UMary Hendricks-Gendlin, isithombe se The Institute Ukugxilisa.

Okokugcina 28 Mashi 2015 UMarion washona (eyaziwa kangcono ngokuthi “UMary”) N. Hendricks-Gendlin, ireferensi ebalulekile ye Ukugxilisa. Ngiphakathi kwalabo, ngaphandle kokuhlangana naye ngqo, sithola ifa lomsebenzi wakhe nomoya wakhe.

UMary Hendricks-Gendlin fue, phakathi kwezinye izici zokuphila kwakhe, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, I-Psychotherapist ene-Focusing Orientation, ilungu lomsunguli we The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute) kanye nomqondisi ofanayo iminyaka eminingi. Ubuye waba ngumlingani weGene Gendlin, owabumba inqubo ye-Focusing futhi ngubani osaphila, kanye nomama ka-Elissa, indodakazi ababefana ngayo.

Kimina ireferensi kaMary Hendricks-Gendlin iza ngokuyinhloko Elizabeth Gascón, Umxhumanisi we-Spanish Focusing kanye nomqeqeshi wami wereferensi (ngemuva kokuqinisekisa, Ngilokhu ngifunda kuye kukho konke ukuxhumana esinakho, siqu noma professional). Elizabeth Gascón, ngomsebenzi wakhe omude ku-Focusing kanye nokumelela kwakhe i-Spanish Institute of Focusing ezindabeni zamazwe ngamazwe (ikakhulukazi njengesekela likamongameli), uye waxhumana kakhulu noMariya, ngisho naseminyakeni yamuva, lapho uGene noMary sebelishiyile ikheli lika The Institute Ukugxilisa (i-New York Focusing Institute). Impela, isonto ngaphambi kokudlula kukaMariya, kwe Izinsuku Zokugxila Zikazwelonke ze 2015 Miraflores de la Sierra, NgoMgqibelo 21, U-Isabel Gascón ubephawula kubahlanganyeli abambalwa ngolwazi lwakhe lukaMary noGene, ngothando olukhulu nobubele, nasekubabazeni konke abakwenzile bobabili, besekelana. Ngincoma ukufunda ukubonga okusuka enhliziyweni ku-Isabel Gascón kuwebhusayithi yakhe.

Ifa esilithola kithina esingalazi ngqo linezinhlobo eziningi.:

• Futhi I-Focusing Institute okuqinile, ukuthi uMary noGene baye baholela ekuguqukeleni enhlanganweni entsha elungiselwe iqiniso lamazwe ngamazwe kanye nemikhakha eminingi ye-Focusing.
• Ukusabalala kwamazwe ngamazwe kwe-Focusing, obekubalulekile kuyena ngesikhathi engumqondisi. Ngithola isihloko sakho sibalulekile. “I-Felt Sense Literacy” (Iyatholakala futhi ngeSpanishi njenge “Ukufunda nokubhala komqondo ozwakalayo”), umbono onyakazayo wokuGxila njengamandla okuguqula umphakathi.
• Ukusekela ukwakhiwa kwezici ezibalulekile zokuGxila njengamaqembu “Izinguquko” (“Izinguquko”), Ukugxilisa amaqembu okushintshana phakathi kwabasebenzi.
• Ucwaningo lwakhe ezindaweni ezahlukene zamanje ze-Focusing, njenge-Focusing Oriented Psychotherapy kanye “Ukucabanga Emaphethelweni -TAE” (“Ecabanga esemaphethelweni – I-PDB”).
• Umqondo wakhe we “Ukumisa okwesikhashana”, okuhlanganisa ukuzinika isikhathi ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo, ngaphambi kokuphendula, ukuma futhi sibone ukuthi umzimba wethu uphila kanjani esimweni ngasinye. Ngale ndlela singathola ubuqiniso obukhulu bezinqumo. Ungafunda isihloko sakhe esimangalisayo “Ukugxila Njengamandla Okuthula: I-Revolutionary Pause” (ngesiNgisi kuphela okwamanje), lapho imigqa yokuqala ithinta khona ubulula nokujula kwayo, nalapho umbhalo wonke uthuthuka ngokwemibono ehlukene umqondo we “Ukumisa okwesikhashana”.

Kusukela lapha kuya ku-Mary Hendricks-Gendlin kanye nokubonga kwami ​​​​ngempilo nomsebenzi wakhe, lokho kuye kwathinta ukuphila kwami. Futhi uthando nokunakekela kwami ​​​​kuGene Gendlin nakubo bonke abantu abathanda uMary, nokuthi abalahlekelwanga nje uchwepheshe obalulekile, kodwa nakumfundisi, umngane nomngane othandekayo, Njengoba ukuphawula kwe ikhasi lokukhokhela le The Institute Ukugxilisa.

ngenhlonipho nangokunakekela,

Javier