Okokugcina 6 Okthoba UMarshall Rosenberg, umdali we Ukuxhumana benamathele, usehlanganise iminyaka engamashumi ayisishiyagalombili kanti thina esizibonele izinzuzo zomsebenzi wakhe siyawubungaza.

UMarshall B. Rosenberg wazalwa ngo 6 October 1934 e-Guangzhou, E-Ohio (USA), nomndeni wangena 1943 kanye neDetroit, EMichigan, ngaphambi nje kodlame lomjaho ngalowo nyaka. UMarshall ulandisa ukuthi isipiliyoni sodlame sammaka kanjani. Wabhekana nodlame esikoleni, ngokubizwa ngokuthi ungumJuda ngesibongo sakhe. njengoba esho yena, wathola ukuthi kunabantu abangajabulela ukulimaza. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo, wakwazi ukubona indlela abanye abantu ababekwazi ngayo ukunyakaza ngozwela ezimeni ezinzima ngokwedlulele (ugogo wakhe, okwathi ngesikhathi sobunzima bakwazi ukuphakela abantu emgwaqweni; noma umalume wakhe, owakwazi ukuphakela nokwelapha ugogo osemdala).

Kamuva wafunda i-psychology futhi wathola i-Ph.D. ku-Carl Rogers in 1961, ofaneleka ngokuphelele njengodokotela wezengqondo emtholampilo ku 1966. Nokho, indlela yokusebenza kwengqondo yomtholampilo ayizange imenelise, ngalokho kugcizelela kumalebula nokuxilongwa. Waqhubeka nokucwaninga nokuqeqesha (futhi waqeqeshwa ku-Focusing, futhi empeleni uyincoma ekuqeqeshweni kwayo okuthuthukile), futhi ekugcineni wadala inqubo ye Ukuxhumana benamathele njengoba sisazi njengamanje.

Kusukela ngeminyaka yamashumi ayisishiyagalombili usebenze emhlabeni wonke ekuxazululeni izingxabano ezinkulu kanye nokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono amancane okuxazulula izingxabano ezimpilweni zethu zansuku zonke., izingxabano nabanye abantu kanye nezingxabano zangaphakathi. Uthathe umhlalaphansi eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngemva kokwenza amakhulukhulu ezinhlaka emhlabeni futhi esesungule Isikhungo Samazwe Ngamazwe Sokuxhumana Okungenalo Udlame (Center for Communication benamathele) ukusabalalisa le nqubo yokuguqula. Ungafunda kabanzi ngempilo yakhe nalapho asebenze khona Isizindalwazi se-International Centre for Nonviolent Communication (Center for Communication benamathele).

Ngikujabulele ukuzilolonga naye, nomkakhe u-Valentina kanye nabanye abahleli ku-International Intensive Formation (Ukuqeqeshwa Okujulile Kwamazwe Ngamazwe) izinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye eSwitzerland ngo-August 2008, futhi ngakwazi ukwamukela imfudumalo yakhe nendlela aye wangikhuthaza ngayo ukuba ngizame ukudlulisela ukuqonda kwami ​​Ukuxhumana Okungenabudlova ezinganeni nakubantu abaxhumana nabo. Umsebenzi wami omningi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi ugqugquzelwe yilokho engikufunde kuye., kokubili ukudala a Ukuxhuma Ngini Authentic ezimpilweni zabo bonke abantu (kuhlanganise neyami), njengasezimpilweni zezingane, amantombazane kanye nentsha engihlangana nayo, nabantu abakuzungezile (ikakhulukazi ngokusebenzisa Spiral Consulting Izingane, ngaphakathi komugqa Ukuxhumana phakathi kwabantu). Kulokho kuqeqeshwa besikhuluma ngeSitifiketi, futhi nakuba ekugcineni kuyindlela engingazange ngiyilandele, Ngizizwa ngiyingxenye yenhlangano ye-Nonviolent Communication futhi ngiyaqhubeka nokuhlanganyela ne Association for Communication benamathele lapha eSpain kanye namanye ama-internship kanye namaqembu okufunda.

Ngaleso sikhathi sathatha lesi sithombe ukuthi, ukuqondana kwesiphetho, UMarshall uyasibonisa, Mina noValentina sinabafana ababili abangaziwa nentombazane, njengokufanekisa ngendlela ekhethekile umsebenzi nezingane engiwenza ngogqozi lwe-Marshall and Nonviolent Communication.

Kusukela lapha ngithumela ukubonga kwami ​​kanye nesipho sami. ¡Gracias, Marshall!

Ngokubonga okujulile ngithumela ukuhlonipha kwami ​​kokugubha. Ngiyabonga, Marshall!

Javier