganyeli ngamunye owenze ukuba kwenzeke, kube yinto engingasoze yalibaleka.

• funda isihloko “Ukutholwa, Umphakathi kanye Nokukhula. Ingqungquthela Yoku-1 Evulekile Kazwelonke Yokugxila e-Seville” enguqulweni yokuqala yesingisi.
• Funda isihloko esihunyushelwe esiSpanishi esinesihloko “ukutholakala, Umphakathi nokukhula: I Open National Meeting of Focusing in Seville, Spain”.

Sethula u-Catherine Torpey, Umqondisi Omkhulu we-TIFI. Isithombe ngu-Francisco Sivianes.

Ngishiyele le bhulogi izici zomuntu siqu ezengeziwe, njengodumo engaba nalo lokukwazi ukwethula uCatherine Torpey, abeza eSeville ukuzokwethula lonke uhlobo lwamazwe ngamazwe lwe Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (TIFI) njenge Umqondisi ophakeme okufanayo. Kwami, ukuthi ngisebenzisana naye IKomidi Lobulungu isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka odlule, Kuyinto ukwaneliseka ukuthi umphakathi Focusing in Spain (nabahlanganyeli bakwamanye amazwe) angakwazi ukumazi mathupha u-Catherine nakho konke okwenziwa yi-International Institute of Focusing.

Indawo yami yokusebenzela “Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame”. Isithombe ngu-Francisco Sivianes.

Kube yilungelo futhi ukusingatha i-workshop yami “Ukugxilisa kanye nomsebenzi ngokwenza ubudlova”, lapho ngakwazi khona ukwabelana nabantu bezizwe ezinhlanu ezihlukene ezinye zezihluthulelo zokusebenzisa imizwa yomzimba kanye nenqubo yokugxila ekuhlonzeni udlame ngendlela ephelele futhi kukhiqize ukuphepha ezimpilweni zethu., inguqulo yesingeniso seshabhu yami “Ukugxilisa, umzimba kanye nokuphepha: Ukugxilisa nokuvimbela udlame”.

Ziningi ezinye izinkumbulo, njengalezo zemihlangano yokucobelelana ngolwazi engaya kuyo, noma izinkomfa jikelele, noma abantu engahlangana nabo (entsha noma ejulile)… Ungabona okuningi mayelana nomkhathi wezikhathi ezahlukahlukene ezithombeni ezithathwe nguFrancisco Sivianes (Umqeqeshi ogxile kanye nomqondisi we-Espacio Vivencial): kwe ULwesine 12 Okthoba, kwe ULwesihlanu 13 Okthoba futhi kwe Saturday 14 Okthoba of 2017.

Okunye okutholakalayo yile phrezentheshini eyenziwe nguRosa Galiano enezithombe zakhe, nguFrancisco Sivianes nabanye abantu futhi yashicilelwa ku Isiteshi se-YouTube se-International Institute of Focusing:

Kube wumthombo wogqozi futhi ngiyethemba ukuthi izokukhuthaza nawe.

F. Javier Romeo

Umbhalo ngeSpanishi – IsiJapane – Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde ngesiNgisi

The I-International Focusing Conference eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi 2016 iqhubeka ithela izithelo.

Namuhla nginelungelo lokwethula ukuhunyushwa kwesihloko sami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile” (kuvele phakathi 2014 e The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy) ku-japanese, ngesihloko esiyela ngasocansini “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Kumithelela Ejulile-“.

Con Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

E-Cambridge ngathola injabulo yokuhlangana noMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), i-psychotherapist enokuqeqeshwa ku-Focusing owayeqale ukuhunyushwa kwesihloko esikhathini esidlule, futhi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Umdidiyeli Wokugxila owaziwayo, ojoyine iphrojekthi yokuhumusha esigabeni sayo sokugcina. Izingxoxo zethu zalowo mhlangano zenze umsebenzi waqhubekela phambili, futhi manje kukhona lokhu kuhumusha ngokucophelela okutholakala kuwebhusayithi ye Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), futhi engikhiqiza lapha ngemvume yakhe.

Kusukela lapha ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​okujulile ngomzamo nokuzinikela kwabo (kube nama-imeyili amaningi emuva naphambili ukuze acacise imiqondo nemigomo) ukuze lesi sici sokuGxila saziwe phakathi kodokotela nochwepheshe abaningi be-Focusing in Japan..

ekubongeni okujulileyo,

Javier

IsiJapane

Ingqungquthela ye-27th International Focusing Conference eCambridge (UK)amazinyo、Ukuletha imiphumela enothile。

manje、I、iphepha"Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Emithelela Ejulile-"("Ijenali Yezemfundo Yokugxila Nokuthola Inqubo Yokwelapha"The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential TherapyUmqulu 25, No. 1、2014Ngihlonishwa ngokuthi (ishicilelwe ngonyaka) yahunyushelwa olimini lwesiJapane.。

UMnu. Kawahara

E-Cambridge、Umeluleki u-En Kawahara oqeqeshelwa i-Focusing、Ngibe nokuhlangana okujabulisayo noNkz. Mako Hikasa, Umdidiyeli Wokugxila Oqinisekisiwe owaziwa kakhulu.。Ngoba、UMnu. Kawahara usevele esebenza kulokhu kuhumusha、Futhi esigabeni sokugcina sephrojekthi、Mako HikasaUjoyinile。Ngemva kwengqungquthela yamazwe ngamazwe、Sihlala sithintana ukuze siqedele ukuhumusha、Futhi manje、Ukuhunyushwa okuqondile kwesi-Japanese kuqediwe。lokhu、Iwebhusayithi yeJapan Focusing AssociationUngafunda ku。Kusuka kunhlangano、Ngithole imvume yokuthumela isixhumanisi。

Nginentshisekelo kwintshisekelo yabo kanye nomdlandla、Ngibonga ngokujulile。Ukucacisa imiqondo nama-nuances、Ukuhwebelana kwama-imeyili njalo。Kubaqeqeshi nabasebenzi abaningi Abagxilile abagunyaziwe e-Japan、Ngoba kuyithuba lokwazi lesi sici se-Focusing.。

Ngokubonga

Javier

Umbhalo wesiNgisi

I-International Focusing Conference 2016 eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ilokhu iletha izithelo ezengeziwe.

Manje nginelungelo lokwethula isihloko sami “Ukugxila Okuwela kanye Nokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame: Ukucabangela Imithelela Ejulile”, okwavela ku The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy phakathi 2014, ihunyushwe ngesiJapane ngesihloko “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Kumithelela Ejulile-“.

With Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

E-Cambridge ngathola injabulo yokuhlangana noMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esiqeqeshwe ku-Focusing owayesevele waqala ukuhumusha esikhathini esithile esidlule, futhi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Umxhumanisi Wokugxila owaziwayo ojoyine iphrojekthi ezigabeni zayo zokugcina. Izingxoxo esibe nazo ngemuva kwalokho ziphothule umsebenzi, futhi manje sinalokhu kuhumusha okunembayo, etholakala kuwebhusayithi ye Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), kukhiqizwa lapha ngemvume.

Ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​okukhulu ngentshisekelo yabo nokuzikhandla kwabo –kube nama-imeyili amaningi ukuze acacise imibono nama-nuances– ukwenza kwenzeke ukuthi lesi sici sokuGxila saziwe phakathi kochwepheshe abaningi Abagxilile kanye nabasebenzi baseJapan.

Ekubongeni,

Javier

Kungukwaneliseka kimi ukwabelana ngokushicilelwa kwe Ukugxilisa e umkhuba emtholampilo. Ingqikithi yoshintsho, incwadi yokugcina ye Ann Weiser Cornell ngeSpanishi, kuleli cala elihunyushwe yimi.

Kuhlelo olucophelelayo ngaphakathi kwe Psychology Library kusuka I-Desclée yokuhlela, le ncwadi ivela ngenxa yomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wabantu abaningi, Ngiyabonga kusuka lapha.

Okokuqala, Ann Weiser Cornell uzimisele ukuba le ncwadi ishicilelwe (eyaqala ukuvela kumshicileli wezempilo yengqondo ohlonishwayo waseMelika W. W. Norton), futhi ubelokhu ekhona ekuhumusheni ku-nuances ngayinye, ngiphendula imibuzo ehlukene futhi ngibheke nami amagama afaneleka kakhulu imiqondo nezinkulumo zawo. Ufake nesandla a isandulela esifudumele sohlelo lweSpanishi (engafundwa ku incwajana yokuphromotha), lapho ithi:

Kule ncwadi ngizamile ukuchaza i-Focusing ngendlela elula kodwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkimbinkimbi eyenza ikhetheke kakhulu.. Ngizamile ukwenza le ncwadi ibe usizo kakhulu, ukuze umtholampilo akwazi ukusisebenzisa ngokushesha. (P. 18)

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umfutho we Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi Wokugxila Kazwelonke kanye nomeluleki wami ku-Focusing, usethe incwadi, kusukela ekusebenzisaneni nomshicileli kuya ekubuyekezweni okuphelele kwemibhalo kanye isethulo kuhlelo lweSpanishi eqokomisa isithakazelo sale ncwadi kubantu abakhuluma iSpanishi (iyatholakala futhi ku incwajana yokuphromotha).

Ekugcineni, intshisekelo nokunakekelwa kwethimba labahleli be Kwehlisiwe, osebenze ukuze azuze incwadi enhle necacile, kwelinye lamaqoqo e-psychology ahlonishwa kakhulu eSpain.

Ezingosini ezizayo ngizobe ngiphawula kwezinye izici zale ncwadi engizithola ziwusizo. Okwamanje ngikushiya nenkomba (elikhuliswayo lapha), Ngizophawula ngezahluko ezihlukene kwezinye izingosi zebhulogi:

• Isingeniso. umnyango ovulekayo.
• 1. Ingqikithi yoshintsho.
• 2. Lungiselela umhlangano: Ungethula kanjani i-Focusing kumaseshini namaklayenti.
• 3. Bona futhi uhlakulele imizwa ezwakalayo.
• 4. Siza amaklayenti aveze izinzwa.
• 5. Hlakulela Ukuzibonakalisa Kwekhasimende: Indawo ebalulekile yezinzwa ezizwakalayo.
• 6. ejula: Indlela yokwenza lula ushintsho oluzwakalayo.
• 7. Lapho kuba nzima kakhulu ngathi ukusebenza nobunzima obuthile bamakhasimende.
• 8. Ukugxila nokuhlukumezeka, imilutha nokucindezeleka.
• 9. Hlanganisa Ukugxila ezindleleni ezahlukene zokwelapha.
• 10. Ukugxila kumelaphi.
• Isithasiselo.

Kimina kuwumgubho esingathembela kuwo ngale ncwadi ngendlela ewusizo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ejulile, futhi ngithemba ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuyifunda njengoba ngikujabulele ukuyihumusha.

F. Javier Romeo

Qaphela:
uma ufuna ukuzama iseshini yokugxila, noma uqale ukwelashwa, ngineyami ukubonisana kwengqondo eMadrid, lapho ngiphelezela khona abafana namantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala futhi ngizojabula ukunamukela.