Iqhubeka emgqeni we okufakiwe kwangaphambilini, futhi uhlobene kakhulu naye, ukuqashwa kwami ​​njengelungu le-International Relations ngaphakathi kwebhodi labaqondisi le-Spanish Institute of Focusing, enye ingxenye yokubizela esenzweni okuvele kuyo ukubamba iqhaza kwami ​​eNgqungqutheleni Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi odlule 2016.

njengoba kuphawuliwe kuleyo posi, ku Ukugxila Institute Spanish siyakuqonda lokho, kanye nesenzo sokufundisa kanye nokuhambisana ne-Focusing ikakhulukazi umuntu ngamunye, ngamunye unesitayela sakhe nokuzwela, futhi njalo ngaphakathi kwenqubo okuvunyelenwe ngayo esidlangalaleni kanye namakhono, Nokho, zonke izenzo zenhlangano kanye nokubamba iqhaza kufanele zivele ezinhlakeni zamaqoqo.

Yingakho ke, ngesikhathi ngimenywa ukuba ngibambe iqhaza IKomidi Lobulungu Le-International Institute of Focusing ezinze eNew York (I-International Focusing Institute), Ngibeke leso sikhundla esandleni se-Spanish Institute of Focusing, ukuze lithathwe yinoma yimuphi umuntu njengommeleli ovela eSpain. Yini engingayimangaza uma ngimenywa ukuba ngibambe iqhaza elixhumene ne-International Relations ngaphakathi kwe ibhodi labaqondisi kanye nokwamukela leso sikhundla samazwe ngamazwe. Ngasamukela isicelo, izinyathelo ezifanele ezihlongozwe emithethweni sezithathiwe futhi ngisanda kuqokwa njengelungu.

Ngijabule kakhulu ukukwazi ukufaka isandla emphakathini we-Focusing eSpain, engithole kuyo okuningi. Kusukela ekuqaleni kokuqeqeshwa kwami ​​ku 2009, Izinsuku Zezwe, isikole sasehlobo, ukugadwa, iDiploma kanye neziqu zomqeqeshi oqinisekisiwe kanye ne-Certified Focusing Counselling Psychotherapist kanye nabo bonke abathintwayo nezimo zokukhula, Impela ngicushwe njengochwepheshe be-Focusing (futhi njengomuntu).

Futhi kulolu chungechunge lwezimemo zesenzo (njengoba lisho Elizabeth Gascón, umxhumanisi wami wokudlulisela, the “isinyathelo sesikhombisa” de Ukugxila: “Futhi konke lokhu kukumemela ini?”), Kimina sengathi sekuyisikhathi sokuthi ngifake isandla nakulesi sikhundla, inqobo nje uma umsebenzi wami usewusizo futhi wakha. Kuyinselelo ukusebenza kanye nasekusebenzeleni abantu abaningi engibaziyo, nengcebo ngaphakathi lokho kungibeka esimweni sokuthobeka nokufunda.

Ngakho futhi kulesi sikhundla esisha ngisenkonzweni yakho, ngethemba lokufaka isandla olwazini lwamazwe ngamazwe lwengcebo ye-Focusing esiyenzayo lapha, kanye nokunikela ngemibono neziphakamiso ezivela kwezinye izindawo ezivela kulesi simo sobudlelwano bamazwe ngamazwe.

F. Javier Romeo

Njengoba ngike ngaphawula kwenye iposi, babambe iqhaza ku I-International Focusing Conference eCambridge (i-United Kingdom) ngoJulayi odlule 2016 kusho ukuvuleka okuningi okusha, izindlela ezintsha, izindlela ezintsha zokufaka i-Focusing empilweni yami nokwabelana ngayo. ukwazi, futhi ubizela esenzweni.

Kungimangaze kakhulu ukumenywa ukuba ngibe yingxenye yeKomidi Lobulungu (IKomidi Lobulungu) kwe Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke ezinze eNew York (I-International Focusing Institute). Leli komiti liwumgwamanda nje owelulekayo. (ayenzi izinqumo) futhi ngokuyisisekelo yakhiwe amavolontiya, oweluleka izigungu ezilawulayo ngazo zonke izindaba eziphathelene nokuba yilungu leSikhungo: indlela yokuthuthukisa ubulungu, ulenza kanjani inani lakho libonakale, kanjani ukwenza lula ukubamba iqhaza phakathi kwamalungu. Umsebenzi wakho ukubheka amalungu futhi uthole izidingo ezivelayo nezikhala zokusebenzisana. Liyikomidi lamazwe ngamazwe, nemihlangano yenkomfa yevidiyo kanye namathimba omsebenzi athile. Yiqembu elisha kangangokuthi alikabi naso isigaba salo Iwebhusayithi yesikhungo. Futhi mina, ukuthi ngiye ngajabulela izinzuzo zokuba yilungu kusukela ngaleso sikhathi 2010, okokuqala njengoMqeqeshi Ekuqeqesheni, futhi kamuva njengomqeqeshi Oqinisekisiwe (2012) futhi Njengochwepheshe Oqinisekisiwe Wokugxila Ekugxileni Kubo (2014), Ngithola njengelungelo ukukwazi ukufaka isandla kwabanye abantu kanye nesakhiwo seSikhungo.

Kimina kubalulekile ukulandela umugqa womsebenzi we Ukugxila Institute Spanish, lapho sisebenza khona ekuqeqesheni, ukuphelezela noma eminye imikhakha yokuGxila ezingeni ngalinye, kodwa lapho ubudlelwano namanye amaqembu nezinhlangano kunqunywa ngokuhlanganyela. Ngakho-ke, Ngithumele isimemo kuBhodi Labaqondisi be-Spanish Institute of Focusing futhi muva nje ngiphinde ngaqokwa ilungu lobudlelwano bamazwe ngamazwe, ukuze akwazi ukuthatha isikhundla eKomidini Lobulungu.

Ukuze, Sengiqalile ukufunda izincwadi (kuningi okwenziwe esikhathini esingaphezudlwana nje konyaka sokusebenza) futhi ngahlanganyela emhlanganweni. Ngethemba ukuthi ngizoqhubeka nokufaka isandla emhlabeni we-Focusing ngale ndlela. Futhi uma unezincomo noma iziphakamiso mayelana nobulungu be-International Institute of Focusing, ngiyojabula ukubezwa.

Enkonzweni yakho ngendlela entsha,

F. Javier Romeo

Kuleli hlobo ngiye ngaba nenjabulo yokubamba iqhaza 27Ingqungquthela Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe ka 2016 kanye neCambridge (i-United Kingdom), ihlelwe yi I-British Focusing Association, futhi ivulekele amalungu e Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute) emhlabeni wonke, okuhlangenwe nakho okungiphawule ngezizathu eziningana.

Umbono womhlaba wonke weqoqo lezithombe ze-Focusing International Conference 2016. Ngokuvamile, baqoqa izici ezidlala kakhulu, kodwa futhi zembula izikhathi zokujula. Futhi kuvela isithombe esihle engithathwe nguBlanca Ruiz, evela eSpain, nokuthi ngikuthathele iphrofayili yami (¡umusa, UBlanca!).

Ukuze unikeze izibalo ezithile: sibe ngaphezu 250 ababambiqhaza be 30 amazwe aseRobinson College, cishe uzinikele ngokuphelele eNgqungqutheleni. Ngaphandle kwemihlangano yohlu, babekuphi abantu abaningi, ngesikhathi seworkshop sahlukana (yilowo nalowo ngokukhetha kwakhe) emisebenzini engaphezu kweshumi nanhlanu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Futhi konke kuhlelwe ithimba lenhlangano elizinikele (kusuka I-British Focusing Association,) lokho, Ngaphambi kokuthi ngizame ukuxazulula izinkinga zami, baqale bangilalela, ngokunaka okuvamile.

Ngakho-ke isipiliyoni sokuqala bekuwukuthola abantu nokudala umphakathi., endaweni Egxile kakhulu. Ngihlangane nabantu ababambe iqhaza okokuqala emcimbini wamazwe omhlaba ofana nalona, njengami. Ngiphinde ngenze ubuso, iphimbo lezwi, ubuhlobo… kubantu engangibazi ngezinkomba (izincwadi zabo, izinto zakho, amakhasi akho ewebhu, imiyalezo yakho ohlwini lokugxila, izincomo engangizitholile…). Y, ngamangala, Ngiphinde ngabona isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseJapan uMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) ukuthi wayesifunde ngesithakazelo esikhulu isihloko sami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele”, Yeka ukutholakala! [Futhi ekugcineni lapha ihunyushwa ngesiJapane ngesihloko esisikiselayo Empambana we ngokugxila kanye nokuxhumana engenalo udlame, Ngibonga kakhulu, Madoka!].

Noma kunjalo, Okungihlabe umxhwele kakhulu ubungane nokushesha kokwelashwa, kokubili emisebenzini yeqembu nasekuxhumaneni okwengeziwe komuntu ngamunye, ekudleni, emakhefini, kweminye imisebenzi. Futhi umuzwa wokuqhubeka nokuthola abantu abasha nabathakazelayo ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngiqala ukuthola umuzwa wokuthi “sasibonane emhlabeni wonke”. Ezingeni elijulile, Manje njengoba sekudlule amasonto ambalwa, Okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala engifuna ukukulonda umuzwa womphakathi phakathi kokungafani (futhi kwakukhona ukuhluka okuningi, Ngiyaqinisekisa!). Kuwukuzwa ukuthi siyasebenza, ukuphenya, ukuhlupheka kanye nokujabulelana ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda kwethu Ukugxila, nendlela yokwabelana ngayo nabanye abantu.

isipiliyoni sesibili, kuxhunyaniswe nokwangaphambilini, kade thola ukuxhumana okuhlakaniphile nabantu abaningi. Ngezintshisekelo zethu ezifanayo. Ukuze uqonde Ukugxila ngendlela efanayo noma, Ngokungafani, ukuze uyiqonde ngezindlela ezihlukene kangangokuthi ziyaphelelisana. Ngezindawo zethu zokusebenza. Ngoxhumano lomuntu siqu olulula. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokwenza isisho esidumile sika-Aristotle, “isifiso sobungane sivuka ngokushesha, kodwa ubungane ngokwabo buthatha isikhathi”. Ngabathile abantu esengixhumene nabo, Nginabanye ohlwini lwami olude loxhumana nabo abalindile, kodwa inhloso yokuqhubeka nokuhlakulela izindlela ezintsha zokugxila ikhona. Kuzofana nobudlelwano engivele nginabo emphakathini we-Focusing e-Spain, kodwa emazweni ngamazwe.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwesithathu kube isimemo sesenzo. Isimemo sesenzo esivela kokubili ngaphakathi nangaphandle. amaphrojekthi angenzeka, ukusebenzisana ukuhlola, uhlu olusha lokufunda, umzimba ukuze ujule, izindawo ongazithola… Okwamanje, izinto ziboleka ukunyakaza, futhi ngigeleza nabo. Ngizokhuluma ngalezi nezinye izinto kwezinye izikhala..

Ngokuzibophezela ukukutshela okuningi kokufakiwe okuzayo ngiyakushiya, ngesincomo sokuthi uvakashele iwebhusayithi esemthethweni Yenkomfa ngenkathi isebenza, ngoba inezinsiza eziningi ongazihlola (isiZulu).

Javier

izibuyekezo (okuthunyelwe kamuva okuhlobene nalokhu):

Ngaphakathi kokubizelwa esenzweni:

• Ukuqokwa kwami ​​eKomidini Lobulungu le-International Institute of Focusing.
• Nokuqokwa kwami ​​njengelungu le-International Relations e-Spanish Institute of Focusing.

Okunye okuhlangenwe nakho:

• brushstrokes (2) Conference International Ukugxilisa: isithakazelo iqembu Community Wellness Ukugxilisa.
• Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yokugxila eCambridge (UK) 2016.