momwe ndimawerengera positi yabulogu ya Spiral Consulting for Children, amene ine ndiri chiwalo chake, pakati pa zigamulo za chaka chatsopano, kuchokera Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana tapangana kupanga zida zodziwikiratu zopewera komanso zothandizira pakukhudzidwa, chitetezo ndi kulankhulana pakati pa anthu zomwe tikugwiritsa ntchito kale ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndipo timalimbikitsa mabanja ndi akatswiri. Nthawi zina timalimbikitsa zida zomwe zasindikizidwa pang'ono m'Chisipanishi, kapena amene malemba awo amalozera ndi ovuta kuwapeza. Kenako tidzapereka zidziwitso zomwe tikuyembekeza kuti ziziwonetsa.

Si choncho Kuganizira, ndondomeko ndi njira ya thupi kuganizira, amene ali ndi mabuku ochuluka mu Spanish. Kuyikirapo ndi njira yopangidwa ndi Eugene Gendlin, filosofi wodziwa zambiri komanso psychotherapist waumunthu, kukulitsa mwachidwi luso logwirizana ndi malingaliro athu mwanjira ina. Zimaphatikizapo (kufotokozedwa m'mawu ochepa) pogwiritsira ntchito maumboni a zomverera za thupi kuti zigwire ntchito pamalingaliro ndi dziko lonse lamkati (zikhulupiriro, mauthenga amkati, maganizo obwerezabwereza…). Ndikudziwa kuti kufotokozedwa motere sikunena zambiri, ndi kuti Focusing ndi, kwenikweni, wodziwa zambiri, ndipo ndichifukwa chake zitha kumveka pokumana nazo. Inde ndithu, kamodzi anayesedwa, anthu ambiri amachizindikira kukhala chinthu chachilengedwe, chinachake kuti “zachitika kwa iwo nthawi ina”, ndipo ndi njira ya Focusing timaphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito pamene tikufuna, ndipo kotero kuti sizidalira ife kukhala ndi chidwi chapadera kapena mphamvu.

Monga ndi njira zina zomwe ndikudziwa, Ndinayandikira Focusing mkati 2009 kuganiza za ntchito zomwe zingakhale nazo pochitapo kanthu ndi anyamata ndi atsikana, ndipo komabe ndidakopeka ndi kuthekera komwe zidandithandiza kuzindikira mwa ine monga munthu komanso ngati katswiri.. Ngati mukufuna kudziwa za mzere wa ntchito iyi, Ndakonza njira ziwiri zatsopano, “Kuyikirapo maganizo ndi maphunziro maganizo ana, ndi achinyamata” ndi “Kuyang'ana ndi kupewa nkhanza kwa ana, ndi achinyamata” (onse akuvomerezedwa ndi maphunziro a Focusing, popeza ndimadziwika kuti Mphunzitsi Wotsimikizika (Mphunzitsi Wotsimikizika) mwa The Focusing Institute ndi kwa iye Spanish Focusing Institute).

Chifukwa chake kukulitsa chidwi chanu ndikupangira buku labwino kwambiri lolemba Marta Stapert ndi Erik Verliefde Kuyang'ana ndi ana. Luso lolankhulana ndi ana ndi achinyamata kusukulu komanso kunyumba, lofalitsidwa ndi Mkonzi Desclée m'gulu la Ama, ndi kuyang'aniridwa kwa kope la Chisipanishi la Isabel Gascon ndi Lucia Emma, Ophunzitsa okhazikika komanso anzanga abwino. Yolembedwa ndi Marta Stapert, mwana psychotherapist ndi Focusing coordinator, y Erik Love, mphunzitsi, bukuli ndi chiyambi chachikulu cha Kuganizira akuluakulu, pamene mukupereka ntchito za manja ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi kwa anthu omwe ali ndi ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata pafupi, osati akatswiri okha m'magawo achire ndi maphunziro, komanso kwa mabanja. Makolo amene analiŵerenga aona kuti n’njothandiza kwambiri, ngakhale pali masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe mwachiwonekere amapita patsogolo kwambiri m'malo ochizira.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda (Mutha yang'anani zina mwazomwe zili patsamba la osindikiza).

Xavier