Gulu la Community Wellness Focusing Interest Group linali langa limodzi mwazinthu zazikulu za International Focusing Conference ku Cambridge. (UK) July 20-27 2016. Icho chinali chochitika cha co-kupanga gulu kudzera kumvetsera, kumasulira, madera athu akale ndi Mkhalidwe wolunjika.

Miyezi ina yapita, ndipo ndakhala ndikulemba za zomwe ndakumana nazo pa Msonkhano (posts zonse indexed mu positi iyi mu Spanish), ndipo chifundo ndi chikondi chimadza kwa ine ndikakumbukira Gululi. M'mawa uliwonse panthawi ya Msonkhanowo onse adalumikizana ndi imodzi mwazo 15 Magulu Achidwi. Awa anali magulu omwe cholinga chake chinali kukhala malo otseguka kuti agawane malingaliro aumwini ndi akatswiri okhudza Kukhazikika m'madera ena. Ndinayesedwa ndi maudindo ambiri (panali ngakhale a “Gulu Lopanda Chiwongola dzanja”!) ndipo ndine wokondwa kwambiri ndi chisankho changa, pomwe ndikunong'oneza bondo kuti sindinathe kudzipatula kuti ndisamalire ena ambiri…

Gulu la Community Wellness Focusing Interest Group pa International Focusing Conference, Cambridge (RU), July 2016.

Gulu la Community Wellness Focusing Group linali ndi Ndine Joy Lawrence, Pat Omidian ndi Heidrun Essler, amene adapanga malo oti tonse titenge nawo mbali, pamene iwo anapita patsogolo, “kubweretsa luso lolunjika pamiyoyo yathu yatsiku ndi tsiku komanso m'magulu ammudzi” -kuphatikiza gulu lathu lomwe. Zikomo!

Chinthu choyamba chinali kumvetsera. Tinali otenga nawo mbali khumi ndi asanu ndi limodzi ochokera kumayiko asanu ndi limodzi (Afghanistan, China, Germany, Spain, UK ndi USA), ndipo si onse amene ankadziwa bwino Chingelezi, choncho sitepe yoyamba yomanga mudzi wathu inali kuwonetsetsa kuti aliyense atha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwake ndikumvetsetsa chilichonse chomwe chanenedwa: kutanthauza kuti tinasiya kugwiritsa ntchito zilankhulo zitatu zosiyana (Chingerezi, Chinese ndi Spanish). Zomwe zikadakhala zolemetsa (kumasulira, Mwachitsanzo, zomwe watenga nawo mbali waku China adalankhula Chingerezi, kenako kupita ku Spanish, kenako kuyankha mu Chingerezi, ndiyeno kumasulira m’Chitchaina ndi m’Chisipanishi, ndi zina zotero) inakhala mphatso yamtengo wapatali: kuthekera komvetserana wina ndi mzake kuchokera mumaganizo ozama, ngakhale mawu asanamasuliridwe. Chotero tinakulitsa njira yapang’onopang’ono yokhalira limodzi, malo amene aliyense anali kumvetsera anthu olankhula zinenero zachilendo ndi, mwanjira ina, kumapeto, tinayamba kumvetsa zomwe zinachitikira wina ndi mzake tisanamasulire.

Chokumana nacho chachiwiri chomwe chinandilimbikitsa kwambiri chinali kumasulira yokha. Ndakhala ndikumasulira m'zinenero zosiyanasiyana kwa zaka zoposa makumi awiri, ndipo nthawi zambiri mumayika akatswiri (Mwachitsanzo, kumasulira akunja Focusing trainers kuno ku Spain). Koma kwa ine kumasulira zokambirana za Focusing nthawi zonse kumabweretsa kuyesayesa kwapadera, momwe mungamasulire mawu onse ndi zochitika zenizeni m'mawuwo.

Zimenezo zinanditengera ku mlingo wina: zoti ndimamasulira (English ndi Spanish, njira zonse ziwiri) m’gulu lomwe linkaona ngati m’dera linandikumbutsa mmene ndinkamasulira achinyamata osamukira m’mayiko ena n’cholinga choti tigwirizane ndi gulu limene kulibenso.. Nditagawana nawo zomwe zandichitikirazi ndikukhutira ndikutha kumasulira m'dera ladera komanso zachisoni chifukwa cha kusokonekera., Mamembala anzawo adagawana nawo za madera omwe adataya nawonso - komanso momwe madera athu akale analipo ndipo anali ndi danga mu zomwe timapanga.

Pamagawo anayiwo tinakambirana, anayesera zolimbitsa thupi, adayankha, anakambirana… Monga ndidagawana nawo mzere womaliza, Ndinali nditafika kugululi ndi cholinga chachikulu chopeza malingaliro, njira ndi machitidwe kuti apange gulu lomwe limagwiritsa ntchito Focusing. Komabe, Ndachotsapo china chosiyana kwambiri: a Mkhalidwe wolunjika zomwe zimalimbikitsa kupezeka, zomwe zimalola gulu ndi aliyense wa mamembala ake kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana, kugwirizana komwe kumasungidwa m'thupi.

Izi ndi zina mwa maphunziro omwe atsalira kwa ine (kwenikweni ndabwerako Focusing Initiatives International, bungwe lomwe limathandiza kufalitsa Community Wellness Focusing, ndipo ndalowa nawo Mndandanda wa Zokambirana za Ubwino Wadera), komanso chiyamiko chakuya kwa otilandira athu ndi membala aliyense wa gulu. Ino ndi nthawi yopititsa patsogolo zokumana nazo zonsezi popanga madera okhala ndi malingaliro Olunjika awa.

Ndikufuna kwa inu amene mumandiwerengera zakuya zantchito yomanga anthu monga chonchi.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedma

Zindikirani: Chithunzi chojambulidwa ndi chilolezo cha mamembala. Palibe mayina omwe amaperekedwa polemekeza chinsinsi chawo, kupatula omwe adalandira omwe adapereka gulu lachidwi.

Werengani izi mu Spanish.