Ngesonto eledlule le ncwadi yethulwe ngokusemthethweni bheka ukuvikela. Izihluthulelo zokuqonda udlame olubhekiswe ezinganeni, amantombazane kanye nentsha kanye nokuthuthukisa izindlela zokuvikela ezisebenzayo, ukuthi sichaze kabanzi umlingani wami Pepa Horno futhi mina kusuka Spiral Consulting Izingane okwe I-UNICEF yaseSpain. Njengenjwayelo nge okuthunyelwe kwami, umkhakha la ukungena ngesandla bheka ukuvikela kuleyo bhulogi futhi wandise kwezinye izici ezifanele lapha.

Imanuwali inezici ezintathu ezibalulekile ukwabelana ngazo lapha.

Okokuqala, ihlela kabanzi imiqondo eyisisekelo ukuqonda udlame. Abantu abaningi abathola ukwelashwa kufanele baqonde ukuthi kwenzekeni kubo nokuthi kanjani, futhi nakuba ngokuvamile inqubo yokuhambisana yanele, ngezinye izikhathi bangicela ireferensi ukuze baqhubeke nokwandisa. Imanuwali, nakuba iwubuchwepheshe futhi ihloselwe ochwepheshe abasebenza nezingane, futhi intsha, futhi ingasiza abantu ngomsebenzi owanele wokwelapha.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, nokwandisa kulowo mugqa, le manuwali iwusizo futhi kuma-psychotherapist abafuna ukuvuselela ulwazi namakhono abo. Ngemisebenzi ehlongozwayo kuso sonke isahluko singanweba ukuzwela kwethu namandla ethu okuhambisana nezinqubo ezihlobene nodlame nokuhlukumezeka kanye nokuphulukiswa kwazo.. Ingxenye engokoqobo iklanyelwe ukuhlakulela ukuqaphela ukungenelela kwethu.

Ekugcineni, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kobukhulu bomzimba kokubili kubudlova kanye nemiphumela yako (ikakhulukazi ekuhlukumezekeni nasekuhlukaneni) njengasekululameni. Imanuwali yonke inezici zomzimba, futhi ikakhulukazi usebenza umuzwa wenhlalakahle ukuthi uzama ukwakha ezindaweni ezikhona Izindawo Eziphephile Nezivikelekile.

Imanuwali bheka ukuvikela ingalandwa mahhala kuwebhusayithi ye-UNICEF yaseSpain.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke, futhi ngizothanda ukwazi ukuthi uyamukela kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

Ingxenye yomsebenzi wami njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nomngane ezinqubweni zomuntu siqu nezenhlangano ukuthola izindlela zokudlulisa imilayezo eyinkimbinkimbi ngokusebenzisa izingathekiso nezifaniso.. Ngokuhamba phambili “Ukuvuselelwa ngaphakathi”, esengizethulile kulokhu okunye ukungena, Siphakamisa izinselelo neziphakamiso ezimbalwa zokuthuthukisa uhlelo lokuvikela izingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha eSpain (Nasemhlabeni wonke).

Kule nyanga ngibe nesandla esihlokweni “Sihamba nomuntu esiyikho”, esebenzisa ama-analogies phakathi kwezinyathelo esizithathayo lapho sibhekene nalolu bhubhane kanye nezici okudingeka sizinakekele lapho siphelezela izingane., amantombazane kanye nentsha eye yahlupheka kakhulu. Kuyindlela yokuqwashisa ngendlela yethu yokwenza nokwenza, kokubili ngokomuntu siqu nangokomsebenzi.

Futhi uzobona lokho, njengenjwayelo, Ngigcizelela ukubaluleka ukuqeqeshwa kokuhlukumezeka futhi ngikhumbula ukubaluleka Ukugxilisa, okuyithuluzi eliwusizo kakhulu kimina usuku nosuku.

Ngingathanda ukwazi ukuthi ucabangani nokuthi uphila kanjani.

F. Javier Romeo

[Funda lokhu okuthunyelwe ngesiNgisi]

Kuyinjabulo kimina ukukwazi ukuqhuba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukuthola umqondo ozwakalayo ngezinto: indlela yokuxhumana nezingxenye zangaphakathi” e Inkomfa Yamazwe Ngamazwe Ye-inthanethi Yokwelapha Okuqondiswayo (Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Kumazwe Ngamazwe) lokho okuhlelwe ukuthi kwenzeke phakathi kwe 21 futhi 25 October 2020 (phakathi 22 futhi 26 e-Asia nase-Oceania).

Kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi mayelana ne-Focusing Guided Psychotherapy (I-Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy/Therapy, I-FOT / FOP), omunye wemigqa yomsebenzi engiyilandelayo lapho Ngihambisana ne-psychotherapy kokubili mathupha nangevidiyo.

“Ukusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni kungaba inselele ngezindlela eziningi. Singakwazi ukusiza ukuqonda kangcono izingxenye zangaphakathi ngokusebenzisa izinto (izibalo, amapensela, ubumba). Inqubo yokukhetha into eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ingasiza ukukhiqiza umuzwa ozwakalayo ngaphandle kwesidingo sokuchaza ngokweqile.. Ngale ndlela, singasiza iklayenti ngalinye (kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ebudaleni) lalela zonke izingxenye ngaphakathi, ukuze ukwazi ukubona umnyakazo wempilo uya phambili kubo futhi wakhe ubudlelwano obungcono nabo. Lokhu kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi, ngakho-ke kuhle ukuletha izinto ezimbalwa ezincane ezingasetshenziswa ekubonisaneni (amapensela anemibala ayishumi nambili azokwenza).

Okuqukethwe okubalulekile:

1) Imibono emihlanu ebalulekile yokusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi nezingane, amantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala.

2) Isibonelo senqubo yokufuna umuzwa ozwakalayo ngezinto.

3) Isipiliyoni esincane sokusebenza ngezinto ukuze wonke umuntu akwazi ukuthuthukisa isitayela sakhe somuntu siqu.”

usuku: ULwesihlanu 23 October 2020, 09:00-11:00 ngesikhathi saseNew York (15:00-17:00 ngesikhathi saseMadrid) (thola uhlelo lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Isisho: ishabhu izoba ngesiNgisi futhi ihunyushelwe kanye kanye ngesiSpanishi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Isizindalwazi seNgqungquthela Yamazwe Ngamazwe Yokwelashwa Okuqondisiwe (i-International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference).

[Entry Original 7 October 2020, olusha 20 October 2020, usuku lomcimbi].

[Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi].

Ngijabule kakhulu ngokukwazi ukuqhuba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukuzwa imizwa ngezinto: indlela yokuxhumana nezingxenye zangaphakathi” kwe ku-inthanethi Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Ekugxileni Kwamazwe Ngamazwe lokho kuzokwenzeka ku-inthanethi kusukela ngo-Okthoba 21st. kuze kube umhlaka-25. 2020 (Okthoba 22.-26. e-Asia nase-Australasia).

Kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi mayelana ne-Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy.

“Ukusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni kungaba inselele ngezindlela eziningi. Ukusebenzisa izinto (imifanekiso, amapensela, Ipulasitiki) ingavumela ukuqonda okungcono kwezingxenye zangaphakathi. Inqubo yokukhetha into eyodwa noma ngaphezulu ingakhuthaza ukuzwa ngaphandle kokuchaza ngokweqile. Ngale ndlela, singasiza amaklayenti - izingane kodwa nabantu abadala - ukulalela ingxenye ngayinye, ukubona ugqozi oluya phambili kubo futhi bakhe ubuhlobo obungcono nabo. Lena kuzoba umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi, ngakho-ke sicela ulethe izinto ezincane ongazisebenzisa egumbini lakho lokwelapha (ishumi nambili lamapensela anemibala azokwanela).

Okuthathayo:

1) Imibono emihlanu ebalulekile yokusebenza nezingxenye zangaphakathi ekwelapheni nezingane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala.

2) Isibonelo senqubo yokuzwa ngezinto.

3) Isipiliyoni esifushane sokusebenza ngezinto, ukuthuthukisa isitayela sakho siqu.”

Usuku: NgoLwesihlanu zingama-23 kuMfumfu 2020, 09:00-11:00 Isikhathi saseNew York (15:00-17:00 Isikhathi saseMadrid) (isikhathi sakho lapha).

Indawo: ku-inthanethi.

Ulimi: ishabhu izoba ngesiNgisi futhi ihunyushelwe kanye kanye ngesiSpanishi.

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa: Isizindalwazi se-International Focusing-Oriented Therapy Conference.

[Okuthunyelwe kwangempela kusuka ngomhlaka-7 Okthoba 2020, ibuyekezwe ngo-Okthoba 23 2020, usuku lomcimbi].

Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule ngithole isitifiketi njengevolontiya le isevisi yocingo yeKholeji Esemthethweni Yengqondo Yengqondo yaseMadrid. Kulezi zikhathi ze “okusha evamile” Kube yisikhumbuzo sezikhathi eziyinkimbinkimbi zokuvalelwa, phakathi kukaMashi noMeyi kulo nyaka 2020. futhi kusukela ezolile (okwesikhashana) okwangempela, Ngicabanga ukuthi yisikhathi esihle sokucubungula engihlangabezane nakho. Futhi amagama amane eza kimi ukukufanekisa: ukuzibophezela, ukukhuthazela, ukuthobeka nokuqaphela.

Lapho i-lockdown iqala umbuzo wami oyisisekelo wawuthi “Nginganikela kanjani??”. Ku-Espirales Consulting for Children sithole izicelo eziningi esikwazile ukuya kuzo, kodwa lokho kuzoba yisihloko somunye ukufakwa kwebhulogi. Kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, kwakukhona esinye isici, kusukela ekuvolontiyeni, Ubufuna ukunikela ngani?. Phakathi kwe izinsiza eziningi nezinsiza owanikela nge Ikolishi Elisemthethweni LePsychology yaseMadrid, ukuya ngocingo kubantu abakudingayo kungilingana kahle kakhulu. Kusukela lapho, Ngizizwe ngihloniphekile ukuba yingxenye yale nhlangano esondelene nezakhamizi njengoba izinsiza zayo ibivuma.. Lokhu kimi kuhlobene ne-psychology, ngaphandle kokuba ngumsebenzi wami, futhi ucabanga a ukuzibophezela enhlalakahleni yabantu ngabanye kanye nemiphakathi. Sikubonile ukuzinikela kwabantu abaningi namaqembu amaningi ochwepheshe, futhi lokhu kube okwethu: nikeza ukulalela nokusekelwa kulabo abakudingayo.

Ukuqala kwenkonzo yocingo kwakushubile kimi. Izingcingo bezingeziningi, kodwa yebo eside futhi eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ukusuka osizini ngokufa kwabantu kuya ebunzimeni obukhulu bezempilo yengqondo. Nokuthakasela kwami ​​ukukwazi ukukhuthazela womuntu ngamunye engangimkhonza. Ngiyathanda ukusho “ukuqina”, lelo gama esilithanda kakhulu kuPsychology. Kodwa “ukuqina” kusho “ukumelana” futhi “lungisa kabusha”, futhi ocingweni olulodwa ngomuntu ngamunye ngathola kuphela ingxenye yakhe “ukumelana”. Lapho ngibona ukuphumula okukhona manje lapho sibhekene nezinyathelo zokuhlanzeka, ngikhumbula umuntu ngamunye engangiya kuye, ngezinga lakho lokuhlupheka, futhi ngiyazibuza ukuthi bazophila kanjani. Ingabe banomuzwa wokukhungatheka ngokuthi akuzange kwenziwe kangcono ngaleso sikhathi?? Ingabe bayojabulela ukuphumula nokuxhumana? Inkumbulo yami ikulabo bantu abaye baba nesikhathi esibi kangaka, nokuthi kuyodingeka bathole amandla okuqhubeka nokumelana futhi, Ngiyafisa, ukuze ufinyelele ukukhuthazela nokwakha kabusha.

Konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuye kwangivusa kakhulu isizotha. I-coronavirus ngokuvamile iwubizo kunembeza, ukuthi njengabantu sibheke ukuthi siphila kanjani emhlabeni futhi sibheke izindlela zokuthuthuka. Kwami, njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kucatshangwa ukuthi kuyikhambi lokuthobeka. Kuningi ukuhlupheka engingeke ngikwazi ukukubheka, kodwa kofikayo, wafika. Kunabantu abanobunzima obuningi emqondweni angazi ukuthi ngibaphelekezela kanjani, futhi kufanele ngiqhubeke nokuqeqeshwa. Futhi kunezinto eziningi okufanele ngithuthuke kangangokuthi ngezinye izikhathi ngikuthola kungenathemba, kodwa ukuzibophezela kwami ​​ukuqhubeka nokuhlakulela ithemba.

Y, Phinda futhi, isipiliyoni kube kimi ucingo unembeza. Ubhekene nokuhlupheka kwabantu, kuyadingeka ukuthi ungabi nje uchwepheshe, kodwa futhi njengomuntu. ukuxhumana kwabantu, esikugejile kakhulu ngesikhathi siboshiwe, ungumthombo wenhlalakahle (uma kwenzeka ebudlelwaneni obunempilo). Ukunakekelwa kwengqondo kube kimina ukuba khona, ngozwela kanye nokuba sengozini kwami (kodwa ukuphatha engiphila ngakho).

Futhi konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho manje kungilethela ukubonga, bobabili baya eCOP Madrid, ikakhulukazi labo asebehole uhlelo, njengalabo abaye baba nesibindi sokufona futhi bathembe thina esibahambele. Ukubonga kwami ​​kubo bonke labo bantu ngesibindi sabo.

Futhi izilokotho zami ezinhle ngalesi sigaba esisha.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengodokotela wezengqondo ngihlukanisa isikhathi sami sobungcweti phakathi komkhuba wokwelashwa ohambisana nabantu ezinkambisweni zabo zokwelapha eMadrid kanye nezeluleko nokuqeqeshwa kwezinhlangano ezihlobene nokuvikelwa kwezingane., amantombazane nentsha evela eSpirales Consultoría de Infancia. Lokho sika ngalokho ngiyakuyala yamjabulisa ukwethula imanuwali Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, Ngiye ngalungiselela Office of SOS Wezingane imephu Latin America naseCaribbean Regional.

Ukuze uthole eminye imininingwane salolu shicilelo, elikuqukethe futhi ezinye izincwadi okuhlobene yokuvikela izingane, ungafunda lokhu entry blog Espirales CI.

Amabili izinguqulo idokhumenti:

• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ekhasini elilodwa (iphrinta ukhululekile ngokunyathelisa nokufunda mobile noma ithebhulethi).
• Ukuhambisana amanxeba umphefumulo. Trauma esemncane, ikhasi double (ukubona esikrinini esikhulu noma ukunyathelisa ku ukuphrinta).

Kulesi Ukubloga enginakho kuphela ukwengeza ukuthi incazelo uhlukunyezwe njengoba inqubo kusekelwe Umgudu imodeli (Inqubo Model) de Eugene Gendlin, futhi izincazelo okuvimba ngokomzwelo eziye wahlangana abaqeqeshi kanye nabaxhumanisi Ukugxilisa Ann Weiser Cornell futhi uBarbara McGavin. Ungathola okulotshiwe emithonjeni ethize emakhasini 16-20 umbhalo.

Ngithemba imiphumela emihle.

F. Javier Romeo

Kuyintokozo kimina ukunikeza indawo yami yokusebenzela “Ukugxilisa kanye nomsebenzi ngokwenza ubudlova” ngaphakathi kwe Umhlangano Wokuqala Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila ihlelwe yi Ukugxila Institute Spanish futhi ididiyelwe ngendlela engokoqobo yithimba le indawo yokuhlangenwe nakho eSevilla. Njengoba kuvela kuphrezentheshini, “Umhlangano Kazwelonke Wokugxila Ovulekile wokuqala ozokuba se-Seville, izinsuku 12, 13, 14 futhi 15 kusukela ngo-Okthoba 2017, futhi sikumema ukuthi ubambe iqhaza, Kuyindawo yokukhuthaza ukuhlangana phakathi kwabantu abasebenzisa i-Focusing emkhakheni othile wochwepheshe kanye nasezimpilweni zabo zomuntu siqu., noma abafuna ukuhlangana naye. Isikhala esisivumela ukuthi sisabalalise ukuzizwisa okusha kanye nokusetshenziswa kwe-Focusing emikhakheni eyahlukene: ukwelashwa, amaqembu, imfundo ,Impilo, ukukhula komuntu siqu, ingokomoya njll. Isikhala, ngamafuphi, lokho kwenza kube nokwenzeka ukushintshisana ngolwazi nokuzindla nge-paradigm yesipiliyoni kanye ne-Focusing”.

emsebenzini wokwelapha, umuntu ngamunye kanye neqembu, ekungeneleleni komphakathi namaqembu ahlukene (ikakhulukazi ebuntwaneni, ubusha nobusha), singabona imiphumela ubudlova obunayo ekuphileni kwabo. Inhloso jikelele yalo mhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi wukusebenza ngokuzibonela mayelana nodlame ezimpilweni zethu njengesinyathelo sokuqala sokuvimbela, thola futhi ungenele ezimeni zodlame.

usuku: Saturday 14 October 2017, at 16:30.

Indawo: Ihhotela NH Collection Sevilla
Avda. Diego Martinez Barrio, 8
41013 Sevilla

Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa, Xhumana iwebhusayithi yoMhlangano Kazwelonke Ovulekile Wokugxila eSeville 2017.

Ngithemba ukuthi libaluleke,

F. Javier Romeo

[Entry Original 27 September 2017, olusha 14 October 2017, usuku lokusebenzela].

Emasontweni ambalwa edlule ngibuya e- Ingqungquthela Yomhlaba Wonke ye-IV Yokugxila Ekwelapheni Okuqondiswayo (I 2017 Inkomfa Yokwelapha Egxile Kumazwe Ngamazwe) lokho kwenzeke eGarrison, I-New York (USA) kwe 21 al 25 June 2017.

Kuye kwaba okuhlangenwe nakho okucebisa kakhulu., kugcwele izindawo zokufunda okwabelwana ngazo kanye nokuhlangana kochwepheshe nokomuntu siqu, kuhlanganisiwe inhlonipho ku-gene gendlin.

Kimina kube yithuba lokufunda kabanzi mayelana nezindlela ezahlukahlukene ze-Focusing Orientation Psychotherapy ezisetshenziswa ekusebenzeni kwami ​​​​komuntu siqu nobungcweti.:

• Ngiwujabulele kakhulu umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi wangaphambi kwengqungquthela onikezwe uLaury Rappaport “Hlanganisa isisho sobuciko esivela ku-Focusing orientation kanye nokuzijwayeza kwakho komtholampilo” (“Ukuhlanganisa Ubuciko obuvezwayo obugxile ekugxileni (I-FOAT®) emsebenzini Wakho Womtholampilo”).

• Ngafunda okuningi eqenjini lokufunda ekuseni elaliholwa iNancy Falls “‘Angiyena ukuhlukumezeka kwami!’ – Ukwelapha okugxiliswe kubantwana, amantombazane kanye nabantu abasha abaye bahlukumezeka” (“‘Angiyena Ukuhlukumezeka Kwami!’ - I-FOT Yezingane Nentsha Eye Yabhekana Nokuhlukumezeka”).

Bese kuba nazo zonke izinkundla zokucobelelana ngolwazi ezimfishane (ezimbili noma ezintathu njalo ntambama), obekuyizikhala zokuhlola imibono emisha yokusetshenziswa kokwelapha kwe-Focusing ngefomethi emfushane, kanye nazo zonke izingxoxo kanye nokuhlangana ekudleni, imisebenzi yekhefu kanye nokuvala usuku nosuku.

Ngibuya nemibono eminingi ukuze ngiqhubeke ngihlola ukusetshenziswa kwe-Focusing in psychotherapy kanye nemigqa eminingana yomsebenzi ukuze ngiphenye ekusebenzeni kwami.. Ngizophawula kamuva.

Futhi ngiletha umuzwa womphakathi ophilayo futhi okhulayo Ogxile, ngifuna izinqubo ezintsha kanye nentuthuko entsha ezoqhubeka “ukuhambisa impilo phambili”.

Isithombe seqembu sabahlanganyeli ku-FOT Conference (isikweletu: I-International Focusing Institute).

Ngethemba ukuthi ngizoqhubeka nokwabelana ngakho konke engikufundile..

F. Javier Romeo Biedma

Kuyilungelo kimi ukumenywa ukuthi ngizokwenza umhlangano wokucobelelana ngolwazi “Ukugxilisa nomzimba ubukhulu zobudlova” ngaphakathi kwe Usuku lokusebenza “Imizwelo kanye ukwelashwa kwengqondo: Izinselele kanye nezicelo”, ihlelwe yi I-Comillas Pontifical University yaseMadrid.

Ekubonisaneni nokwelashwa kwengqondo sibona izimo eziningi zodlame, kusukela kokucashile kuya kokuqine kakhulu, futhi ikakhulukazi imiphumela yako.. Le workshop iphakamisa uhambo lokuhlangenwe nakho ngokusebenzisa izivivinyo zolwazi ezisekelwe ku-Eugene Gendlin's Focusing.. Ngale ndlela sizokwazi ukuhlonza udlame kuma-corporal (Ngaphezu komqondo), isinyathelo esibalulekile sokwandisa ukusebenza kahle kwethu ekuvimbeleni, ukutholakala nokungenelela ezimeni zodlame (ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane kanye nemiphumela yako ebudala, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, udlame lobulili…).

usuku: ULwesithathu, 15 Mashi 2017, of 15:30 a 17:30.

Indawo: I-Comillas Pontifical University yaseMadrid – I-ICADE
C/ Alberto Aguilera, 23
Madrid

Ulwazi olwengeziwe nokubhaliswa kuwebhusayithi ye-Comillas Pontifical University of Madrid.

Landa uhlelo oluphelele lweNkomfa “Imizwa kanye Nokwelashwa Kwengqondo: Izinselele kanye nezicelo”.

[Entry Original 27 February 2017, olusha 15 Mashi 2017, usuku lomcimbi].

Kungukwaneliseka kimi ukwabelana ngokushicilelwa kwe Ukugxilisa e umkhuba emtholampilo. Ingqikithi yoshintsho, incwadi yokugcina ye Ann Weiser Cornell ngeSpanishi, kuleli cala elihunyushwe yimi.

Kuhlelo olucophelelayo ngaphakathi kwe Psychology Library kusuka I-Desclée yokuhlela, le ncwadi ivela ngenxa yomsebenzi ohlanganyelwe wabantu abaningi, Ngiyabonga kusuka lapha.

Okokuqala, Ann Weiser Cornell uzimisele ukuba le ncwadi ishicilelwe (eyaqala ukuvela kumshicileli wezempilo yengqondo ohlonishwayo waseMelika W. W. Norton), futhi ubelokhu ekhona ekuhumusheni ku-nuances ngayinye, ngiphendula imibuzo ehlukene futhi ngibheke nami amagama afaneleka kakhulu imiqondo nezinkulumo zawo. Ufake nesandla a isandulela esifudumele sohlelo lweSpanishi (engafundwa ku incwajana yokuphromotha), lapho ithi:

Kule ncwadi ngizamile ukuchaza i-Focusing ngendlela elula kodwa ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa inkimbinkimbi eyenza ikhetheke kakhulu.. Ngizamile ukwenza le ncwadi ibe usizo kakhulu, ukuze umtholampilo akwazi ukusisebenzisa ngokushesha. (P. 18)

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umfutho we Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi Wokugxila Kazwelonke kanye nomeluleki wami ku-Focusing, usethe incwadi, kusukela ekusebenzisaneni nomshicileli kuya ekubuyekezweni okuphelele kwemibhalo kanye isethulo kuhlelo lweSpanishi eqokomisa isithakazelo sale ncwadi kubantu abakhuluma iSpanishi (iyatholakala futhi ku incwajana yokuphromotha).

Ekugcineni, intshisekelo nokunakekelwa kwethimba labahleli be Kwehlisiwe, osebenze ukuze azuze incwadi enhle necacile, kwelinye lamaqoqo e-psychology ahlonishwa kakhulu eSpain.

Ezingosini ezizayo ngizobe ngiphawula kwezinye izici zale ncwadi engizithola ziwusizo. Okwamanje ngikushiya nenkomba (elikhuliswayo lapha), Ngizophawula ngezahluko ezihlukene kwezinye izingosi zebhulogi:

• Isingeniso. umnyango ovulekayo.
• 1. Ingqikithi yoshintsho.
• 2. Lungiselela umhlangano: Ungethula kanjani i-Focusing kumaseshini namaklayenti.
• 3. Bona futhi uhlakulele imizwa ezwakalayo.
• 4. Siza amaklayenti aveze izinzwa.
• 5. Hlakulela Ukuzibonakalisa Kwekhasimende: Indawo ebalulekile yezinzwa ezizwakalayo.
• 6. ejula: Indlela yokwenza lula ushintsho oluzwakalayo.
• 7. Lapho kuba nzima kakhulu ngathi ukusebenza nobunzima obuthile bamakhasimende.
• 8. Ukugxila nokuhlukumezeka, imilutha nokucindezeleka.
• 9. Hlanganisa Ukugxila ezindleleni ezahlukene zokwelapha.
• 10. Ukugxila kumelaphi.
• Isithasiselo.

Kimina kuwumgubho esingathembela kuwo ngale ncwadi ngendlela ewusizo futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ejulile, futhi ngithemba ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuyifunda njengoba ngikujabulele ukuyihumusha.

F. Javier Romeo

Qaphela:
uma ufuna ukuzama iseshini yokugxila, noma uqale ukwelashwa, ngineyami ukubonisana kwengqondo eMadrid, lapho ngiphelezela khona abafana namantombazane, intsha kanye nabantu abadala futhi ngizojabula ukunamukela.