the Isikhungo Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame, isiZulu “Isikhungo Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame” (Nceku) inalesi sizindalwazi esisemthethweni sokusabalalisa Ukuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame emhlabeni jikelele. Yasungulwa nguMarshall Rosenberg, umdali we-Nonviolent Communication, okwamanje osohlwini lomeluleki, osevele ethathe umhlalaphansi ekuphatheni okusebenzayo ngenxa yezizathu zobudala.

Kukhona ukufinyelela ezintweni eziningi (abanye ngeSpanishi) namavidiyo amaningana.

I-ANSEMBOURG, Thomas. Ukujabula akusho ukuthi ukhululekile. Usawoti Womhlaba, 2006.

Encwadini yakhe yesibili uThomas d'Ansembourg uphakamisa ukusetshenziswa okuqondiswe kakhulu maqondana nengaphakathi lomuntu. yebo in incwadi yakhe yokuqala ubudlelwano nabanye abantu bungaqondwa futhi buphulukiswe, kule ncwadi usiqondisa ebuhlotsheni obugcwele nengaphakathi lethu, ukusuka esikhundleni sobuqiniso esingahlali sinethezekile.

Ungafunda inkomba kanye nesahluko sokuqala ku ikhasi lomshicileli.

I-ANSEMBOURG, Thomas. Yekani nice; Yiba eyiqiniso! Ungaba kanjani nabanye ngaphandle kokuyeka ukuba nguwe. Usawoti Womhlaba, 2003.

Thomas d'Ansembourg, Umqeqeshi Uqinisekiswe ngabakwa Isikhungo Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (Nceku) uphakamisa encwadini yakhe yokuqala umbono oseduze wobudlelwane bomuntu ovela ku-Nonviolent Communication. Ngamacala nezimo ezivela kuma-workshops abo kanye neseshini yokusekela, inikeza ukuqonda okujulile kwengqikithi Yokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame, okuholela ekuxhumaneni okuyiqiniso kakhudlwana nabanye abantu.

I-ROSENBERG, UMarshall B. ukuxhumana okungenabudlova: ulimi lokuphila. Great Village Publishers, 2006 (izinguqulo ezihlukahlukene).

Incwadi yereferensi ebhalwe nguMarshall B. Rosenberg, umdali we-Nonviolent Communication. ngesitayela esisebenzayo, kuyajabulisa futhi kuvame ukuhlekisa, UMarshall Rosenberg ubeka ngokuningiliziwe izinyathelo ezibalulekile ze Ukuxhumana benamathele kanye nokusebenza kwayo ezicini ezehlukene zempilo yansuku zonke.

Ungafunda isahluko sokuqala sohlelo lokuqala lweSpanishi. Ama-edishini athengiswayo njengamanje ahunyushwa kusukela kuhlelo lwesibili olubuyekeziwe.

Njengoba ngasho le “Siyakwamukela ku-blog”, umbono wukuthi lokhu blog ufuna ukukhonza njengephayona onalo izinsiza, ukuze zonke izinto neziphakamiso bakhonza ukwakha Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic nabanye kanye nezwe lethu elingaphakathi. Njengoba kuzoba ezihlukahlukene ngokwanele, Ngifuna ukuchaza lapha amalebula ezahlukene ukuthi Ngizosebenzisa zokuhlukanisa okufakiwe.

• CNV: konke okufakiwe ezihlobene Ukuxhumana benamathele, ngokucacile noma lokho okubonakala sengathi kuyilo kimi ukuthi Nginayo “CNV consciencia”.
• Textos CNV: okufakiwe eziphathelene amabhuku, izihloko kanye imibhalo ethize Ukuxhumana benamathele.
• Ukugxilisa: konke okufakiwe ezihlobene Ukugxilisa noma into efana nalokho kakhulu.
• Ukugxilisa en Madrid: ziqoqe nemiklamo Madrid ku Ukugxilisa Area (isibonelo, Miraflores de la Sierra, ihora kusuka Madrid).
• Textos Ukugxilisa: okufakiwe eziphathelene amabhuku, izihloko kanye imibhalo ethize Ukugxilisa.
• CI ohlobo lwe: okufakiwe ezihlobene eduze umsebenzi wami Spiral Consulting Izingane ezindabeni affectivity, Ukuvikelwa kanye ekuchumana, futhi ngifuna futhi ubheke kule blog.
• Ezenye imibhalo: zikhona izincwadi, izihloko kanye imibhalo, ngaphandle kokuba ngokucacile kunoma yiziphi eyala ezihlongozwayo, Sinenkosi ziyezwana jikelele kanye value okuholela kimi ukukhuluma ngabo kule blog.
• Webs: amakhasi ewebhu, ibhulogi nezisetshenziswa inthanethi.
• Imiqophi: amavidiyo jikelele, kuhlangene nezinye amalebula ezidinga ekuqukethe.
• Movies: emadokhumenthari namafilimu, kokubili ezisekelwe emaqinisweni real nasezindabeni eziqanjiwe, I kubonakala olufanele ukuzwela ukuthi ngifuna ukuthuthukisa le blog.
• Indaba: inoveli (futhi izindaba nezincwadi zezingane) sisinikeze ithuba lokusho unambithe uzwela nge Ukuxhumana benamathele kanye Ukugxilisa.
• Okuhlangenwe Nakho: Ngezinye izikhathi ukuphila kusilethela lezimanga, nakho ezenza kithi uhlaziye izinto eziza kuqala kithi noma uqinisekise intuitions yethu, futhi lezo zenzakalo bazohlangana ngaphansi kwalesi sihloko.
• Ukuze izingane: izinsiza engasetshenziswa ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile nezingane.
• For Teens: izinsiza engasetshenziswa ngokuqondile noma ngokungaqondile nge intsha.
• Agenda langempela futhi Alondoloziwe Agenda: lidlulisele zokwakheka avaliwe kakhulu namaqembu ihlelwe, kodwa ezimweni ezingandile lapho ngivula i zokwakheka kuzithameli ezijwayelekile noma ethize hang nabo lezi amalebula, “Agenda langempela” ngenkathi iye aluphelanga futhi “Alondoloziwe Agenda” lapho sekuvele sekudlule usuku lomcimbi, kodwa irekhodi futhi ungabona kwemigomo zokwakheka ukuthi engikufundisayo.

Njengoba ubona, izigaba eziningi Ziyathandelana. Into ezithakazelisayo wukuthi wonke umuntu angakwazi uhlole, uthole ukuthi kube nosizo nehuha. Futhi kuyoba nabanye niyozenezelelwa.

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