Ulwazi mayelana ne-Roundtable on Crossing Focusing kanye Nokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (NVC) ihlelwe yi-International Focusing Institute ngeKomidi layo Lobulungu. Njengoba kuwumcimbi odlule ulwazi alusatholakali kuwebhusayithi ye-TIFI futhi luhlelwe ngokufanele.

Umbhalo ngeSpanishi – IsiJapane – Chofoza lapha ukuze ufunde ngesiNgisi

The I-International Focusing Conference eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi 2016 iqhubeka ithela izithelo.

Namuhla nginelungelo lokwethula ukuhunyushwa kwesihloko sami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile” (kuvele phakathi 2014 e The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy) ku-japanese, ngesihloko esiyela ngasocansini “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Kumithelela Ejulile-“.

Con Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

E-Cambridge ngathola injabulo yokuhlangana noMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), i-psychotherapist enokuqeqeshwa ku-Focusing owayeqale ukuhunyushwa kwesihloko esikhathini esidlule, futhi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Umdidiyeli Wokugxila owaziwayo, ojoyine iphrojekthi yokuhumusha esigabeni sayo sokugcina. Izingxoxo zethu zalowo mhlangano zenze umsebenzi waqhubekela phambili, futhi manje kukhona lokhu kuhumusha ngokucophelela okutholakala kuwebhusayithi ye Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), futhi engikhiqiza lapha ngemvume yakhe.

Kusukela lapha ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​okujulile ngomzamo nokuzinikela kwabo (kube nama-imeyili amaningi emuva naphambili ukuze acacise imiqondo nemigomo) ukuze lesi sici sokuGxila saziwe phakathi kodokotela nochwepheshe abaningi be-Focusing in Japan..

ekubongeni okujulileyo,

Javier

IsiJapane

Ingqungquthela ye-27th International Focusing Conference eCambridge (UK)amazinyo、Ukuletha imiphumela enothile。

manje、I、iphepha"Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Emithelela Ejulile-"("Ijenali Yezemfundo Yokugxila Nokuthola Inqubo Yokwelapha"The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential TherapyUmqulu 25, No. 1、2014Ngihlonishwa ngokuthi (ishicilelwe ngonyaka) yahunyushelwa olimini lwesiJapane.。

UMnu. Kawahara

E-Cambridge、Umeluleki u-En Kawahara oqeqeshelwa i-Focusing、Ngibe nokuhlangana okujabulisayo noNkz. Mako Hikasa, Umdidiyeli Wokugxila Oqinisekisiwe owaziwa kakhulu.。Ngoba、UMnu. Kawahara usevele esebenza kulokhu kuhumusha、Futhi esigabeni sokugcina sephrojekthi、Mako HikasaUjoyinile。Ngemva kwengqungquthela yamazwe ngamazwe、Sihlala sithintana ukuze siqedele ukuhumusha、Futhi manje、Ukuhunyushwa okuqondile kwesi-Japanese kuqediwe。lokhu、Iwebhusayithi yeJapan Focusing AssociationUngafunda ku。Kusuka kunhlangano、Ngithole imvume yokuthumela isixhumanisi。

Nginentshisekelo kwintshisekelo yabo kanye nomdlandla、Ngibonga ngokujulile。Ukucacisa imiqondo nama-nuances、Ukuhwebelana kwama-imeyili njalo。Kubaqeqeshi nabasebenzi abaningi Abagxilile abagunyaziwe e-Japan、Ngoba kuyithuba lokwazi lesi sici se-Focusing.。

Ngokubonga

Javier

Umbhalo wesiNgisi

I-International Focusing Conference 2016 eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ilokhu iletha izithelo ezengeziwe.

Manje nginelungelo lokwethula isihloko sami “Ukugxila Okuwela kanye Nokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame: Ukucabangela Imithelela Ejulile”, okwavela ku The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy phakathi 2014, ihunyushwe ngesiJapane ngesihloko “Ukuphambana Kwezokuxhumana Okugxilile Nokungenalo Udlame-Buyela Kumithelela Ejulile-“.

With Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen).

E-Cambridge ngathola injabulo yokuhlangana noMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen), isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esiqeqeshwe ku-Focusing owayesevele waqala ukuhumusha esikhathini esithile esidlule, futhi Mako Hikasa (Mako Hikasa), Umxhumanisi Wokugxila owaziwayo ojoyine iphrojekthi ezigabeni zayo zokugcina. Izingxoxo esibe nazo ngemuva kwalokho ziphothule umsebenzi, futhi manje sinalokhu kuhumusha okunembayo, etholakala kuwebhusayithi ye Japan Focusing Association (Japan Focusing Association), kukhiqizwa lapha ngemvume.

Ngifuna ukuzwakalisa ukubonga kwami ​​okukhulu ngentshisekelo yabo nokuzikhandla kwabo –kube nama-imeyili amaningi ukuze acacise imibono nama-nuances– ukwenza kwenzeke ukuthi lesi sici sokuGxila saziwe phakathi kochwepheshe abaningi Abagxilile kanye nabasebenzi baseJapan.

Ekubongeni,

Javier

I-ANSEMBOURG, Thomas. Yekani nice; Yiba eyiqiniso! edition wafanekisa. I-courier yokulethwa, 2015.

Thomas d'Ansembourg Kuyireferensi yamazwe ngamazwe ku Ukuxhumana benamathele (kanye nereferensi yomuntu siqu kimi, kusukela ukuqeqeshwa kwami ​​​​ku-NVC kwaqala ngaye futhi kwajula ngokuphelezelwa kwakhe). Manje uhlanganyela ukuqonda kwakhe okujulile kwemvelo yomuntu kanye nombono wakhe onozwela wokungqubuzana enguqulweni enezithombe ngokugcwele. (empeleni ngefomethi yamahlaya) yencwadi yakhe yokuqala, Yekani nice; Yiba eyiqiniso!, umthengisi kanye nensiza engashi yokucabanga.

kule ncwadi encane, ngemifanekiso yakhe U-Alexis Nouailhat, elula kangaka futhi esikisela, UThomas d'Ansembourg uxoxa indaba yakhe siqu (Isahluko 1, “Ubani lomfana?”), ihlaziya ngokuhlekisa nangokucacile ezinye zezinkinga eziyisisekelo esibhekana nazo njengabantu (Isahluko 2, “Ingabe ufuna ukuphuma izingibe?”) futhi uhlongoza “Eminye imibono ye-Nonviolent Communication” (Isahluko 3) ukuqala ukuguqula ukwazi kwethu (futhi ngalokho siguqule ubudlelwano bethu kanye nempilo yethu), futhi uvale ngempumelelo “Iziphetho”.

Ngamahlaya kanye nokulula okusobala, le ncwadi isisiza ukuba sinake ekuphileni kwethu, ngobukhona obukhulu namandla okuguqula. Kuyinjabulo ukushicilelwa koHlelo lweMensajero, futhi kungenzeka bona isampula yethebula lokuqukethwe neminye imifanekiso kuwebhusayithi yabo.

Ngithemba Wawujabulela kakhulu ngendlela mina.

Javier

Omunye unyaka, Kuyinjabulo nodumo kimina ukuthi ngiphinde ngibambe iqhaza kulo mdlalo V Umhlangano Wabasebenzi Bezokuxhumana Abangenalo Udlame ihlelwe yi- Association for Communication benamathele, ukugqugquzela umhlangano wami wokucobelelana ngolwazi kulo nyaka “Ukuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame Nokugxila. Ubukhulu bomzimba bezidingo”.

Amadethi omcimbi aphelele: NgoLwesihlanu 11 kuze kube yiSonto 13 Mashi 2016.

Indawo: Ihhostela laseSan Servando
I-Cuesta de San Servando s/n
I-Toledo

Ukuze ufunde ulwazi oluphelele, cela ukucaciselwa kanye nerejista, Iya ku iwebhusayithi ethize yomcimbi.

Ukuze ufunde kancane mayelana nezisekelo zetiyori zalokho esizosebenza kukho, kusukela uMarshall Rosenberg ngokwakhe wayeyingxenye yenqubo ye Ukugxilisa kwezinye izikhathi zokulalela futhi wakuncoma, Ungakwazi uthintane sihloko yami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele. Ake ucabange lezinyathelo ezijulile”, eshicilelwe ngenombolo ye 2014 of The Ikhasi. A Journal for Ukugxila kanye Experiential Therapy, ijenali yezemfundo esemthethweni ye The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute).

Ngethemba ukuthi singahlangana khona.

Javier

[Entry Original 1 Mashi 2016, olusha 13 Mashi 2016, idethi yokuphela komcimbi].

Ngiyathanda ukuncoma imisebenzi ehloselwe umphakathi jikelele ukuqeqeshwa emikhakheni esondelene futhi ejulile Ukugxilisa futhi Ukuxhumana benamathele. Le trilogy iwela kuleso sigaba..

“Human: the film” iyi-documentary esesimweni se-trilogy esibonisa izingcezu zezingxoxo ezenziwa nabantu abangaphezu kwezinkulungwane ezimbili (nakuba enguqulweni yokugcina kubonakala abantu abangaba ngamakhulu amabili) sikhuluma ngazo zonke izinto ezisenza sibe yikho “abantu”. Abantu babo bonke ubudala (nakuba zimbalwa kakhulu izingane ezivelayo, amantombazane kanye nentsha ngokulingana, kanye nezindaba ezinzima kakhulu zonke), yazo zonke izinhlobo, kusukela kuwo wonke amazwekazi. Kuyinto ephusile, ngqo kakhulu: akukho mibuzo evela kwababuza imibuzo, akukho ukukopishwa (konke ukungenelela kuvela nemibhalo engezansi, ukuze izwi lokuqala lizwakale), ngaphandle kwedatha yemvelaphi yomuntu ngamunye (kuphela kwezinye izimo lapho bekhuluma ngezwe labo, kodwa ezimweni eziningi ungakwazi kuphela ukuqagela izwekazi layo, ngaphandle uma imibhalo engezansi ivuliwe), engenasiphelo (zonke izingxoxo zenziwa ngesizinda esimnyama esifanayo, nakuba ngezinye izikhathi imisindo evela endaweni yethulwa). Ngabantu abalalele futhi babheke ikhamera ngenkathi abanye bekhuluma, futhi akukho okunye. futhi ngezikhathi ezithile, ukubukwa kwasemoyeni kwezindawo ezimangalisayo, izindawo zemvelo kanye nezindawo zabantu, ngomculo womhlaba (ezivusa amadlingozi ikakhulukazi uma zisetshenziswa ngaphandle kokuhlobana nesithombe: indawo yase-Afrika enomculo wase-Asia ocacile, isibonelo, okuphinde kugcizelele ukuba semhlabeni wonke komuntu).

Umthwebuli wezithombe kanye nomenzi wefilimu U-Yann Artus-Bertrand, waziwa ngomsebenzi wakhe omude wobungcweti evikela izizathu zemvelo nezenhlalo, iqale le trilogy emangalisayo, okuhloswe ngayo ukuba negalelo elilodwa kusithombe somuntu ngezilinganiso zawo ezihlukene. nezibani zayo, futhi futhi ngezithunzi ezibalulekile. Ukubukeka kwefilimu kuhlanganisa yonke into: kusukela kokuhle kakhulu kuya kokubi kakhulu, okukhululayo nalokho okugqilazayo, lokho okunikeza incazelo kanye nombhedo wempilo yamanje…

Kukhona uhlaka oluthile lwetimu, okungabalulwa njengomhlahlandlela:

“Human: the film (umthamo 1)”: uthando (ngezindlela zayo ezahlukene), umsebenzi nobumpofu. Okukhulu kusukela ngomzuzu wokuqala, ukucabanga ngalezi zici ezintathu zempilo yomuntu.

“Human: the film (umthamo 2)”: impi, I-Homophobia, ukufa kanye nobunzima bomndeni. Ibekwe ngokusobala kakhulu ekuvuneni isithunzi somuntu kuzo zonke izimo, nakuba kunzima ukukubona.

“Human: the film (umthamo 3)”: injabulo, Imfundo, ukukhubazeka, ubudlelwano nomhlaba, Inhloso yokuphila, ubulungisa kanye nesenzo somphakathi. Ukubheka izici ezithile ezidinga ukuma kwethu (okungcono kakhulu esintwini, siqonde ukukhethwa kwemiyalezo).

Kungumsebenzi okufanele ubonwe ngokuzola, ngezingcezu zemizuzu engamashumi amabili noma engamashumi amathathu, ukuyigaya ijule. Idala imibuzo eminingi futhi isimema ukuthi siyiphendule ngaphakathi. Ungakwazi futhi ukubona amazwibela amade abanye abantu, ezingakhethwa ngendikimba noma umlayezo wazo, futhi lokho kuhlanganisa abantu ngezinye izikhathi abangabonakali efilimini.

Futhi labo bethu ababuka imuvi ngayinye bangakhetha: Ngabe sizohlukanisa umuntu ngamunye ngokwesiqephu esivela kuso? Noma sizokwazi ukulalela ngokukhululekile, uzama ukumbona ngemizwa yakhe nezidingo zakhe, ngemizwa okufanele abe nayo empilweni yakhe ukuze akhulume kanjalo, ngobuntu bakhe kanye nemfihlakalo yakhe?

Ngiyakumema ukuthi ubukele amafilimu futhi uthole okwengeziwe mayelana nobuntu bethu esabelana ngaso, kanye nezomuntu ngamunye ikakhulukazi.

Javier

Kule mpelasonto ngaba udumo iqhaza I Congress ngokomzwelo Navarra Ezemfundo, ihlelwe abazali kwakheka. Kwakuthinta inkomfa ihlelwe ngesithakazelo esikhulu, ngokukhulu ukucophelela futhi umthamo esihle sesibindi. isethulo wami kwaba ezimayelana “imfundo affective ukuthi zivikela zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi”, omunye izindikimba ezisebenza kusukela Spiral Consulting Izingane, ka engiyakhayo ilungu owasungula. Kodwa ekugcineni kube khona ingxoxo panel ngemibuzo ngoba bonke abakhuluma, sase ukwabelana Luhlolokulinganisa Sonsoles Echevarren, intatheli kusukela Diario de Navarra. Bekusikhathi kakhulu, futhi nakuba imibuzo ayebhekiswe isikhulumi ngasinye, ekupheleni babebaningi lapho sihlanganyela eziningana. Kulo mongo kwaphakama umbuzo kakhulu, “Wenzenjani ulalele ingane owenqaba ukuhamba kwepaki?”. izimpendulo ezithakazelisayo futhi abalulekile banikwa, futhi mina baletha umnikelo wami: “Listening yebo’ ku 'cha'”.

Rescue kule blog ngoba sihloko yami 'Lalela “yebo” ku “kungekho”‘, okuyinto yanyatheliswa inombolo 52 (Januwari 2011) umagazini ekhoneni yethu 0-6, enyatheliswa Accent (Aqhubeke ayisekho ukukhulula izinombolo, nakuba isatholakala). Lesi senzakalo sihloko ngokunabile ukuthi Nga- ngibatshela bese: lapho umuntu (futhi umfana noma intombazane futhi umuntu) idayisi “kungekho”, Uthi “yebo” izinto eziningi, futhi uma silalela wonke umlayezo, Singenza uxhumano ezijulile sithole nesisombululo egculisayo zonke izinhlangothi. Isihloko iqala:

unina, iminyaka emibili nengxenye, Akathandi elingenamikhono wakhe ukuya ngaphandle. uJosé, iminyaka emine, Awufuni ukulahlekelwa jika ukuya ekhaya. Irene, iminyaka emihlanu, Akafuni ukuya ukulala. Kungani lezi zinto ukuthi njengoba abadala sesiqala kahle ezinengqondo?

Futhi yini okufanele uyenze ngokulandelayo? ¿Thina ukuhoxa abenze noma yini abayifunayo? Ngemva kwalokho siba ezimbi ngoba asisebenzi nemfundo, futhi lokho kusinika umuzwa kokushiya eceleni kulokho esingakufeza njengabantu abantu futhi ufuna. Ungathanda ukubaphoqa ukuba lokho esikufunayo? Khona-ke siye yibhange ingxoxo futhi imvelo ezimbi isikhathi eside, eside futhi sifundisa ukuthi ekugcineni into ebalulekile ukuba namandla noma amandla, nokuthi inkhulumomphendvulwano kusebenza kuphela uma ibuthakathaka. Ngolwazi lwami yemisindvo kukhona indlela yesithathu, esekelwe zokuxhumana ajulile kulezi zimo. Futhi elinye lamakhono ukuthi ithuthukiswe amashabhu mina lula yikhono ulalele lokho abakushoyo “yebo” izingane zethu uma bethi “kungekho”.

Download isihloko full “ulalele “yebo” ku “kungekho”‘

Ithemba kuthakazelisa.

Javier

the 4 September 2015 Ngigcina wathola ilungelo ukuba khona kudlalwé documentary “amantombazane entsha 24 amahora”, (@ chicasnuevas24h) iqondiswe nokubambisana ezivezwa Thuli Lozano (@LozanoMabel). kusukela Spiral Consulting Izingane, zazo ngingumuntu umlingani wokusungula kusukela 2009, Sisebenze ngokuvimbela, bangabonwa futhi ukungenela kuyinto zezingane, amantombazane kanye intsha ngenjongo yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi. Ngakho ngabhala lokhu ibhulogi lapho mina uchaze ukuthi kungani Ngikubheka njengelungelo documentary okuthusayo, ungakhululekile futhi kubalulekile.

WalkFree.org, inhlangano ekulweni zonke izinhlobo zobugqila zesimanje, lesi sithombe usethule namuhla ukuqwashisa 23 USepthemba sesidlala yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi.

Futhi ngaba nomuzwa wokuba asafuna ukukusho, ngandlela-thile. namuhla, 23 Septhemba, iyona “International Day Against Kwezingane ngokocansi neKushushumbiswa Yabesifazane, izingane” (le, kangcono wathi ezingeni lobuchwepheshe, “ngokumelene ukuxhashazwa ngokobulili nokushushumbiswa”). Ngakho manje kungenzeka ukuthi ube nosuku oluhle lokwenza amazwana yesibili.

Emasontweni alandela ukubona documentary wahlala naye umuzwa okhethekile. Ngangiya ngiba uyazi zonke amathuba anikezwa Ukugxilisa futhi Ukuxhumana benamathele ukusiza bonke abantu abaye ngovela ngenjongo yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi, ukuthi abesifazane noma amadoda, amantombazane noma abafana, noma izingane. Kusobala, ukukhanda yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi iyinkimbinkimbi futhi idinga imithombo ebanzi nomphakathi, futhi ngeensetjenziswa zokwelapha ngokushisa zenhlalo ezithinta ingqondo, Wena okufuna ukutholakala eliphezulu amathuluzi. Yini ngibapha lapha ingumfanekiso ethile iminikelo yalezi zinhlelo ezimbili Ngiyazi ukuthi ungubani, bangikhonze ukuba ahambe kwabantu abaye bahlupheka nohlobo oluthile lobudlova, udlame locansi ikakhulukazi.

the Ukugxilisa, okuyinto kuyinqubo okulalela uhlobo komzimba emizweni wazizwa, It iyithuluzi elinamandla kakhulu ngenxa umuntu oye wahlupheka yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi angaya recomposing ubuhlobo umzimba wakho. Lokho umzimba uye alimala kakhulu futhi ukuhlazeka kangaka ungaba izindlela ukuze babonise ukudabuka kwabo ukuthi ziyingozi, kokubili izimpendulo engacabanganga nesihluthu yabo kanye nobudlelwane asungula. the Ukugxilisa, ne wakhe “hamba igxathu negxathu, isigqi ukuthi umzimba ufuna ukukhombisa”, Kuvumela imizwa ukuthola indlela enempilo ukuze uziveze uhambe kancane kancane ephulukisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu angase uyalulama yakhe nakho umzimba “kusuka ngaphakathi”, kancane kancane ekunqobeni izithiyo futhi dissociations umzimba wakho wakha ukuze usinde. Ungafunda okuningi Ukugxila kanjani ukuqonda, nokubona ezinye Ukugxilisa okufakiwe ku ukuthi Ngiye posted kule blog.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, le Ukuxhumana benamathele Ngicabanga ithuluzi kakhulu enamandla umuntu ukuba alulame izwi. umuntu (umama noma ubaba, intombazane noma umfana), ngubani senqatshelwe ilungelo bagomela imibono yabo, ukunquma ngokuphila kwakhe, emizimbeni yabo futhi imizwelo yabo, Ungakwazi uthole ukusekelwa izinqubo ezimbili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Benamathele Ukuxhumana ungakwazi ukuhamba imodi ezixoxwa indaba yakhe yena, ukuze reformulate ukuphila kwakhe. Ngakho ungaya ukuthuthukisa Duels ezidingekayo, nokwenza izinqumo ngendlela bayazi futhi amandla. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Benamathele Ukukhulumisana nakho okuwusizo kakhulu lapho sisebenzelana nabanye, futhi zingaba umuntu ukuxhumana ngaphezulu evumelana futhi assertively, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo inhlonipho eyengeziwe nge uqobo kanye nabanye. Ngakho ungakwazi tiniketwe emandla reweave, nokuqaphela, inethiwekhi yayo uthando. Ungafunda ukwaziswa okwengeziwe mayelana ukuqonda kwami ​​Ukuxhumana benamathele kanti ezinye okufakiwe ku CNV lokhu ibhulogi.

Kuyinto inkumbulo yami bonke abantu abaphethwe yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi, futhi Nalabo abasebenzela ukungenzela kokukhululwa nokwelashwa.

Futhi ngeke sipho sami ukuba ahambe silungisa lezi izinqubo, kusukela ukwesekwa ngokwengqondo futhi ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe (e Madrid, okwamanje).

Ngethemba futhi ukuqaphela,

Javier

Kuleliviki leliphelile 12 futhi 13 September 2015 Ngiye ngajabulela ilungelo sajabulela ukusebenza futhi Bridget Belgrave. Njengoba ngishilo kule post, ngahlangana Bridget Belgrave futhi Gina Lawrie, Ukwakha Certified Center for Communication benamathele (Center for Communication benamathele, Nceku), e 2009 futhi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi saqala ukusebenza ndawonye ukuhumusha Dance Floors CNV the Castilian. ekugcineni izinguqulo Kuqediwe wabona ukukhanya 2014, nabathile ama engokomfanekiso ukuthi ingabonwa Ngenza lokhu entry for release. The Association for Communication benamathele Kuye ihlelwe uchungechunge zokuqeqesha in Madrid, Bilbao futhi Barcelona ngesikhathi September 2015, futhi mina-ke Bekulokhu kuyinjabulo enkulu ukusebenza futhi nge Bridget Belgrave yithimba ukuhumusha kusuka esiNgisini Castilia kanye noHezekeli.

Ekulungiseleleni workshop ngiye ngamukela isikhathi ukuze ubuyekeze zonke izinto nginoMoya Dance Floors CNV futhi Bridget ikakhulukazi. Nasekwaziseni zonke izinto, ngasinye umcebo walo, ukhona ofunayo namanje intandokazi yami. Eqinisweni, Bridget wangimemela ukuze ngibonisane nabo ngombono wami ngesikhathi esithile se-workshop, nami kwenzeka ukudlulisa isincomo sami futhi kule blog.

I embuzweni kuphela ngesiNgisi hhayi nayo imibhalo izinguqulo etholakalayo, kodwa ngithemba ukuthi alimelene asondele kuye. “Xhuma nge Inhlonipho” (“Xhuma ukuhlonipha”, ngokwezwi nezwi ehunyushwa ngokuthi zibe Castilia) is a impahla multimedia nokubhalisa iphrojekthi owenza Bridget Belgrave 2004 nge 21 intsha kanye nabantu abadala abasha nge Isilinganiso sobudala nesikhombisa. Iphrojekthi ehlongozwayo njengenhlangano kokungenela ukuqeqesha abafana namantombazane ezimweni nobunzima nomphakathi Ukuxhumana benamathele, ngaphakathi kohlaka workshop ukwakha isigqi ezisemadolobheni, kwaphela amasonto ayishumi anzima.

Kungani ukuncoma? Nasi isifinyezo izizathu zami:

• DVD ne ifilimu, of 25 iminithi. Ukuqoqa izikhathi ukhiye yephrojekthi, kokubili esalotshwa abaqeqeshi abathathu njengoba abantu abasha ngokwabo, futhi ukuhlelwa ngekubambisana nabo. Eqinisweni, njengoba atshela engxenyeni, yokuthi ufunde amaseshini odlule eyabasiza zonke bati ngaphezulu emfundvweni yabo ukuthola ukuziphatha adecuasen kangcono izidingo wonke umuntu. Kuyinto idokhumenti ingcaca evumela baba ubuso (nemisindo) nezimo ezihlukene, futhi sisivumela ukuthi ukucabanga ukuthi ungakusebenzisa kanjani kwezinye izingqikithi.

• Ividiyo kulekelelwa ne ngxenye yencwadi yesibili, “Umhlahlandlela Film” (“Qondisa befilimu”), lapho ukulandelana by ukulandelana okuxoxwe konke okwenzekayo: isimo ngasinye, wafundisa Ukuxhumana kanjani benamathele, izikhathi Practice, zezimpi yangempela ukuthi kuphakama… Lokhu kuzokwenza uqonde kangcono ngenjongo yomsebenzi ngamunye futhi kobunzima futhi kanjani they ayebhekiswe.

• Futhi okwesithathu incwadi equkethe uhlelo oluphelele, amasonto ayishumi nazo zonke izivivinyo zalo enemininingwane futhi zonke izinto futhi typeset (isiZulu), kanye zokuhlanganisa i-CD-ROM ifayela ye impahla ngayinye PDF ukulungele uzitholele. Ngokusobala ividiyo akusho ukuqoqa wonke umzimba, ngakho-ke kubalulekile kakhulu ukubona umsebenzi inchubekelembili emsebenzini, benethuba ukuzandisa.

• Ukutholakala ukuhunyushwa lokho Dance phansi uqobo ukuze Castilia, ngaphansi kwesihloko esithi “Ukuhlonipha Me, Ukuhlonipha You”, ngaphakathi ephelele iphakheji Dance Floor.
• Futhi isixwayiso Bridget Belgrave hhayi ukuzama iphrojekthi yale isitayela ngaphandle ngesandla esisodwa ingemuva eqinile kanye nesipiliyoni Ukuxhumana benamathele, kanti okwesibili i team zemfundo nabanye ngesisekelo CNV futhi enolwazi olukhulu ukusebenza izingane. Engizenzileyo ezinye zalezi umzimba nge intsha kanye intsha engozini e Madrid futhi kwahamba kahle, ngakho mina am etholakalayo.

kafushane, a impahla engabiza ababonayo, funda, uphindza afundze kanye nokuqalisa. Futhi ungakwazi ukuthenga esitolo inthanethi, Life Resources.

Futhi uma ufuna ukucaciseleka okwengeziwe, ungabiza kimi efonini yami contact futhi nixoxe okufunayo.

Ngithemba ukuthi ngokushesha sizoba amaphrojekthi ngaphezulu lolu hlobo lana!

Javier

I babe nodumo injabulo ukwesekwa ekuhumusheni ngesikhathi workshop olandelayo we Dance Floors CNV lapho kuhloswe ukuba ukungadluliseli Bridget Belgrave e Madrid, ukuhlela Association for Communication benamathele.

Ngahlangana Bridget Belgrave futhi Gina Lawrie, Ukwakha Certified Center for Communication benamathele (Center for Communication benamathele, Nceku), e 2009 futhi ngemva kwalokho siqala ukusebenza ndawonye ukuhumusha Dance Floors CNV the Castilian. Ukuhumusha ekugcineni wabona ukukhanya 2014, nabathile ama engokomfanekiso ukuthi ingabonwa Ngenza lokhu entry for release. Manje Association for Communication benamathele Kuye ihlelwe uchungechunge zokuqeqesha in Madrid, Bilbao futhi Barcelona ngesikhathi September 2015, futhi ngijabulela ukuba ngisebenze nazo Bridget Belgrave team nokusekelwa translation esusela esiNgisini esa olimini isiCastilian noHezekeli in the kwetinhlavu Madrid, esizogxila ngale ndaba “Ukukhuluma ngaphandle express noma ukuzwa basola noma ukugxekwa (Autoempatía Dance kanye Dance of the 13 izinyathelo for inkhulumomphendvulwano)”.

Izinsuku: Saturday 12 September 2015 of 10:00 a 14:00 futhi 16:00 a 20:00 nangeSonto 13 September 2015 of 10:00 a 14:00.

Indawo: Sala Neuronilla
C / Doctor Cortezo 17, 2º
Madrid

Ngini ulwazi Amanani (evamile kubantu Association amalungu kanye nokubhaliswa ekhethekile Isaphulelo off baze baqeda 5 September 2015), xhumana imininingwane nendlela of Bilbao kanye Barcelona kwi website ye Association for Communication benamathele.

[Entry Original 2 September 2015, olusha 13 September 2015, usuku kokuqeqeshwa.]

“Ngokusho umuzwa wami, Umkhuba wokusebenzelana benamathele Ukuxhumana abantwana ngaphezulu Kuxhomeke ekutheni yini okwenzekayo ngaphakathi kimi wokuHlinzekwa kanjani ngikhuluma ngokwami ​​ngalokho okwenzekayo nge mina kanye lendodana yami ukuxoxisana. Nokho, Futhi ngifuna ukubuchaza ngamazwi ukuqonda kwami ​​okwenzekayo kokubili, okungenani ingxenye isikhathi, ngisho uma ngicabanga ingane yami akaqondi ulimi, ngoba uyangisiza ukuxhumana imizwa nezidingo kokubili. ukuthi, ithuba, kusiza kwehlisa umoya wami futhi uthole amasu ukuthi ezingase ziphumelele kokubili. Futhi ngifuna ukukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo ngoba ngicabanga lokhu kuyindlela bafundze lulwimi kanye nekukwati kufundza nekubhala ngokomzwelo.” (Inbal Kashtan, Bezingosi ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ikhasi 38)

Lapho abantu abathintekayo ekuchumana workshop yami zokuxhumana babe namadodana noma amadodakazi enisezweni ebuntwaneni noma usakhula, noma basebenze ndawonye nalabo ubudala, ngokuvamile kuphakama “yebo, Lokhu indlela zokuxhumana kahle phakathi abadala, kodwa ukuze ubone ukuthi ngithi yami ingane / nomshana / umfundi / goddaughter…”. Uma isikhathi sivuma, thina zifundiseni bekhulumisana nezingane ekuqeqesheni, kodwa ngokuvamile Angikwazi kuphela kubonise iziphakamiso kungenzeka futhi ukuhlola. Thina manje sesinesisetshenziswa entsha, esikuvumela ukuxhumana nomndeni kwenye ezingeni. Lena akuyona kuphela yokuxazulula izingxabano (futhi), kodwa ukudala eyiqiniso ngaphezulu uhlobo loxhumano, ezijulile nonamandla, ukuthi ilungiselela izingane ezingaphezu resiliently ukuphila.

Nale ukuzwela Inbal Kashtan abhala ngaso incwadi yakhe Bezingosi ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Yaba izipho kobubele, uxhumano kanye nokuzikhethela, eshicilelwe ngonyaka odlule Castilian ngu Acanto Editorial. Inbal Kashtan, ukwakha Ukuxhumana benamathele futhi kumma, led iminyaka umsebenzi benamathele Ukuxhumana emkhayeni, ikakhulukazi nabazali maqondana nezingane zabo. Inbal eshona ngo-September 2014, kodwa igalelo lakhe uyaqhubeka baynvc (inhlangano disseminates benamathele Ukuxhumana kusukela San Francisco Bay, California, okuyinto azibonela yona omunye wabasunguli) nemibhalo (Ngaphezu le ncwadi, Ungafunda ezinye izihloko zakhe mayelana zokuxhumana umndeni ngesiNgisi baynvc). Le blog futhi noma ubani ofuna ukuba yokubonga wena intela ukuze asindise ukuphila kwakhe futhi umsebenzi.

I batusa le ncwadi kokubili labo abeza okokuqala Ukuxhumana benamathele futhi kulabo abafuna ukuba sijulise umkhuba wabo nezingane. Ithemba othanda ukuzenza.

Javier