Wareysigeyga “Diirada-saarista iyo sida khibradda leh looga shaqeeyo arrimaha rabshadaha” Machadka Caalamiga ah ee Focusing
14 November 2016
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Dareen qoto dheer oo sharaf leh iyo dareen cad oo is-hoosaysiin iyo xishood ayaa igu soo kordhay markaan waraysigan la wadaagayo.. Waxaan si cad u dareemi karaa masuuliyada ah inaan ka hadlo shaqada aan qabanayo “Diirada-saarista iyo sida khibradda leh looga shaqeeyo arrimaha rabshadaha” (“Diirada-saarista iyo sida khibradda leh looga shaqeeyo rabshadaha”), sida ciwaanka sheekadu ku leeyahay af ingiriisi. Waa mowduuc muhim ii ah (Wax badan ayaan ka shaqeeyaa iyada oo loo marayo Wareegyada Latalinta Carruurnimada, la-talinta ku takhasustay Ilaalinta Ilmaha oo aan asaasahayga ka ahay), iyo isku dayga in la gudbiyo dhammaan nuances had iyo jeer waa caqabad.
ah International Focusing Institute (Machadka Diiradagelinta Caalamiga ah, ururka isku xidha heer caalami ah hawlaha la xidhiidha tababarida iyo faafinta Focusing) kor u qaada “wada hadal” (English) oo leh xirfadlayaal diiradda saaraya adduunka oo dhan. Serge Prengel, Tababare Diirada Saaray iyo Daawaynta Cilmi-nafsiga Ku Jihaysan oo aan kula kulmay goobta Shirka Diiradagelinta Caalamiga ah 2016 iyo Cambridge (Boqortooyada Ingiriiska), martigeliyaha, oo waxay sidaas u qabataa si aad u caadi ah oo diiradda saaraya -oo leh dareen dareen leh, hakas ku leh, u oggolaanaya fikrado cusub inay soo baxaan oo u furmaan xawligooda-.
Tan “Wada sheekeysi” waxaad ogaan doontaa inaan ka faalloonno mowduucyo ay ka mid yihiin kuwan soo socda:
- Rabshadaha sidii hab la joojiyay (“Wax ay ahaan lahayd inay dhacaan si xaaladda hore loogu sii wado, laakiin may dhicin, si ay hawshu u xayirto”).
- Dhibaatadu waxay qeexdaa rabshadaha, dhaawacana waa lagala kulmay jirka.
- Hel a “xamili” (“xamili”) colaadda (aqoonsan iyada) waa talaabadii ugu horaysay ee laga baxo: Taas awgeed waa lagama maarmaan in la ogaado qaababka dhaqameed ee naga dhigaya inaan caadi ka dhigno rabshadaha.
- Doorka awoodda ee rabshadaha.
- Jacaylka ay weheliso daryeel si looga fogaado rabshadaha -iyo cabbirka jireed ee lagu gaari karo diiradda-.
- Ogaanshaha iyo faragelinta kiisaska rabshadaha ee Ilaalinta Carruurta.
- Farriin rajo ah oo ku saabsan suurtagalnimada bogsashada iyo beddelidda rabshadaha, iyo U fiirsashada sidii qalab cajiib ah oo lagu sameeyo.
Oo haddii aad rabto in aad la kulanto sida loo beddelo waayo-aragnimada rabshadaha jidhka iyada oo loo marayo Focusing, diyaar ayaan u ahay fadhiyada waqtiga joogsiga teraabiyada cilminafsiga ee Madrid.
Waxaan rajeynayaa inaad heli karto fikrado aad ku dhiirigeliso shaqadaada khibradeed ee rabshadaha., waxaana jeclaan lahaa inaan ogaado falcelintaada.