A cikin wadannan kwanakin karshe na Oktoba taken mutuwa don haka mafi m a rayuwar yara taso. Daga Rãnar Matattu a wasu iyalai su duk abubuwan daban-daban launi Halloween, da gaskiya ne cewa shi ne lokacin da yara za su iya yin tambayoyi game da mutuwa, kuma shi ne dace don samun shirya wasu halaye da kuma sauraron sarari da amsoshi.

Na rubuta a cikin 2011 wani labarin cewa dawo da nan, “Yara da kuma mutuwar”, to tuna wasu amfani alamu. Mataki na ashirin da, buga a mujallar Our kusurwa na 0-6 - Santa Fe directed zuwa Early ga ƙananan yara Ilimi, uku key yankunan bincika:

• The ji na mutuwa a shekaru daban-daban (tsakanin sifili da shekara shida, wanda shi ne batu na mujallar).
• Wasu asali jagororin zuwa bi yara zuwa mutuwa.
• shawarar karatu, raba karatu ga iyalai da kuma kwararru da labarun da karanta tare da yara.

Kuma na fara da wannan labarin siffatawa sakin layi:

Na dogon lokaci an yi tunanin cewa yara ba su sha wahala baqin ciki tsari har mazan shekaru daban-daban. duk da haka, bincike a fagen buri sun nuna cewa ratsa grieving tsari daga farkon shekaru daban-daban, ko da yake ba bayyana kamar manya har daga baya. Saboda haka wajibi ne in yi magana da mutuwa (kuma ku ɓõye shi ba don tsoron tareda žata su) lokacin da ta faru (ko a lokacin da zai faru, a cikin hali na rashin lafiya terminally), to fahimta 1) cewa mutum yana shakka faruwa da kuma 2) cewa mutum ba ya bar aikin, da ma haka suka iya ce ban kwana, saboda idan wadannan Concepts ba bayyanannu, kuma ba a yi bankwana auku, wani pathological makoki na iya bayyana. Kuma haka yana da muhimmanci cewa muna sauraron da hankali ga abin da ya faru a cikin lokacin da mutuwa ta auku a cikin rãyukansu,.
[buga a matsayin: Romeo BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Bani da kuma mutuwa" Our kusurwa na 0-6 - Santa Fe, 60, 17-21.]

Ci gaba karanta labarin…

Ina fatan wadannan tunani zai bauta wa bi wannan topic zuwa yara a cikin yanayi. Mutuwa ne makawa bangare na rayuwa, da kuma yadda mafi hade, Za su zauna more cikakken, mu yara da mu.

Ina so ku da wani bukin sani,

Javier

da 4 Satumba 2015 Na karshe da girmamawa don halartar farko na shirin “sabon girls 24 hours”, (@ chicasnuevas24h) directed kuma co-samar da Mabel Lozano (@LozanoMabel). daga Yara karkace Consulting, wadda ni a kafa abokin daga 2009, Mun ha] a kan yin rigakafi, ganewa da kuma baki a lokuta da ne yara, 'yan mata da kuma matasa domin jima'i amfani. Saboda haka na rubuta wannan blog a abin da na bayyana dalilin da ya sa na yi la'akari da shi a shirin gaskiya m, m da muhimmanci.

WalkFree.org, mahaluži yaki da duk siffofin bautar zamani, wannan hoto ya kaddamar a yau don ya jawo sani 23 Satumba da jima'i amfani.

Kuma ina da ji na da ciwon more zuwa ce, ko ta yaya. yau, 23 Satumba, ne “International Rãnar da jima'i amfani da fataucin mata, yara” (da, mafi ce mai fasaha matakin, “da jima'i amfani da fataucin”). Saboda haka yanzu na iya zama mai kyau rana don yin biyu comment.

Wadannan makonni ganin shirin ya ni ji na musamman. An zama sane da duk yiwuwa miƙa ta da Mayar da hankali da kuma Nonviolent sadarwa don taimaka duk mutanen da suka An safararsu for jima'i amfani, ko mata ko maza, 'yan mata ko maza, da matasa. bayyanãnna, gyara na jima'i amfani ne sosai hadaddun da bukatar m zamantakewa da albarkatun, kuma a cikin albarkatun da kuma psychosocial far, Za ka bukatar high samuwan kayan aiki. Abin da na bayar a nan shi ne da wani takamaiman tunani na gudunmawar da wadannan biyu matakai cewa san kuma bauta mini zuwa bi mutane da suka sha wahala wasu nau'i na tashin hankali, musamman jima'i tashin hankali.

da Mayar da hankali, wanda shi ne wani tsari na sauraron irin na jiki majiyai ji, ne mai iko sosai ga kayan aiki da mutum wanda ya sha fama da jima'i amfani iya tafi recomposing da dangantaka da jikinka. Wannan jiki ya sha wahala sosai lalacewa da sosai wulãkanci iya samun hanyoyin da za a bayyana su yi baƙin ciki da suke cutarwa, duka biyu m martani da su kwa'di da kuma kafa dangantaka. da Mayar da hankali, tare da “je mataki-mataki, a cikin kudi cewa jiki yana so ya nuna”, Yana da damar da motsin zuciyarmu ga samun koshin lafiya hanyar da zai bayyana kanka ka tafi a hankali yana warkar da. A lokaci guda, da mutum iya murmurewa da kwarewa na jiki “daga cikin”, hankali shawo kan shinge da kuma dissociations jikinka gina wa tsira ikon. Za ka iya karanta more Mayar da hankali kan yadda za a fahimci, da kuma ganin wasu daga cikin Mayar da hankali a kan shigarwar Na posted a kan wannan blog.

A gefe guda, da Nonviolent sadarwa Ina tunanin wani tremendously iko kayan aiki ga mutum a warke da kalmar. da mutum (mace ko namiji, yarinya ko yaro), wanda aka hana na da hakkin ya tabbatar da ra'ayinsu, yanke shawara a kan rayuwarsa, a jikinsu kuma da motsin zuciyarmu, Za ka iya samun goyon baya a biyu matakai. A hannu daya, Nonviolent Sadarwa iya bi yanayin ruwaito ta labarin kanta, to reformulate ransa. Saboda haka za ka iya tafi wajen samar da zama dole duels, da kuma yin yanke shawara sane da karfafuwa. A gefe guda, Nonviolent Sadarwa ne ma da amfani sosai a fannin dangantakar, da zai iya bauta wa da mutum don sadarwa more authentically da assertively, kuma a lokaci guda mafi m da kanta da kuma tare da wasu. Saboda haka ba za ka iya samu karfafuwa zuwa reweave, tare da wayar da kan jama'a, ta hanyar sadarwa na affections. Za ka iya karanta kara bayani game da ta fahimtar Nonviolent Sadarwa da kuma wasu shigarwar a kan CNV wannan blog.

Yana ta memory dukkan mutanen da suke fama jima'i amfani, da kuma wadanda aiki don 'yantar da kuma warkar da.

Kuma za ta tayin zuwa bi gyara wadannan matakai, daga m goyon baya da kuma psychotherapy (a Madrid, domin lokaci kasancewarsa).

Tare da bege da kuma wayar da kan jama'a,

Javier

Last karshen mako 12 da kuma 13 Satumba 2015 Na sami damar da yardar aiki a sake Bridget Belgrave. Kamar yadda na ambata a cikin wannan post, na sadu da Bridget Belgrave da kuma Gina Lawrie, Formadoras bokan da Center for Nonviolent Sadarwa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa, CNVC), a 2009 kuma daga wannan lokacin da muke fara aiki tare da fassara CNV dancefloor da Castilian. Kammala fassara karshe ga hasken a 2014, tare da wasu misali videos da cewa za a iya kyan gani, Na yi wannan shigarwa ga saki. da Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa An shirya jerin horo a Madrid, Bilbao da Barcelona a watan Satumba 2015, da kuma a gare ni shi ya kasance wani yardarsa zuwa aiki kuma da Bridget Belgrave tawagar goyon bayan translation daga Turanci zuwa Castilian, kuma mataimakin versa.

A shirya bitar na ɗauki lokaci da za a duba duk kayan da cewa ina da CNV dancefloor da kuma Bridget musamman. Kuma valuing duk kayan, kowace tare da dũkiya, akwai wani abin da yake har yanzu na fi so. a gaskiya, Bridget gayyace ni in raba ta hangen nesa a wasu batu na bitar, kuma ina ya faru da mika shawarwarin ma a kan wannan blog.

The abu a cikin tambaya shi ne kawai cikin Turanci da kuma ba da subtitles ko fassarorin da samuwa, amma ina fatan cewa ba hana kusanci da shi. “Haɗawa tare da Mutunta” (“Gama daga girmamawa”, zahiri fassara a cikin Castilian) An wani multimedia abu tattara bayanai a aikin da ya yi Bridget Belgrave 2004 tare da 21 matasa da kuma matasa tare da wani talakawan shekaru na goma sha bakwai. Aikin da aka gabatar a matsayin wani shiga tsakani don horar da maza da mata a cikin yanayi na zamantakewa wahala Nonviolent sadarwa, a cikin tsarin na wani taron gina birane rhythms, domin goma makonni.

Me bayar da shawarar? Ga wani summary na dalilai:

• DVD da fim, na 25 minti daya. Tattara da key lokacin da aikin, biyu rubuce da uku masu horon kamar yadda ta matasa kansu, kuma edited tare da haɗin gwiwar su. a gaskiya, kamar yadda aka fada a wani nassi, gaskiyar perusing zaman da suka gabata a taimake su duk zama mafi sani ga nasu koyo da kuma samun mafi alheri adecuasen halayyar da bukatun kowa da kowa. Shi ne mai hoto daftarin aiki da damar sa fuskokin (da sautuna) to yanayi daban-daban, kuma ya yale mu mu yi tunanin yadda za a amfani da shi a wasu riƙa.

• A video ne suna goyon bayan da kashi na biyu na littafin, “Shiryar da su da Film” (“Shiryar ga film”), a cikin abin da jerin da jerin tattauna duk abin da ya faru: kowane halin da ake ciki, sanar da yadda Nonviolent Sadarwa, yi sau, da real rikice-rikice da bayyana… Wannan zai fi fahimta da niyyar kowane aiki da matsaloli ci karo da kuma yadda suka jawabi.

• Kuma da na uku na littafin yana dauke da cikakken shirin, goma makonni da dukan da cikakken bada kuma duk kayan ma typeset (Turanci), kazalika da kunsawa a CD-ROM da fayil na kowane abu a PDF jira a buga. Babu shakka cikin video ba ya tattara duk darussan, saboda haka yana da amfani sosai ga ci gaban da aiki don aiki, tare da yiwuwar rubanyawar.

• Samuwar wata fassarar abin da dancing da kanta ga Castilian, karkashin lakabi “Mutunta Ni, Mutunta Ti”, a cikin cikakken kunshin Dance Floor.
• kuma da kashedi Bridget Belgrave ba to ƙoƙari wani aikin na wannan salon ba tare da daya hannun wani karfi bango da kuma kwarewa a Nonviolent Sadarwa, kuma abu na biyu da wani ilimi tawagar tare da wasu Dalili na CNV da kuma dandana a aiki da matasa. Na yi wasu daga cikin wadannan darussan da matasa da kuma matasa a hadarin a Madrid da kuma tafi da kyau, don haka ina samuwa.

a takaice dai, wani abu daraja gani, karanta, rereading da aiwatar da. Kuma za ka iya saya a online store, rayuwa Resources.

Kuma idan kana so ka karin bayani, za ka iya kira ni zuwa lambar waya da kuma tattauna abin da kuke so.

Ina fatan cewa za mu nan da sannu da karin ayyukan da wannan irin kusa da nan!

Javier

Ina da daraja da yardarsa zuwa support fassara a lokacin na gaba bita na CNV dancefloor wanda shi ne aka yi nufi ga goya Bridget Belgrave a Madrid, tare da kungiyar Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa.

na sadu da Bridget Belgrave da kuma Gina Lawrie, Formadoras bokan da Center for Nonviolent Sadarwa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa, CNVC), a 2009 sa'an nan kuma mu fara aiki tare da fassara CNV dancefloor da Castilian. Fassarori karshe ga hasken 2014, tare da wasu misali videos da cewa za a iya kyan gani, Na yi wannan shigarwa ga saki. yanzu Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa An shirya jerin horo a Madrid, Bilbao da Barcelona a watan Satumba 2015, kuma ina da yardarsa zuwa aiki kuma da Bridget Belgrave tawagar goyon bayan Turanci fassara ga Castilian, kuma mataimakin versa a cikin samuwar Madrid, wadda za ta mayar da hankali a kan topic “Magana ba tare da kar-ko ji laifi ko zargi (Dance Dance Autoempatía da 13 Matakai tattaunawa)”.

kwanakin: Asabar 12 Satumba 2015 na 10:00 wani 14:00 da kuma 16:00 wani 20:00 da kuma Lahadi 13 Satumba 2015 na 10:00 wani 14:00.

wuri: Neuronilla dakin
C / Doctor Cortezo 17, 2º
Madrid

More bayanai Prices (rangwame ga mutane sabõda membobin kungiyar da kuma musamman rajista rangwame har kammala 5 Satumba 2015), lamba bayani da kuma tsarin na Bilbao da Barcelona a kan website na Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa.

[Original shigarwa 2 Satumba 2015, sabunta 13 Satumba 2015, kwanan watan kammala horo.]

“Kamar yadda na kwarewa, da al'adar Nonviolent sadarwa da yara matasa ne mafi wani al'amari na abin da ya faru a cikin ni -of yadda na magana da kaina game da abin da ke faruwa da ni da ɗana, don gudanar da shawarwari. duk da haka, Ina kuma so in bayyana a cikin kalmomi na fahimtar abin da ke faruwa duka biyu, a kalla na wani lokaci, har ma idan na zaton na yaro ba ya fahimtar harshen, saboda yana taimaka mani connect da ji da kuma bukatun biyu. cewa, bi da bi, taimake ni kwantar da hankali da kuma samun dabarun da zasu yi aiki duka biyu. Ina kuma so in yi magana da ƙarfi, saboda ina ganin wannan ne hanya don saya harshe da kuma wani tunanin rubuce-rubuce.” (Inbal Kashtan, Iyaye daga zuciya, page 38)

Lokacin da mutane da hannu a interpersonal sadarwa nazarinsa da ya'ya mata ko maza ke a cikin shimfiɗar jariri ko samartaka, ko aiki tare da wadanda shekarunsu, yawanci sun bayyana “a, Wannan hanya na sadarwa ne sosai tsakanin manya, amma ganin yadda na gaya na yaro / 'yar / dalibi / goddaughter…”. Idan lokaci zai bada dama, mu yi sadarwa tare da yara a horo, amma sau da yawa zan iya kawai nuna yiwu shawarwari da kuma binciken. Mu a yanzu da wani sabon hanya, da zai baka damar iyali sadarwa zuwa wani matakin. Wannan ba kawai don warware rikice-rikice (kuma), amma don ƙirƙirar mafi kwarai dangane da irin, zurfi da kuma karin iko, da shirya yara a mafi resiliently rai.

Tare da wannan ji na ƙwarai Inbal Kashtan ya rubuta littafi Iyaye daga zuciya. Share da kyautai na tausayi, dangane da zabi, Wallafa bara a Castilian da Editorial Acanto. Inbal Kashtan, ulla Nonviolent sadarwa kuma mahaifiyar wani yaro, jagoranci ga shekaru aikin Nonviolent Sadarwa a cikin iyali, musamman iyaye zuwa ga yara. Inbal mutu a watan Satumba 2014, amma ya ci gaba da Legacy baynvc (wata} ungiyar da cewa disseminates Nonviolent Communication daga San Francisco Bay, California, abin da ya kasance cofounder) da kuma rubuce-rubucen (Bugu da kari wannan littafi, Za ka iya karanta wasu daga cikin articles game da iyali sadarwa in English baynvc). Wannan blog kuma yana so ya zama mai gode da wani haraji ga rayuwarsa da kuma aiki.

Ina bayar da shawarar wannan littafin duka biyu ga wadanda suka zo na farko Nonviolent sadarwa da kuma ga wadanda suke so don zurfafa su yi tare da yara. Fata za ku ji dadin.

Javier

Mai rikice-rikice za a iya warware a wani m, kuma m hanya ga dukan jam'iyyun, bayar da albarkatun da kuma lokacin da za a duƙufa. Wannan na sirri da kuma sana'a kwarewa na shekaru koyo, aikatawa da kuma yada Nonviolent sadarwa. Yana da haka asali (ba sauki) a matsayin dole yanayi na cewa ƙuduri auku. Domin ni akwai da dama da muhimmanci abubuwa, wanda za a iya takaita a cikin wadannan:

• An dace hanya, don ba da damar dukan jam'iyyun da hannu jin lafiya da kuma girmamawa a su 'yancin.
• Na iyawa kwararru da horo a matsayin mai shiga tsakani da kuma zurfin kwarewa ta wajen sauraro da kuma “translation” saƙonni don sanya su sauki a ji ga kowa da kowa.
• A al'umma da cewa tana goyon bayan restorative matakai, duqufad da lokaci, sarari, manpower, horo…
• Mutane shirye don warware rikice-rikice a hanyar da kyakkyawan dukan jam'iyyun ji ji da kuma cewa dukkan jam'iyyun bar gamsu da bayani.

Saboda haka a gare ni shi ne mai farin ciki a raba albarkatun ci gaba da babban al'umma na mutane a cikin unguwa suna Gotleu a Palma de Mallorca (Mallorca), saboda sun tattara yadda suka yi aiki kowanne daga wadannan abubuwa.

A wannan video za ka iya ganin yadda suka yi a da hannu, da farfadowa Cibiyar lafiya da School Success (da Cibiyar lafiya da School Success a Castilian) Gwamnati na Balearic Islands, daga malamai a makarantu Early ga ƙananan yara Ilimi, Primary da kuma Secondary, dalibai dukan zamanai, iyalansu, da kuma Social Services, 'yan sanda, University da sauran manyan zamantakewa kungiyoyin. A wani mosaic sautuka, Mun yi mana wani tunani na irin abubuwan da na samar da cewa cibiyar sadarwa tsaro a harkar m yanayi, kuma muna ganin wasu sakamakon.

Domin a more din view, Shi ne littafin da ya tattara shikan. Da aka buga a Catalan, Castilian da kuma Turanci a cikin tsarin na wani Turai aikin tare da wannan batu, da Guide inganta lafiya tare da restorative Practices / Guide Mejoramos Gwamuwar da ayyuka restorative tasowa da msar tambayar al'amurran da restorative Practices, mafi m data da kuma bayar da kankare misalai da kuma shawarwari domin kara karatu don ƙarin bayani.

Kuma don zurfafa restorative da'ira, a yi rikici ƙuduri samo asali a cikin zaman jama'a girma Nonviolent sadarwa, Za ka iya karanta ban sha'awa monograph Restorative Justice Practices. Restorative Circles da aikace-aikace daban-daban a filayen, girke da Vicenç Rulan, mai nasiha wanda Ina da yardar taron, a kan video da kuma Guide, kuma shi ne mai memba na Association of Justice and restorative ayyuka na Islands (tare da page Castilian da kuma Catalan, da dama albarkatun more). A da kyau gabatarwar, da karfafa irin wannan samfurin. Kuma ka kuma iya kula da videos (Turanci) a kan official website of mahaliccin restorative da'ira, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Suka yi wasu horo a interpersonal sadarwa tare da ni za ka gani na yawanci ambaci wannan batu na restorative Practices. Ina fatan wadannan albarkatun kadan mafi alhẽri Alal misali abin da kuka ji da ni, kuma ina dogara da tada your kerawa da kuma ka hasashen ci gaba ganowa mafi tasiri da kuma zurfi hanyoyin da za a magance rikice-rikice a cikin ilimi yanayi, da kuma wani yanki.

Javier

Amfani da gaskiyar cewa bazara yana farawa yau, Gaskiya Connection More ya rigaya Twitter, @ConexMasAutent, inda shigarwar daban-daban zasu bayyana, ban da shawarwari da sauran batutuwa masu ban sha'awa a kan Mayar da hankali, sadarwa mai ma'ana dangane da Nonviolent sadarwa, ci gaba na mutum da kuma psychotherapy.

Ina fatan kun same su da amfani.

Javier

Bayyana wa kowa abin da psychotherapy, kuma musamman abin da na fahimta kamar yadda psychotherapy, Yana da kullum da wani kalubale. Kuma a lokacin da wannan aka kara muna son bayyana shi ga yara, ko matasa, Yana iske shi wuya. kuma duk da haka, psychotherapy ne daidai halitta: warke batattu balance (kuma haka a sake samu iko da rayukansu).

Kamar yadda 'yan adam ne m shirye su girma healthily. Ba zai zama da na halitta abin da kowa da kowa muna aka motsi ta hanyar da daban-daban, saukarwa na yarantaka, samartaka da} uruciyarsa mataki-mataki. Ba zai zama da na halitta, sa'an nan, a hannu daya zuwa kunsa da sinadarin gina jiki abubuwa psychologically (jiki, wani tunanin, fahimi, procedural, halaye…) kuma a daya hannun kokarin shawo kan m, kuma ko da cutarwa abubuwa tare da sabon koyo (da irin “Wannan hali na mine kuma ba ya bauta mini” da “Ba na taba son magance wani mutum wanda ba ya girmama ni”). duk da haka, Wani lokacin abubuwa tafi daidai ba ne (kadan ko mai yawa), kuma ku ake bukata a yi wani abu na ci gaba, tare da kiwon lafiya. Psychotherapy ne mai kyau hanyar hade da kuma warkar da ya rayu irin abubuwan da, da jin xaukaka a babbar sha'awa ga rayuwarmu.

video “Garra rufa (Doctor Fish)”, Yana da aka ɓullo da wani rukuni na dalibai da tashin hankali Sheridan College a karkashin sunan daskararre Santa Productions, Inter Alia Timothy Chan da kuma Eunice Hwang, kuma za mu iya zama a matsayin masomin zuwa fara gani.

Wannan video alama mai kyau misali don bayyana da dama key maki cewa ina son barin bayyana yara da kuma matasa, da ma manya wanda matsayi yi psychotherapy:

1) The aikin kunshi waɗanda suka yi aiki a matsayin therapists warke da lafiya da kuma rai wanda ke ciki mu gani. Dukanmu muna da wani abu mai muhimmanci da sosai zama, ko da yake wani lokacin yanayi sun faru sosai cutarwa, da na waje ciki.

2) Don mai da abin da muke da lafiya da kuma rai da dama wajen, Dace da wanda muke da shi kafin (kuma a cikin shekaru, ka dandani, ya style, abin da ya rayu…). ko da yaushe ji, sau da yawa muka tambaye, da kuma wani lokacin da muka ba da shawara ayyuka (yadda za a zana, ko yin takamaiman ayyuka, ko kokarin daban-daban dabaru). Our manufa shi ne a ba da baya ga mutum cewa ya ne da lafiya da kuma rai, amma tsabtace da kuma karfi don haka ba za ka iya matsawa da rai.

3) mun san cewa aiwatar daukan lokaci. Idan muka dauki makonni, watanni, shekara, zaune tare da m abu, za mu kuma bukatar lokaci don warkar da ƙaddamar. Gaskiya, shi yana iya zama binciken da muka halin canza mu kwarewa a wani lokacin, kamar yadda ya bayyana a cikin video, amma da cewa kawai ya faru a lokacin da muka yi, an gudanar da bincike da mu ciki da isasshen. Kuma yana daukan lokaci domin cewa kwarewa da aka sa a wuri a duniya a rayuwarmu.

4) Kuma mun san cewa A tsari ya shafi wani kokarin. Yana kamar tsaftacewa wani mĩki cewa an kamu, Yana iya unsa yanzu-yanzu zafi, amma kyautata ne bayyanannu a cikin dogon gudu. A kokarin da rinjayar mutane waɗanda suke kewaye da wanda ya zo ga shawara. ga yara, da kuma matasa, da} o} arin rinjayar da iyali, kuma daga hangen nesa na psychotherapy kawai tsakani Idan akwai wani fili da kuma karfi sadaukar daga iyali (musamman farko taimaka).

5) Kamar yadda a cikin video, kamar yadda therapists sani da kwarewa, saboda Mun rayu namu psychotherapy tare da namu kalubale. Hakika muna da takamaiman horo, m da kuma zurfin, amma ba mu la'akari kwarai mutane. Mu ne kawai mutanen da suka yi kallo mu zafi da muka koya a look at cikin zafi na wasu na gaskiya da kuma daga sababbin ra'ayoyi.

Ina fatan cikin video za mu bauta maka to da wasu bayarda ra'ayi game da psychotherapy, musamman a lokacin da kai ne ku bayyana wa 'ya'yanku, da kuma matasa.

Javier

dogaye “Nonviolent sadarwa da kuma Yana zuwa. Saurari bukatun tare da dukan jiki” a cikin Taron IV na Kwararrun Masu Ba da Sadarwa shirya da Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa.

kwanakin: na Jumma'a 20 to Lahadi 22 Fabrairu 2015.

wuri: Dakunan kwanan dalibai San Servando
Cuesta de San Servando s / n
Toledo

Don karanta cikakken bayanai, request bayani da littãfi, je zuwa takamaiman shafin yanar gizo na taron.

Karanta kadan game da ka'idodin karatun bita, Zaka iya tuntubar ta labarin “Hada Yana zuwa da Nonviolent Sadarwa. Gani ga zurfi abubuwan”, wanda aka buga a lambarta 2014 na A & Fonte. A Journal ga Yana zuwa da kuma iyawa Mafia, da hukuma ilimi mujallar The Yana zuwa Cibiyar (Mayar da hankali Institute of New York).

[Original shigarwa 30 Janairu 2015, sabunta 22 Fabrairu 2015, ranar ƙarshen taron.]

Suna zama sosai poignant rana tsakanin wadanda suka san da kuma yi Nonviolent sadarwa. Marshall B. Rosenberg, mahaliccin Nonviolent Sadarwa, Ya ya mutu karshe 7 Fabrairu 2015 yana da shekaru 80 shekara (Mun yi bikin ranar haihuwar 'yan watanni da suka wuce a cikin wannan post), da kuma wadanda suka san shi da kyau a general suka koya su model suna yin wani abu da sanar da mu: tasbĩhi game da abubuwan da suka rufe muke bukata da kuma yarda mu wuce duel na events cewa sun bar mu unmet bukatun.

Na yi yardar formarme tare da shi a lokacin da kwanaki tara na kasa da kasa m Training (International m Training, IIT) Switzerland a watan Yuli da Agusta 2008. Na cewa horo ne hoto na tare da Marshall da matarsa ​​Valentina, tare da kara symbolism na gaban wasu yara biyu da kuma wata yarinya ba recognizable a bango, wanda aka nasaba da Marshall na ba ni ƙarfafawa a cikin aikin da yara, da kuma matasa (karanta ƙarin bayanai a cikin na asali shigarwa).

A lokacin wadannan kwanaki, a abin da na karanta daban-daban saƙonni da kuma commemorations cewa sun faru a cikin al'umma na Nonviolent Sadarwa, Na kuma dauki damar sake karanta bayanin kula daga abin da na rayu waɗannan kwanaki da shi (da kuma sauran horo kamfanin da kuma sauran mahalarta). Kuma daga baya da shi zã ta shãfe rereading dukan ayyukan da, a matsayin wata hanya refresh da kuma girmama su aiki.

Marshall Rosenberg yi aiki don ƙirƙirar wani more m duniya, ganowa al'amurran rayuwa, da kuma ci gaban ko da a cikin mafi m ayyukan. Its asali jumla ne “Rikici ne mai ban tausayi magana na unmet bukatun”, da kuma hanya, Nonviolent sadarwa, hanya domin saurare da kuma reformulate maganganu a sami mafita inda dukkan jam'iyyun lashe-lashe.

Domin ni shi ne musamman da lada Marshall ta girmamawa a kan canji, ya ba ya so ya bauta wa Nonviolent Sadarwa ga mutane su kwantar da hankalinsu tare da ransa. The aiki fara ciki kowane mutum, amma ba za ka iya zama a can, shi dole isa daban-daban Tsarin (tattalin arziki, zaman jama'a, manufofin, ilimi…) da kuma cewa fasalin humanizándolas. Kamar yadda ya gaya mana a Switzerland: “Our mataki kama da wani wanda ya ga wani jariri fadowa saukar da wani waterfall da kuma kubutar da, da kuma ganin wani da kuma kubutar da, da kuma ganin wani da kuma kubutar da… A wasu lokaci za ka so wannan mutumin ya taso wanda aka amai jariran da kuma hawa da waterfall don kauce wa”.

Baya daga rubuce aiki (fiye da dozin littattafai, tsakãninsu Nonviolent sadarwa. Harshe na rayuwa) da bidiyo da kuma rikodin na nazarinsa, kuma su songs, Marshall ganye zarcewa da Cibiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa), tare da wani tarihi na shekarun da suka gabata na aikin, kuma an gudanar da ayyuka ba tare da shi a tsawon shekaru. Yana kuma bar daruruwan bokan masu horon da cewa su model ne har yanzu daukar kwayar cutar da aminci da kuma dubban likitoci suka yi kokarin sa wasu haske a cikin mu kullum rikice-rikice. Yana da wani abu don bikin.

A lokaci guda, mutuwarsa bar wani wõfintattu. Sanin cewa ya ya mutu a gidansa tare da matarsa ​​Valentina da 'ya'yansu ne da qananan consolation. Mun san cewa da za mu gani ba wakiltar sabon rikici yanayi, ba ji wani sabon songs, ba a rubuta sabon littattafai. Kuma kafin cewa akwai kawai rungumi tare da tausayi da jin zafi da kuma bakin ciki da ya bayyana.

Kawai ta hadawa da cikakken kwarewa mu iya matsar da cikakken, hadawa da shi samu daga Marshall da kuma neman, lokacin da lokacin, yadda za a sabunta wani enriching hanya ga kowa da kowa.

A bikin da makoki,

Javier