Ndi chisangalalo chachikulu ndikugawana nkhaniyi yomwe mwasindikiza The Focusing Institute (New York-based International Focusing Institute) mu volume 25 zogwirizana ndi 2014 wa The Folio. Journal for Focusing and Experiential Therapy, magazini yake yovomerezeka yamaphunziro. Anawonekera mu pepala Baibulo pa chiyambi cha 2014, nkhani yanga “Kuwoloka Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Kulingalira zozama zakuya“ yangosindikizidwa mu Chingerezi mwaulere komanso yotseguka mu PDF patsamba lovomerezeka la The Folio.

Koperani nkhani yoyambirira mu Chingerezi, “Kuwoloka Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication. Kulingalira zozama zakuya”.

Tsitsani mtundu wa Chisipanishi wa nkhaniyi “Momwe mungaphatikizire Kulumikizana Kwambiri ndi Kusagwirizana. Lingalirani zozama zakuya”.

[Kusintha kwa 9 February 2017] Tsitsani mtundu wa Chijapani wa nkhaniyi “Kuphatikizika kwa Kuyikira Kwambiri ndi Kuyankhulana Kopanda Chiwawa-Kubwerera ku Zozama Zozama” ndi kuwona mbiri ya kumasulira kwake.

Ndipo ndikusiyiraninso chidule choyambirira:

PITILIZANI

Onse kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication (CNV) Zimachokera ku lingaliro lakuti anthu amapeza zidziwitso ndi kuti njira zathu zimapitirizidwa patsogolo pamene mawu athu ena awonetsedwa kwa ife.. Kusinkhasinkha kumakulitsa kulumikizana kwa munthu ndi iyeyo komanso ndi aliyense amene amamutsatira. Ndipo kuwonetserako kumakhala ndi tanthauzo lakuya pamene mbali zobisika zimatseguka kumoyo wawo ndipo zimadziwika bwino..

Komabe, Kuyang'ana ndi Nonviolent Communication kutsindika kuwonetsera mbali zosiyanasiyana za kulankhulana koyambirira. Kuyang'ana kumatsatira anamva mphamvu m'thupi ngati njira yatsopano yopangira tanthauzo latsopano. The Nonviolent Communication yesetsani kupeza zosowa chikhalidwe cha anthu chomwe chimatsogolera zochita za munthu aliyense. Kuyang'ana ndi Nonviolent Communication zaphatikizidwa (kuwoloka) m'njira zosiyanasiyana (Ndemanga yachidule ya zosakaniza zina ikufufuzidwa m'nkhaniyi). Kuyang'ana kungathe kulemeretsedwa mwa kuyambitsa kuzindikira kwatsopano kwa zosowa, makamaka mu Funsani sitepe. Ndipo the Nonviolent Communication zingawonjezeke ndi kukhudzika kwatsopano kwa mawu oyamba a munthuyo—osati kungoyesa “kumasulira” chirichonse, komanso kuyamikira chinenero chachizolowezi monga mafanizo.

Pamene njira zonsezi zikuphatikizidwa komanso pamene womvera ngati mnzake kapena wothandizira amasonyeza mbali zonse za chidziwitso., munthuyo amapeza zotsatira zoyenera pamene zozama zakuya zikuwonekera.

Mawu osakira: Kuganizira, Nonviolent Communication (NVC) / Nonviolent Communication (CNV), Chifundo, Lingalirani, Kuwoloka/Cross/Gwirizanitsani.

Kwa olankhula Chingerezi, pitani ku positi iyi mu Chingerezi.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mwaikonda ndipo ndidzakhala wokondwa kuwerenga ndemanga zanu,

Xavier

kukweza ku 26 September 2014:

Ndakhala ndi mwayi kuti nkhani yanga ya Chisipanishi imapezeka mu Tsamba la Spanish la Focusing Institute of New York (The Focusing Institute). Zikomo kwambiri! Zikomo kwambiri!

kukweza ku 9 February 2017:

Ndikuthokoza kwambiri chifukwa cha kumasulira kwachi Japan kwa Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) ndi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa). Zikomo kwambiri! Aquí está la mbiri ya kumasulira kwake.