Lingaliro lakuya la ulemu ndi malingaliro omveka bwino a kudzichepetsa ndi manyazi amatuluka mwa ine pamene ndikugawana nawo zokambiranazi.. Ndimamva bwino kuti ndili ndi udindo wolankhula za ntchito yomwe ndimagwira “Kuyang'ana ndi momwe mungagwirire ntchito mwaukadaulo ndi nkhani zachiwawa” (“Kuyang'ana ndi momwe mungagwirire ntchito mwankhanza”), monga mutu wa zokambirana umanenera mu chingerezi. Ndi mutu wofunikira kwa ine (Ndimagwira ntchito kwambiri Kufunsira kwa Spirals kwa Ana, upangiri wodziwa za Chitetezo cha Ana omwe ine ndidali woyambitsa nawo), ndipo kuyesa kufotokoza ma nuances onse kumakhala kovuta nthawi zonse.

Pulogalamu ya International Institute of Focusing (Bungwe la International Focusing Institute, bungwe lomwe limagwirizanitsa pamlingo wapadziko lonse lapansi ntchito zokhudzana ndi maphunziro ndi kufalitsa kwa Focusing) amalimbikitsa “zokambirana” (m'Chingerezi) ndi akatswiri Okhazikika ochokera padziko lonse lapansi. Serge Prengel, Mphunzitsi Wokhazikika komanso Woyang'anira Psychotherapist yemwe ndidakumana naye International Focusing Conference 2016 ndi Cambridge (United Kingdom), wolandira, ndipo zimatero m'njira yofananira ndi Kuyikirapo - ndi kusinkhasinkha kwachifundo, ndi kupuma, kulola malingaliro atsopano kuti awonekere ndikuwululidwa pa liwiro lawo-.

Mu izi “Kukambirana” mupeza kuti timathirira ndemanga pamitu ngati iyi:

• Chiwawa ngati njira yoyimitsidwa (“Chinachake chikadayenera kuchitika kuti zinthu zitheke, koma sizinachitike, kotero ndondomekoyi imakakamira”).
• Kuvulaza kumatanthauza chiwawa, ndipo kuwonongeka kumachitika m'thupi.
• Pezani a “chogwirira” (“chogwirira”) chifukwa cha ziwawa (muzindikiritse iye) ndi sitepe yoyamba kuti mutulukemo: chifukwa cha izi ndikofunikira kudziwa za chikhalidwe chomwe chimatipangitsa kuti tizikonda chiwawa.
• Udindo wa mphamvu mu chiwawa.
• Chikondi chophatikizidwa ndi chisamaliro ngati njira yopewera chiwawa - komanso mawonekedwe athupi omwe angapezeke kudzera mu Focusing-.
• Kuzindikira ndi kuchitapo kanthu pazochitika zachiwawa mu Chitetezo cha Ana.
• Uthenga wachiyembekezo wokhudzana ndi kuthekera kwa machiritso ndi kusintha chiwawa, ndi Kuyang'ana ngati chida chabwino kwambiri chochitira.

Ndipo ngati mukufuna kudziwa momwe mungasinthire zochitika zachiwawa kuchokera m'thupi kudzera mu Focusing, Ndikupezeka magawo osunga nthawi kuyimitsa Psychotherapy ku Madrid.

Ndikukhulupirira kuti mutha kupeza malingaliro olimbikitsa ntchito zanu zachiwawa., ndipo ndikufuna kudziwa zomwe mumachita pa izi.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedma

Werengani nkhaniyi mu Chingerezi