Mai rikice-rikice za a iya warware a wani m, kuma m hanya ga dukan jam'iyyun, bayar da albarkatun da kuma lokacin da za a duƙufa. Wannan na sirri da kuma sana'a kwarewa na shekaru koyo, aikatawa da kuma yada Nonviolent sadarwa. Yana da haka asali (ba sauki) a matsayin dole yanayi na cewa ƙuduri auku. Domin ni akwai da dama da muhimmanci abubuwa, wanda za a iya takaita a cikin wadannan:

• An dace hanya, don ba da damar dukan jam'iyyun da hannu jin lafiya da kuma girmamawa a su 'yancin.
• Na iyawa kwararru da horo a matsayin mai shiga tsakani da kuma zurfin kwarewa ta wajen sauraro da kuma “translation” saƙonni don sanya su sauki a ji ga kowa da kowa.
• A al'umma da cewa tana goyon bayan restorative matakai, duqufad da lokaci, sarari, manpower, horo…
• Mutane shirye don warware rikice-rikice a hanyar da kyakkyawan dukan jam'iyyun ji ji da kuma cewa dukkan jam'iyyun bar gamsu da bayani.

Saboda haka a gare ni shi ne mai farin ciki a raba albarkatun ci gaba da babban al'umma na mutane a cikin unguwa suna Gotleu a Palma de Mallorca (Mallorca), saboda sun tattara yadda suka yi aiki kowanne daga wadannan abubuwa.

A wannan video za ka iya ganin yadda suka yi a da hannu, da farfadowa Cibiyar lafiya da School Success (da Cibiyar lafiya da School Success a Castilian) Gwamnati na Balearic Islands, daga malamai a makarantu Early ga ƙananan yara Ilimi, Primary da kuma Secondary, dalibai dukan zamanai, iyalansu, da kuma Social Services, 'yan sanda, University da sauran manyan zamantakewa kungiyoyin. A wani mosaic sautuka, Mun yi mana wani tunani na irin abubuwan da na samar da cewa cibiyar sadarwa tsaro a harkar m yanayi, kuma muna ganin wasu sakamakon.

Domin a more din view, Shi ne littafin da ya tattara shikan. Da aka buga a Catalan, Castilian da kuma Turanci a cikin tsarin na wani Turai aikin tare da wannan batu, da Guide inganta lafiya tare da restorative Practices / Guide Mejoramos Gwamuwar da ayyuka restorative tasowa da msar tambayar al'amurran da restorative Practices, mafi m data da kuma bayar da kankare misalai da kuma shawarwari domin kara karatu don ƙarin bayani.

Kuma don zurfafa restorative da'ira, a yi rikici ƙuduri samo asali a cikin zaman jama'a girma Nonviolent sadarwa, Za ka iya karanta ban sha'awa monograph Restorative Justice Practices. Restorative Circles da aikace-aikace daban-daban a filayen, girke da Vicenç Rulan, mai nasiha wanda Ina da yardar taron, a kan video da kuma Guide, kuma shi ne mai memba na Association of Justice and restorative ayyuka na Islands (tare da page Castilian da kuma Catalan, da dama albarkatun more). A da kyau gabatarwar, da karfafa irin wannan samfurin. Kuma ka kuma iya kula da videos (Turanci) a kan official website of mahaliccin restorative da'ira, Dominic Barter, RestorativeCircles.org.

Suka yi wasu horo a interpersonal sadarwa tare da ni za ka gani na yawanci ambaci wannan batu na restorative Practices. Ina fatan wadannan albarkatun kadan mafi alhẽri Alal misali abin da kuka ji da ni, kuma ina dogara da tada your kerawa da kuma ka hasashen ci gaba ganowa mafi tasiri da kuma zurfi hanyoyin da za a magance rikice-rikice a cikin ilimi yanayi, da kuma wani yanki.

Javier

da Nonviolent sadarwa kayan aiki ne mai zurfi, cewa ya dace don haɓaka tare da kowace hanya kuma ta cikin duk hanyoyin da za a iya samu. Wadanda suka yi bitar tare da ni, sun ga gurbata albarkatun da nake amfani da su (na gani, sarari…), a tsakanin wasu wasu haruffa waɗanda na yi da hannu, da cewa na yi amfani da su a wasu motsa jiki.

Na yi farin ciki da bayyanar da haruffa kwanan nan “konekta FÁCIL”, wata hanya mai amfani don amfani da hanyoyin mutanen da suke dogaro da gani, musamman yara maza da mata. a Sauki mai sauƙi, ƙaramin kamfanin da ke ƙoƙarin kawo da ƙirƙirar kayan koyarwa don horar da Sadarwa na Rashin Gida a Spain, sun zabi kaddamar da wadannan katunan na nasu tsarin.

Na karɓi wasiƙu kawai “konekta FÁCIL” kuma ina son fannoni da yawa. A hannu daya, da zane, tare da zane mai sauƙi wanda ke sa katunan kuɗi mai araha sosai, tare da bango mai ruwan hoda don ji da launin shuɗi don buƙatu (lambar da ta riga ta zama cikakke a cikin communityungiyar Sadarwar Sadarwar bywararre ta CNV dancefloor).

A gefe guda, hanyar da suke da shi kula da kalmomin: ji na mace ne da na mace, domin duk mutane su ji an hada su cikin sauki; kuma ana yawan bayyana buƙatun ta hanyoyi biyu masu dacewa, ta yadda mutum zai iya bincika wacce kalma ce tafi dacewa da shi.

kuma, kara jerin bada shawarwari don amfani (game shawar), wanda ya dace da wasu hanyoyin tare da izinin ku, daga cikin shahararrun “CNV na kwando”, wanda nake amfani dashi a cikin nazarin karatuttukan.

Daga nan na taya murna ga kungiyar Sauki mai sauƙi don wannan sabon kayan aiki. Ina fatan in gwada su, a cikin bitar na gaba kuma in ga yadda mahalarta suke tunani. A halin yanzu zaku iya bincika ƙarin game da katunan a cikin shashen yanar gizo kuma zaku iya siyan su ta yanar gizo idan kuna da sha'awa.

Na yi imani cewa za ka same su masu amfani kuma cikin sauƙin shiga cikin Sadarwar Rashin Gaggawa.

Javier

CNV dancefloors riga bayyana a cikin version a Castilian, a abin da na yi aiki, kuma ma samuwa a Spanish Fassara bidiyo.

Bridget Belgrave da kuma Gina Lawrie, Formadoras bokan da Center for Nonviolent Sadarwa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa, CNVC), Domin shekaru da suka halitta mai girma kayan aiki don ya koya kuma gudanar da aiki Nonviolent Sadarwa (CNV). Kamar yadda su da kansu da a biyayya, da CNV dancefloor (NVC Dance benaye) Sun fito ta hanyar jerin matakai don tallafa a yi na Nonviolent sadarwa tare da wani sarari maps cewa ba ka damar amfani da jiki girma da aiki da tunanin girma, hanyar da ka gani a cikin wannan bidiyo:

a lokacin rani 2009 Na yi yardar formarme da Gina da kuma saduwa da Bridget, kuma daga can aikin fassara da kuma karbuwa da aka mayar da su zuwa Castilian, wani} o} arin da muke yi, ya taimaka mutane da yawa da kuma na hadewa domin a yayin da. Saboda haka shi ne yardar yada wani sauki kayan aiki da kuma duk da haka sai da babban, karshe a Spain, a cikin abin da muka kula da su sun hada da most yiwu yawan Spanish version.

My kwarewa ne cewa CNV dancefloor mutanen da za su iya gudanar da aiki tare kamar 'yan farko ilimi na Nonviolent Sadarwa (a gaskiya ina amfani da shi wani lokacin a cikin gabatarwa nazarinsa). Ko mutãne waɗanda ba su sani kan aiwatar da kanta Nonviolent Sadarwa (yara, da kuma matasa, abokan ciniki a far) Sun iya haye shi tare da taimako daga wani gogaggen more.

Dancefloors CNV hada da na gani, Kofur, kuma rabe-, don haka da cewa kwarewa na faruwa ne ta ƙarin tashoshi da kuma kwarewa ne zurfi. Kuma akwai tara “raye-raye da” daban-daban, tare da sunaye kamar “Dance na 13 matakai”, “Dance dunkulewa, da kuma Connection”, “Dance na fushi / fusata, Kunya da kuma mawuyacin”, “Dance of a kuma Babu”, da “Canza zafi na unmet bukatun a Beauty Bukatun”.

kuma, a 2013 da suka fito da wasu videos da cewa bayyana uku na wadannan raye-raye da, a wani m edition da ya hada da Spanish subtitles.

Idan kana so ka saya da dancefloor CNV a daban-daban Formats (kamar yadda download PDF, takarda, plasticized version…) kuma DVDs zuwa koyi da su a gida ko a cikin kungiyar yi, za ka iya ziyarci online store, rayuwa Resources.

Kuma idan kana so ka count a gare ni in gwada da dancefloor a guda zaman ko takamaiman nazarinsa, Zan yi farin ciki zuwa bi.

Fata za ku so.

Javier

Ina da darajar koyarwa tare da mai gudanarwa na mai da hankali da kuma abokina Isabel Gasconci Gabatarwa Koyarwar Mayar da hankali “Yadda ake sauraron jikin ku” (Mataki na I). A cikin wannan bitar za mu yi aiki da gogewa kan hanyar sada zumunta ta tunkarar duniyarmu ta ciki daga yanayin jiki.. Halin girmamawa da sha'awar abin da muka samu zai nuna wata hanya ta daban ta kasancewa tare da ciki, da kuma hanyar da ta fi buɗe ido ta tunkarar abin da yara ke fuskanta, da kuma matasa. An yi niyya ga iyaye maza da mata da kuma ƙwararru a cikin dangantakar taimako, za mu dandana ta hanyar gwaje-gwajen ƙwarewa da ƙarin ingantacciyar alaƙa tare da basirar ji na jikin mu.

kwanan: Jumma'a 20 Yuni 2014, na 17:30 wani 21:30 da kuma ranar Asabar 21 Yuni 2014 na 10:00 wani 14:00 da kuma 16:00 wani 20:00.

wuri: Cibiyar Buɗewar Gidauniyar Thyme
C/ Serrano No. 136
Madrid

Ƙarin bayani da rajista a shafin yanar gizon Buɗewar Cibiyar Tomillo Foundation.

Wannan karatun yana da inganci don samun Diploma a Mayar da hankali kan Mayar da hankali Spanish Institute lissafin kudi kamar 12 hours Level na.

[Original shigarwa 2 Yuni 2014, sabunta 21 Yuni 2014, kwanan wata karshen hanya.]

Kwanakin baya na yi tsokaci a cikin shafin yanar gizo na iwararrun iwararru don Yara, inda nake aiki kan al'amuran sadarwar dangi tsakanin iyalai da kwararru masu shiga tsakani da yara, da kuma matasa, cewa wani lokacin bita don inganta sadarwa a cikin iyali ko a cikin aji yana zama don tayar da sha'awa, kuma banda abubuwanda aka samu da kayan aikin da aka koya, mutane da yawa suna neman ƙarin kayan abin dogaro. Ina son bayar da shawarar littafi ta Adele Faber y Elaine Mazlish (masu horo da uwaye) tare da suggestive suna Yadda za a yi magana don yaranku su saurare ku kuma ku saurari yaranku za su yi magana da ku, ingantacciyar hanyar sadarwa tare da yara wacce ta bayyana a ciki 1980. Shekaru da yawa ya zama ma'auni don kyakkyawar tarbiyya: tabbatarwa da tabbatar da sauraro yayin sanya iyaka da cimma yarjejeniyoyi masu gamsarwa ga duk bangarorin da abin ya shafa.

Byarfafawa daga bita da duka marubutan suka yi, littafin an tsara shi ta hanyar abubuwan da ke ciki: babi 1. Yadda za a taimaka wa yara su jimre da yadda suke ji. babi 2. Yadda za'a inganta hadin kai. babi 3. Madadin hukunci. babi 4. Yadda ake motsa cin gashin kai. babi 5. Yabo. babi 6. Yadda za a kubuta daga bugun rubutu. babi 7. Bari mu sake bayani. kuma, a cikin sabuwar fitowar ta 2013 da Medici na Edita ya hada da waiwaye daga marubutan game da abubuwan da suka koya da abubuwan da suka faru a cikin shekaru sama da talatin da kuma wani labari mai motsawa daga Joanna Faber, tare da gogewarta a matsayin ɗiyar marubucin Adele Faber da haɗuwarta da mahaifiyarta.

Daga kyakkyawan hangen nesa na mutumtaka da alaƙar ɗan adam, rubutun ya dogara ne akan dalilai na asali da misalai da yawa, wasu zane tare da zane-zane waɗanda suke kamar rayuwa kanta, kuma yana ba da shawarwari koyaushe don aiwatarwa tare da yaran muhallinmu. Kodayake an fara shi ne da farko ga iyalai, Hakanan za'a iya amfani dashi a fagen ilimi da zamantakewa (kodayake marubutan suna da wasu takamaiman littattafai don batun karatun).

Kuma idan yayanki maza da mata (ko daliban da kuke aiki dasu) sun girmi, haka nan za ku iya duba littafin na marubutan guda Yadda ake magana don matasa zasu saurare ku kuma yadda zaku saurari matasa zasuyi magana da ku, miƙa wasu ra'ayoyi daban-daban (dace da lokacin da suka tsufa) kuma koyaushe nasihu mai amfani, hakan zai iya sanya ka murmushi.

Ina muku barka da karatu, da kuma cewa kuna jin daɗin bincika sabbin hanyoyin sadarwa.

Javier

Kamar yadda wani labarin a cikin an shige daga blog na Espirales Consulting Children, abin da Ni memba, tsakanin Sabuwar Shekara ta, daga Yara karkace Consulting mu yi nufin baza rigakafi da sa baki kayan aikin a affectivity, kariya da interpersonal sadarwar da aka riga ta amfani da yara, da kuma matasa da kuma mu karfafa iyalai da kuma kwararru. Wani lokaci muna bayar da shawarar kayan aikin da suka sosai kadan da aka buga a Castilian, ko tunani matani ne wuya a samu. Sa'an nan ba alamu da fatan cewa suna da alaqa.

Yana ba shine al'amarin ba ga Mayar da hankali, da tsari da kuma dabara na jiki m, da ciwon m adabi a Castilian. Yana zuwa ne mai dabara ci gaba da Eugene Gendlin, Na iyawa humanist Falsafa da psychotherapist, to sane ci gaba da ikon hulɗa tare da motsin zuciyarmu daban. shi ne (bayyana a cikin wani dunƙule) don amfani nassoshi jiki majiyai da motsin zuciyarmu ga aikin kusa da ciki duniya (imani, internalized saƙonnin, maimaita tunani…). Ina sane da cewa ya bayyana, kuma bai ce yawa, kuma shi ne cewa Yana zuwa ne, m, iyawa, kuma saboda haka za a iya gane ta fuskantar. a, da zarar gwada, mafi yawan mutane gane shi a matsayin halitta abu, wani abu da “suka faru wani lokaci”, da dabara don amfani Mayar da hankali koyi a lokacin da muka, da haka ne, ba ya dogara ne muna tãre da wani musamman centeredness ko damar.

Kamar yadda da wasu dabaru sani, Na kusata Mayar da hankali kan 2009 Ina tunanin cewa zai iya samun aikace-aikace a baki tare da yara, kuma duk da haka ina aka captivated da damar cewa ya taimake ni samu kaina a matsayin mutum kuma a matsayin sana'a. Idan kun kasance m ga wannan layi na aikin, Na shirya biyu sabon tsarin, “Mayar da hankali da kuma wani tunanin ilimi a yara, da kuma matasa” da kuma “Mayar da hankali da kuma tashin hankali rigakafin a yara, da kuma matasa” (biyu, da fitarwa domin aikin hukuma horo Yana zuwa, tun ina gane kamar yadda Certified nasiha (Certified Trainer) da The Yana zuwa Cibiyar da kuma Mayar da hankali Spanish Institute).

Saboda haka to whet ka ci na bayar da shawarar da ban mamaki littafin da Marta Stapert da Erik Verliefde Mayar da hankali tare da yara. Ma'adanin na sadarwa da yara da kuma matasa a makaranta da kuma a gida, wallafa da Editorial Desclée Amae tarin, tare da dubawa na Spanish edition Isabel Gasconci kuma Lucia Ema, Mayar da hankali kafa da kyau abokai na mine. Written by Marta Stapert, a yara psychotherapist da kuma gudanar Yana zuwa, y Erik Verliefde, da wani malami, da littafin shi ne babban gabatarwar zuwa adult Yana zuwa, a lokaci guda miƙa ayyuka da kuma m darussan ga mutãne waɗanda ke da yara, da kuma matasa a kusa da, ba kawai professionals warkewa da kuma ilimi filayen, amma kuma ga iyalai. Iyaye suka karanta shi sun samu shi da amfani sosai, kuma m, ko da yake a fili akwai wasu darussan da inganta yawa a cikin wata warkewa yanayi.

Fata za ku ji dadin (za ku iya take a look at wasu daga cikin abun ciki a cikin website na m).

Javier

A matsayin mashawarcin yara a cikin Yara karkace Consulting ana sa ran koyar da modules na “Ingantacciyar Ilimi don Rigakafin Tashin hankali” da kuma “Sadarwa Tsakanin Mutum Don Rigakafin Rikici” (tushe na Sadarwar Nonviolent don ƙwararrun Ilimin zamantakewa) a cikin kwas “Sabon malamin zamantakewa: Ɗaukaka ƙwarewar sana'a a cikin Ilimin zamantakewa” wanda Makarantar Horas da Masu Horas da Masu Horarwa ta shirya Ƙungiyar iri.

kwanakin (na modules): Talata 1, Laraba 2, Alhamis 3 da juma'a 4 Oktoba 2013, na 16:00 wani 20:30.

wuri: Ƙungiyar iri
Paseo Alberto Palacios No. 13
28021 Madrid

Informationarin bayani da rajista: 91 798 69 55

Zazzage daftarin karatun “Sabon malamin zamantakewa: Ɗaukaka ƙwarewar sana'a a cikin Ilimin zamantakewa”

[Original shigarwa 3 Satumba 2013, sabunta 4 Oktoba 2013, kwanan watan kammala kayayyaki.]

Saboda dacewar sa don haɓaka halayyar ɗabi'a game da ƙarfin da kowa yake da shi, ba tare da la’akari da shekarunmu da kuma kwarewar da muka samu ba, Na kwafa nan abun ciki na shigowar da na buga a cikin Consultwararrun Childhoodwararrun Yara, tunda yana nuna kyakkyawan hangen nesa na ɗan adam.

Tunda na karanta game da ka'idar fahimta da yawa, gabatarwa da haɓaka ta masanin halayyar ɗan adam Howard Gardner, Na yi matukar jan hankali. Wannan Ba'amurke mai ilimin halin ɗan adam ya ba da shawarar a 1983 cewa hankali bai kasance ba ne na musamman (abin da ma'aunin gwaje-gwaje na gargajiya yake da shi na hankali-lissafi da ilimin harshe), amma yana da yawa (lambar tana ƙaruwa tsawon shekaru da bincike), sannan kuma cewa kowane ɗayan ilimin na iya haɓaka. Tun daga wannan lokacin ya haɗu da bincike tare da haɓaka keɓaɓɓun kayan koyarwa don ingantaccen ilimi, kuma cibiyoyi da yawa sun amince da aikinsa, ciki har da Kyautar Yariman Asturias don Kimiyyar Zamani a 2011.

Begoña Ibarrola, masanin halayyar dan adam wanda ya kware a ci gaban motsin rai yayin yarinta, ya kawo mu kusa da haziƙai daban-daban a cikin littafinsa Labarai don gano wayewa, buga ta Rukunin SM tare da zane mai ban sha'awa na Anne Decis. Labarin tafiya na ƙungiyar wasu samari da 'yan mata na duniya zuwa Pegasus, inda suke haɗuwa da wasu baƙi maza da mata, ya zama uzuri don bincika hikimar harshe (iyawa tare da kalmomi da yare), Lissafi lissafi logician (mai alaƙa da lambobi da aiki mai ma'ana), viso-sarari (ikon iya ɗaukar bayanan sarari da na gani, kamar yadda yake a cikin zane-zane da injiniya), m (menene alaƙar kiɗa), kofur-kinesthetic (duk abin da ya shafi jiki da motsi), hulda da juna (mai alaƙa da ƙarfin sanin kai na ciki), interpersonal (menene alaƙar zamantakewar da ƙungiya), masanin halitta (kula da yanayi) kuma ya wanzu (ikon yin tunani game da rayuwa da sauran batutuwan falsafa). Kowane bangare na rukuni na ƙasa an haɗa shi tare da wani na Pegasus kuma tare suna bincika hikimar da suke wakilta a cikin labarai daban-daban na littafin.

Ya dace da yara maza da mata na makarantar firamare (kodayake ana iya amfani da shi daga shekara hudu), kowane labari ana gabatar dashi ta hanyar jerin jagorori da shawarwarin aiki ga iyalai da ƙwararru. A ganina abu ne mai matukar mahimmanci don bincika tare da yara ikonsu daban-daban da kuma wayar da kan jama'a game da haɓaka su., yayin inganta wayar da kai da ganin girman kai. A gefe guda, littafi ne da ke taimakawa wajen kimanta bambance-bambancen ta hanyar nuna duk abin da kowane mai hankali ke bayarwa (kuma suna iya yin bayani dalla-dalla abin da abokansu suka kawo su daga ƙarfin kowane ɗayan).

Ina fata za ku ji dadin shi kamar yadda ni.

Alex Rovira, kasuwanci mai bada shawara, lecturer kuma marubuci gwajin duka biyu kamar yadda labari, Shi yana da kyau view of mutum sosai kusa da abin da muke da shi daga Nonviolent sadarwa da kuma Yana zuwa.

Wannan gajeren video ya ba da wasu muhimman hakkokin keys aiki tare da mutane, biyu business management da kuma ga wadanda suka sa baki a kan more sirri da kuma zamantakewa. A key magana “bugun jini tattalin arzikin” nuna daya daga cikin muhimman matsalolin da cewa na yi kokarin kai a cikin aikin horo da kuma tallafi: mutane nema da za a gani, za a gane, kuma idan ba mu samu ta hanyar abin da muka nema kyau ta hanyar mafi m kira da hankali. A key shi ne ya zama na sane da wannan koyi karanta tsakanin Lines. Don ni wannan taimaka da ni a cikin aikin da matasa da iyalansu, kuma shi ne babban kayan aiki domin gina gadoji tsakanin mutane.

Na ƙarfafa ka ganin video (sau da yawa, ko da, kama da tausasãwa) kuma ku yin tunãni a kan yadda za a kafa da bugun jini tattalin arzikin a cikin zaman rayuwarsu, kuma ma a cikin sana'a.

Fata za ku ji dadin.

Javier