The Yofatsa Kulankhulana Zimakhala kwambiri chida, ndi zofunika kukhala Mulimonse ndi kudzera n'kotheka njira. Amene adachita zokambirana ndi ine aona profusion chuma ntchito (zithunzi, danga…), mwa zina makalata I-zachinyengo, ndi ntchito pa zaka zingapo.

Ine kunamukomera kwambiri ndi posachedwapa zikamera mwa makalata “ZOPHWEKA Konekta”, ndi gwero zothandiza limodzi ndi njira ya anthu amene amadalira zithunzi, makamaka ana. Mu Zambiri mphaka, yaing'ono kampani ndi kuyesetsa kubweretsa ndi kulenga chiphunzitso zipangizo yophunzitsa mu yofatsa Kulankhulana ku Spain, Anasankha kumasula makalata amenewa kupanga wokha.

Ndalandira makalata “ZOPHWEKA Konekta” ndi kuwakonda mbali zambiri. Mbali inayi, ndi kamangidwe, ndi losavuta zojambula kuti apange makadi kwambiri angakwanitse, pinki maziko kwa maganizo ndi buluu maziko zosowa (kachidindo ndi universalized m'dera la yofatsa Kulankhulana ndi NVC Dance apansi).

Tsidya, mmene wachikondi mawu: maganizo ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi, kuti aliyense amaona zinaphatikizapo ifeyo mosavuta; ndi zosowa amaonetsa mu awiri njira, kotero kuti munthu angathe kufufuza zinthu mawu n'zogwirizana inu zabwino.

Kuphatikiza Apo, kuonjezera chiwerengero cha akufuna kugwiritsa (Game malingaliro), Anasintha kuchokera zina ndi chilolezo, kuphatikizapo wotchuka “Poker CNV”, Ine ndimagwiritsa ntchito mozama zokambirana.

Kuyambira pano wanga Zabwino zonse kwa timu Zambiri mphaka latsopanoli gwero. Ndikuyembekezera wanga wotsatira msonkhano kuyesa kuona chimene iwo amaganiza anthu amene amachita. Panthawiyi mukhoza kufufuza zambiri zokhudza makadi mu tsamba la webu ndipo inu mukhoza kuwagula iwo Intaneti ngati muli ndi chidwi.

Ine ndikudalira kuti ndinu othandiza ndi zovuta kuzamitsa yofatsa Kulankhulana.

Xavier

CNV dancefloors kale anaonekera mu Baibulo mu Chikasitilia, imene Ndagwira ntchito, komanso zilipo Spanish ndi mawu mavidiyo.

Bridget Belgrave ndi Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), Kwa zaka analenga chida chachikulu kuphunzitsa ndi kuchita Nonviolent Communication (CNV). Monga iwowo mu kugonjera, ndi NVC Dance apansi (NVC Dance apansi) Iwo anatuluka kupyola mu mndandanda wa njira kuti atsogolere mwambo wa Nonviolent Communication ndi mapu okhudza malo kuti amakulolani kugwiritsa ntchito gawo thupi kugwira ntchito gawo maganizo, njira mukuona kanema:

m'chilimwe 2009 Ine tasangalala formarme ndi Gina ndi kukumana Bridget, kuyambira pamenepo ntchito yomasulira ndi anatengera anali anabwerera Chikasitilia, Poyesayesa imene tathandiza anthu ambiri ndipo ine kaamba kanthawi. Choncho timasangalala kufalitsa Chida chophweka ndipo komabe kwambiri, potsiriza mu Spanish, imene ife kusamalira kuphatikizapo yaikulu zotheka angapo Spanish Baibulo.

zimene ndinaona kuti NVC Dance apansi anthu akhoza kuchita chabe kudziwa ochepa koyamba Communication Nonviolent (Ndipotu I ntchito zina zokambirana ndi malonje). Ngakhale anthu amene sadziwa njira yokha Nonviolent Communication (ana, ndi achinyamata, makasitomala mankhwala) Mosavuta kuwoloka mothandizidwa ndi winawake amene amadziwa zambiri.

Dancefloors CNV kuphatikiza ndi zithunzi, ogwirika ndi zinenero, choncho zomwe kumachitika mwa njira ndi zinachitikira chozama. Ndipo pali naini “zovina” chosiyana, ndi mayina monga “Masewero 13 masitepe”, “Dance Kusakanikirana ndi mgwirizano”, “Dance la Mkwiyo / Ukali, Manyazi ndi Depression”, “Gule wa Inde ndi No”, ndi “Kusintha ululu wa zofuna unmet mu Kukongola Zosowa”.

Kuphatikiza Apo, mu 2013 iwo anamasulidwa makanema kuti afotokoze atatu ya madansi ameneŵa, mu kope mosamala monga omasulira Chisipanishi.

Ngati mukufuna kugula dancefloor CNV mu akamagwiritsa osiyana (monga Koperani, pepala, plasticized Baibulo…) ndi ma DVD kuphunzira nawo kunyumba kapena kuchita gulu, mukhoza kukaona sitolo Intaneti, moyo Resources.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kundidalira kuyesa dancefloor mu gawo limodzi kapena zokambirana zenizeni, Ine ndidzakhala osangalala kuti apite.

Ndikuyembekeza inu mukufuna.

Xavier

Ndili ndi mwayi wophunzitsa limodzi ndi wotsogolera komanso mnzanga wa Focusing Isabel Gascon Kosi Yoyang'ana Yoyambira “Momwe mungamvere thupi lanu” (Level I). Mu msonkhano uwu tigwira ntchito mwachidziwitso pa njira yochezeka yofikira dziko lathu lonse lamkati kuchokera ku thupi.. Makhalidwe aulemu ndi chidwi pa zomwe timapeza zidzawonetsa njira yosiyana ya kukhalapo ndi mkati mwathu, komanso njira yomasuka yofikira zomwe ana amakumana nazo, ndi achinyamata. Zolinga za abambo ndi amayi komanso akatswiri muubwenzi wothandizira, tidzakumana kudzera muzochita zolimbitsa thupi kukhala ndi kulumikizana kowona ndi luntha lathu lomva m'thupi.

Tsiku: Lachisanu 20 Juni 2014, wa 17:30 a 21:30 ndi Saturday 21 Juni 2014 wa 10:00 a 14:00 ndi cha 16:00 a 20:00.

Malo: Thyme Foundation Open Center
C/ Serrano No. 136
Madrid

Zambiri ndikulembetsa pa Tsamba lawebusayiti la Open Center la Tomillo Foundation.

Maphunzirowa ndi ovomerezeka kuti mupeze Diploma mu Focusing kuchokera ku Spanish Focusing Institute accounting ngati 12 Level I maola.

[kulowa koyamba kwa 2 Juni 2014, kusinthidwa ku 21 Juni 2014, tsiku lomaliza maphunziro.]

Masiku angapo apitawo ndinayankhapo mu blog positi ndi Spiral Consulting for Children, komwe ndimagwira ntchito pazokambirana za mabanja ndi akatswiri omwe amagwira ntchito ndi ana, ndi achinyamata, kuti nthaŵi zina msonkhano wowongolera kulankhulana m’banja kapena m’kalasi umakhala wodzutsa chidwi, komanso pambali pa zidziwitso zomwe zapezedwa ndi zida zomwe adaphunzira, anthu ambiri amapempha zinthu zambiri zoti atsamirepo. Ndimakonda kupangira buku Adele Faber ndi Elaine Mazlish (ophunzitsa ndi amayi) ndi mutu wolimbikitsa Momwe mungalankhulire kuti ana anu azimvetsera ndi kumvetsera kuti ana anu azilankhula nanu, njira yolumikizirana ndi anyamata ndi atsikana omwe adawonekera 1980. Kwa zaka zambiri wakhala chizindikiro cha makolo abwino: kumvetsera mwachifundo ndi kutsimikizira pamene mukuika malire ndikufikira mapangano okhutiritsa kwa onse okhudzidwa.

Kulimbikitsidwa ndi zokambirana zomwe olemba onse awiri adachita, Bukuli limapangidwa motsatira zomwe zili m'munsimu: Mutu 1. Momwe mungathandizire ana kuthana ndi malingaliro awo. Mutu 2. Momwe mungalimbikitsire mgwirizano. Mutu 3. M'malo mwa chilango. Mutu 4. Momwe mungayambitsire kudzilamulira. Mutu 5. matamando. Mutu 6. Momwe mungapulumutsire typecasting. Mutu 7. Tiyeni tibwereze. Kuphatikiza Apo, m'magazini atsopano a 2013 kuchokera Mkonzi Medici kumaphatikizapo kuyang'ana mmbuyo kuchokera kwa olemba ku kuphunzira ndi zochitika pazaka zopitirira makumi atatu ndi mawu okhudza mtima a Joanna Faber, ndi zomwe adakumana nazo ngati mwana wamkazi wa wolemba Adele Faber komanso kukumana kwake ndi umayi wake.

Kuchokera pamalingaliro abwino amunthu komanso ubale wamunthu, lembalo lazikidwa pa zifukwa zoyambira ndi zitsanzo zambiri, zina zojambulidwa ndi ma vignettes omwe ali ngati moyo wokha, ndipo nthawi zonse amapereka malingaliro oti agwiritse ntchito ndi anyamata ndi atsikana omwe ali pafupi nafe. Ngakhale poyamba akukonzekera mabanja, Itha kugwiritsidwanso ntchito m'munda wamaphunziro ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu (ngakhale olembawo ali ndi mabuku ena enieni okhudza maphunziro).

Ndipo ngati ana anu aamuna ndi aakazi (kapena ophunzira omwe mumagwira nawo ntchito) iwo ndi akulu, mutha kuyang'ananso bukuli ndi olemba omwewo Momwe mungalankhulire kuti achinyamata azimvetsera komanso kumvetsera kuti achinyamata azilankhula nanu, kupereka malingaliro osiyanasiyana (zoyenera akadzakula) ndi malangizo othandiza nthawi zonse, zimenezo mwina zingakupangitseni kumwetulira.

Ndikufunirani kuwerenga kosangalatsa, komanso kuti mumakonda kufufuza njira zatsopano zolankhulirana.

Xavier

momwe ndimawerengera positi yabulogu ya Spiral Consulting for Children, amene ine ndiri chiwalo chake, pakati pa zigamulo za chaka chatsopano, kuchokera Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana tapangana kupanga zida zodziwikiratu zopewera komanso zothandizira pakukhudzidwa, chitetezo ndi kulankhulana pakati pa anthu zomwe tikugwiritsa ntchito kale ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndipo timalimbikitsa mabanja ndi akatswiri. Nthawi zina timalimbikitsa zida zomwe zasindikizidwa pang'ono m'Chisipanishi, kapena amene malemba awo amalozera ndi ovuta kuwapeza. Kenako tidzapereka zidziwitso zomwe tikuyembekeza kuti ziziwonetsa.

Si choncho Kuganizira, ndondomeko ndi njira ya thupi kuganizira, amene ali ndi mabuku ochuluka mu Spanish. Kuyikirapo ndi njira yopangidwa ndi Eugene Gendlin, filosofi wodziwa zambiri komanso psychotherapist waumunthu, kukulitsa mwachidwi luso logwirizana ndi malingaliro athu mwanjira ina. Zimaphatikizapo (kufotokozedwa m'mawu ochepa) pogwiritsira ntchito maumboni a zomverera za thupi kuti zigwire ntchito pamalingaliro ndi dziko lonse lamkati (zikhulupiriro, mauthenga amkati, maganizo obwerezabwereza…). Ndikudziwa kuti kufotokozedwa motere sikunena zambiri, ndi kuti Focusing ndi, kwenikweni, wodziwa zambiri, ndipo ndichifukwa chake zitha kumveka pokumana nazo. Inde ndithu, kamodzi anayesedwa, anthu ambiri amachizindikira kukhala chinthu chachilengedwe, chinachake kuti “zachitika kwa iwo nthawi ina”, ndipo ndi njira ya Focusing timaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito pamene tikufuna, ndipo kotero kuti sizidalira ife kukhala ndi chidwi chapadera kapena mphamvu.

Monga ndi njira zina zomwe ndikudziwa, Ndinayandikira Focusing mkati 2009 kuganiza za ntchito zomwe zingakhale nazo pochitapo kanthu ndi anyamata ndi atsikana, ndipo komabe ndidakopeka ndi kuthekera komwe zidandithandiza kuzindikira mwa ine monga munthu komanso ngati katswiri.. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa za mzere wa ntchito iyi, Ndakonza njira ziwiri zatsopano, “Kuyikirapo maganizo ndi maphunziro maganizo ana, ndi achinyamata” ndi “Kuyang'ana ndi kupewa nkhanza kwa ana, ndi achinyamata” (onse akuvomerezedwa ndi maphunziro a Focusing, popeza ndimadziwika kuti Mphunzitsi Wotsimikizika (Mphunzitsi Wotsimikizika) mwa The Focusing Institute ndi kwa iye Spanish Focusing Institute).

Chifukwa chake kukulitsa chidwi chanu ndikupangira buku labwino kwambiri lolemba Marta Stapert ndi Erik Verliefde Kuyang'ana ndi ana. Luso lolankhulana ndi ana ndi achinyamata kusukulu komanso kunyumba, lofalitsidwa ndi Mkonzi Desclée m'gulu la Ama, ndi kuyang'aniridwa kwa kope la Chisipanishi la Isabel Gascon ndi Lucia Emma, Ophunzitsa okhazikika komanso anzanga abwino. Yolembedwa ndi Marta Stapert, mwana psychotherapist ndi Focusing coordinator, y Erik Love, mphunzitsi, bukuli ndi chiyambi chachikulu cha Kuganizira akuluakulu, pamene mukupereka ntchito za manja ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi kwa anthu omwe ali ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata pafupi, osati akatswiri okha m'magawo achire ndi maphunziro, komanso kwa mabanja. Makolo amene analiŵerenga aona kuti n’njothandiza kwambiri, ngakhale pali masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe mwachiwonekere amapita patsogolo kwambiri m'malo ochizira.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda (Mutha yang'anani zina mwazomwe zili patsamba la osindikiza).

Xavier

Chiyambi cha chaka ndi nthawi ya zolinga zabwino, za projekiti zatsopano ndi zongopeka zatsopano. Zoyambira zonsezi zidzafuna masitepe, mwina masitepe ang'onoang'ono kwambiri poyamba. Kanemayu akuwonetsa lingaliro losintha dziko lapansi ndi manja.

Pali nthawi zosuntha zazikulu, kwa kusintha kwakukulu, kwa zilonda zazikulu.

Ndipo palinso nthawi zosintha pang'ono, zosintha mwatsatanetsatane, za “chitani zomwezo koma mwanjira ina”.

Nkhani ya kanemayu ndikuti bungwe la Czech Crossroads Olomouc ikonzanso zotsatsa zingapo Liberty Mutual, kampani ya inshuwaransi yomwe yakhala ikuchita zotsatsa zotsatsira kwazaka zambiri kuti ilimbikitse udindo wa nzika. Mukusintha uku timatenga zing'onozing'ono zomwe titha kuchita tsiku lililonse kuti dziko lapansi likhale labwinoko, mosasamala kanthu za malo amalingaliro kapena amtundu uliwonse. Ndipo podziwa kuti sitingalandire kuchokera kwa anthu omwe timawathandiza (ngakhale kuyanjana ndikofunikira pa ubale wofunikira), monga muvidiyo, koma zochita zathu zimatha kulimbikitsa anthu ena, ndipo sitingathe kudziwa zipatso zake.

Ine ndikukhumba inu ndi wokondwa 2014, ndi chidziwitso komanso zopereka zazikulu kudziko lapansi.

Xavier