Patha milungu ingapo kuchokera pomwe ndidabwerako Msonkhano wapadziko lonse wa IV Wokhudzana ndi Chithandizo Chotsogozedwa (Pulogalamu ya 2017 Msonkhano Wapadziko Lonse Wokhudzana Ndi Chithandizo) zomwe zachitika ku Garrison, New York (U.S) a 21 Al 25 Juni 2017.

Zakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri, yodzaza ndi malo ophunzirira nawo komanso zokumana nazo zaukadaulo komanso zamunthu, kuphatikiza msonkho kwa Gene Gendlin.

Kwa ine wakhala mwayi woti ndidziwe zambiri za njira zingapo Zakuyang'ana Kutsogozedwa Kwamaganizidwe Ogwiritsidwa Ntchito pazochita zanga komanso zantchito.:

• Ndinasangalala kwambiri ndi msonkhano wokonzekera msonkhano usanachitike woperekedwa ndi Laury Rappaport “Phatikizani zaluso zojambulidwa kuchokera pakuwunika komwe mukuyang'ana kuchipatala” (“Kuphatikiza Zojambula Zowonekera Pazithunzi (FOAT®) muzochita Zanu Zachipatala”).

• Taphunzira zambiri kuchokera pagulu lowerengera m'mawa lotsogozedwa ndi Nancy Falls “'Ine sindine wopwetekedwa mtima!’ – Kuganizira Njira Zothandizira Ana, atsikana ndi atsikana omwe adakumana ndi zoopsa” (“'Sindine Wanga Wovulala!’ - FOT ya Ana ndi Achinyamata Omwe Adakumana Ndi Mavuto”).

Ndipo pakhala pali zokambirana zazifupi zonse (awiri kapena atatu masana onse), omwe akhala mipata yowunika malingaliro atsopano pakugwiritsa ntchito njira zochizira moyang'ana mwachidule, ndi zokambirana zonse ndi zokumana nazo pachakudya, yopuma ndi kutseka ntchito tsiku lililonse.

Ndimabweranso ndimalingaliro ambiri kuti ndipitilize kuwunika momwe ndikugwiritsirira ntchito ma psychotherapy komanso ndi mizere ingapo yantchito kuti ndikafufuze pochita. Ndidzayankhanso pambuyo pake.

Ndipo zimandibweretsanso kumverera kwa gulu lokhala ndi moyo lomwe likukula ndikukula., kuyang'ana njira zatsopano ndi zochitika zatsopano kuti mupitirize “kupititsa moyo patsogolo”.

Chithunzi cha gulu cha omwe atenga nawo mbali pamsonkhano wa FOT (ngongole: Bungwe la International Focusing Institute).

Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndipitiliza kugawana zonse zomwe ndaphunzira.

F. Javier Romeo Biedma