Kuleli hlobo ngiye ngaba nenjabulo yokubamba iqhaza 27Ingqungquthela Yokugxila Yamazwe Ngamazwe ka 2016 kanye neCambridge (i-United Kingdom), ihlelwe yi I-British Focusing Association, futhi ivulekele amalungu e Isikhungo Sokugxila Emhlabeni Wonke (I-International Focusing Institute) emhlabeni wonke, okuhlangenwe nakho okungiphawule ngezizathu eziningana.

Umbono womhlaba wonke weqoqo lezithombe ze-Focusing International Conference 2016. Ngokuvamile, baqoqa izici ezidlala kakhulu, kodwa futhi zembula izikhathi zokujula. Futhi kuvela isithombe esihle engithathwe nguBlanca Ruiz, evela eSpain, nokuthi ngikuthathele iphrofayili yami (¡umusa, UBlanca!).

Ukuze unikeze izibalo ezithile: sibe ngaphezu 250 ababambiqhaza be 30 amazwe aseRobinson College, cishe uzinikele ngokuphelele eNgqungqutheleni. Ngaphandle kwemihlangano yohlu, babekuphi abantu abaningi, ngesikhathi seworkshop sahlukana (yilowo nalowo ngokukhetha kwakhe) emisebenzini engaphezu kweshumi nanhlanu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Futhi konke kuhlelwe ithimba lenhlangano elizinikele (kusuka I-British Focusing Association,) lokho, Ngaphambi kokuthi ngizame ukuxazulula izinkinga zami, baqale bangilalela, ngokunaka okuvamile.

Ngakho-ke isipiliyoni sokuqala bekuwukuthola abantu nokudala umphakathi., endaweni Egxile kakhulu. Ngihlangane nabantu ababambe iqhaza okokuqala emcimbini wamazwe omhlaba ofana nalona, njengami. Ngiphinde ngenze ubuso, iphimbo lezwi, ubuhlobo… kubantu engangibazi ngezinkomba (izincwadi zabo, izinto zakho, amakhasi akho ewebhu, imiyalezo yakho ohlwini lokugxila, izincomo engangizitholile…). Y, ngamangala, Ngiphinde ngabona isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo saseJapan uMadoka Kawahara (Kawahara Yen) ukuthi wayesifunde ngesithakazelo esikhulu isihloko sami “Ukuhlanganisa Ukugxilisa and Communication benamathele”, Yeka ukutholakala! [Futhi ekugcineni lapha ihunyushwa ngesiJapane ngesihloko esisikiselayo Empambana we ngokugxila kanye nokuxhumana engenalo udlame, Ngibonga kakhulu, Madoka!].

Noma kunjalo, Okungihlabe umxhwele kakhulu ubungane nokushesha kokwelashwa, kokubili emisebenzini yeqembu nasekuxhumaneni okwengeziwe komuntu ngamunye, ekudleni, emakhefini, kweminye imisebenzi. Futhi umuzwa wokuqhubeka nokuthola abantu abasha nabathakazelayo ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngiqala ukuthola umuzwa wokuthi “sasibonane emhlabeni wonke”. Ezingeni elijulile, Manje njengoba sekudlule amasonto ambalwa, Okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala engifuna ukukulonda umuzwa womphakathi phakathi kokungafani (futhi kwakukhona ukuhluka okuningi, Ngiyaqinisekisa!). Kuwukuzwa ukuthi siyasebenza, ukuphenya, ukuhlupheka kanye nokujabulelana ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda kwethu Ukugxila, nendlela yokwabelana ngayo nabanye abantu.

isipiliyoni sesibili, kuxhunyaniswe nokwangaphambilini, kade thola ukuxhumana okuhlakaniphile nabantu abaningi. Ngezintshisekelo zethu ezifanayo. Ukuze uqonde Ukugxila ngendlela efanayo noma, Ngokungafani, ukuze uyiqonde ngezindlela ezihlukene kangangokuthi ziyaphelelisana. Ngezindawo zethu zokusebenza. Ngoxhumano lomuntu siqu olulula. Manje sekuyisikhathi sokwenza isisho esidumile sika-Aristotle, “isifiso sobungane sivuka ngokushesha, kodwa ubungane ngokwabo buthatha isikhathi”. Ngabathile abantu esengixhumene nabo, Nginabanye ohlwini lwami olude loxhumana nabo abalindile, kodwa inhloso yokuqhubeka nokuhlakulela izindlela ezintsha zokugxila ikhona. Kuzofana nobudlelwano engivele nginabo emphakathini we-Focusing e-Spain, kodwa emazweni ngamazwe.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwesithathu kube isimemo sesenzo. Isimemo sesenzo esivela kokubili ngaphakathi nangaphandle. amaphrojekthi angenzeka, ukusebenzisana ukuhlola, uhlu olusha lokufunda, umzimba ukuze ujule, izindawo ongazithola… Okwamanje, izinto ziboleka ukunyakaza, futhi ngigeleza nabo. Ngizokhuluma ngalezi nezinye izinto kwezinye izikhala..

Ngokuzibophezela ukukutshela okuningi kokufakiwe okuzayo ngiyakushiya, ngesincomo sokuthi uvakashele iwebhusayithi esemthethweni Yenkomfa ngenkathi isebenza, ngoba inezinsiza eziningi ongazihlola (isiZulu).

Javier

izibuyekezo (okuthunyelwe kamuva okuhlobene nalokhu):

Ngaphakathi kokubizelwa esenzweni:

• Ukuqokwa kwami ​​eKomidini Lobulungu le-International Institute of Focusing.
• Nokuqokwa kwami ​​njengelungu le-International Relations e-Spanish Institute of Focusing.

Okunye okuhlangenwe nakho:

• brushstrokes (2) Conference International Ukugxilisa: isithakazelo iqembu Community Wellness Ukugxilisa.
• Iqembu Eligxile Kwezintshisekelo Zomphakathi Engqungqutheleni Yokugxila eCambridge (UK) 2016.