Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule ngithole isitifiketi njengevolontiya le isevisi yocingo yeKholeji Esemthethweni Yengqondo Yengqondo yaseMadrid. Kulezi zikhathi ze “okusha evamile” Kube yisikhumbuzo sezikhathi eziyinkimbinkimbi zokuvalelwa, phakathi kukaMashi noMeyi kulo nyaka 2020. futhi kusukela ezolile (okwesikhashana) okwangempela, Ngicabanga ukuthi yisikhathi esihle sokucubungula engihlangabezane nakho. Futhi amagama amane eza kimi ukukufanekisa: ukuzibophezela, ukukhuthazela, ukuthobeka nokuqaphela.

Lapho i-lockdown iqala umbuzo wami oyisisekelo wawuthi “Nginganikela kanjani??”. Ku-Espirales Consulting for Children sithole izicelo eziningi esikwazile ukuya kuzo, kodwa lokho kuzoba yisihloko somunye ukufakwa kwebhulogi. Kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, kwakukhona esinye isici, kusukela ekuvolontiyeni, Ubufuna ukunikela ngani?. Phakathi kwe izinsiza eziningi nezinsiza owanikela nge Ikolishi Elisemthethweni LePsychology yaseMadrid, ukuya ngocingo kubantu abakudingayo kungilingana kahle kakhulu. Kusukela lapho, Ngizizwe ngihloniphekile ukuba yingxenye yale nhlangano esondelene nezakhamizi njengoba izinsiza zayo ibivuma.. Lokhu kimi kuhlobene ne-psychology, ngaphandle kokuba ngumsebenzi wami, futhi ucabanga a ukuzibophezela enhlalakahleni yabantu ngabanye kanye nemiphakathi. Sikubonile ukuzinikela kwabantu abaningi namaqembu amaningi ochwepheshe, futhi lokhu kube okwethu: nikeza ukulalela nokusekelwa kulabo abakudingayo.

Ukuqala kwenkonzo yocingo kwakushubile kimi. Izingcingo bezingeziningi, kodwa yebo eside futhi eziyinkimbinkimbi. Ukusuka osizini ngokufa kwabantu kuya ebunzimeni obukhulu bezempilo yengqondo. Nokuthakasela kwami ​​ukukwazi ukukhuthazela womuntu ngamunye engangimkhonza. Ngiyathanda ukusho “ukuqina”, lelo gama esilithanda kakhulu kuPsychology. Kodwa “ukuqina” kusho “ukumelana” futhi “lungisa kabusha”, futhi ocingweni olulodwa ngomuntu ngamunye ngathola kuphela ingxenye yakhe “ukumelana”. Lapho ngibona ukuphumula okukhona manje lapho sibhekene nezinyathelo zokuhlanzeka, ngikhumbula umuntu ngamunye engangiya kuye, ngezinga lakho lokuhlupheka, futhi ngiyazibuza ukuthi bazophila kanjani. Ingabe banomuzwa wokukhungatheka ngokuthi akuzange kwenziwe kangcono ngaleso sikhathi?? Ingabe bayojabulela ukuphumula nokuxhumana? Inkumbulo yami ikulabo bantu abaye baba nesikhathi esibi kangaka, nokuthi kuyodingeka bathole amandla okuqhubeka nokumelana futhi, Ngiyafisa, ukuze ufinyelele ukukhuthazela nokwakha kabusha.

Konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuye kwangivusa kakhulu isizotha. I-coronavirus ngokuvamile iwubizo kunembeza, ukuthi njengabantu sibheke ukuthi siphila kanjani emhlabeni futhi sibheke izindlela zokuthuthuka. Kwami, njengesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kucatshangwa ukuthi kuyikhambi lokuthobeka. Kuningi ukuhlupheka engingeke ngikwazi ukukubheka, kodwa kofikayo, wafika. Kunabantu abanobunzima obuningi emqondweni angazi ukuthi ngibaphelekezela kanjani, futhi kufanele ngiqhubeke nokuqeqeshwa. Futhi kunezinto eziningi okufanele ngithuthuke kangangokuthi ngezinye izikhathi ngikuthola kungenathemba, kodwa ukuzibophezela kwami ​​ukuqhubeka nokuhlakulela ithemba.

Y, Phinda futhi, isipiliyoni kube kimi ucingo unembeza. Ubhekene nokuhlupheka kwabantu, kuyadingeka ukuthi ungabi nje uchwepheshe, kodwa futhi njengomuntu. ukuxhumana kwabantu, esikugejile kakhulu ngesikhathi siboshiwe, ungumthombo wenhlalakahle (uma kwenzeka ebudlelwaneni obunempilo). Ukunakekelwa kwengqondo kube kimina ukuba khona, ngozwela kanye nokuba sengozini kwami (kodwa ukuphatha engiphila ngakho).

Futhi konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho manje kungilethela ukubonga, bobabili baya eCOP Madrid, ikakhulukazi labo asebehole uhlelo, njengalabo abaye baba nesibindi sokufona futhi bathembe thina esibahambele. Ukubonga kwami ​​kubo bonke labo bantu ngesibindi sabo.

Futhi izilokotho zami ezinhle ngalesi sigaba esisha.

F. Javier Romeo