Sabata yatha bukuli linaperekedwa mwalamulo kuwona chitetezo. Mfungulo zomvetsetsa nkhanza kwa ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ndi kukhazikitsa njira zodzitetezera, kuti tafotokoza bwino mnzanga Peppa Oven ndi yo kuchokera Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana za UNICEF ku Spain. Monga mwachizolowezi ndi zolemba zanga, gawo la kulowa pamanja kuwona chitetezo pa blog imeneyo ndi kuwonjezera pa zina zofunika apa.

Bukuli lili ndi zinthu zitatu zofunika kugawana pano.

Choyamba, mozama systematizes mfundo zofunika kumvetsa zachiwawa. Anthu ambiri omwe akulandira chithandizo ayenera kumvetsetsa zomwe zawachitikira komanso momwe angachitire, ndipo ngakhale nthawi zambiri njira yotsatsira ndi yokwanira, nthawi zina amandifunsa kuti ndipitirize kukula. Ndi pamanja, ngakhale ndi luso ndipo umalimbana akatswiri amene ntchito ndi ana, ndi achinyamata, amathanso kutumikira anthu omwe ali ndi ntchito zokwanira zochizira.

Tsidya, ndi kuwonjezera pa mzere umenewo, Bukuli ndi lothandizanso kwa akatswiri azamisala omwe akufuna kusintha chidziwitso ndi luso lawo. Ndi zochitika zomwe zaperekedwa m'mutu uliwonse titha kukulitsa chidwi chathu komanso kuthekera kwathu kotsatira njira zomwe zimakhudzana ndi ziwawa ndi zoopsa komanso machiritso.. Mbali yothandiza yapangidwa kuti ikulitse kuzindikira za kulowererapo kwathu.

Pomaliza, ndikofunikira kukumbukira kufunikira kwa kukula kwa thupi mu chiwawa ndi zotsatira zake (makamaka mu zoopsa ndi kudzipatula) monga pakuchira. Buku lonseli lili ndi mawonekedwe a thupi, ndipo makamaka imagwira ntchito pakumverera kwabwino komwe kumayesa kumanga m'malo omwe ali Malo Otetezedwa ndi Otetezedwa.

Bukuli kuwona chitetezo Mutha kutsitsa kwaulere patsamba la UNICEF la Spain.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti zotsatira za chidwi, ndipo ndimakonda kudziwa momwe mukulandirira.

F. Javier Romeo

mwa nthawi zonse, Mu blog iyi ndikugawana zinthu zomwe zimadutsana ndi ntchito yanga Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana ndi zokonda zaumwini ndi zaukadaulo. Pachifukwa ichi ndili ndi chikhutiro chogawana bukhuli mawu kusintha. Njira kalozera wofunsira ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata omwe ali m'nyumba zogona, zomwe timapanga Peppa Oven ndipo ndimayima UNICEF ku Spain.

Zinali zokhutiritsa kulandira bungweli kuti likonze ndondomekoyi polemba m'njira yotsika mtengo.. Imodzi mwa ntchito yathu potsagana ndi mabungwe aboma ndi azinsinsi achitetezo kuno ku Spain komanso m'maiko ena pakuwongolera kwawo ndikuwonetsetsa omwe akupikisana nawo.: ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata omwe amakhala m'malo otetezedwa. Ndipo iwo ali akatswiri pa miyoyo yawo, ndipo nthawi zambiri mabungwe amaiwala kuwafunsa, mwatsoka.

Ndicho chifukwa chake ndi chisangalalo chachikulu kuti UNICEF ku Spain, mkati mwa ntchito yake yolimbikitsa kutenga nawo mbali kwa ana ndi achinyamata, watipempha kuti tifotokoze njira yosavuta yofunsira ana amenewa, ndi achinyamata. Timakambirana zambiri za izo mu blog ya Spiral Consulting for Children.

Mkati mwake muli kalozera waukadaulo komanso wothandiza, Kwa ine, mawonekedwe a kulankhulana pakati pa anthu: tingalankhule bwanji akulu, momwe tingapangire malo oyenera komanso momwe tingamvetsere ana, ndi achinyamata. Mawu omwe timagwiritsa ntchito amatha kuyambitsa kulankhulana kapena kutseka, Ndicho chifukwa chake njira zomwe timapereka ndizomveka bwino.: ulemu, kuphatikizidwa ndi protagonism ya ana okha, ndi achinyamata.

Ndipo talimbikiranso kusinthasintha ndi kusintha kwa ana onse, ndi achinyamata, kupereka malangizo othandizira kulowererapo kwa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya magwiridwe antchito, kusiyana kwa chikhalidwe (makamaka ndi anyamata ndi atsikana osatsagana nawo) ndi omwe ali ndi vuto la thanzi komanso zoopsa. Mawu awo, monga tikunenera mutuwo, wamva bwino, akhoza kusintha moyo wawo kukhala wabwino.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda komanso kuti mukuipeza yosangalatsa.

F. Javier Romeo

Chimodzi mwa ntchito zanga monga katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi mnzanga pazochitika zaumwini ndi za bungwe ndizopeza njira zolankhulirana mauthenga ovuta kupyolera mu mafanizo ndi mafananidwe.. M'malo mwake “Kukonzanso kuchokera mkati”, zomwe ndapereka kale mu post ina iyi, tidapereka zovuta zingapo ndi malingaliro owongolera chitetezo cha ana, atsikana ndi achinyamata ku Spain (Ndipo mu dziko lonse).

Mwezi uno ndagwirizana ndi nkhaniyi “Timatsagana ndi munthu amene tili”, yomwe imagwiritsa ntchito mafananidwe pakati pa zomwe tikuchita polimbana ndi mliriwu komanso zomwe tikuyenera kuzisamalira poyenda ndi ana., atsikana ndi achinyamata amene avutika kwambiri. Ndi njira yodziwitsa anthu momwe timakhalira komanso momwe timachitira, zonse payekha komanso mwaukadaulo.

Ndipo inu mudzaziwona izo, mwa nthawi zonse, Ndikuumirira kufunika kwa maphunziro mu zoopsa ndi kukumbukira mtengo wa Kuganizira, Ndimaona kuti ndi chida chothandiza kwambiri tsiku ndi tsiku..

Ndikufuna kudziwa zomwe mukuganiza komanso momwe mumakhalira.

F. Javier Romeo

Monga katswiri wa zamaganizo ndimagawaniza nthawi yanga yaukatswiri pakati pa zochitika zachipatala zotsagana ndi anthu m'njira zawo zochiritsira ku Madrid ndikulangiza ndi kuphunzitsa mabungwe okhudzana ndi chitetezo cha ana., atsikana ndi achinyamata ochokera ku Spirals Childhood Consulting. Ndicho chifukwa chake ndizosangalatsa kuti ndipereke bukuli Pamodzi ndi mabala a moyo. Zovuta muubwana ndiunyamata, zomwe ndakonzekera ku Ofesi Yachigawo ya Midzi ya Ana ya SOS ku Latin America ndi ku Caribbean.

Kuti mudziwe zambiri pa positi iyi, zomwe zili mkati mwake komanso ubale ndi zofalitsa zina zoteteza ana, mukhoza kuwerenga izi CI Spirals blog positi.

Mabaibulo awiri a chikalatacho:

• Pamodzi ndi mabala a moyo. Zovuta muubwana ndiunyamata, ku tsamba losavuta (omasuka kusindikiza pa chosindikizira komanso kuwerenga pa foni yam'manja kapena piritsi).
• Pamodzi ndi mabala a moyo. Zovuta muubwana ndiunyamata, tsamba lawiri (kuti muwone pazenera lalikulu kapena kusindikiza).

Mu blog iyi ndiyenera kuwonjezera kuti kufotokozera za zoopsa monga ndondomeko zimachokera chitsanzo cha ndondomeko (A Process Model) ndi Eugene Gendlin, ndi mafotokozedwe a ma block omwe ndimawadziwa kuchokera kwa ophunzitsa ndi Focusing Coordinators Ann Weiser Cornell ndi Barbara McGavin. Mawu omwe amachokera kuzinthu zina angapezeke pamasamba 16-20 wa malemba.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti muwapeza kukhala othandiza.

F. Javier Romeo

Kudziwitsa anthu za thupi ngati malo otetezedwa ku nkhanza ndi chimodzi mwazofunikira zanga zaukadaulo.. mu msonkhano uno, “Kuganizira, thupi ndi chitetezo: Kuganizira kuti kupewa chiwawa” Ndimaphatikiza ntchito yanga yopitilira zaka khumi zoperekedwa kuchitetezo cha ana ku mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya nkhanza (zaka zisanu ndi zitatu zapitazi Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana) ndi luso luso la Kuganizira, Zandithandiza kwambiri pamlingo waumwini komanso waukadaulo..

Kuyang'ana kungatipatse njira yatsopano yopangira chitetezo m'miyoyo yathu kudzera m'thupi. Tonsefe timafuna kuchitiridwa zabwino., ndi ulemu ndi kulingalira. Komabe, timawona ziwawa pamagawo ake osiyanasiyana nthawi zambiri. Ngati timakumananso ndi ana, ndi achinyamata, ponse paŵiri m’mabanja athu ndi kuntchito kwathu, timawona zochitika zambiri zachiwawa ndipo timadabwa momwe tingapewere. Cholinga cha msonkhanowu ndi kugwira ntchito mwachidziwitso pa lingaliro lachiwawa lomwe limagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi thupi.. Mwanjira imeneyi tidzatha kuzindikira chiwawa kuchokera m'thupi lathu pomwe panthawi imodzimodziyo tidzatha kuchita zinthu momveka bwino komanso zotetezera m'moyo wathu komanso m'ntchito yathu..

Msonkhanowu ndi cholinga cha anthu omwe akufuna kudziwa bwino momwe angathanirane ndi nkhanza kuchokera pamalo otetezeka mkati mwa thupi, zonse payekha komanso mwaukadaulo (akatswiri okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu kuchokera ku psychology, psychotherapy, ntchito yothandiza anthu, maphunziro…). Palibe chidziwitso choyambirira cha Focusing chofunikira (ngakhale zidzakhala zothandiza). Msonkhanowu ndi wodziwika bwino wopezera Diploma Yoyang'anira Spanish Focusing Institute.

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Ndikukhulupirira kuti zotsatira za chidwi,

F. Javier Romeo

[kulowa koyamba kwa 16 October 2017, kusinthidwa ku 12 Novembala 2017, tsiku la maphunziro].

Mogwirizana ndi kupitiriza kukondwerera kusindikizidwa chaka chapitacho nkhani za Peppa Oven, mnzanga wabwino ndi mnzanga Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana (komwe timagwira ntchito pazamaphunziro okhudza ubwana), cholembera ichi chikukwaniritsa yapitayo, kutanthauza buku lake Chilankhulo cha mitengo. nkhani iyi, Wamatsenga wamalingaliro, yasindikizidwa ndi Mkonzi Fineo ndi mafanizo a Margarita Sada.

Pepa mwiniwake akufotokoza cholinga chake cha bukuli ndi mawu otsatirawa:

Wamatsenga wamalingaliro kulankhula za caresses, ndi momwe kusisita ndi kusisita kumagwirira ntchito pakudziletsa, kuti anyamata ndi atsikana aja omwe akulu amati asakhale chete, Iwo sangakhoze kuyika malingaliro awo mu dongosolo, kapena kuwakhazika mtima pansi kapena kuyang'ana kwambiri ... Kuti anyamata ndi atsikanawa akhale ndi "zamatsenga" kuti athe kukhazikitsa dongosolo mkati mwawo.. M'malingaliro omwe pansi pamtima palibe koma chipatso cha chidwi chake chodabwitsa.

Apa ndikuwonjezera kuti ndi nkhani yomwe ingasinthidwe bwino kuti iphunzitse Kuganizira kwa anyamata ndi atsikana pazifukwa izi:

• Amapereka malingaliro abwino ndi olandirira malingaliro, zomverera, kumverera, maganizo ndi zokumana nazo zomwe ana amakhala nazo (komanso kuti tili ndi akuluakulu): zomwe zili mkati mwathu zimakhala zomveka ngati tipereka njira yokwanira yomvera.
• Anyamata ndi atsikana amatha kuchita zinthu zowona kuti asamalire zomwe akumana nazo mkati, kotero kuti akhazikike mtima pansi (ndi, ngakhale sichinafotokozedwe m’nkhaniyi, komanso kufalitsa), ndipo ife amene tili nawo pafupi titha kuwatsagana nawo.
• Zochitika zamkati zimatsagana ndi zochitika zina zolimbitsa thupi. M'nkhaniyi, Pepa akupereka caresses kumadera omwe akukhudzidwa (mutu wa protagonist, pamenepa), koma fotokozani patsamba lomaliza, “Mawu kwa moyo wa akuluakulu”, kuti pakhoza kukhala njira zina zambiri, malinga ngati thupi likukhudzidwa.

Chifukwa chake ndikupangira bukuli ngati njira yowonetsera Kuyikira Kwambiri m'njira yabwino kwa ana..

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mudzazikonda monga momwe ndimachitira,

Xavier

Sabata ino ndakhala ndi mwayi wochita nawo masewerawa Ndi Congress of Emotional Education ya Navarra, opangidwa ndi Makolo Ophunzitsidwa. Yakhala msonkhano wokonzedwa ndi chidwi chachikulu, ndi chisamaliro chachikulu ndi mlingo wabwino wa kulimbika mtima. Ulaliki wanga unakhudza mwachindunji “Maphunziro okhudzidwa omwe amateteza ku nkhanza zogonana”, imodzi mwamitu yomwe ndimagwirako Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, amene ine ndiri membala woyambitsa. Koma pamapeto pake panali tebulo lozungulira lomwe linali ndi mafunso kwa gulu la okamba nkhani, zomwe timagawana ndi kuwongolera kwa Sonsoles Echevarren, Mtolankhani wa Diario de Navarra. Inali nthawi yosangalatsa kwambiri, ndipo ngakhale mafunso anayankhidwa kwa wokamba nkhani aliyense, pamapeto pake panali ambiri omwe ambiri adatenga nawo mbali. M’nkhaniyi panabuka funso lochititsa chidwi kwambiri, “Momwe mungamvere mwana yemwe akukana kuchoka paki?”. Mayankho ochititsa chidwi ndi ofunika anaperekedwa, ndipo ndinapereka chopereka changa: “Kumva 'inde'’ mu 'ayi'”.

Ine chotero kupulumutsa nkhani yanga mu blog Mvetserani kwa “Inde” mu izo “ayi”‘, yomwe idasindikizidwa mu nambala 52 (ya Januware ya 2011) Magazini Ngodya yathu ya 0-6, lofalitsidwa ndi ACCENT (pakadali pano sikupitilirabe kutulutsa manambala atsopano, ngakhale zilipo). M'nkhaniyi ndikufotokozera mozama zomwe ndidatsutsana nazo: Pamene munthu (ndipo mnyamata kapena mtsikana alinso munthu) dayisi “ayi”, akuti “Inde” ku zinthu zambiri, ndipo ngati timvera uthenga wonse, tidzatha kupanga mgwirizano wozama ndikupeza njira yokhutiritsa kwa maphwando onse. Nkhaniyi ikuyamba motere:

Ana, zaka ziwiri ndi theka, sakufuna kuvala malaya ake kuti atuluke panja. José, zaka zinayi, sakufuna kutsika panjira kupita kunyumba. Irene, wa zaka zisanu, safuna kukagona. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani safuna kucita zinthu zooneka ngati zoyenela kwa ife monga akulu??

Ndipo tidzatani kenako? Kodi tingagonje ndi kuwalola kuchita zimene akufuna?? Choncho timakhumudwa chifukwa sitikugwirizana ndi maphunziro awo., ndipo zimatipatsanso malingaliro osiya pambali zomwe ifenso tikufuna monga anthu. Kodi timawakakamiza kuchita zimene tikufuna?? Kotero ndife otsimikizika kukambirana ndi chikhalidwe choipa kwa nthawi yaitali., ndipo m’kupita kwa nthaŵi timawaphunzitsa kuti pamapeto pake chofunika ndicho kukhala ndi mphamvu kapena mphamvu, ndipo kukambirana kumeneko kumangogwira ntchito pamene muli ofooka. Muzochitika zanga zaumwini ndi zaukadaulo pali njira yachitatu, kutengera kulumikizana mwakuya muzochitika zonsezi. Ndipo luso limodzi lomwe timakulitsa m'misonkhano yomwe ndimathandizira ndikutha kumvetsera zomwe akunena “Inde” anyamata ndi atsikana athu akamati “ayi”.

Tsitsani nkhani yonse “mverani kwa “Inde” mu izo “ayi”‘

Ndikukhulupirira mukuwapeza osangalatsa.

Xavier

M'masiku otsiriza ano a Okutobala, nkhani ya imfa imabuka pafupipafupi m'miyoyo ya ana. Kuyambira pachikondwerero cha Tsiku la Akufa m'mabanja ena kupita ku zochitika zamitundu yosiyanasiyana za Halowini, zoona zake n’zakuti ndi nthawi imene ana amatha kufunsa mafunso okhudza imfa, ndipo ndi bwino kukhala ndi maganizo ndi malo oti mumvetsere ndi kuyankha.

Ndinalemba mkati 2011 nkhani yomwe ndimachira apa, “Anyamata ndi atsikana ndi imfa”, kukumbukira makiyi ena othandiza. M'nkhani, lofalitsidwa ndi magaziniyo Ngodya yathu ya 0-6 - ACCENT yoperekedwa ku Maphunziro a Ubwana Wachichepere, madera atatu ofunika akufufuzidwa:

• Lingaliro la imfa pa mibadwo yosiyana (pakati pa ziro ndi zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, Kodi mutu wa magaziniyi ndi wotani?).
• Malangizo ena ofunika kutsagana ndi ana asanamwalire.
• Kuwerenga kovomerezeka, ogawidwa m'magulu owerengera mabanja ndi akatswiri komanso nkhani zowerenga ndi ana.

Ndipo ndimayamba nkhaniyo ndikuyipanga ndi ndime iyi:

Kwa nthawi yaitali anthu ankaganiza kuti anyamata ndi atsikana samamva chisoni mpaka atakalamba. Komabe, kafukufuku m'munda wa attachment wasonyeza kuti amadutsa m'njira zamaliro kuyambira zaka zoyambirira, ngakhale kuti saziwonetsera mofanana ndi akuluakulu mpaka pambuyo pake. N’chifukwa chake m’pofunika kulankhula nawo za imfa (ndipo musawabise kuopa kuwaononga) zikachitika (kapena zidzachitika liti, pa nkhani ya matenda osachiritsika), kotero kuti amvetse 1) kuti munthuyo akuchokadi ndipo 2) kuti munthuyo sachoka mwakufuna kwake, komanso kuti athe kusanzika, popeza ngati malingalirowa sakumveka bwino ndipo palibe kutsanzikana, Matenda a pathological angawonekere. Ndipo ndicho chifukwa chake kuli kofunika kuti tidziŵe kumvetsera ndi kulabadira zimene zimachitika mkati mwawo imfa ikawonekera m’miyoyo yawo..
[mawu ngati: ROMEO BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Anyamata ndi atsikana ndi imfa" mu Ngodya yathu ya 0-6 - ACCENT, 60, 17-21.]

Pitirizani kuwerenga nkhaniyi…

Ndikukhulupirira kuti kusinkhasinkhaku kukuthandizani kuti muthe kutsagana ndi ana omwe akuzungulirani pankhaniyi.. Imfa ndi gawo losapeŵeka la moyo, ndipo bwino timaphatikiza, mochuluka adzakhala ndi moyo, anyamata ndi atsikana komanso ife.

Ndikufunirani chikumbutso ndi chikumbumtima,

Xavier

Sabata yatha ya 12 ndi 13 September 2015 Ndakhala ndi mwayi ndi chisangalalo kuyanjananso ndi Bridget Belgrave. Monga ndanena kale mu positi iyi, ndinakumana Bridget Belgrave Kale Gina Lawrie, Formadoras mbiri yabwino ndi Center kwa Communication Nonviolent (Center kwa Communication NonViolent, CNVC), mu 2009 ndipo kuyambira nthawi imeneyo tinayamba kugwira ntchito monga gulu kumasulira NVC Dance apansi ku Spanish. Matembenuzidwe athunthu pomalizira pake anawona kuwala kwa tsiku 2014, ndi mavidiyo ena owonetsera omwe angawoneke cholowa ichi ndapanga kuti amasulidwe. The Association for Nonviolent Communication wakonza magawo ophunzitsira angapo ku Madrid, Bilbao ndi Barcelona mu Seputembala 2015, ndipo kwa ine zakhala zokhutiritsa kugwiranso ntchito monga gulu ndi Bridget Belgrave kuthandiza ndi kumasulira kuchokera ku Chingerezi kupita ku Spanish ndi mosemphanitsa..

Pokonzekera msonkhanowu ndakhala ndikuwunika zonse zomwe ndili nazo kuchokera ku NVC Dance apansi ndi cha Bridget makamaka. Ndi kuyamikira zipangizo zonse, aliyense ndi chuma chake, pali imodzi yomwe ndimakondabe. Pamenepo, Bridget anandipempha kuti ndifotokoze masomphenya anga panthawi ina mu msonkhano, ndipo zandichitikira kuti ndiwonjezere malingaliro anga mu blog iyi.

Zomwe zikufunsidwazi zili m'Chingerezi chokha ndipo zilibe mawu am'munsi kapena zomasulira zomwe zilipo, koma ndikhulupirira kuti izi sizikufooketsa inu kusayandikira kwa iye. “Gwirizanani ndi Ulemu” (“Gwirizanani ndi ulemu”, kumasuliridwa kwenikweni m’Chisipanishi) ndi ma multimedia omwe amalemba ntchito yomwe Bridget Belgrave adachita 2004 con 21 achinyamata ndi achinyamata omwe ali ndi zaka zapakati pa khumi ndi zisanu ndi ziwiri. Ntchitoyi idapangidwa ngati njira yophunzitsira anyamata ndi atsikana omwe ali ndi mavuto azachuma Yofatsa Kulankhulana, mkati mwa dongosolo la msonkhano wokhudza kukhazikitsidwa kwa kayimbidwe ka mizinda, kwa masabata khumi.

chifukwa chiyani ndikupangira? Nachi chidule cha zifukwa zanga:

• DVD ndi kanema, wa 25 mphindi yaitali. Sungani mphindi zofunika za polojekitiyi, zolembedwa ndi alangizi atatuwo komanso ndi achinyamata omwe, ndi kukonzedwa mogwirizana ndi iwo. Pamenepo, monga zanenedwa m’ndime ina, kuyang'ana magawo am'mbuyomu kunathandiza aliyense kuzindikira bwino zomwe amaphunzira komanso makhalidwe omwe anali ogwirizana ndi zosowa za aliyense. Ndi chikalata chojambula chomwe chimakulolani kuti muyike nkhope (ndi mawu) ku zochitika zosiyanasiyana, ndikukulolani kuti muganizire momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito pazinthu zina.

• Vidiyoyi ikugwirizana ndi mbali yachiwiri ya bukuli, “Wotsogolera Mafilimu” (“Mtsogoleli wowonera kanema”), momwe zonse zomwe zimachitika zimakambidwa motsatizana: chilichonse, mmene kulankhulana kopanda chiwawa kumaphunzitsidwa, nthawi zoyeserera, mikangano yeniyeni yomwe imabwera… Mwanjira imeneyi, cholinga cha ntchito iliyonse ndi zovuta zomwe zinabuka ndi momwe anachitira zimamveka bwino..

• Ndipo gawo lachitatu la bukhuli likusonkhanitsa Pulogalamu yonse, masabata khumi ndi machitidwe ake onse mwatsatanetsatane ndi zipangizo zonse masanjidwe kuwonjezera (m'Chingerezi), kuphatikiza pakuphatikiza CD-ROM yokhala ndi fayilo yazinthu zilizonse mu PDF yokonzeka kusindikizidwa. Mwachiwonekere kanemayo samaphatikizapo zochitika zonse, kotero ndizothandiza kwambiri kuwona momwe ntchito ikupitira patsogolo pochita, ndi kuthekera kobwerezanso.

• Choonadi chokhala ndi kumasulira kwa zomwe Malo ovina yokha ku castellano, ndi mutu wa “ulemu kwa ine, ulemu kwa inu”, mkati mwa phukusi lathunthu la Dance Floors.
• Ndipo the chenjezo a Bridget Belgrave kuti asayese pulojekiti yamtunduwu popanda, kumbali imodzi, maphunziro olimba komanso chidziwitso cha Nonviolent Communication., ndipo kumbali ina gulu la maphunziro lomwe lili ndi maziko ena a NVC komanso odziwa kugwira ntchito ndi achinyamata. Ndachitapo zina mwazochita zolimbitsa thupi ndi achinyamata komanso achinyamata omwe ali pachiwopsezo ku Madrid ndipo zidakhala bwino., ndiye ndikupezeka.

Powombetsa mkota, zinthu zofunika kuziwona, wapamwamba, werenganinso ndikuyika muzochita. Ndipo mungagule chiyani sitolo Intaneti, moyo Resources.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kumveketsa bwino, Mutha kundiyimbira foni nambala yanga ndipo titha kukambirana chilichonse chomwe mungafune..

Ndikukhulupirira kuti posachedwa titha kukhala ndi ma projekiti ambiri amtunduwu pano!!

Xavier

“malinga ndi zomwe ndakumana nazo, kuchita Zopanda Zachiwawa Kulankhulana ndi ana aang'ono ndi nkhani ya zomwe zikuchitika mkati mwanga-momwe ndimalankhula ndekha za zomwe zikuchitika ndi ine ndi mwana wanga-kuposa kukambirana. Komabe, Ndikufunanso kuyika m'mawu momwe ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zikuchitika kwa tonsefe, mwina gawo la nthawi, ngakhale ndikuganiza kuti mwana wanga samamva chilankhulo, chifukwa zimandithandiza kulumikizana ndi malingaliro ndi zosowa za onse awiri. Kuti, nthawi yomweyo, zimandithandiza kukhazika mtima pansi ndikupeza njira zomwe zingagwire ntchito kwa tonsefe. Ndikufunanso kuyankhula mokweza chifukwa ndikuganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yophunzirira chilankhulo komanso kumvetsetsa.” (Inbal Chestnut, Kukhala makolo kuchokera pansi pamtima, tsamba 38)

Pamene anthu omwe atenga nawo gawo pamisonkhano yanga yolankhulirana ndi anthu ali ndi ana aamuna kapena aakazi omwe ali paubwana wawo kapena unyamata wawo., kapena kugwira ntchito ndi mibadwo imeneyo, kawirikawiri amawuka “Inde, njira iyi yolankhulirana ndi yabwino kwambiri pakati pa akuluakulu, koma tiyeni tiwone momwe ndingamuwuzire mwana wanga/mchemwali/wophunzira/mwana wamkazi…”. ngati muli ndi nthawi, timaphunzira kulankhulana ndi anyamata ndi atsikana mu maphunziro, ngakhale nthawi zambiri ndimatha kuwonetsa malingaliro ndi zofufuza zomwe zingatheke. Tsopano tili ndi chida chatsopano, zimene zimalola kuti kulankhulana m’banja kupitirire kumlingo wina. Sikungothetsa kusamvana (kutinso), koma kupanga mtundu wodalirika kwambiri wamalumikizidwe, zakuya ndi zamphamvu kwambiri, zimene zimakonzekeretsa ana kukhala olimba m’moyo.

Ndi chidwi ichi Inbal Kashtan analemba buku lake Kukhala makolo kuchokera pansi pamtima. Gawanani mphatso zachifundo, kugwirizana ndi kusankha, lofalitsidwa chaka chatha m'Chisipanishi ndi Editorial Acanto. Inbal Chestnut, mphunzitsi wa Yofatsa Kulankhulana ndi mayi wa mwana, adatsogolera kwa zaka ntchito ya Nonviolent Communication m'banja, makamaka kuchokera kwa abambo ndi amayi kupita kwa ana awo aamuna ndi aakazi. Inbal anamwalira mu September 2014, koma cholowa chake chikhalapobe Zithunzi za BayNVC (bungwe lomwe limafalitsa Nonviolent Communication kuchokera ku San Francisco Bay Area, California, amene anali woyambitsa nawo) ndi m’zolemba zake (pambali pa bukhu ili, Mukhoza kuwerenga zina mwa nkhani zake zokhudza kulankhulana m'banja mu Chingerezi pa Zithunzi za BayNVC). Cholembera chabuloguchi chimafunanso kukuthokozani komanso kupereka ulemu ku moyo wake ndi ntchito yake.

Ndikupangira bukuli kwa iwo omwe amayandikira kwa nthawi yoyamba Yofatsa Kulankhulana ndi kwa iwo amene akufuna kuzamitsa machitidwe awo ndi ana. Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda.

Xavier