Chaka choyamba cha kufalitsidwa kwa nkhaniyi posachedwapa chinali chikondwerero. Chilankhulo cha mitengo wa Peppa Oven, mnzanga wokondedwa ndi mnzanga Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana (komwe timagwira ntchito zoteteza ana). nkhani iyi, lofalitsidwa ndi Mkonzi Fineo ndi kufotokozedwa ndi Martina Vanda, anali ndi maulaliki angapo, ndipo woyamba anali m'menemo Madrid Book Fair 2015 za masiku awa, kotero zidawoneka zoyenera kukumbukira ndi cholembera ichi.

Pepa akupereka bukuli motere:

Chilankhulo cha mitengo ndi za imfa. Kapenanso za ulusi wa chikondi umene umagwirizanitsa mbali zonse za moyo. Lankhulani za anthu amene ali ndi mtima wosagawanika, “hafu pa dziko lapansi ndi theka kumwamba”, ndipo linalembedwa kwa anyamata ndi atsikana ambiri (amene ali ana tsopano ndi anyamata ena ndi atsikana obisika pansi pa khungu la akuluakulu) amene ali ndi mitima yonga iyi.

Ndikufuna kuwunikira mbali zitatu zomwe ndikupangira nkhaniyi (ndipo chifukwa cha ichi ndapereka kale ngati mphatso maulendo angapo):

• Kufunika kopeza chiyanjano chophiphiritsa ndi munthu wakufayo, zomwe zingathe kukulitsidwa m'moyo kapena imfa ikachitika. Sipanachedwe kupanga mwambo womwe umapatsa ife omwe tidakali ndi moyo kumverera kwa kulumikizana.
• Chisoni cha thupi, zomwe zimawoneka zoloza mwaluso. Kuwona malo, yenda mozungulira munda, kupanga manja a thupi… zimatithandiza bwino ndondomeko zotayika, mosasamala za msinkhu.
• Kukoma mtima komwe kumalowa m'ntchitoyo kumatipempha kuti tisamalire ubale pazochitika zilizonse zachisoni ndi anyamata ndi atsikana onse.: amene ali ndi zaka, ndi omwe timanyamula nawo anyamata ndi atsikana athu mkati (ndipo amafunikiranso chisamaliro chanu).

Kwa zonsezi ndi zina zambiri, ndi buku lomwe ndimawona kuti ndilofunika kuliwerenga., komanso makamaka kukhala nazo pamene zotayika zikuchitika m'chilengedwe.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mukuikonda monga momwe ndimachitira.

Xavier

M'masiku otsiriza ano a Okutobala, nkhani ya imfa imabuka pafupipafupi m'miyoyo ya ana. Kuyambira pachikondwerero cha Tsiku la Akufa m'mabanja ena kupita ku zochitika zamitundu yosiyanasiyana za Halowini, zoona zake n’zakuti ndi nthawi imene ana amatha kufunsa mafunso okhudza imfa, ndipo ndi bwino kukhala ndi maganizo ndi malo oti mumvetsere ndi kuyankha.

Ndinalemba mkati 2011 nkhani yomwe ndimachira apa, “Anyamata ndi atsikana ndi imfa”, kukumbukira makiyi ena othandiza. M'nkhani, lofalitsidwa ndi magaziniyo Ngodya yathu ya 0-6 - ACCENT yoperekedwa ku Maphunziro a Ubwana Wachichepere, madera atatu ofunika akufufuzidwa:

• Lingaliro la imfa pa mibadwo yosiyana (pakati pa ziro ndi zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, Kodi mutu wa magaziniyi ndi wotani?).
• Malangizo ena ofunika kutsagana ndi ana asanamwalire.
• Kuwerenga kovomerezeka, ogawidwa m'magulu owerengera mabanja ndi akatswiri komanso nkhani zowerenga ndi ana.

Ndipo ndimayamba nkhaniyo ndikuyipanga ndi ndime iyi:

Kwa nthawi yaitali anthu ankaganiza kuti anyamata ndi atsikana samamva chisoni mpaka atakalamba. Komabe, kafukufuku m'munda wa attachment wasonyeza kuti amadutsa m'njira zamaliro kuyambira zaka zoyambirira, ngakhale kuti saziwonetsera mofanana ndi akuluakulu mpaka pambuyo pake. N’chifukwa chake m’pofunika kulankhula nawo za imfa (ndipo musawabise kuopa kuwaononga) zikachitika (kapena zidzachitika liti, pa nkhani ya matenda osachiritsika), kotero kuti amvetse 1) kuti munthuyo akuchokadi ndipo 2) kuti munthuyo sachoka mwakufuna kwake, komanso kuti athe kusanzika, popeza ngati malingalirowa sakumveka bwino ndipo palibe kutsanzikana, Matenda a pathological angawonekere. Ndipo ndicho chifukwa chake kuli kofunika kuti tidziŵe kumvetsera ndi kulabadira zimene zimachitika mkati mwawo imfa ikawonekera m’miyoyo yawo..
[mawu ngati: ROMEO BIEDMA, Francisco Javier (2011): "Anyamata ndi atsikana ndi imfa" mu Ngodya yathu ya 0-6 - ACCENT, 60, 17-21.]

Pitirizani kuwerenga nkhaniyi…

Ndikukhulupirira kuti kusinkhasinkhaku kukuthandizani kuti muthe kutsagana ndi ana omwe akuzungulirani pankhaniyi.. Imfa ndi gawo losapeŵeka la moyo, ndipo bwino timaphatikiza, mochuluka adzakhala ndi moyo, anyamata ndi atsikana komanso ife.

Ndikufunirani chikumbutso ndi chikumbumtima,

Xavier