the 4 September 2015 Ngigcina wathola ilungelo ukuba khona kudlalwé documentary “amantombazane entsha 24 amahora”, (@ chicasnuevas24h) iqondiswe nokubambisana ezivezwa Thuli Lozano (@LozanoMabel). kusukela Spiral Consulting Izingane, zazo ngingumuntu umlingani wokusungula kusukela 2009, Sisebenze ngokuvimbela, bangabonwa futhi ukungenela kuyinto zezingane, amantombazane kanye intsha ngenjongo yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi. Ngakho ngabhala lokhu ibhulogi lapho mina uchaze ukuthi kungani Ngikubheka njengelungelo documentary okuthusayo, ungakhululekile futhi kubalulekile.

WalkFree.org, inhlangano ekulweni zonke izinhlobo zobugqila zesimanje, lesi sithombe usethule namuhla ukuqwashisa 23 USepthemba sesidlala yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi.

Futhi ngaba nomuzwa wokuba asafuna ukukusho, ngandlela-thile. namuhla, 23 Septhemba, iyona “International Day Against Kwezingane ngokocansi neKushushumbiswa Yabesifazane, izingane” (le, kangcono wathi ezingeni lobuchwepheshe, “ngokumelene ukuxhashazwa ngokobulili nokushushumbiswa”). Ngakho manje kungenzeka ukuthi ube nosuku oluhle lokwenza amazwana yesibili.

Emasontweni alandela ukubona documentary wahlala naye umuzwa okhethekile. Ngangiya ngiba uyazi zonke amathuba anikezwa Ukugxilisa futhi Ukuxhumana benamathele ukusiza bonke abantu abaye ngovela ngenjongo yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi, ukuthi abesifazane noma amadoda, amantombazane noma abafana, noma izingane. Kusobala, ukukhanda yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi iyinkimbinkimbi futhi idinga imithombo ebanzi nomphakathi, futhi ngeensetjenziswa zokwelapha ngokushisa zenhlalo ezithinta ingqondo, Wena okufuna ukutholakala eliphezulu amathuluzi. Yini ngibapha lapha ingumfanekiso ethile iminikelo yalezi zinhlelo ezimbili Ngiyazi ukuthi ungubani, bangikhonze ukuba ahambe kwabantu abaye bahlupheka nohlobo oluthile lobudlova, udlame locansi ikakhulukazi.

the Ukugxilisa, okuyinto kuyinqubo okulalela uhlobo komzimba emizweni wazizwa, It iyithuluzi elinamandla kakhulu ngenxa umuntu oye wahlupheka yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi angaya recomposing ubuhlobo umzimba wakho. Lokho umzimba uye alimala kakhulu futhi ukuhlazeka kangaka ungaba izindlela ukuze babonise ukudabuka kwabo ukuthi ziyingozi, kokubili izimpendulo engacabanganga nesihluthu yabo kanye nobudlelwane asungula. the Ukugxilisa, ne wakhe “hamba igxathu negxathu, isigqi ukuthi umzimba ufuna ukukhombisa”, Kuvumela imizwa ukuthola indlela enempilo ukuze uziveze uhambe kancane kancane ephulukisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umuntu angase uyalulama yakhe nakho umzimba “kusuka ngaphakathi”, kancane kancane ekunqobeni izithiyo futhi dissociations umzimba wakho wakha ukuze usinde. Ungafunda okuningi Ukugxila kanjani ukuqonda, nokubona ezinye Ukugxilisa okufakiwe ku ukuthi Ngiye posted kule blog.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, le Ukuxhumana benamathele Ngicabanga ithuluzi kakhulu enamandla umuntu ukuba alulame izwi. umuntu (umama noma ubaba, intombazane noma umfana), ngubani senqatshelwe ilungelo bagomela imibono yabo, ukunquma ngokuphila kwakhe, emizimbeni yabo futhi imizwelo yabo, Ungakwazi uthole ukusekelwa izinqubo ezimbili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Benamathele Ukuxhumana ungakwazi ukuhamba imodi ezixoxwa indaba yakhe yena, ukuze reformulate ukuphila kwakhe. Ngakho ungaya ukuthuthukisa Duels ezidingekayo, nokwenza izinqumo ngendlela bayazi futhi amandla. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, Benamathele Ukukhulumisana nakho okuwusizo kakhulu lapho sisebenzelana nabanye, futhi zingaba umuntu ukuxhumana ngaphezulu evumelana futhi assertively, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo inhlonipho eyengeziwe nge uqobo kanye nabanye. Ngakho ungakwazi tiniketwe emandla reweave, nokuqaphela, inethiwekhi yayo uthando. Ungafunda ukwaziswa okwengeziwe mayelana ukuqonda kwami ​​Ukuxhumana benamathele kanti ezinye okufakiwe ku CNV lokhu ibhulogi.

Kuyinto inkumbulo yami bonke abantu abaphethwe yokuxhashazwa ngokocansi, futhi Nalabo abasebenzela ukungenzela kokukhululwa nokwelashwa.

Futhi ngeke sipho sami ukuba ahambe silungisa lezi izinqubo, kusukela ukwesekwa ngokwengqondo futhi ukuvala abacaphuni abangobe (e Madrid, okwamanje).

Ngethemba futhi ukuqaphela,

Javier