Masiku angapo apitawo ndinalandira satifiketi monga wodzipereka wa utumiki wafoni wa Official College of Psychology of Madrid. Mu mphindi izi “zatsopano zabwinobwino” Chakhala chikumbutso cha nthawi zovuta za m'ndende, pakati pa Marichi ndi Meyi chaka chino 2020. ndi kuchokera ku bata (kwakanthawi) zenizeni, Ndikuganiza kuti ndi nthawi yabwino yokonza zomwe ndakumana nazo. Ndipo mawu anai amabwera kwa ine kuti afanizire izo: kudzipereka, chipiriro, kudzichepetsa ndi kuzindikira.

Pamene lockdown idayamba funso langa loyambirira linali “Kodi ndingathandizire bwanji??”. Kuchokera ku Espirales Consulting for Children talandira zopempha zambiri zomwe takwanitsa kupezekapo, Koma izi zidzakhala mutu wa positi ina ya blog.. Koma, nthawi yomweyo, panali gawo lina, kuchokera pakudzipereka, Mukufuna kupereka chiyani?. Pakati pa ntchito zambiri ndi zothandizira amene anapereka Official College of Psychology of Madrid, kupezeka pafoni ndi anthu omwe amafunikira kumandikwanira bwino. Kuchokera pamenepo, Ndaona kuti ndi wamtengo wapatali kukhala m’gulu limeneli lomwe lakhala pafupi ndi nzika zake malinga ndi mmene chuma chake chandilolezera.. Izi kwa ine zikugwirizana ndi psychology, kupatula kukhala ntchito yanga, komanso amaganiza a kudzipereka za umoyo wa anthu ndi madera. Tawona kudzipereka kwa anthu ambiri ndi magulu ambiri akatswiri, ndipo ichi chakhala chathu: perekani kumvetsera ndi chithandizo kwa omwe akuchifuna.

Chiyambi cha utumiki wa telefoni chinali chachikulu kwa ine. Mafoni sanali ambiri, koma inde yaitali ndi zovuta. Kuchokera pachisoni pa imfa ya anthu kupita ku zovuta zamaganizo. Ndipo kusirira kwanga pakutha chipiriro wa munthu aliyense amene ndinamutumikira. Ndimakonda kunena “kupirira”, mawu omwe timakonda kwambiri mu psychology. Koma “kupirira” zikutanthauza “kutsutsa” ndi “konzanso”, ndipo pakuyimba foni kumodzi pa munthu aliyense ndidangowona gawo lake “kutsutsa”. Ndikaona mpumulo umene ulipo chifukwa cha ukhondo, ndimakumbukira munthu aliyense amene ndinapitako, ndi kuchuluka kwa masautso anu, ndipo ndikudabwa kuti adzakhala bwanji. Kodi akumva kukhumudwa kuti sizinachitike bwino panthawiyo?? Kodi adzakhala akusangalala ndi kupuma ndi kukhudzana? Chikumbukiro changa chili ndi anthu omwe adakumana ndi zovuta zotere, ndi kuti adzayenera kupeza mphamvu kuti apitirize kukana ndi, Ndikulakalaka, kuti athe kupirira komanso kumanganso.

Zochitika zonsezi zandidzutsa kwambiri kudzichepetsa. Coronavirus nthawi zambiri imakhala kuyitanira ku chikumbumtima, kuti monga anthu timaganizira momwe tikuchitira padziko lapansi ndikuyang'ana njira zowongolera. Za ine, monga katswiri wa zamaganizo, zokumana nazo zonsezi zikulingalira machiritso a kudzichepetsa. Pali mavuto ambiri amene sindingathe kuwasamalira, koma kwa iye amene afika, adafika. Pali anthu omwe ali ndi zovuta zambiri m'maganizo mwawo kuti sindikudziwa kutsagana nawo, ndipo ndiyenera kupitiriza maphunziro. Ndipo pali zinthu zambiri zoti ndisinthe moti nthawi zina ndimaona kuti n’zopanda chiyembekezo, koma kudzipereka kwanga ndikupitiriza kukulitsa chiyembekezo.

Y, kamodzinso kena, zomwe zandichitikira zandiyitanira kuzindikira. Poyang'anizana ndi kuzunzika kwaumunthu, m'pofunika kukhala osati akatswiri okha, komanso ngati munthu. kukhudzana ndi anthu, zomwe taphonya kwambiri panthawi yomwe tinali m'ndende, ndi gwero la moyo wabwino (zikachitika muubwenzi wabwino). Chisamaliro chamalingaliro chakhala kuti ndikhalepo, ndi chisoni komanso ndi kusatetezeka kwanga (koma kutenga ulamuliro wa moyo wanga).

Ndipo zokumana nazo zonsezi tsopano zimandibweretsera chiyamikiro, onse ku COP Madrid, makamaka amene atsogolera ntchitoyi, monga iwo amene analimba mtima kuitana ndi kudalira ife amene tinapezeka nawo. Ndikuthokoza anthu onsewa chifukwa cha kulimba mtima kwawo.

Ndipo zofuna zanga zabwino za gawo latsopanoli.

F. Javier Romeo