Kupitilira mu mzere wa kulowa m'mbuyomu, ndi wogwirizana naye kwambiri, ndikusankhidwa kukhala membala wa International Relations mkati mwa Board of Directors a Spanish Institute of Focusing, chinthu chinanso choyitanira kuchitapo kanthu chomwe chachokera kutenga nawo gawo pa International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) Julayi watha 2016.

monga ndemanga mu positi imeneyo, mu izo Spanish Focusing Institute ife tikumvetsa izo, komanso zochita za kuphunzitsa ndi kutsagana ndi Kuyikirapo maganizo makamaka payekha, aliyense ali ndi kalembedwe kake komanso kukhudzika kwake, komanso nthawi zonse mogwirizana ndi zomwe anthu amavomereza komanso luso, Komabe, zochita zonse za bungwe ndi kutenga nawo mbali ziyenera kuchokera kumagulu amagulu.

Ndichifukwa chake, pamene ndinaitanidwa kutenga nawo mbali mu Umembala wa Komiti ya International Institute of Focusing ku New York (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute), Ndinayika udindo umenewu m'manja mwa Spanish Institute of Focusing, kulandidwa ndi munthu aliyense ngati nthumwi yochokera ku Spain. Zingakhale zodabwitsidwa bwanji nditaitanidwa kuti ndikatenge nawo gawo lolumikizana ndi International Relations mkati mwa gulu la oyang'anira ndi kuvomereza udindo womwewo wapadziko lonse lapansi. Ndinavomera pempholo, njira zoyenera zomwe zaganiziridwa m'malamulo atengedwa ndipo posachedwapa ndasankhidwa kukhala membala.

Ndine wokondwa kwambiri kuti nditha kuthandiza nawo mgulu la Focusing ku Spain, kumene ndalandira zambiri. Kuyambira chiyambi cha maphunziro anga 2009, masiku a National, sukulu yachilimwe, kuyang'anira, Diploma ndi maudindo a Certified Trainer and Certified Focusing Counseling Psychotherapist ndi onse omwe amalumikizana nawo komanso kukula, Ine ndithudi kusinthidwa kukhala Focusing akatswiri (komanso ngati munthu).

Ndipo mu mndandanda wa zoyitanitsa kuchitapo kanthu (monga likunena Isabel Gascon, wotsogolera wanga, ndi “sitepe yachisanu ndi chiwiri” de Focusing: “Ndipo zonsezi zikukuitanani chiyani??”), Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti ndi nthawi yoti ndithandizire nawonso kuchokera paudindowu, bola ntchito yanga ndi yothandiza komanso yolimbikitsa. Ndizovuta kugwira nawo ntchito komanso potumikira anthu ambiri omwe ndimawadziwa, ndi chuma mkati mwake chimandiyika mumkhalidwe wodzichepetsa ndi kuphunzira.

Momwemonso kuchokera paudindo watsopanowu ndili pa ntchito yanu, tikuyembekeza kuti tithandizire ku chidziwitso chapadziko lonse cha chuma cha Focusing chomwe tikuchita pano, komanso kupereka malingaliro ndi malingaliro ochokera kumadera ena omwe amachokera ku chikhalidwe ichi cha ubale wapadziko lonse.

F. Javier Romeo

Monga ndafotokozera kale mu post ina, atenga nawo mbali mu International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (United Kingdom) Julayi watha 2016 zatanthauza mafungulo ambiri atsopano, njira zatsopano, njira zatsopano zophatikizira Kukhazikika m'moyo wanga ndikugawana nawo. chidziwitso, komanso kuyitanira kuchitapo kanthu.

Kwa ine zakhala zodabwitsa kwambiri kuitanidwa kukhala m’Komiti Yamamembala (Komiti Yamamembala) a International Institute of Focusing ku New York (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute). Komiti iyi ndi bungwe la alangizi. (sichipanga zisankho) ndipo kwenikweni amapangidwa ndi anthu odzipereka, amene amalangiza mabungwe olamulira pa zinthu zonse zokhudzana ndi kukhala membala wa Institute: momwe mungalimbikitsire umembala, momwe mungapangire mtengo wanu kuwoneka, momwe angathandizire kutengapo mbali pakati pa mamembala. Ntchito yanu ndikuyang'ana mamembala ndikupeza zosowa zomwe zikubwera komanso malo ogwirira ntchito. Ndi komiti yapadziko lonse lapansi, ndi misonkhano ya videoconference ndi magulu apadera a ntchito. Ndi gulu latsopano kotero kuti ilibe gawo lake mu tsamba la Institute. Inenso, kuti ndasangalala ndi ubwino wokhala membala kuyambira pamenepo 2010, choyamba ngati Mphunzitsi mu Maphunziro, ndipo pambuyo pake ngati Mphunzitsi Wovomerezeka (2012) komanso ngati Certified Focusing Orientation Psychotherapist (2014), Ndimalandira ngati mwayi wothandiza kwa anthu ena komanso kapangidwe ka Institute.

Kwa ine ndikofunikira kutsatira mzere wa ntchito ya Spanish Focusing Institute, momwe timagwira ntchito mu maphunziro, kutsagana kapena magawo ena a Kukhazikika pamunthu payekha, koma momwe ubale ndi magulu ena ndi mabungwe amaganiziridwa pamodzi. Choncho, Ndatumiza chiitanochi ku Board of Directors of the Spanish Institute of Focusing ndipo posachedwapa ndasankhidwanso. membala wa International Relations, kuti athe kutenga udindo mu Komiti ya Umembala.

Ndicholinga choti, Ndayamba kale kuwerenga mabuku (zambiri zapangidwa pakangotha ​​chaka chimodzi chantchito) ndipo ndinachita nawo msonkhano. Ndikuyembekeza kupitiliza kuthandizira kudziko la Focusing motere. Ndipo ngati muli ndi malingaliro kapena malingaliro okhudzana ndi umembala wa International Institute of Focusing, Ndidzakondwera kuwamva.

Pautumiki wanu m'njira yatsopano,

F. Javier Romeo

Chilimwechi ndakhala ndi chisangalalo chochita nawo 27Msonkhano wapadziko lonse wa International Focusing Conference wa 2016 ndi Cambridge (United Kingdom), yolembedwa ndi British Focusing Association, ndi kutsegulidwa kwa mamembala a International Institute of Focusing (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute) a dziko lonse lapansi, chondichitikira chomwe chandizindikiritsa pazifukwa zingapo.

Masomphenya apadziko lonse osonkhanitsira zithunzi za Focusing International Conference 2016. Kawirikawiri, amasonkhanitsa mbali zosewerera kwambiri, koma amawululanso mphindi zakuya. Ndipo chithunzi chokongola chikuwoneka kuti Blanca Ruiz wandijambula, ku Spain, ndi zomwe ndatengera mbiri yanga (¡chisomo, Blanca!).

Kupereka ziwerengero zina: takhala ochuluka kuposa 250 otenga nawo gawo 30 mayiko ku Robinson College, pafupifupi odzipereka kwathunthu ku Msonkhano. Kupatula pamisonkhano yonse, kumene kunali anthu ambiri, pa nthawi ya msonkhano tidagawana (aliyense malinga ndi kusankha kwake) muzochitika zoposa khumi ndi zisanu panthawi imodzi. Ndipo zonse zimayendetsedwa ndi gulu lodzipereka la bungwe (kuchokera British Focusing Association,) chani, Ndisanayambe kuthetsa mavuto anga, poyamba anandimvera, ndi chidwi chokhazikika.

Chifukwa chake chokumana nacho choyamba chakhala kupeza anthu ndikupanga gulu., m'malo Olunjika kwambiri. Ndakumana ndi anthu omwe adatenga nawo gawo koyamba pamwambo wapadziko lonse lapansi ngati uwu, monga ine. Ndapanganso nkhope, kamvekedwe ka mawu, ubale… kwa anthu omwe ndimawadziwa ndi maumboni (mabuku awo, zinthu zanu, masamba anu, mauthenga anu pa Focusing lists, malangizo omwe ndalandira…). Y, ndinadabwa, Ndazindikiridwanso ndi psychotherapist waku Japan Madoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) kuti anawerenga ndi chidwi kwambiri nkhani yanga “Yonseyi Kuganizira ndi Nonviolent Communication”, Kupeza bwanji! [Ndipo potsiriza apa likumasuliridwa mu Chijapani ndi mutu wosonyeza The mphambano ya moganizira ndi kulankhulana si achiwawa, Zikomo kwambiri, Madoka!].

Komabe, Chomwe chandichititsa chidwi kwambiri chakhala chaubwenzi komanso kusasunthika kwa mankhwalawa, zonse muzochitika zamagulu komanso muzochita zambiri payekha, pa chakudya, m'nthawi yopuma, mu ntchito zina. Ndipo kumverera kopitiliza kupeza anthu atsopano komanso osangalatsa nthawi zonse ndikayamba kumva kuti “tinali titawonana padziko lonse lapansi”. Pamlingo wozama, Tsopano kuti masabata angapo adutsa, Chochitika choyamba chomwe ndikufuna kusunga ndicho malingaliro a anthu ammudzi mkati mwa kusiyana (ndipo panali zosiyana zambiri, Ndikutsimikizira!). Ndiko kumva kuti tikugwira ntchito, kufufuza, kuzunzika ndi kusangalala wina ndi mzake kukulitsa kumvetsetsa kwathu kwa Focusing, ndi momwe mungagawire ndi anthu ena.

chochitika chachiwiri, zogwirizana ndi zakale, wakhala dziwani malumikizano opanga ndi anthu ambiri. Zokonda zathu wamba. Kuti mumvetsetse Kuyang'ana mofanana kapena, m'malo mwake, kuti mumvetse m’njira zosiyanasiyana kuti n’zothandizana. Kwa madera athu zochita. Mwa kugwirizana kosavuta kwaumwini. Tsopano ndi nthawi yoti muchite mawu otchuka a Aristotle, “chilakolako chaubwenzi chimadza msanga, koma ubwenzi umatenga nthawi”. Ndi anthu ena ndimalumikizana nawo kale, Ndili ndi ena pamndandanda wanga wautali wa omwe ndikuyembekezera, koma cholinga chopitiliza kukulitsa njira zatsopano za Kuyikirapo chilipo. Zikhala ngati maubwenzi omwe ndili nawo kale mdera la Focusing ku Spain, koma padziko lonse lapansi.

Chachitatu chachitika kuyitanira kuchitapo kanthu. Kuyitanira kuchitapo kanthu komwe kumachitika mkati ndi kunja. zotheka ntchito, migwirizano kufufuza, mndandanda watsopano wowerenga, masewera olimbitsa thupi, madera kuti mupeze… Pakadali pano, zinthu zikubwereketsa kusuntha, ndipo ndikuyenda nawo. Ndilankhula za izi ndi zina muma post ena..

Ndi kudzipereka kuti ndikuuzeni zambiri muzolemba zamtsogolo ndikusiyani, ndi malingaliro oti mupite kutsamba lovomerezeka la Msonkhanowo pamene ikugwira ntchito, chifukwa lili ndi zinthu zambiri zoti mufufuze (m'Chingerezi).

Xavier

zosintha (zolemba pambuyo pake zokhudzana ndi izi):

Mkati mwa kuyitana kuchitapo kanthu:

• Kusankhidwa kwanga kukhala membala wa Komiti ya International Institute of Focusing.
• Ndipo kusankhidwa kwanga kukhala membala wa International Relations ku Spain Institute of Focusing.

Zochitika zina:

• zikwapu burashi (2) wa International Focusing Conference: gulu lachidwi la Community Wellness Focusing.
• Gulu Lachidwi la Community Wellness Focusing Group ku Focusing Conference ku Cambridge (UK) 2016.