I-Community Wellness Focusing Interest Group kimina ibingezinye zezinto ezinhle kakhulu ze-International Focusing Conference eCambridge. (UK) NgoJulayi 20-27 2016. Bekuyisipiliyoni sokwakha ngokubambisana umphakathi ngokusebenzisa ukulalela, ukuhumusha, imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili futhi Isimo sengqondo sokugxila.

Sekudlule izinyanga ezithile, futhi bengilokhu ngibhala ngesipiliyoni sami eNgqungqutheleni (konke okuthunyelwe kukhonjisiwe kulokhu okuthunyelwe ngeSpanishi), futhi umuzwa ofudumele nomnene ufika kimi lapho ngikhumbula leliQembu. Njalo ekuseni ngesikhathi seNgqungquthela bonke abahlanganyeli bajoyina enye ye 15 Amaqembu Ezithakazelo. Lawa bekungamaqembu ahloselwe ukuthi abe yindawo evulekile yokwabelana ngemibono yomuntu siqu kanye nephrofeshinali mayelana nokugxila ezizindeni ezithile. Ngalingwa izihloko eziningi (kwakukhona ngisho a “Iqembu Lenzalo Elingenayo Inzalo”!) futhi ngijabule kakhulu ngokukhetha kwami, kuyilapho ngizisola ngokungakwazi ukuzihlukanisa ukuze nginakekele abanye abaningi…

Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe, Cambridge (I-RU), July 2016.

I-Community Wellness Focusing Group isingathwe ngu Nina Joy Lawrence, Pat Omidian futhi U-Heidrun Essler, owadala indawo yokubamba ukuze sonke sibambe iqhaza futhi, njengoba beqhubeka, “ukuletha amakhono okugxila kanye nezimo zengqondo ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke nasemaqenjini omphakathi” -kuhlanganise neqembu lethu. Ngiyabonga!

Isici sokuqala kwaba ukulalela. Sasingabahlanganyeli abayishumi nesithupha abavela emazweni ayisithupha ahlukene (I-Afghanistan, China, Germany, Spain, UK kanye USA), futhi akuwona wonke umuntu owayesazi kahle isiNgisi, ngakho-ke isinyathelo sokuqala sokwakha umphakathi wethu kwakuwukuqinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu uyaziveza futhi aqonde noma yini eshiwoyo: lokho kwakusho ukuthi siqede ukusebenzisa izilimi ezintathu ezihlukene zokusebenza (IsiNgisi, IsiShayina neSpanishi). Okungase kube umthwalo (ukuhumusha, Ngokwesibonelo, lokho okwashiwo umhlanganyeli waseShayina esiNgisini, bese kuba ngeSpanishi, bese ephendula ngesiNgisi, bese ehumushela olimini lwesiShayina naseSpanishi, njalo njalo) yaba isipho esiyigugu: ithuba lokulalela omunye komunye usuka esimweni esijulile sokugxila, ngisho nangaphambi kokuba amagama ahunyushwe. Ngakho sahlakulela indlela ehamba kancane yokuba ndawonye, indawo lapho wonke umuntu wayelalela abantu bekhuluma ngezilimi zakwamanye amazwe futhi, ngandlela thize, ekugcineni, besiqala ukuqonda okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu ngaphambi kokuhumusha.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwesibili okwangithinta inhliziyo kwaba ukuhumusha uqobo. Bengilokhu ngihumusha ngezilungiselelo ezahlukene futhi kusukela ezilimini ezahlukene ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amabili, futhi ngokuvamile kakhulu kuzilungiselelo professional (Ngokwesibonelo, ukuhumusha abaqeqeshi be-Forcusing bangaphandle lapha eSpain). Kodwa kimina ukuhumusha ingxoxo ethi Focusing kuhlale kuletha umzamo okhethekile, ukuhumusha kanjani kokubili amagama kanye nolwazi olungacacile kulawo magama.

Lokho kungibeke kwelinye izinga: iqiniso lokuthi bengihumusha (IsiNgisi neSpanishi, izindlela zombili) eqenjini elalizizwa njengomphakathi langikhumbuza indlela engangivame ukuhumusha ngayo intsha evela kwamanye amazwe ukuze kwakhiwe iqembu enhlanganweni engasekho. Ngenkathi ngabelana ngalokho okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kokubili ukwaneliseka mayelana nokukwazi ukuhumusha endaweni yomphakathi kanye nosizi mayelana nenhlangano enyamalele., amanye amalungu abelane ngemiphakathi elahlekelwe nawo – futhi kanjani imiphakathi yethu yangaphambili besikhona futhi sinendawo kulokhu ebesikudala.

Phakathi nalezo zikhathi ezine saxoxa, wazama umzimba, ubeke amazwana, kuxoxiwe… Njengoba ngihlanganyele ohlwini lokugcina, Ngangifike eqenjini nginomgomo omkhulu wokuthola imibono, amasu nokuzivocavoca ukwakha umphakathi osebenzisa i-Focusing. Nokho, Ngithathe into ehluke kakhulu: a Isimo sengqondo sokugxila lokho kukhuthaza ukuba khona, lokho kuvumela iqembu kanye nelungu ngalinye ukuba banakekele ikhwalithi ehlukile yomuzwa, ukuxhumana okugcinwa emzimbeni.

Lezo ezinye zezifundo ezizohlala kimi (empeleni ngivakashile I-Focusing Initiatives International, inhlangano esiza ukusabalalisa i-Community Wellness Focusing, futhi ngijoyine Uhlu Lwezingxoxo Ezigxile Kwezempilo Yomphakathi), kanye nokubonga okujulile kubasingathi bethu kanye nawo wonke amalungu eqembu. Manje yisikhathi sokuyisa phambili konke lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho sidala imiphakathi enalesi simo sengqondo sokuGxila.

Ngifisela nina eningifundele ulwazi olujulile lokwakhiwa komphakathi kanje.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedma

Qaphela: Isithombe sithunyelwe ngemvume yamalungu. Awekho amagama abantu anikezwa ngokuhlonipha ubumfihlo babo, ngaphandle kwababungazi abanikeze esidlangalaleni Iqembu Elithakaselayo.

Funda lokhu okufakiwe ngeSpanishi.