Kusanda kugujwa iminyaka yokuqala yokushicilelwa kwendaba. Ulimi izihlahla of Pepa Horno, umngane wami othandekayo kanye nomlingani wami Spiral Consulting Izingane (lapho sisebenza khona ezindabeni zokuvikela izingane). le ndaba, eshicilelwe ngabakwa Editorial Phineus futhi kuboniswe ngu Martina Vanda, yaba nezintshumayelo eziningana, eyokuqala yaba se I-Madrid Book Fair 2015 zalezi zinsuku, ngakho kubonakale kufanelekile ukuyikhumbula ngalokhu kufakwa kwebhulogi.

UPepa wethula incwadi ngale ndlela elandelayo:

Ulimi izihlahla kumayelana nokufa. Noma kunalokho mayelana nentambo yothando ehlanganisa izinhlangothi zombili zokuphila. Khuluma ngabantu abanezinhliziyo ezihlukene phakathi, “ingxenye emhlabeni nengxenye ezulwini”, futhi ibhalelwe abafana namantombazane amaningi (labo abayizingane manje nalabo abanye abafana namantombazane bacashe ngaphansi kwesikhumba sabantu abadala) abanezinhliziyo ezinje.

Ngifuna ukugqamisa izici ezintathu engincoma ngazo le ndaba (futhi ngenxa yaleso sizathu sengivele ngikunike njengesipho izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa):

• Ukubaluleka kokuthola isixhumanisi esingokomfanekiso nomuntu oshonile, ezingatshalwa empilweni noma uma sekufe. Akukephuzi kakhulu ukwenza isiko elinikeza labo bethu abasaphila umuzwa wokuxhumana.
• Ubukhulu bomzimba bosizi, okubonakala kukhonjwe ngobuciko. Hamba ngezinyawo, hambahamba ebaleni, yenza ukuthinta komzimba… isisiza ukuthi sicubungule kangcono ukulahlekelwa, kungakhathaliseki ubudala.
• Ububele obugcwele umsebenzi busimema ukuba sinakekele ubuhlobo esimweni ngasinye sosizi nabo bonke abafana namantombazane.: abalaye ngeminyaka, futhi esithwala nabo abafana namantombazane angaphakathi (futhi nazo zidinga ukunakwa kwakho).

Kukho konke lokhu nokunye okuningi, yincwadi engicabanga ukuthi iyifunde enconyiwe., futhi ikakhulukazi ukuba nayo lapho ukulahlekelwa kwenzeka endaweni ezungezile.

Ngithemba Wawujabulela kakhulu ngendlela mina.

Javier

Kulezi zinsuku zokugcina zaleli Okthoba isihloko ukufa ngakho njalo ngaphezulu ekuphileni kwezingane kuphakama. Kusukela uSuku Lwabafileyo emikhayeni ezithile kuzo zonke izenzakalo lowehlukile Halloween, iqiniso liwukuthi kuyisikhathi lapho izingane ebuza imibuzo mayelana nokufa, futhi kulula ukuba uzilungiselele izimo zengqondo izikhala ukulalela nezimpendulo.

Ngaloba 2011 i-athikili yokutakula lapha, “Izingane nokufa”, ukukhumbula ezinye imikhondo ewusizo. Article, owanyatheliswa ephephabhukwini ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent ziqondiswe Imfundo yezingane, izindawo ezintathu ezibalulekile uhlole:

• Umbono sokufa emazingeni ahlukene (phakathi neminyaka engu-zero kanye eziyisithupha, okuyinto isihloko umagazini).
• Ezinye izinkombandlela eziyisisekelo ukuba ahambe izingane ukufa.
• Ukufundwa letiphakanyisiwe, ukufundwa ehlukile imindeni kanye nezifundiswa nezindaba ukufunda nezingane.

Futhi mina ngiqale nge lesi sihloko nokubiyela isigaba:

Kwaphela isikhathi eside kwakucatshangwa ukuthi izingane akazange ahlupheke inqubo lusizi kwaze kwaba ubudala amadala. Nokho, ucwaningo emkhakheni ingozi yokulutheka baye babonisa idlule sokulila kusukela ubudala bokuqala ukuthi, nakuba awusebenzi sibonakalise Njengabantu abadala kuze kamuva. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuba ukhulume sokufa (hhayi ulifihle ngenxa yokwesaba odalekayo kuwo) lapho kwenzeka (noma uma kuzokwenzeka, esimweni ukufa), ukuqonda 1) ukuthi umuntu ngempela uya futhi 2) ukuthi umuntu akabashiyi ngokuzithandela, futhi ukuze bakwazi ukusho goodbye, ngoba uma imiqondo le ibingakaziwa hhayi yokuvalelisa kwenzeka, Yisililo sokugembula zingavela. Futhi ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi silalela futhi unake ukuthi kwenzekani ngaphakathi lapho ukufa kwenzeka ezimpilweni zabo.
[zilandise njengoba: Romeo BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Izingane nokufa kwabantu abaningi" ekhoneni yethu 0-6 - Accent, 60, 17-21.]

Qhubeka ufunda lesi sihloko…

Ngithemba la ukucabanga oluzosiza ezihambisana nalesi sihloko nezingane endaweni yakho. Ukufa kuyingxenye engenakugwenywa yokuphila, abuye ahlanganise kanjani kangcono, Bayophila ngokugcwele, izingane zethu kanye nathi.

Ngifisa sengathi ngabe ngiqaphele mkhosi,

Javier