A matsayina na masanin ilimin halayyar dan adam na raba lokacin dana kware tsakanin aikin asibiti wanda ke rakiyar mutane a cikin hanyoyin warkewar su a Madrid da kuma shawarwari da horar da kungiyoyi masu nasaba da kare yara., 'yan mata da matasa daga Espirales Consultoría de Infancia. Don haka abin farin ciki ne a gare ni in gabatar da littafin Rakiyar raunuka na rai. Rauni a lokacin kuruciya da kuma samartaka, cewa na shirya wa SOS Yankin Gidajen Yankin Yara na SOS a Latin Amurka da Caribbean.

Don ƙarin cikakkun bayanai kan wannan ɗaba'ar, abubuwan da ke cikin ta da kuma alaƙa da wasu littattafan kariya daga yara, zaku iya karantawa wannan shafin blog daga Espirales CI.

Abubuwa biyu na daftarin:

• Rakiyar raunuka na rai. Rauni a lokacin kuruciya da kuma samartaka, shafi mai sauki (mafi dadi don bugawa a firinta da kuma karatu akan wayar hannu ko kwamfutar hannu).
• Rakiyar raunuka na rai. Rauni a lokacin kuruciya da kuma samartaka, shafi biyu (don gani akan babban allo ko kuma bugawa a latsa).

A cikin wannan blog Ina kawai in ƙara da cewa bayanin lalacewa a matsayin tsari ya dogara Tsarin tsari (Tsarin Tsari) de Eugene Gendlin, da kuma bayanin abubuwanda suka shafi wadanda na san su daga Ma’aikatan Ma’aikata da Ma’aikata Ann Weiser Cornell da kuma Barbara McGavin. Za a iya samun kalmomin zuwa takamaiman wuraren a shafukan 16-20 na rubutu.

Ina fatan da sakamako mai kyau.

F. Javier Romeo

Wayar na jiki a matsayin wani wuri na kariya da tashin hankali ne daya daga cikin na sana'a manyan al'amurra key. wannan bitar, “Mayar da hankali, jiki da kuma kariya: Mayar da hankali ga rigakafin tashin hankali” Ina hada aikina fiye da shekaru goma sadaukar domin kare yara da daban-daban iri tashin hankali (na karshe shekaru takwas Yara karkace Consulting) da ikon da dabara Mayar da hankali, Sai ya taimaka da ni duka biyu da kaina, kuma da fasaha.

Mayar da hankali zai iya samar da wata sabuwar hanya ta haifar da tsaro a rayuwarmu ta cikin jiki. Dukan mutane muna son da za a bi da kyau, tare da girmamawa da shawara. duk da haka, shaida tashin hankali a daban-daban matakan akai-akai. Idan mu ma a lamba tare da yara, da kuma matasa, biyu a cikin iyalai da kuma daga aikin mu, muna ganin da yawa yanayi na tashin hankali da mu tambayi kanmu yadda za a hana shi. Wannan bitar ne da amfani ga aikin haka vivencial wani aiki ra'ayi na tashin hankali tare da wani iyawa tushe daga jiki. Saboda haka za mu iya gane tashin hankali daga jikin mu, alhãli kuwa mũ aiki fiye da a fili da kuma m, a rayuwarmu, kuma a cikin masu sana'a filin.

Wannan bitar ne domin mutane sha'awar koyon ƙari game da yaya sarrafa tashin hankali daga wani hadari wuri a cikin jiki, duka biyu da kaina, kuma da fasaha (zamantakewa baki kwararru daga Psychology, psychotherapy, zaman jama'a aiki, ilimi…). Babu bukatar kafin sanin Yana zuwa (ko da yake shi zai zama wani amfani). Wannan bitar ne a gane monograph domin samun da Diploma a Yana zuwa da Mayar da hankali Spanish Institute.

kwanan: Asabar 11 Nuwamba 2017 na 10:00 wani 14:00 da kuma 16:00 wani 20:00 da kuma Lahadi 12 Nuwamba 2017 na 10:00 wani 14:00.

wuri: sarari “Ku ciyar wannan ne gida”
C / Costa Brava, shigar C / La Masó 2, shuka 1, gida 8
28031 Madrid
(Metro Paco de Lucia, line 9; bas 133,134 da kuma 178)

farashin: 170 Tarayyar Turai.

More bayanai da rajista Mayar da hankali Centro, tsari horo: focusingcentro@gmail.com

Ina fatan cewa shi ne ban sha'awa,

F. Javier Romeo

[Original shigarwa 16 Oktoba 2017, sabunta 12 Nuwamba 2017, Kwanan wata na samuwar].

Jin dadi sosai na girmamawa da jin kunya da kunya sun taso a kaina yayin da nake raba wannan hira.. A bayyane zan iya jin nauyin yin magana akan aikin da nake yi “Mayar da hankali da kuma yadda ake aiki da ƙwarewa tare da al'amuran tashin hankali” (“Mayar da hankali da kuma yadda ake aiki tare da tashin hankali”), kamar yadda taken Turanci na tattaunawar ke cewa. Lamari ne mai mahimmanci a wurina (Ina aiki da yawa akan shi ta hanyar Yara karkace Consulting, tuntuɓar ƙwararre a cikin Kariyar Yara wanda ni abokin haɗin gwiwa ne), kuma kokarin isar da dukkan yanayin koyaushe kalubale ne.

da International Institute Yana zuwa (The International Institute Yana zuwa, kungiyar da ke tsarawa a matakin kasa da kasa ayyukan da suka shafi horarwa da kuma yada Focusing) inganta “Tattaunawa” (Turanci) tare da Mai da hankali kan kwararru daga ko'ina cikin duniya. Serge prengel, a mai da hankali mai ba da horo da mai da hankali kan ilimin halayyar dan adam da na sadu da shi a Yana zuwa taron kasa da kasa 2016 en Cambridge (United Kingdom), yana aiki a matsayin mai masauki, kuma yana yin hakan ta hanyar Mayar da hankali - tare da nuna damuwa, tare da dakatarwa, kyale sabbin dabaru su bayyana kuma su bayyana yadda kake so -.

A cikin wannan “Tattaunawa” za ku ga cewa mun tattauna batutuwa kamar su masu zuwa:

• Rikici azaman tsari mai tsayayye (“Dole ne wani abu ya faru don ciyar da yanayin gaba, amma hakan bata faru ba, sab thatda haka, aiwatar da aka katange”).
• Lalacewa tana bayyana tashin hankali, kuma lalacewar ana dandanawa daga jiki.
• Nemi wani “rikewa” (“rikewa”) don tashin hankali (gano ta) shine farkon matakin fita daga ciki: saboda wannan ya zama dole mu zama masu sanin al'adun gargajiya wadanda suke sa mu daidaita tashin hankali.
• Matsayin iko a cikin rikici.
• Coupleauna tare haɗe da kulawa azaman hanya don guje wa tashin hankali –da kuma girman jiki wanda za a iya cimma ta hanyar Mai da hankali--.
• Ganowa da shiga tsakani a cikin tashin hankali a cikin Kariyar Yara.
• Sakon bege game da yuwuwar warkarwa da canza tashin hankali, da Mayar da hankali azaman kayan aiki masu girma don aikata shi.

Kuma idan kuna son sanin yadda ake canza ƙwarewar tashin hankali daga jiki ta hanyar Mai da hankali, Ina nan don takamaiman zaman na don psychotherapy a Madrid.

Ina fatan zaku iya samun wasu ra'ayoyin waɗanda zasu iya ba ku damar aikin gwanintar da ku game da tashin hankali, kuma zan so in ji motsin ku game da shi.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedermann

Karanta wannan post in English

Jin dadi sosai na girmamawa da jin kunya nazo gare ni lokacin da na raba wannan hira. Zan iya jin nauyin aikin magana game da aikin da nake yi “Mayar da hankali da kuma yadda ake aiki tare da tashin hankali”, kamar yadda taken tattaunawar yake cewa. Labari ne mai mahimmanci a wurina (Ina aiki da yawa game da shi ta hanyar Yara karkace Consulting, kamfanin ba da shawara na kasa da kasa da ya kware a Kariyar Yara na hadin gwiwa), kuma kokarin isar da dukkan yanayin shi kalubale ne koyaushe.

The International Institute Yana zuwa (kungiyar da ke tsara ayyukan kasashen Duniya masu maida hankali kan horo da yadawa) yana tallafawa wata-wata “Tattaunawa” tare da Mai da hankali kan ƙwararru a duk faɗin duniya. Serge prengel, a mai da hankali mai ba da horo da mai da hankali kan ilimin halayyar dan adam wanda na sadu da shi a Taron Kasa da Kasa na Duniya 2016 a Cambridge (UK), yana aiki a matsayin mai gida, kuma yana yin hakan ta hanyar Mayar da hankali sosai -relect, tare da dakatarwa, barin sabbin dabaru su bayyana kuma su inganta a lokacin su.

A cikin wannan “Tattaunawa” za ku ga tattauna batutuwa kamar waɗannan masu zuwa:

• Rikici azaman hanyar dakatarwa (“Yakamata wani abu ya faru don ciyar da wani yanayi gaba, kuma bai faru ba, don haka aikin sai ya makale”).
• Cutar ta bayyana tashin hankali, kuma cutar tana rayuwa daga jiki.
• Neman makama don tashin hankali (gano shi) shine farkon matakin fita daga ciki: sanin al'adun mu wadanda suke daidaita tashin hankali.
• Matsayin iko a cikin rikici.
• Linkedaunar da ke da alaƙa da kulawa azaman hanya don guje wa tashin hankali –da kuma girman jiki wanda za a iya isa ga shi ta hanyar Mai da hankali.
• Gano tashin hankali da tsoma baki cikin Kariyar Yara.
• Sakon bege game da warkarwa da canza tashin hankali, da Mayar da hankali azaman kayan aikin ban mamaki don yin hakan.

Ina fatan zaku sami wani ra'ayi ko biyu wanda zai iya karfafa kwarewarku game da aikin tashin hankali, kuma zan so jin daga gare ku game da shi.

F. Javier Romeo-Biedermann

Karanta wannan shigarwa a cikin Mutanen Espanya (kodayake ita kanta hirar tana cikin Turanci ne).

dogaye “Gano wani Handle for Rikici A Our Lives” (“Nemo a rike tashin hankali a rayuwarmu”) a kan aiwatar da Mayar da hankali su hana tashin hankali 27Th taron kasa da kasa Yana zuwa 2016 en Cambridge (United Kingdom), shirya da Birtaniya Yana zuwa Association, da kuma bude wa 'yan International Institute Yana zuwa (The Yana zuwa Cibiyar) duniya.

kwanan: sabon kwanan wata: Asabar 23 Yuli 2016, na 11:00 wani 13:00.

wuri: Robinson College
Cambridge
United Kingdom

description: Lokacin da muke aiki tare da yara, samartaka da kuma matasa, a-hadarin alƙarya, yanayin zaman jama'a baki, tare da abokan ciniki a far, za mu iya ganin sakamakon tashin hankali a rayuwarsu. A wannan taron za mu yi aiki experientially a sami wani igiya amintacciya ga tashin hankali a rayukan mu a matsayin mataki na farko a hana kuma gane yanayi na tashin hankali. Bari mu bincika yadda za a gane tashin hankali daga wani jiki fuskar kuma karfafawa Yana zuwa-kuma canza tashin hankali kewaye da mu-akwai.

jawabi ga: sana'a (Psychology, warkewa shiga tsakani, ilimi, zaman jama'a aiki, da dai sauransu.) aiki tare da yara, 'yan mata, matasa da kuma matasa, a-hadarin alƙarya, tare da abokan ciniki a far; Mutanen da suka yi aiki domin canji (da ƙungiyoyi, tushe, da dai sauransu.); da kuma jama'a sha'awar manajan tashin hankali a sabon hanyoyi.

gudanarwa:
F. Javier Romeo-Biedermann Yana da wani asibiti psychologist, An bokan a matsayin mai nasiha da kuma psychotherapist Yana zuwa mayar da hankali daidaitacce, a Madrid, Spain, kuma shi ne na kasa da kasa shawara a kan yaro kariya, Affective da interpersonal Sadarwa Yara karkace Consulting (duniya shawarwari kamfanin cewa basu horo da kuma shawara a kan Kariya na Children). Aikinsa tare da yara, 'yan mata, matasa da kuma matasa a hadarin a Spain, Morocco da Mauritania zai yi jagoranci da gudanar da nazari a kan yin rigakafi, ganewa da kuma warkar da tashin hankali (da kuma cewa ya hada da zurfi kwarewa a Nonviolent Sadarwa). Har ila yau aikata psychotherapy da kuma koyar Yana zuwa, Nonviolent sadarwa da ilimin halin dan Adam Gaskiya Connection More. Ya ba da horo a Spain (su harshe), Turanci, Faransa da kuma Morocco Larabci.

Karanta wannan post in English.

[Original shigarwa 27 Mayu 2016, sabunta 23 Yuli 2016, kwanan watan bitar].

Workshop “Gano wani Handle for Rikici A Our Lives” a 27th International Conference Yana zuwa 2016 a Cambridge (UK), shirya da Birtaniya Yana zuwa Association, bude don membobin The Yana zuwa Cibiyar daga ko'ina cikin duniya.

Dates: New kwanan wata: Asabar 23rd Yuli 2016, daga 11:00 to 13:00.

Place: Robinson College
Cambridge
United Kingdom

description: Lokacin da muka yi aiki tare da yara da kuma matasa, tare da at-hadarin alƙarya, a zamantakewa saituna, tare da abokan ciniki a far, za mu iya ganin sakamakon tashin hankali a rayuwarsu. A wannan taron za mu yi aiki experientially samu makama ga tashin hankali a rayukan mu, a matsayin mataki na farko a hana kuma gane yanayi na tashin hankali. Za mu gano yadda za a gane tashin hankali daga wani Yana zuwa da aiwatuwa hangen zaman karfafa kanmu -transforming tashin hankali kewaye da mu.

Target masu sauraro: professionals (Psychologists, therapists, malamai, zamantakewa ma'aikata, da dai sauransu.) aiki tare da yara da kuma matasa, tare da at-hadarin alƙarya, tare da abokan ciniki a far; mutane aiki domin canji (da ƙungiyoyi, tushe, da dai sauransu.); da kuma jama'a sha'awar rubutu da tashin hankali a sabon hanyoyi.

gudanarwa:
F. Javier Romeo-Biedermann ne a asibiti psychologist, Bokan Yana zuwa Trainer kuma Psychotherapist tushen a Madrid, Spain, da kuma na kasa da kasa shawara a kan Child Kariya, Affectivity da kuma sadarwa a Yara karkace Consulting (na duniya faratis m ya Co-kafa da samar da horo da kuma kima a Child Kariya). Aikinsa tare da at-kasadar yara da matasa a Spain, Morocco da Mauritania ya kai shi ga bincike a kan tashin hankali rigakafin, ganewa da kuma waraka (ciki har da wani zurfin kwarewa a Nonviolent Sadarwa). Ya kuma yana da wani zaman yi da kuma koyar Yana zuwa, Nonviolent sadarwa da kuma Psychotherapy a Gaskiya Connection More. Ya sanar da in Spanish (uwarsa harshe), Turanci, Faransa da kuma Morocco Larabci.

Dubi wannan shigarwa a Spain.

[Original post na May 27th. 2016, updated a kan Yuli 23rd. 2016, kwanan watan bitar].

A cikin layi na ci gaba da bikin bazaar shekara da ta gabata na labarun de Ganyen Pepa, babban abokina kuma abokin tarayya a cikin Yara karkace Consulting (Inda muke aiki kan batutuwan da suka shafi tasiri game da ilimin yara), wannan shigarwar ta cika na baya, Magana game da littafinsa Harshen bishiyoyi. Wannan labari, Mai sihiri na tunani, An buga ta Edine Mai Fineo tare da misalai na Margarita Sada.

Pepa da kanta ta faɗi manufarta ga wannan littafin tare da kalmomin masu zuwa:

Mai sihiri na tunani magana game da caves, da kuma yadda caves da massages suke bauta wa don daidaita tunanin mutum, domin waccan yaran da thatan matan da manya suka ce ba su tsaya tsaye ba, wanda ba zai iya tsara tunaninsu ba, ko don rufe bakinsu ko mayar da hankali ... Saboda haka yaran nan da 'yan mata suna da sihiri na “sihiri” don su iya saka tsari cikin kansu. A cikin waɗancan tunanin da ke zurfin zurfin komai ba ne face fruita fruitan farjinsa na ban mamaki.

Ga wannan na ƙara da cewa labari ne wanda za'a iya dacewa da shi sosai don koyarwa Mayar da hankali ga yara maza da mata saboda dalilai masu zuwa:

• Bayyana ra'ayi mai kyau da kuma maraba da tunani, abin mamaki, juyayinsu, motsin zuciyarmu da kuma gogewa gaba ɗaya waɗanda yara maza da mata suke da shi (sannan kuma muna da manya): abin da ke cikinmu yana da ma'anarsa idan muka samar da shi hanyar da ta dace.
• Yara za su iya yin abubuwa masu ma'ana don yin la’akari da abubuwan da suke samu a ciki, saboda haka su kwantar da hankalinsu (da kuma, dukda cewa baiyi bayanin shi ba a labarin, kuma a gare su su bayyana), kuma wadanda muke kusa dasu zamu iya bin su.
• Abubuwan da suka shafi ciki sun fi dacewa tare da wasu matakan motsa jiki. Pepa ya ba da labari a cikin labarin cewa ya ba da hankali ga yankunan da abin ya shafa (shugaban masu yin zanga-zangar, a wannan yanayin), amma kayi bayani a shafi na karshe, “Kalmomi don ran manya”, cewa za a iya samun wasu hanyoyi masu yawa, Idan jikin yana da hannu.

Don haka ina matukar ba da shawarar wannan littafin a zaman wata hanyar gabatar da Mayar da hankali ta hanyar kyautata rayuwar yara..

Na amince za ku so shi sosai kamar yadda nake yi,

Javier

Shekarun farko da buga labarin an kammala shi kwanan nan Harshen bishiyoyi na Ganyen Pepa, abokina ƙaunataccena kuma abokin tarayya a ciki Yara karkace Consulting (inda muke aiki kan batutuwan kare yara). Wannan labari, wallafa da Edine Mai Fineo kuma an misalta ta Martina Vanda, yana da gabatarwa da yawa, kuma na farko yana cikin Madrid Book Fair of 2015 a kusa da waɗannan kwanakin, don haka ya zama kamar ya dace a tuna da shi tare da wannan shafin yanar gizon.

Pepa ya gabatar da littafin kamar haka:

Harshen bishiyoyi game da mutuwa ne. Ko kuma akasin hakan na ƙaunar da ke haɗu da ɗayan rayuwar. Yi magana game da mutanen da ke da raba zuciya, "Rabin ƙasa da rabi a sama", kuma an rubuta shi don yawancin yara maza da mata (wadanda suke yara maza yanzu da sauran yaran maza da mata wadanda ke boye a karkashin fata manya) waɗanda suke da zukatansu kamar wannan.

Ina son bayyana wasu bangarori guda uku wanda zan bayar da shawarar wannan labarin (kuma shi ya sa na riga na ba da ita a kan fiye da lokaci ɗaya):

• Muhimmancin gano hanyar alaƙa da marigayin, ana iya yin noma a rayuwa ko kuma da zarar mutuwa ta faru. Ba a makara ba wajen kirkiro wani tsari da zai ba mu ma'anar danganta da wadanda mu ke raye har yanzu.
• Bangaren jiki na baƙin ciki, wannan ya nuna da alama. Wander, matsa kusa da filin, yi karimcin tare da jiki… taimaka mana mafi kyawun asarar tsari, ko da kuwa zamani.
• Taushin hali da ya mamaye aikin yana kiranmu mu kula da dangantakar a cikin kowane irin halin baƙin ciki tare da dukkan yara maza da mata: tare da waɗanda suke da shekaru, da wanda muke dauke da yaran mu na ciki da ciki (kuma suna bukatar hankalin ka).

Ga duk waɗannan da ƙarin abubuwa, littafi ne da na yi la'akari da shawarar karatu., kuma musamman don samun shi a lokacin da asarar rayuka ta faru a cikin mahallin.

Ina fata za ku ji dadin shi kamar yadda ni.

Javier

Wannan karshen mako na yi girmamawa ga musharaka a cikin Na Congress a Wani tunanin Ilimi Navarra, shirya kafa iyaye. An wani taro shirya tare da babban amfani, tare da mai kula da mai kyau kashi na ƙarfin hali. My gabatar da aka musamman game da “Affective ilimi da kare da fyade”, daya daga cikin jigogi da aiki daga Yara karkace Consulting, wadda ni a kafa memba. Amma a karshen akwai wani panel tattaunawa tare da tambayoyi ga dukkan jawabai, muna da aka raba tare da moderation na Sonsoles Echevarren, 'yar jarida daga Diario de Navarra. Sai ya zama mai ban sha'awa lokaci, kuma ko da yake tambayoyi da aka jawabi ga kowane mai magana, a karshen akwai mutane da yawa a cikin abin da muka shiga da dama more. A wannan mahallin mai ban sha'awa tambaya ya tashi, “Ta yaya za ka kasa kunne ga wani yaro wanda ya ki ya bar wurin shakatawa?”. ban sha'awa da kuma muhimmanci amsoshin da aka bayar, da na fito da taimako: “Sauraro a’ a cikin 'ba'”.

Rescue a cikin wannan blog saboda labarin 'Saurari “a” a cikin “babu”‘, wanda aka buga a cikin yawan 52 (Janairu 2011) mujallar Our kusurwa na 0-6, wallafa Santa Fe (Ya ci gaba ba sakewa sabon lambobin, ko da yake har yanzu akwai). Wannan labarin ci gaba fiye da broadly abin da na yi jãyayya sa'an nan: a lokacin da wani mutum (da kuma wani yaro ko yarinya ne ma wani mutum) dan lido “babu”, Yana cewa “a” abubuwa da yawa, kuma idan muka yi biyayya da dukan sakon, za mu iya ƙirƙirar zurfi dangane da samun m bayani ga dukan jam'iyyun. A labarin da ta fara:

uwar, biyu da rabi shekaru, Ta ba ya son ta gashi je waje. José, shekaru hudu, Ba ka son ka rasa lilo je gida. Irene, shekaru biyar, Ba ya so ya je barci. Me ya sa ba ka yi wadanda abubuwa da matsayin manya mu ze daidai m?

Kuma abin da ba mu yi gaba? ¿Mun samar da yi abin da suke so? Sa'an nan kuma mu ji dadi ba, saboda mun ba su aiki don su ilimi, da ma shi ne yake ba mu ji na barin ajiye abin da muka yadda mutane ma so. Za ka tilasta su su yi abin da za mu so? Sa'an nan mun tabbas zai tattaunawa da kuma mummunan yanayi na dogon lokaci, dogon lokaci kuma muna koya musu cewa a karshen da muhimmanci shi ne cewa suna da ikon, ko kuma karfin, da kuma cewa tattaunawa kawai hidima a lokacin da shi rarrauna ne. A na sirri da kuma sana'a kwarewa akwai wani na uku hanya, dangane da zurfi sadarwa a kowane daga cikin wadannan yanayi. Kuma daya daga cikin dabarun da cewa mun ci gaba a cikin nazarinsa na sauƙaƙe ne ikon saurara ga abin da suka ce “a” mu yara a lõkacin da suka ce “babu”.

Download da cikakken labarin “saurari “a” a cikin “babu”‘

Fata za ku sãme shi a ban sha'awa.

Javier

Abin da ya gabata 6 Oktoba Marshall Rosenberg, mahaliccin Ubangiji Nonviolent sadarwa, yana da shekara tamanin kuma wadancan da suka dandana amfanin aikin sa muna bikin.

Marshall B. Rosenberg an haife shi 6 Oktoba 1934 a Canton, Ohio (Kasar Amurka), dangi ya koma ciki 1943 Detroit, Michigan, jim kadan kafin a fara wannan tarzoma a wannan shekarar. Marshall ya faɗi yadda ƙwarewar tashin hankali ya ba shi alama. Ya kuma samu tashin hankali a makaranta, ta hanyar gano shi a matsayin Bayahude da sunansa na ƙarshe. Kamar yadda shi da kansa ya fada, gano cewa akwai mutanen da zasu iya jin daɗin yin lahani. Kuma a lokaci guda, zai iya ganin yadda sauran mutane suka sami damar motsawa tare da tausayi a cikin mawuyacin yanayi (kakarsa, cewa a lokacin rikicin ya sami damar ciyar da mutane akan titi; ko kawun ka, wanda ya sami damar ciyar da warkar da tsohuwa).

Daga baya ya karanci ilimin halin dan Adam ya samu digirin digirgir tare da Carl Rogers a ciki 1961, tabbatacce cancanta a matsayin mai ilimin halin kwantar da hankali a ciki 1966. duk da haka, hanyar ilimin halin dan Adam bai gamsar dashi ba, tare da wannan fifikon kwaskwarimar alamomin da bincike. Ya ci gaba da bincike da horo (ya kuma horar da Mayar da hankali, kuma a zahiri ya bada shawarar shi a cikin horarwar sa), kuma a karshen halitta aiwatar da Nonviolent sadarwa kamar yadda muke saninsa a halin yanzu.

Tun daga 1980s ya yi aiki a ƙasashen waje biyu don sasanta rikice-rikicen rikici da haɓaka ƙananan ƙwarewar warware rikici a rayuwarmu ta yau da kullun., rikice-rikice tare da wasu mutane da rikice-rikice na ciki. 'Yan shekarun da suka gabata ya yi ritaya, bayan aikata ɗaruruwan ɗabi'a a duniya kuma bayan sun kafa Cibiyar Sadarwar Kasa da Kasa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa) don yada wannan hanyar canzawa. Kuna iya karanta ƙarin game da rayuwarsa da kuma inda ya yi aiki a gidan yanar gizo na Cibiyar Kula da Rikici ta Kasa (Cibiyar NonViolent Sadarwa).

Na sami jin daɗin horo tare da shi, tare da matarsa ​​Valentina tare da wasu masu horarwa a cikin horo na kasa da kasa (International m Training) kwanaki tara a Switzerland a watan Agusta 2008, kuma na sami damar nuna farincikinsu da yadda suka ƙarfafa ni don in gwada watsa fahimtata na Sadarwar vioaukata ga yara da kuma mutanen da ke hulɗa da su.. Yawancin ayyuka na tun daga wancan lokacin ne abin da na koya daga gare shi., sosai don ƙirƙirar a Gaskiya Connection More a cikin rayuwar dukkan mutane (gami da nawa), kamar yadda a rayuwar yara, 'yan mata da matasa waɗanda ni ma na zo tare da su, da mutanen da ke kewaye da shi (musamman ta hanyar Yara karkace Consulting, tsakanin layin Sadarwar Bahaushe). A wannan horon da muke magana game da Takaddun shaida ne, kuma duk da cewa a ƙarshe hanya ce da ban bi ta ba, Ina jin wani ɓangare na vioungiyar Sadarwar Sadarwa na ci gaba kuma na ci gaba da yin aiki tare da Ƙungiyar Nonviolent Sadarwa nan a Spain da kuma sauran aikatawa da kuma rukuni na ilmantarwa.

A wannan bikin mun dauki wannan hoton cewa, haduwa da rabo, ya nuna mana Marshall, Ni da Valentina tare da yara maza biyu waɗanda ba a san mu ba, kamar yadda yake nuna alama ta hanya ta musamman aikin da yara nake gudanarwa tare da zugawar Marshall da Sadarwar Rashin Gaggawa.

Daga nan zan aiko da godiya da jinjina. Na gode, Marshall!

Tare da yin godiya mai zurfi na aika da sahihiyar murnar. na gode, Marshall!

Javier